5. Standards. This may be controversial, however, I believe the black woman needs a black man to know who's really a "black woman" from the impersonators. Being a man, I'm guilty of overlooking many things for glory of a quick nut. However, when it comes to a relationship, I have many standards I look for in a woman. For example, I don't mind a woman with a strong opinion on some things. Now, I don't need a bigirl militant bitch, however, if the girl can have a civil debate about an issue, its a big turn on for me. My theory is this, a woman that will fight for her opinion, will fight for our relationship. Meaning, if she needs to lose weight, hell she is going to lose weight to better our relationship. Believe me, that goes a long way in a relationship.
4. Patience. Now with standards, you will not get everything you want. A black man's job then is to evaluate the situation accordingly. If your girl is perfect, but she has a crazy family. You might need to figure out if that's worth it before going any further. Another thing, every woman has a crazy spell in them. At any given time, a woman can become more irrational than a pitbull in a house full of cats. For us, being the men we are suppose to be, we have to know how the defuse the situation. A house full of irrational people is a cops episode waiting to happen.
3. DICK. The most basic form of a relationship is sex. The easiest form of controlling your house hold is to fuck the shit out of your woman. Plain and simple. You can have every thing under the sun, but if you don't fuck your woman accordingly, they will fuck someone eventually. It's only natural when it comes down to it... *edit* When I mean fucking the shit out of your woman, I mean make her feel BRAND NEW. Meaning afterwards *not every time btw* let her lay next to you . Sometimes show some affection, but don't make a habit of it. Remember, you want your woman to be a pornostar with you, you need to be the director for her. Meaning, if you give a little, you will gain her mind, soul, and spirit *with God's blessing of course*. The biggest reason women guard that pussy is because they know that's their biggest weakness when it comes to a relationship. Remember, there's a reason why a black man can date any race. We are known to being the king of our bedrooms. NOW ACT LIKE IT!
2. Decisiveness. Out of all my observations with numerous women in my family, I've found out that one thing they crave out of a man is the ability to make decisions, and stick with it. They can even hate the decision you have made, however, they will respect your ability to stick to it. It's almost like they need a man to control the tough situations. However, they will never admit it.
1. Guidance. There's a reason why churches have more women than men in the black community. There's also another reason why most churches are ran by Black men. There's another reason why a lot of black churches end up having sex scandals with the pastor involved. Women loves men that seem like they know where they are going. Black women needs a man to help them through life. If it's not daddy, its pastor, or its Mr. Drug Dealer. As a black man, I believe we all need to establish what we want out of life, and tell women exactly what we expect. If they don't comply, keep it moving. If you have a sense of direction, there's no reason why your dick should be dry.
4. Patience. Now with standards, you will not get everything you want. A black man's job then is to evaluate the situation accordingly. If your girl is perfect, but she has a crazy family. You might need to figure out if that's worth it before going any further. Another thing, every woman has a crazy spell in them. At any given time, a woman can become more irrational than a pitbull in a house full of cats. For us, being the men we are suppose to be, we have to know how the defuse the situation. A house full of irrational people is a cops episode waiting to happen.
3. DICK. The most basic form of a relationship is sex. The easiest form of controlling your house hold is to fuck the shit out of your woman. Plain and simple. You can have every thing under the sun, but if you don't fuck your woman accordingly, they will fuck someone eventually. It's only natural when it comes down to it... *edit* When I mean fucking the shit out of your woman, I mean make her feel BRAND NEW. Meaning afterwards *not every time btw* let her lay next to you . Sometimes show some affection, but don't make a habit of it. Remember, you want your woman to be a pornostar with you, you need to be the director for her. Meaning, if you give a little, you will gain her mind, soul, and spirit *with God's blessing of course*. The biggest reason women guard that pussy is because they know that's their biggest weakness when it comes to a relationship. Remember, there's a reason why a black man can date any race. We are known to being the king of our bedrooms. NOW ACT LIKE IT!
2. Decisiveness. Out of all my observations with numerous women in my family, I've found out that one thing they crave out of a man is the ability to make decisions, and stick with it. They can even hate the decision you have made, however, they will respect your ability to stick to it. It's almost like they need a man to control the tough situations. However, they will never admit it.
1. Guidance. There's a reason why churches have more women than men in the black community. There's also another reason why most churches are ran by Black men. There's another reason why a lot of black churches end up having sex scandals with the pastor involved. Women loves men that seem like they know where they are going. Black women needs a man to help them through life. If it's not daddy, its pastor, or its Mr. Drug Dealer. As a black man, I believe we all need to establish what we want out of life, and tell women exactly what we expect. If they don't comply, keep it moving. If you have a sense of direction, there's no reason why your dick should be dry.
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