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thisI would love to see you squares turn down pussy from a hot 20 year old.
A: This is some S.O.L. bullshit.
B: Since the topic is here, I'll say this - I have never met a broad who is over 20 with 5 or more dicks in her history that haven't been with a man outsitde of her age group. NONE !!!!
Too many ninjas be thinking that women don't want to scratch itches just like we do. They just lie about more often. Especially to themselves ("it's complicated", etc)
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B: Since the topic is here, I'll say this - I have never met a broad who is over 20 with 5 or more dicks in her history that haven't been with a man outsitde of her age group. NONE !!!!
Too many ninjas be thinking that women don't want to scratch itches just like we do. They just lie about more often. Especially to themselves ("it's complicated", etc)
Keep it 100.
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Yeah, that's what I meant.
One prejudice I have is that relationships or a relationship always sounds so much better than hitting and quitting it in terms of being less cruel but sometimes it's actually for the best.
What makes you think bitches in their 30s and 40s have anything of "depth" to talk about? Most "conversations" with bitches in their 30s and 40s are "interviews for prospective mates". Most broads in their 30s and 40s are boring zombies. All they want to do is sit around all day listening to shitty neo soul and get fat.
Broads in their 20s don't behave the same way with older men as they do with clowns in their own age bracket.
I'm all about having fun these days, and most of that fun has come from mid 20s broads.
Well, some of them must. But I've actually seen some of the "interview for prospective mates" shit myself and it's not attractive, just like the general biologically-induced desperation of such women. And, like I said to Blaq, I'm not assuming all 30+ women to be geniuses.
But even mid-20s is a lot different from straight out of high school or possibly even still in K-12.
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I would love to see you squares turn down pussy from a hot 20 year old.
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About 1/3rd of the dudes on here don't reject the idea of white girls saying "nigger" during sex. Presumably, some of the folks approving of such behavior are black.
So don't act like the fact that most people will do something for pussy makes it right. Pussy and Principle face off daily and Principle most often plays the role of the Washington Generals.
They say (legal) younger pussy makes older dudes happier and live longer...
It must be that soft skin...!
It must be that soft skin...!
What will frustrate you even more is when you hit your 30s and bitches your age still acting like they are in their teens.
I'll even go as far as saying in the older male/younger woman dynamic there are fewer games. I remember messing with this one 20 year old chick when I was 31. She wasn't as "immature" or "dumb" as YOU might suspect. I had a whole lot of fun. Clubs, fuckin', Mel's after hours and more fuckin'. Definitely more fun than I would have had with a broad my age. It has nothing to do with "immaturity", it's all about "youthful exuberance". I'm too young and have too much energy to be sittin' around with some lazy broad in some spoken word coffee house listening to jill scott. I can't take them to Magic Mountain and bang them out between rides.
You gets ZERO pussy you faggit stop telling duck tales on here. Nobody believes you.
^^^^^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^^^^^
But dont forget, the older a single chick is, the more baggage she comes with from her past relations. Theres more pressure on men to hurry up and get married, or if you dont have kids, their clock is ticking and they want you to breed them.
I would advise most dudes to date younger, if you can keep up that is...
From my experience I have always had more in common with older women. Chicks around here be on some other shit.
Yep. At least right no it is. I'll have time for relationships when I hit my 50s.
I agree with you ont the motivations behind such relationships. I haven't met a 23,24,25 yr old who could keep my attention at 37 so I don't know how a cats in/near my age range deal with much younger women.
When it comes to older women and the feeling that they're checking for prospective mates, I fully understand that and it's more a matter of how they go about it than that they do it. When you're in your 30s and you want to settle down, why deal with dudes who don't have the same mindset. That how women get setup for hurt feelings later.
I think it depends on the individual, but I think anything less than 21 is a little too young.
I don't want to be talking to a chick, and Soulja Boy comes on, and she screams turn it up, that's my shit
Right.No, a lot of them still listen to Plies.
It depends on if they plan on wifeing them up or not.
You have to remember, the men who can pull this off are usually established. Being established does not always mean that they want a serious relationship. A lot simply do it because they can. More because it fills a void of the time when they were young and couldn't attract those type of girls for shit. Others because it improves their status even further. And others still because they feel the women in their age range are damaged, or they simply aren't available. The point is not everyone is looking for something serious.
This is something that all of us can learn from. If every relationship and interaction you do is to eventually lead to a serious relationship then don't be surprised if most don't go that way. It's better to not look for something serious and be surprised if it later becomes serious as it does not lead to you always having your heart on your sleeve.
No, a lot of them still listen to Plies.
I know this sis who is mid 40's and listens to stuff you'd associate with 20 year olds. She has daughters who are late teens. I'm younger than her and I listen to shit from the early 60's and up. It just depends on the person.
