A Lazy Fuck

[thighsneyez22]

We all know that being a lazy fuck is normally a pejorative term.

I'd like to talk to the guys that find themselves gravitating towards the chick that doesn't throw it back or talk dirty or make excessively fake noises.

Anybody into a calm fuck?

I've noticed a few times on the main board when a scene is posted- some find it sexy while others find the girl boring. (this thread is a good example: http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=541837)

How could that be, if they are watching the same girl?

I guess it boils down preference:

Either wanting to be the fucker (person doing most of the work- initiating most of the position/speed changes) or the fuckee (the person at the receiving end of the fuckage- for example always wanting your girl to ride you or throw it back excessively).

Which one are you?

 

[playahaitian]

I don't think we DISAGREE really...

in the the scene we watched she was talking, funny, sexy and sweet (ticklish) and seemed to delibrately try to squeeze the shit out of him and not having to do much because he kept telling her to "dance".

When she went cowgirl she worked it...

all man just want a woman who ia interested active and into it.

 

[thighsneyez22]

I don't think we DISAGREE really...

in the the scene we watched she was talking, funny, sexy and sweet (ticklish) and seemed to delibrately try to squeeze the shit out of him and not having to do much because he kept telling her to "dance".

When she went cowgirl she worked it...

all man just want a woman who ia interested active and into it.

That makes sense.I watched it, but I think maybe my volume was too low for the dance comment.

The girl was in an altered state- not sure how active she could have been even if she wanted to be.

I like the way that you extrapolated sweet from ticklish & immobile.

I'd take a guess that you like running the show in the bedroom.

 

[dHustla]

it basically comes down to personal preference, as well as chemistry between the couple

I don't mind a "calm fuck", but I gotta know her for a while to get to the point where sex is "calm".

I'm ALWAYS the fucker in the bedroom. Don't really think about it, or know how it started, but I get down.

I find that most women will either let me do what I want and follow, will follow my lead and complain, or protest and cuss me out.

As I get older, or should I say as the women get older, I get more of the cuss outs .... (ie. "WHAT THE FUCK YOU TRYNA DO TO A BITCH?! YOU GON' HAVE A BITCH HAVING TO STRETCH B4 I FUCK WIT YOU! ALL THESE MUTHAFUCKIN POSITIONS AIN'T EVEN CALLED FOR! LET MY LEG GO, FUCK! PUT ME DOWN....HOLD ON NOW, SLOW YA ROLL")

I'm only fucking w/ my age or younger from now on. Getting the cuss out ain't fun after she ain't let me get mine and now I got a hard dick and this bitch puttin her clothes on, while continuing to cuss me out.

Its fun giving it to a chick that's a trooper, even if she can't take it, she'll just do her best. And that's all I ask for

All I want is a girl willing to give me half of what I put in...just halfway as active and we'll do aiight.

 

[doggish_098]

For definition of a lazy fuck please reference all Lexi Cruz vids

 

[Upgrade Dave]

I don't think we DISAGREE really...

in the the scene we watched she was talking, funny, sexy and sweet (ticklish) and seemed to delibrately try to squeeze the shit out of him and not having to do much because he kept telling her to "dance".

When she went cowgirl she worked it...

all man just want a woman who ia interested active and into it.

I can't tell you how times I've had to get my Wesley Pipes and had to tell chicks how make the sex fun for me too. It's young girls (early 20s) that need the most coaching.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

For definition of a lazy fuck please reference all Lexi Cruz vids

Lacey Duvalle can be thrown in that too.

 

[doggish_098]

Lacey Duvalle can be thrown in that too.

Duvalle's lesbian scenes are even boring...

 

[thighsneyez22]

it basically comes down to personal preference, as well as chemistry between the couple


All I want is a girl willing to give me half of what I put in...just halfway as active and we'll do aiight.

You bring up a good point: preference.

The same way what you like girls that are halfway active, there are some guys that are actually turned off by halfway-active to very active women in bed.

Could this be some strange manifestation of the Madonna-whore complex: I want to do her, but she can't be too into it.

