Wassup Bgol Fam,
I'm currently going to have a Hearing set for June 9th about my daughter. As many before me, I'm paying child support and then on top of that, i earn too much to have a court appointed lawyer, so i'm sort of handicapped (meaning, i'm at a disadvantage) and i pretty much to represent myself. Which brings me here.....
Some quick background deets: My daughters mother has custody and my visitation is 2 days every week including overnights. So basically, she stays with me on my days off. No police reports, no domestic incidents etc. Pretty clean cut.
So basically, my daughters mother is now married. Her husband is in the air force and stations in Georgia. Soooo........she's seeking a modification to the visitation order. Pretty much asking to move down south. Naturally, i'm not ok with this.
My question is, what can i expect at this hearing? From my understanding, the burden of having to "convince" the judge why our daughter would be better off down in Georgia is on my daughters mother.
So what do i do? For example, i thought of looking up how schools here in NY compare to those in GA. Problem is, i have no idea where to look to find that type information.
I've thought of looking up the HIV risk and show how you're at a higher risk in GA than you are in NY to become exposed to the disease. Again, not sure where i would look to find that info either
And lastly, while we were dating some years back she ended up marrying a "friend" in the military for the benefits. If anyone in the army is reading this, maybe you can confirm because i'm actually not sure what the benefits are. I imagine them to be something like, if you're married you receive more money in your pay. Also , you AND your spouse receive help towards college tuition. Stuff like that
so i'm strongly considering bringing this up saying she has a history of having a sham marriage just for the sake of the benefits and if that's the case, how can i trust her husband being under the same roof as my daughter, they're not married out of love.
The only thing about that is i wouldn't want to open up a whole new can of worms where she could be charged with something and possibly face any jail time.
Do you guys think i should look up at how many men and women that serve in the army come back home with some type of mental issues? To help my case
Anybody with any experience would be greatly appreciated guys......
I'm currently going to have a Hearing set for June 9th about my daughter. As many before me, I'm paying child support and then on top of that, i earn too much to have a court appointed lawyer, so i'm sort of handicapped (meaning, i'm at a disadvantage) and i pretty much to represent myself. Which brings me here.....
Some quick background deets: My daughters mother has custody and my visitation is 2 days every week including overnights. So basically, she stays with me on my days off. No police reports, no domestic incidents etc. Pretty clean cut.
So basically, my daughters mother is now married. Her husband is in the air force and stations in Georgia. Soooo........she's seeking a modification to the visitation order. Pretty much asking to move down south. Naturally, i'm not ok with this.
My question is, what can i expect at this hearing? From my understanding, the burden of having to "convince" the judge why our daughter would be better off down in Georgia is on my daughters mother.
So what do i do? For example, i thought of looking up how schools here in NY compare to those in GA. Problem is, i have no idea where to look to find that type information.
I've thought of looking up the HIV risk and show how you're at a higher risk in GA than you are in NY to become exposed to the disease. Again, not sure where i would look to find that info either
And lastly, while we were dating some years back she ended up marrying a "friend" in the military for the benefits. If anyone in the army is reading this, maybe you can confirm because i'm actually not sure what the benefits are. I imagine them to be something like, if you're married you receive more money in your pay. Also , you AND your spouse receive help towards college tuition. Stuff like that
so i'm strongly considering bringing this up saying she has a history of having a sham marriage just for the sake of the benefits and if that's the case, how can i trust her husband being under the same roof as my daughter, they're not married out of love.
The only thing about that is i wouldn't want to open up a whole new can of worms where she could be charged with something and possibly face any jail time.
Do you guys think i should look up at how many men and women that serve in the army come back home with some type of mental issues? To help my case
Anybody with any experience would be greatly appreciated guys......
