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Am I wrong? Just had to cut a chick off....

KunningLinguist said:
You sound like a woman...

They are NOT the same thing....

Dating is simply that...a relationship is being committed

I'm not in a committed relationship UNTIL I sit down and ask a woman to be committed to.me....

Where do yall get this.shit?
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Dating and a relationship are the same thing. You are hung up on the level of commitment. Just friends means there is no attachment. If you really wanted to be a pimp you should have just said “We are friends” and left it at that. But you are doing relationship things

You are wrong If you are putting your dick into a female that knowingly has feelings for you where they expressed they want more.

Out of all the people in the world, don’t fuck over the ones that actually care about you. Also, why would you even want to date a female if she had multiple niggas in rotation?

That’s why dating and a relationship are the same thing. Who in their right mind will date and spend money and time on a female with multiple niggas in rotation? if that is the case you are the one taking the L
 
tallblacknyc said:
Dating to certain people= messing around.. that's not a relationship that's a fuck buddy/ friends with benefits type of deal
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Naw “We just friends” is no attachment. Who in their right mind will spend time and money on a female with multiple niggas in rotation? How is that winning?
 
BrownTurd said:
Naw “We just friends” is no attachment. Who in their right mind will spend time and money on a female with multiple niggas in rotation? How is that winning?
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Many nigs spend money and time everyday on hoes and think they winning. Lot of nigs will literally buy big ass bottles of don Julio reposado or patron , food, etc just to get quick pleasure from a bitch who fucks many nigs.the funny thing some of these situations they hoping to fuck the pussy might not even be guaranteed..They dropping hundred plus Everytime they link up and they don't even have that type of connection/friendship with them broads. Just in the past few yrs you know how many times I got called cause nigs want bottles of something cause they got some broads coming through and they know I got a liq connect.. op situation sounds much better than the one I just stated and the one I stated happens way more often than a lil bit. At least his situation seems like it's a connection and they actually cool
 
BrownTurd said:
Dating and a relationship are the same thing. You are hung up on the level of commitment. Just friends means there is no attachment. If you really wanted to be a pimp you should have just said “We are friends” and left it at that. But you are doing relationship things

You are wrong If you are putting your dick into a female that knowingly has feelings for you where they expressed they want more.

Out of all the people in the world, don’t fuck over the ones that actually care about you. Also, why would you even want to date a female if she had multiple niggas in rotation?

That’s why dating and a relationship are the same thing. Who in their right mind will date and spend money and time on a female with multiple niggas in rotation? if that is the case you are the one taking the L
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You know how you can tell you don't use the right meaning to words. You literally used the word pimp completely wrong. If you don't make money from pussy than you not a pimp. In fact if you don't get all the money from a female you are not a pimp. Fucking chicks has nothing to do with pimping. Pimping is all about making money from females that engage in the adult field. Fucking multiple females is not and has nothing to do with pimping. If you using the term pimping wrong you definitely don't understand dating term and relationship term
 
KunningLinguist said:
I kindly state that we are DATING. That we are NOT in a relationship.

Yet she insists that we are in a relationship because of how I spend time with her...

I take her out....I treat her decent...I do spend the night occasionally....

But over and over I'm stating CLEARLY that we are dating...

I told her I will not be strong armed into a relationship because I treat you nice...I told her she's free to do whatever she wants...I don't have any claims on her....

Yet still I'm the asshole
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Nigga you are in a relationship. :lol: You like her or you’d cut her off. Stop playing with her feelings and let her go. The fact that you are telling her it isn’t what she thinks it is is damaging her. Man the fuck up and free her. You aren’t a real player because you’re choosing commitment-minded women to run game on. You only run game of women who don’t want relationships, and that woman doesn’t need game ran on her.
 
You did the right thing for everyone involved.

Only a matter of time before you got her pregnant and then neither of you would be happy with the other, cause you don't really want her you're just enjoying her pussy and company (nothing wrong with that).

