Abstinence
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I never really thought of it by lack of options, but yea it can be either.
I Am Officially Into My 3rd Week. I Don't Misss The Pussy More Than I Miss The Person. I Think That I Have Saved The Following Things Since Refraining From Sex:
1) Time
2) Money
3) Bullshit/wack Conversation
4) Gas
5) Feeding/paying For Food
6) The "i Am Short On My Rent, My Car, Food, Overdrawn Bank Acct".
7) Sex When You Want To Give It To Me. When Did Pussy Become A Commodity?
I Am Putting Me First Instead Of These Woman That I So Seeminly Take Care Of Each And Every Time I Get Into A Relationship.
1) Time
2) Money
3) Bullshit/wack Conversation
4) Gas
5) Feeding/paying For Food
6) The "i Am Short On My Rent, My Car, Food, Overdrawn Bank Acct".
7) Sex When You Want To Give It To Me. When Did Pussy Become A Commodity?
I Am Putting Me First Instead Of These Woman That I So Seeminly Take Care Of Each And Every Time I Get Into A Relationship.
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I've noticed that I was able to focus more when not chasing females around.I don't have that issue anymore cause I'm currently engaged. But damn three weeks in and not phased!
Don't Worry It Is Actually Easy To Be Without A Woman.
Did I Forget To Say That I Have Not Been Out To Any Functions Or Parties.
If I Do Go To One It Is Gonna Be Hard Not Spitting Game At Chick. That Is All I Have Ever Done. I Like Being Reponsible For Only Me And My Kids Now. I Don't Have To Worry If She And Her Child Is Ok. I Am Gonna Have To Look At Woman As A Product That Has A Shelf Life As Well As Whether I Want To Buy Bulk Or Just For The Short Term. Another Thing Is Whether I Want Brand Name(high Maintenance) Or Generic( Same Shit But Good Value)
Did I Forget To Say That I Have Not Been Out To Any Functions Or Parties.
If I Do Go To One It Is Gonna Be Hard Not Spitting Game At Chick. That Is All I Have Ever Done. I Like Being Reponsible For Only Me And My Kids Now. I Don't Have To Worry If She And Her Child Is Ok. I Am Gonna Have To Look At Woman As A Product That Has A Shelf Life As Well As Whether I Want To Buy Bulk Or Just For The Short Term. Another Thing Is Whether I Want Brand Name(high Maintenance) Or Generic( Same Shit But Good Value)
Aint that the liquor that makes you see shit. Never tried that
No, but seriously. I have never tried abstinence. I like sex too much but not to the point where its messin up other things in my life.
No, but seriously. I have never tried abstinence. I like sex too much but not to the point where its messin up other things in my life.
I did twice.
Once for 2 years and then the 2nd time was for a bit over a year.
Once for 2 years and then the 2nd time was for a bit over a year.
Did you feel like you were cheating yourself out of dick?
I know that any woman can go outside and hail a dick like a cab. You never thought about a one night stand to break the craziness?
I figure it like this. I can call at least 3 women i know and get pussy with little or no begging. I just want a woman that likes sex as much as i do and ask more than i do.
I used to have a girlfriend who used to wake me up in the middle of the night for some dick. She used to say "license, registration and dick please".
I remember one time i was banging the shit out of her doggy style and my phone rang. I pulled out and she groaned with dissapointment. when i came back over to her after talking on my phone she was still in the head down, ass up position and i said "whats wrong?". She said "more dick please"
I actually am still in love with her but we went our seperate ways.
I'm doing it out of choice. I got med school in August. Meharry in Nashville is where I will b. Its' gonna be me and these books at my place and the library. I don't have time for the head cases and wishy wash stuff. I'm trying to push this no sex thing for 4 yrs +. My last times were nothing nice. 
Like RAULDK said
I personally have saved
1.Time/ Gas
2. Money
3. And crazy phones calls at 3 am talking bout what U doing.
4. I woke up and said fucking random people is not a good look. My homeboy has a kid on the way. Reason being he couldn't control his dick.
5. My health I'm up at 4:30am before working running and working out.
I'm just trying to enjoy myself for I go get it in and go back fokused times 10.
Like RAULDK said
I personally have saved
1.Time/ Gas
2. Money
3. And crazy phones calls at 3 am talking bout what U doing.
4. I woke up and said fucking random people is not a good look. My homeboy has a kid on the way. Reason being he couldn't control his dick.
5. My health I'm up at 4:30am before working running and working out.
I'm just trying to enjoy myself for I go get it in and go back fokused times 10.
Nope. I like fucking. Always have. Always fucked when I wanted to.
I was dealing with recovering from 2 surgeries the first time and I had to abstain for 6-8 weeks anyway.
And because I was dealing with the cancer, I started to look at things differently, including sex. I found out real quick what kind of men were around me when I got sick. I didn't want to be bothered with that.
I found out real quick what kind of men were around me when I got sick.
Don't wanna have to ever give up sex...NOPE! After about a week without sex, I'm 
...headaches, insomnia
...headaches, insomnia 
Been celebate for over a year now! By choice.... long story... it was hard as hell from having sex everyday to none a day but it gets easier and I don't really feel the strong hunger anymore which I'm happy about.
*of course I still get my rocks off all damn day....
*of course I still get my rocks off all damn day....
Don't wanna have to ever give up sex...NOPE! After about a week without sex, I'm
cofuckinsizzle
Preach sista!
Been abstinent for almost a year now. I broke up with my last girlfriend and had a row of VERY bad luck, including one woman who pulled out a crack pipe the moment we got to her crib.
After a while I realized that LTR's and one night stands where the main things holding me back in my life. I refocused, saved my money, now I'm in college and living in Oakland, California (the latter being a life long dream of mine).
Sometimes it's hard, especially when I'm surrounded by all those fine East Bay women, then again, I also see quite a few of my classmates going through the same shit I did. Making commitments ridiculously young and unprepared, constantly cutting class to fight with them on the phone. I've had wives openly badmouth their men to me, try to seduce me. There's even one chick from Canada who constantly phones me leaving all these weird voice mails and she's a week away from having a baby.
I don't believe in God, but if s/he exists I then there's clearly a cosmic message here: "Don't fuck 'em don't trust 'em, don't talk to them, don't look at them, don't even think about looking at them. They are evil and unclean."
After a while I realized that LTR's and one night stands where the main things holding me back in my life. I refocused, saved my money, now I'm in college and living in Oakland, California (the latter being a life long dream of mine).
Sometimes it's hard, especially when I'm surrounded by all those fine East Bay women, then again, I also see quite a few of my classmates going through the same shit I did. Making commitments ridiculously young and unprepared, constantly cutting class to fight with them on the phone. I've had wives openly badmouth their men to me, try to seduce me. There's even one chick from Canada who constantly phones me leaving all these weird voice mails and she's a week away from having a baby.
I don't believe in God, but if s/he exists I then there's clearly a cosmic message here: "Don't fuck 'em don't trust 'em, don't talk to them, don't look at them, don't even think about looking at them. They are evil and unclean."