For definition of a lazy fuck please reference all Lexi Cruz vids

Saw the vid... these two girls have 2 things in common: hips & a dunk, emphasized by a noticeably smaller body.

Pattern?

I can't tell you how times I've had to get my Wesley Pipes and had to tell chicks how make the sex fun for me too. It's young girls (early 20s) that need the most coaching.

Maybe you secretly like it. After having had the experience with a few- you keep choosing that type of partner. There has to be a reason why.

Could it be that you prefer to be "the coach" as opposed to "the cussed", (a reference to Dhustla's gripe with mature women)?

 

[doggish_098]

Saw the vid... these two girls have 2 things in common: hips & a dunk, emphasized by a noticeably smaller body.

Pattern?

i guess if they were smaller women with less "assets" then it would be ok or maybe less noticeable to be a "lazy fuck" but when they have all those good parts and then they fuck the way they do it is such a disappointment.

 

[TurellSmith]

A lot of slim chicks know how to work that pussy more so than thick girls

 

[thighsneyez22]

A lot of slim chicks know how to work that pussy more so than thick girls

Let's explore this.

What is pussy really? Vagina, right?
And what is the Vagina: a fibromuscular tubular tract leading from the uterus to the exterior of the body in females.

Let's look at the word work. If someone asked you to work your bicep- you would just flex it, correct? Does your chest necessarily have to move? What about your fingers?

Following this model, are there ways to work the pussy without moving the surrounding body parts at all?

Sex is normally more than penetration- it's also friction caused by the pumping motion of the man and/or the woman, no?

Additionally, it is enhanced with pressure that can be adjusted by changing positions, depth and the laxity of the PC muscles inside the woman's pelvis.

So, maybe it is possible to work the pussy internally without actually moving too much externally.

Thoughts?

 

[M.H.C.]

Let's explore this.

What is pussy really? Vagina, right?
And what is the Vagina: a fibromuscular tubular tract leading from the uterus to the exterior of the body in females.

Let's look at the word work. If someone asked you to work your bicep- you would just flex it, correct? Does your chest necessarily have to move? What about your fingers?

Following this model, are there ways to work the pussy without moving the surrounding body parts at all?

Sex is normally more than penetration- it's also friction caused by the pumping motion of the man and/or the woman, no?

Additionally, it is enhanced with pressure that can be adjusted by changing positions, depth and the laxity of the PC muscles inside the woman's pelvis.

So, maybe it is possible to work the pussy internally without actually moving too much externally.

Thoughts?

HELL MUTHA*BLEEPIN* YEAH. Especially when she laying completely flat on stomach with me on top of her and she squeezing those pussy muscles tight around my "meat".

 

[thighsneyez22]

HELL MUTHA*BLEEPIN* YEAH. Especially when she laying completely flat on stomach with me on top of her and she squeezing those pussy muscles tight around my "meat".

I feel like you are about to start testifying about "Can-I-Get-A-Witness Pussy".

Come on, somebody!

 

[dHustla]

Let's explore this.

What is pussy really? Vagina, right?
And what is the Vagina: a fibromuscular tubular tract leading from the uterus to the exterior of the body in females.

Let's look at the word work. If someone asked you to work your bicep- you would just flex it, correct? Does your chest necessarily have to move? What about your fingers?

Following this model, are there ways to work the pussy without moving the surrounding body parts at all?

Sex is normally more than penetration- it's also friction caused by the pumping motion of the man and/or the woman, no?

Additionally, it is enhanced with pressure that can be adjusted by changing positions, depth and the laxity of the PC muscles inside the woman's pelvis.

So, maybe it is possible to work the pussy internally without actually moving too much externally.

Thoughts?

Essentially, you are correct, but I think the guy you quoted is referring to the reciprocation of the initiative involved in pleasing your partner.
If she ain't throwing it back, no matter what position, then she isn't working the pussy.

There are some things I, as a man, cannot do to enhance sex, or, the stroke, as it will be call from herein.

I can put her in different positions so that my stroke is at different angles, but I'm limited to what she's willing to do in return. Conversely, if she contributes by changing the angle of her pelvis, no matter the position, we can achieve a different angle for the stroke.