You get her pregnant and the whole dynamic changes immediately. You'll be resentful cause your carefree life is over whether you stay for the child's benefit or leave a d start the support payments.


She'll be resentful cause she knows you don't want her or a family life with her.

Leave and stay gone before you have a mistake child and be crying about your baby momma like half these dudes on here.
 
ANGRY MAN said:
I understand you don’t want to be in a relationship. But you doing relationship shit, sounds like your actions are speaking louder than your words.

I also would take it as a compliment. What bitch wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with me! I had to embrace that shit.
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this and what @tallblacknyc said. make it known u seeing other people
u cant spend time with a woman doing relationship shit and expect her to understand u
 
bgbtylvr said:
Nigga you are in a relationship. :lol: You like her or you’d cut her off. Stop playing with her feelings and let her go. The fact that you are telling her it isn’t what she thinks it is is damaging her. Man the fuck up and free her. You aren’t a real player because you’re choosing commitment-minded women to run game on. You only run game of women who don’t want relationships, and that woman doesn’t need game ran on her.
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this
 
KunningLinguist said:
everyone's experience in life is THEIR experience....its subjective....

after my LAST relationship I made it a point that i was going to DATE...date... for lack of a better term like white people date....where i try out different women until one i really click with....

i grew up in the south and black people apparently especially in this age bracket don't date like this...i know i never did...you how it typically goes...you find a broad you like....movies...dinner...smash...next thing you know yall in a relationship....i aint doing that shit anymore...im trying them out to see if i want to be bothered...a lot of women im running into not down for that....
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That works only if you or the person you are dating is white.
 
@KunningLinguist to keep it simple, don’t say you are “Dating” that is where you fucked up. For Good people, “Dating” is exclusive. Because how many people would date a female or male with multiple partners in rotation?

You mistakenly used the wrong term.
 
bgbtylvr said:
Nigga you are in a relationship. :lol: You like her or you’d cut her off. Stop playing with her feelings and let her go. The fact that you are telling her it isn’t what she thinks it is is damaging her. Man the fuck up and free her. You aren’t a real player because you’re choosing commitment-minded women to run game on. You only run game of women who don’t want relationships, and that woman doesn’t need game ran on her.
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This.

Nigga trying to convince his self he's not in relationship. Like saying it over and over will make it come true. He fucked up by spending the night several times at her spot. Player card denied.
 
You are giving her mixed signals. Imagine if she was your sister and you are her brother on the outside looking in. From the actions you said, it would appear you and her are bf and gf. If you two weren’t fucking then I could agree that y’all are just close friends, but if you two are fucking and shaking up occasionally, then your are in a relationship, regardless of your so called “program”.

 
tallblacknyc said:
Sounds like he hanging out and fucking. That's friends with benefits shit
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Yes in a man’s eyes, but in woman’s eyes they doing relationship shit. What separates the two FWB and Relationship. The title means nothing, the action says it all.

Would he or she be mad if they seen them kicking it someone else? And there’s lies the answer.
 
Realistically she'd be a fool to be laying up under a guy who isnt treating it like a relationship.

Women dont have forever to secure the benefits:
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A man can be 50, fall into some money, and start a family. A woman fuck around into her 50's and its OVER. Hell, its over a decade and a half before that if we are being honest.
 
BrownTurd said:
@KunningLinguist to keep it simple, don’t say you are “Dating” that is where you fucked up. For Good people, “Dating” is exclusive. Because how many people would date a female or male with multiple partners in rotation?

You mistakenly used the wrong term.
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Dawg this isn't 1963...it's 2023...

If I'm specifically TELLING the woman that we are NOT exclusive...that we are simply DATING....

And she disregards that...and goes with with her feelings....

But then again why am I surprised...women almost never listen and hear what they want to hear...

So yes this is my fault for even thinking otherwise
 
ANGRY MAN said:
Yes in a man’s eyes, but in woman’s eyes they doing relationship shit. What separates the two FWB and Relationship. The title means nothing, the action says it all.

