Wow.....
This happen to me more than seven years ago and I remember like it was yesterday. My heart goes out to you, just know that it wasn't time for the world to experience that joy just yet. Now to your question, the hospital should have contacted you and ask you if you want to have a private ceremony, if not contact the L&D nurse and they will point you in the right direction. Once again, my heart goes out to you and yourz....
Your Boy....