 

[thighsneyez22]

Essentially, you are correct, but I think the guy you quoted is referring to the reciprocation of the initiative involved in pleasing your partner.
If she ain't throwing it back, no matter what position, then she isn't working the pussy. the position, we can achieve a different angle for the stroke.

I understand where you are coming from. Most everyone would agree with you. Your opinion, I would say, is definitely in the majority.

I guess I was trying to hear from the minority of men that do not prefer for their women to be doing too much in bed.

The ones who are turned off by a girl trying to overtly fuck a man's brains out.

I am sure it exists- I've met them- but never cared to get into their heads about this possible fetish.

 

[mcguyver]

I don't mind but you gotta atleast grunt, oh and if you hold your own legs up you the shit.

 

[dHustla]

I don't mind but you gotta atleast grunt, oh and if you hold your own legs up you the shit.

@ this nigga

 

[thighsneyez22]

I don't mind but you gotta atleast grunt, oh and if you hold your own legs up you the shit.

Work got you feeling down & out?
Family leeches always trying to "hold something"?
Traffic a beast?

Need to relieve some stress?

Introducing our new line in sexual partners: The "I-don't-care women"- who won't care when, where, how, or (the always controversial) how long you do 'em as long as you are doing the doing and you are pinning their legs down where you want them to go.

For the low low price of free (minus the calories you'll burn and stress you'll bust), you can manipulate your woman into all sorts of poses

like this

or this

or this

or this

or even this

The only caveat is, you are responsible for where the legs go and keeping them there...
Happy choosing!

 

[thighsneyez22]

I don't mind but you gotta atleast grunt, oh and if you hold your own legs up you the shit.

Work got you feeling down & out?
Family leeches always trying to "hold something"?
Traffic a beast?

Need to relieve some stress?

Introducing our new line in sexual partners: The "I-don't-care women"- who won't care when, where, how, or (the always controversial) how long you do 'em as long as you are doing the doing and you are pinning their legs down where you want them to go.

For the low low price of free (minus the calories you'll burn and stress you'll bust), you can manipulate your woman into all sorts of poses

like this

or this

or this

or this

or even this

The only caveat is, you are responsible for where the legs go and keeping them there...
Happy choosing!

 

[M.H.C.]

 

[shywriter]

The best sex of my life has always come with a woman who believes in reciprocity - I put in work, you put in work, we both have a good time. Simple as that.

 

[BlackSmurf]

im a champion rider

 

[juniorfinesse]

We all know that being a lazy fuck is normally a pejorative term.

I'd like to talk to the guys that find themselves gravitating towards the chick that doesn't throw it back or talk dirty or make excessively fake noises.

Anybody into a calm fuck?

I've noticed a few times on the main board when a scene is posted- some find it sexy while others find the girl boring. (this thread is a good example: http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=541837)

How could that be, if they are watching the same girl?

I guess it boils down preference:

Either wanting to be the fucker (person doing most of the work- initiating most of the position/speed changes) or the fuckee (the person at the receiving end of the fuckage- for example always wanting your girl to ride you or throw it back excessively).

Which one are you?

i dont exspect a girl to be going crazy but at least show some interest in what we doing lol

 

[thighsneyez22]

i dont exspect a girl to be going crazy but at least show some interest in what we doing lol

This is the obvious answer that the majority of people will relate to. Thanks for responding.

While doing some reading, I realized that those who prefer the direct opposite of what you prefer actually have a fetish. It has a name and everything.

Who woulda thunk it?

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Maybe you secretly like it. After having had the experience with a few- you keep choosing that type of partner. There has to be a reason why.

Could it be that you prefer to be "the coach" as opposed to "the cussed", (a reference to Dhustla's gripe with mature women)?

Nope. You did a huge jump with that. I wouldn't know how a woman is sexually until I have sex with her. I've given women second chances and chalked the first one up to nerves and unfamiliarity. Believe me, they don't stay lazy long. A few smacks on the ass usually gets them moving. I've been fortunate that I've chosen women who aim to please and I'm never shy about telling a woman what works on me.
Don't have that problem with the wife at all.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

like this

I don't see how this works. Put that on the list of "Gotta Try"

or this

Classic. This is good for watching the titties bounce. Even better when she holds her own legs.

or this

eh

or this

Another classic.