Would he or she be mad if they seen them kicking it someone else? And there’s lies the answer.
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I wouldn't and I told her that. She was free to do what she wanted. I had no ties on her.

I'm gonna have to rethink this all around. YOU can't DATE black women in this age bracket...2 decent dates and they start looking at rings and planning futures
 
850credit said:
You did the right thing for everyone involved.

Only a matter of time before you got her pregnant and then neither of you would be happy with the other, cause you don't really want her you're just enjoying her pussy and company (nothing wrong with that).

You get her pregnant and the whole dynamic changes immediately. You'll be resentful cause your carefree life is over whether you stay for the child's benefit or leave a d start the support payments.


She'll be resentful cause she knows you don't want her or a family life with her.

Leave and stay gone before you have a mistake child and be crying about your baby momma like half these dudes on here.
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Got a vasectomy 20 years ago bruh.

But you right with everything else
 
bgbtylvr said:
Nigga you are in a relationship. :lol: You like her or you’d cut her off. Stop playing with her feelings and let her go. The fact that you are telling her it isn’t what she thinks it is is damaging her. Man the fuck up and free her. You aren’t a real player because you’re choosing commitment-minded women to run game on. You only run game of women who don’t want relationships, and that woman doesn’t need game ran on her.
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How am I running game when I'm telling her honestly over and over?

I get what you saying though.
 
These threads never give good advice......all you end up seeing are dudes mad at women complaining.

With that being said OP you need to always go into any kind of relationship being clear about what you want and where you're at in the relationship. If, as you say, you're just dating which means a casual thing makes sure she's clear on that. But also, and here's the part where dudes get tripped up, make sure you're cool with it when you want time with her and she's spending time with someone else.

If yall want to be exclusive then you both have to discuss it and agree to it.
 
KunningLinguist said:
Lol....

Not at all.
She simply disregarded what I said...and ran with it...

My bad for thinking a woman would actually listen to what I said and not go off feelings
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I hear you. As men we can’t be too hard on the ones who haven’t done us wrong. She likes you more than you want her to, so you have to let her go. Trying to get her to see your side is futile.
 
You want a Trans-Relationship

We fucking, spending the night, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings...

But umm... You not my girl

You want to identify the relationshit as one thing when it's another
 
Mixd said:
You want a Trans-Relationship

We fucking, spending the night, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings...

But umm... You not my girl

You want to identify the relationshit as one thing when it's another
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I hear you.

It's not like that...especially not from me.

But I get your point.

This is a lesson learned on how to move going forward.
 
KunningLinguist said:
I hear you.

It's not like that...especially not from me.

But I get your point.

This is a lesson learned on how to move going forward.
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I was joking but in all seriousness.
There's certain type of females built for that type of casual fuck chit. Sounds to me she wants more especially if you threw all you did at her. To me she sounds decent enough to want more unless she is just overall not the date-able type.

You gotta then switch to treating her like shit for her to not want to mess with you (making her break it off) or conform or you just break it off.
 
soon as you hit yall was in a relationship...fuck everything else you talking about,, in her head yall go together.. how you not know that...
let see how long it takes to distance yourself away from her..good luck...
 
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BrownTurd said:
Dating and relationship is the same thing. Stop wasting people time because you can’t commit
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ANGRY MAN said:
I understand you don’t want to be in a relationship. But you doing relationship shit, sounds like your actions are speaking louder than your words.

I also would take it as a compliment. What bitch wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with me! I had to embrace that shit.
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KunningLinguist said:
You sound like a woman...

They are NOT the same thing....

Dating is simply that...a relationship is being committed

I'm not in a committed relationship UNTIL I sit down and ask a woman to be committed to.me....

Where do yall get this.shit?
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Yeah they are the same, if you are taking her out, spending time with her and staying the night that's a relationship/dating. I guarantee if you rode by her house Thursday night and saw her going into her house with another man you wouldn't pick her up for a date on Friday night
 

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