Absolutely Positively NOT dealing with this shit!

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

In a relationship what are your absolute deal breakers. What will you just not at all tolerate. Cheating? lying? Thievery? Selfishness?

For me it's selfishness. That's an absolute cardinal sin for me. I can't deal with a selfish person. Someone who only thinks of themselves. Someone who will push you out the way so they can get what they want damn any kind of civility.

 

[ljinsane]

I c/s on the selfishness

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

I c/s on the selfishness

AND lying.....

 

[NoodleArmWhimsy]

For me it's selfishness. That's an absolute cardinal sin for me. I can't deal with a selfish person. Someone who only thinks of themselves. Someone who will push you out the way so they can get what they want damn any kind of civility.

c/s strong
negative ego
no loyalty

 

[Better]

No loyalty - Pretty self-explanatory.

Low standards - Whatever you do, put some heart into it. I don't care if it's cleaning the bathtub.

 

[Flawless]

c/s strong
negative ego
no loyalty

So cheating is ok as long as the person isn't selfish?

 

[THREAD_CRITIC]

cheating

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace,

Good choice of a deal-breaker, OP. Selfishness is the root cause of all intolerable behavior.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

c/s strong
negative ego
no loyalty

Negative ego huh? Hmmm ... Details?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Peace,

Good choice of a deal-breaker, OP. Selfishness is the root cause of all intolerable behavior.

Yeah pretty much. To me there's nothing a selfish person won't do. This is psychologically damaging. You could never trust them, because selfishness period is also very unpredictable.

 

[BrownTurd]

Smoking
Drugs

 

[john blackcorn]

a bitch with all male friends. i understand people have friends, but a bitch with all male friends is a red flag. if u cant get along with members of the same sex i think that speaks alot for the type of person u are. and no smoking. and no kids im 22, i last thing on my mind is a family

 

[NoodleArmWhimsy]

So cheating is ok as long as the person isn't selfish?

selfishness is one thing, like she'll never come out of pocket during outings or vacations that's something that over time you no longer "deal" with...cheating doesn't even come into the "dealing with" conversation b, thats a deal breaker

 

[Dr. Truth]

A bitch with all male friends no doubt, also a bitch with all ugly friends. She needs to have fine friends as it shows she aint an insecure broad, also helps when i want to bag her friends in a 3 way.

 

[MrBee]

Any 1 of all the above will get her a pink slip...

 

[J.E.T.S]

Being manipulative, using reverse psychology, and provocative.

I'll be gone with the wind like tumbleweed.

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

 

[JimJones]

I do not deal with a woman going through my shit and questioning me about it. I inform every woman i deal with, if you go through my shit, house, phone, car etc.. and find something you do not like, you are in no position to question me on it. If you do question me on it, you should be prepared to end whatever it is we have right there, no if ands or buts. Needless to say I have not had a woman go through my shit in over 15yrs.

 

[jasonblacc]

Acting like a man...all that tough talk....in my face....name calling....seen a chcick the other day call her man a bitch ass nigga

 

[NoodleArmWhimsy]

Negative ego huh? Hmmm ... Details?

finding yourself a misguided ego stroker, a punching bag to her misguided sensibilities..ie dealing with skeletons of her past relationships.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

a bitch with all male friends. i understand people have friends, but a bitch with all male friends is a red flag. if u cant get along with members of the same sex i think that speaks alot for the type of person u are. and no smoking. and no kids im 22, i last thing on my mind is a family

So you begin speaking to a girl and she says my bestfriend "he". And you're out immediately? No hesitation?

 

[Better]

There is no such thing as a male friend.

I can deal as long as that 'friend' lives in another state and don't visit.

 

[Hellfish]

So cheating is ok as long as the person isn't selfish?

cheating is selfishness be my definition.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I do not deal with a woman going through my shit and questioning me about it. I inform every woman i deal with, if you go through my shit, house, phone, car etc.. and find something you do not like, you are in no position to question me on it. If you do question me on it, you should be prepared to end whatever it is we have right there, no if ands or buts. Needless to say I have not had a woman go through my shit in over 15yrs.