 

[Mo-Better]

I don't want a woman that just lays or sits there and lets me do all the work. She's not verbal and not moving. I would rather do me than be bothered with a chick like that.

It don't matter how good she looks if she's boring in bed I'm going to be looking around for sexual fulfillment. BTW you answered your own question, "it boils down preference."

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I like a woman who is appropriately attuned to the moment.

 

[DeSiRe]

Let's explore this.

What is pussy really? Vagina, right?
And what is the Vagina: a fibromuscular tubular tract leading from the uterus to the exterior of the body in females.

Let's look at the word work. If someone asked you to work your bicep- you would just flex it, correct? Does your chest necessarily have to move? What about your fingers?

Following this model, are there ways to work the pussy without moving the surrounding body parts at all?

Sex is normally more than penetration- it's also friction caused by the pumping motion of the man and/or the woman, no?

Additionally, it is enhanced with pressure that can be adjusted by changing positions, depth and the laxity of the PC muscles inside the woman's pelvis.

So, maybe it is possible to work the pussy internally without actually moving too much externally.

Thoughts?

i asked an ex what a "snapper" was

and he said "i dunno you tell me"

now...i wouldnt consider myself a snapper...but i do have control down there

maybe they are refering to what we call kegals

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

They don't know neither.

 

[followup]

I'm assuming he means a vagina that is tight

 

[thighsneyez22]

i asked an ex what a "snapper" was

and he said "i dunno you tell me"

now...i wouldnt consider myself a snapper...but i do have control down there

maybe they are refering to what we call kegals

I'm assuming he means a vagina that is tight

I'm going with followup.

 

[mailboxpimp]

MY EX WAS A LAZY FUCK!!!!!!!!!! IF I DIDNT INITIATE SEX...... IT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN!!!!!! SOMETIMES ID JUST GET SO TIRED OF THAT SHIT ID FUCK WITH ANOTHER BITCH WHO WOULD BASICALLY THROW THE PUSSY @ ME..... OFFER DICK SUCKS LIKE IT WAS NOTHING....... KNOWING I HAD A GIRL.... I LOVE / PREFER SEXUALLY AGGRESSIVE WOMEN..... THAT SHY GIRL SHIT WITH THE NOOOOOOOOOOOO STOOOOOOOOOOP DOOOOOOOOOOOOOONT BULLSHIT IS NOT FOR ME!

 

[Mo-Better]

Let's explore this.

What is pussy really? Vagina, right?
And what is the Vagina: a fibromuscular tubular tract leading from the uterus to the exterior of the body in females.

Let's look at the word work. If someone asked you to work your bicep- you would just flex it, correct? Does your chest necessarily have to move? What about your fingers?

Following this model, are there ways to work the pussy without moving the surrounding body parts at all?

Sex is normally more than penetration- it's also friction caused by the pumping motion of the man and/or the woman, no?

Additionally, it is enhanced with pressure that can be adjusted by changing positions, depth and the laxity of the PC muscles inside the woman's pelvis.

So, maybe it is possible to work the pussy internally without actually moving too much externally.

Thoughts?

Your joking right? Are you trying to say that a woman who doesn't move much is as sexually exciting in bed as one who is active? Someone that's lazy is just that LAZY! As for a lazy woman flexing her "PC muscles" most lazy women don't even know they have a PC muscle and trust me few if any will be flexing.

I'm not saying the woman has to be a Naomi Bankxxx (but it would be nice ) but she needs to be as sweaty as I am when we finish. Sex is an act where both participants need to take active roles. Not one where one lays there to be serviced like a Chevy in a repair shop.

As you stated "sex is normally more than penetration." Your right its about each person giving of themselves. Lastly in a meaningful relationship sex is not just about the orgasm. Its an act that anchors your relationship. So for me the effort must be there from both. Flexing your PC is not enough.