Judging from her appearance you'd think she was mid 30's. She's fine as hell and her body is ridiculous. She seems to be bipolar, tho. A definite deal-breaker.
There are always some outliers but if a chick isn't old enough to have seen "Back to the Future" in the theater (doesn't even have to had seen it, just be old enough), I know the list of things we have in common wouldn't be worth my time.Crazy beats fine everyday and twice on Sunday.
I'm in my late 20s, and I have found myself dating younger men (the youngest was 19, when I was 27) and older men (the oldest was 38, when I was 27.)
Honestly, even though a younger guy may have had more "sexual energy" for me, afterward, I could hardly stand to listen to their bullshit about how they were going to become a billionaire in a few years from managing some rapper (true story lol) or how they wanted to travel outside of (insert random state), because they had never traveled outside of their state before
It depends on what you are looking for - and, as the title of this thread includes relationships, it is relationships we are referring to. I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women start to have, but I have been having a problem with meeting a man my age who doesn't have a baby mother or a child to care for. That, of course, takes up his time considerably and I respect that.
However, at my age, I'm looking for someone who has a good plan out of what they want in their life, and (hopefully) that includes a good woman and marriage along the way. Younger men are still "sowing their oats," and thinking with their dick 9 times out of 10. Hell, some older men are still doing that. If a man can easily articulate to me his plan out of life, regardless of what age he is, I see potential. Why? Because I can do that with my life too - and that means we're compatible
Honestly, even though a younger guy may have had more "sexual energy" for me, afterward, I could hardly stand to listen to their bullshit about how they were going to become a billionaire in a few years from managing some rapper (true story lol) or how they wanted to travel outside of (insert random state), because they had never traveled outside of their state before
It depends on what you are looking for - and, as the title of this thread includes relationships, it is relationships we are referring to. I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women start to have, but I have been having a problem with meeting a man my age who doesn't have a baby mother or a child to care for. That, of course, takes up his time considerably and I respect that.
However, at my age, I'm looking for someone who has a good plan out of what they want in their life, and (hopefully) that includes a good woman and marriage along the way. Younger men are still "sowing their oats," and thinking with their dick 9 times out of 10. Hell, some older men are still doing that. If a man can easily articulate to me his plan out of life, regardless of what age he is, I see potential. Why? Because I can do that with my life too - and that means we're compatible
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No one is arguing that. I just find it hard to believe kats in their late 30's are being honest in saying they wouldn't mess with a fine early 20's chic. Older kats have always shown interest in younger women and vice versa.
Crazy beats fine everyday and twice on Sunday.
As fine as she is, that makes her a complete turnoff.
Niggas selling ducktales all in this bitch
You think he's in for the long haul or just having something nice and young available to fuck. U guys think relationship too much. There' a lot of fucking before relationship is even a thought.
You go Jo!!!!
I'm in my late 20s, and I have found myself dating younger men (the youngest was 19, when I was 27) and older men (the oldest was 38, when I was 27.)
Honestly, even though a younger guy may have had more "sexual energy" for me, afterward, I could hardly stand to listen to their bullshit about how they were going to become a billionaire in a few years from managing some rapper (true story lol) or how they wanted to travel outside of (insert random state), because they had never traveled outside of their state before
It depends on what you are looking for - and, as the title of this thread includes relationships, it is relationships we are referring to. I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women start to have, but I have been having a problem with meeting a man my age who doesn't have a baby mother or a child to care for. That, of course, takes up his time considerably and I respect that.
However, at my age, I'm looking for someone who has a good plan out of what they want in their life, and (hopefully) that includes a good woman and marriage along the way. Younger men are still "sowing their oats," and thinking with their dick 9 times out of 10. Hell, some older men are still doing that. If a man can easily articulate to men his plan out of life, regardless of what age he is, I see potential. Why? Because I can do that with my life too - and that means we're compatible
You go Jo!!!!
Of course you don't.
No woman on bgol has ANY baggage whatsoever. None of the labels/observations about women EVER apply ANY woman on bgol, EVER. The second she logs on, she becomes perfect teflon.
So I have to assume that all these bgol women are married with children and are the perfect wives, correct?
I'm just using the language of BGOLers... and, as you quoted me, I said, "I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women have." Am I perfect? Hell no. I struggle with parts of my life, just as I'm sure other people - men and women - may have in the past and continue to do so. The difference is that I don't consider it "baggage."