So you like women who're blissfully ignorant? lol i hear ya.

Acting like a man...all that tough talk....in my face....name calling....seen a chcick the other day call her man a bitch ass nigga

Wouldn't there be alot of even getting to THAT point? If a woman reacts like that in an argument with you? That's rage. So cheating and selfishness is something you can work with maybe? But challenging you aggressively is a major no no?

That's different.

finding yourself a misguided ego stroker, a punching bag to her misguided sensibilities..ie dealing with skeletons of her past relationships.

lol i hear that.

 

[john blackcorn]

So you begin speaking to a girl and she says my bestfriend "he". And you're out immediately? No hesitation?

bro, ive been that "bestfriend" and any females thats called me her "bestfriend" ive fucked . in my eyes, thats just a slick way of saying she got dick on speed dial

matter of fact just last night i was talkin to an old "bestfriend" i hadnt spoke to in a while. she was tellin me bout her boyfriend of 2 years, how everything has been good with them, blah blah. then she asked me about my girl. then she says "if u didnt have a girlfriend i would fuck the shit outta you!" i tell her "aint nobody gotta know "

i know, i aint shit, but these bitches aint shit. and if ima get played, its not gonna be in the most obvious way like by a bitch with a male best friend

 

[Famous1]

In a relationship what are your absolute deal breakers. What will you just not at all tolerate. Cheating? lying? Thievery? Selfishness?

For me it's selfishness. That's an absolute cardinal sin for me. I can't deal with a selfish person. Someone who only thinks of themselves. Someone who will push you out the way so they can get what they want damn any kind of civility.

so if he gets some side pussy it's okay as long as he shares it with you.... my nigga.. you is alright with me...

 

[8/11Streetz]

sperm evaders aka cum dodgers...............














...............but seriously dont touch my phone i have nothing to hide but its just a pet peeve of mine i dont know why i just cant stand it when people period go through my phone. Also smoking and over the top cussing that shit is so disgusting to me

 

[Give Me 3ft.]

not having the wherewithal for life!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

so if he gets some side pussy it's okay as long as he shares it with you.... my nigga.. you is alright with me...

As long as she's my type.

 

[max-dawg]

There is no such thing as a male friend.

I can deal as long as that 'friend' lives in another state and don't visit.

i'm friends with a female nurse... and her fiance is cool with it.

i've never met him, but he doesn't do things like go to the mall with her, give her massages, rub her feet & neck, or just sit down and listen to her.

he throws money at her and asks to fuck 3 - 4x per month, that's it.

most of the time i see her, she's at my place. we just sit & talk... nothing else goes on.

 

[Mo-Better]

In a relationship what are your absolute deal breakers. What will you just not at all tolerate. Cheating? lying? Thievery? Selfishness?

For me it's selfishness. That's an absolute cardinal sin for me. I can't deal with a selfish person. Someone who only thinks of themselves. Someone who will push you out the way so they can get what they want damn any kind of civility.

All the above plus laziness and keeping a sloppy home.

 

[worldclass45]

what good is a relationship
if your with a woman
that can lie to you
while loking you dead in your face.

trust is everything to me
in a relationship
and we all know you cant trust a liar

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

All the above plus laziness and keeping a sloppy home.

NOTHING more so than any other?

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Bitches who act like we owe em summin

 

[Famous1]

As long as she's my type.

ummm you go girl... if ya ever come to Memphis.. Chocolate Martini's on me..... wit yo crazy ass...

 

[dHustla]

Manipulative
Liar, dishonest
Smoker
I do deal with selfishness a lil bit even though I shouldn't. I'm imposing a zero tolerance from now on.
Selfishness: asking for more than she is willing to give.
Using the pussy as a bargaining chip
False sense of entitlement (want what she ain't willing work for; think she deserve what she ain't earned)

Not being caring
Not affectionate
Don't keep a clean home
NOT SEXUALLY FREE/ COMPATIBLE/COMFORTABLE WITH HERSELF/MATURE