I'm sorry: I've never had a man dog me out, rape me, disrespect me to my face, impregnate me and leave me, or whatever ridiculous assumptions men might have about women who carry "baggage." Have I made mistakes in past relationships and with men? Absolutely. If I hadn't, maybe I wouldn't be single now
The point is, I don't let that deter me from what I hope to receive - and give to others. Once you do, THEN it becomes baggage.The thing is, unlike some women, I'm not trying to BE the perfect wife/girlfriend...I'm just trying to be a good woman. When/if a man notices that, great...if not, shit, I'm still WINNING because I'm working on me. Working...in the present...to be good. Do I make mistakes? Sure...but, I pick myself up and continue working...
What makes you think bitches in their 30s and 40s have anything of "depth" to talk about? Most "conversations" with bitches in their 30s and 40s are "interviews for prospective mates". Most broads in their 30s and 40s are boring zombies. All they want to do is sit around all day listening to shitty neo soul and get fat.
Broads in their 20s don't behave the same way with older men as they do with clowns in their own age bracket.
I'm all about having fun these days, and most of that fun has come from mid 20s broads.
I'm just using the language of BGOLers... and, as you quoted me, I said, "I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women have." Am I perfect? Hell no. I struggle with parts of my life, just as I'm sure other people - men and women - may have in the past and continue to do so. The difference is that I don't consider it "baggage."
I'm sorry: I've never had a man dog me out, rape me, disrespect me to my face, impregnate me and leave me, or whatever ridiculous assumptions men might have about women who carry "baggage." Have I made mistakes in past relationships and with men? Absolutely. If I hadn't, maybe I wouldn't be single now
The thing is, unlike some women, I'm not trying to BE the perfect wife/girlfriend...I'm just trying to be a good woman. When/if a man notices that, great...if not, shit, I'm still WINNING because I'm working on me. Working...in the present...to be good. Do I make mistakes? Sure...but, I pick myself up and continue working...
Fully agreed. I'm only speaking for myself. As I age, my age range changes appropriately for women who I would find "attractive" (fine and pretty are different things from attractive).
I'm just using the language of BGOLers... and, as you quoted me, I said, "I don't think I have all this "baggage" that some men claim older women have." Am I perfect? Hell no. I struggle with parts of my life, just as I'm sure other people - men and women - may have in the past and continue to do so. The difference is that I don't consider it "baggage."
I'm sorry: I've never had a man dog me out, rape me, disrespect me to my face, impregnate me and leave me, or whatever ridiculous assumptions men might have about women who carry "baggage." Have I made mistakes in past relationships and with men? Absolutely. If I hadn't, maybe I wouldn't be single now
The thing is, unlike some women, I'm not trying to BE the perfect wife/girlfriend...I'm just trying to be a good woman. When/if a man notices that, great...if not, shit, I'm still WINNING because I'm working on me. Working...in the present...to be good. Do I make mistakes? Sure...but, I pick myself up and continue working...
A tip of the hat to you.
Achievement Unlocked.Great Post.
Im talking on a bigger scope of things.
No, a lot of them still listen to Plies.
@ Perfect Teflon"BGOL, where everyone dates models, has 6 figures, and crashes bentleys for fun"
Very unkind words.
But, nah, there are plenty of hoes to go around. My problem definitely isn't losing out to the "We about to fuck Social Security up" generation.
What I'm getting at is intellectual stimulation and actually enjoying someone's company. If you're a grown ass man of 30, 35, 40 years old, I don't see how you can stomach some young female who looks up to Khloe Kardashian and shit.
Good post and i understand where you're coming from. But there's a biological, need there that i think you may be overlooking.
I feel the same. And I never believed the whole Daddy issues with women messing with dudes way older than them until a recent relationship I left.
I left her and she went to mess with this dude thats 42 shes 22...
Im thinking to myself. Theres nothing he could really have in common with her and after meeting the guy by chance I see that hes the predator type controlling dude that has a young chick thats excited to see what he can offer.
But better him than me dealing with her annoying ass.
You guys seem to be looking for something other than what's naturally there. Someone i think maybe it was me. I don't know. But i have said this before, someone on this board said it as well.
As women our first thing we look for is security. Security ties into how we think about males, what we do to get males. How we respond to males. It's the core function of how we love. Most women don't know this, don't understand it, and it's been made to be a "bad" thing in this society. They're called gold diggers. There's more to it than that. But that's the ghist of it.
You guys are wanting something that's not really there. Just like women. You smart fellas seem to be ignoring fundamentals.
For those who would like to suggest that this is the natural order of things, imagine being a father who actually gives a fuck about your kids and some 42 year old is trying to fuck your daughter who is just past half his age.
Can he proivde a good loving home for her? Can he support her? Will he be there for her in a crunch? Will he stand strong in his own? Just a few questions. My idea of what will they talk about isn't really in the forefront of my mind when they're both grown. 42 in and of itself doesn't hold water.
Has he been married before? Does he have kids? What was he doing with his life? What have i raised my daughter to be? How does she think?
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