A fathers delimma: which would you rather have your daughter bring home

which would you rather have your daughter bring home

  • non black man

    Votes: 70 76.1%
  • woman

    Votes: 14 15.2%
  • thugged out nigga

    Votes: 8 8.7%

  • Total voters
    92
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

A thug nigga can always be educated and taught the knowledge of self. A non blackman can never become the original man (blackman). A woman.. nah.
 
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

it's her life,,, she will have to make her own decisions & mistakes,,, the more you try to persuade her, the more she will rebel anyway
 
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The non-black man could be just as bad as the sterotypical thug, just because he's non-black doesn't make him anybetter. We supposed to believe because he non-black he won't fall into the sterotypical thugh category? I choose none.:smh:
 
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

A thug nigga can always be educated and taught the knowledge of self. A non blackman can never become the original man (blackman). A woman.. nah.

True but what happens when that "thug nigga" goes up side your daughters head?
 
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

A thug nigga can always be educated and taught the knowledge of self. A non blackman can never become the original man (blackman). A woman.. nah.



co-sign......
 
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

it's her life,,, she will have to make her own decisions & mistakes,,, the more you try to persuade her, the more she will rebel anyway
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As long as she finds someone who loves her, treats her right, and doesn't get her involved in some bullsh*t, I really don't give a shit. That being said, I'm a little skeptical of the thug nigga because that's the type of mofo that'll get her caught up in some bullsh*t. And for those talking about reforming the thug, that's kind of cheating on the question because you're changing the scope of the choices.
 
Just don't bring home HIV or a baby she ain't ready to be a mother too...
 
I could say neither but in the end you dont know who she'll bring home. Each one of them are one in the same because you dont expect none of them to wind up with your daughter. They can all be disrespectful, abusive, and could get too comfortable too fast with your family. You might not be able to except your daughters lifestyle with them even when she lives with you, but the more you try to interfere, the more she rebels. Just do your best as a parent in her early years so that maybe you wont have to in the later ones.
 
Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

A thug nigga can always be educated and taught the knowledge of self. A non blackman can never become the original man (blackman). A woman.. nah.


agree .also he asked which would you rather have your daughter bring home.
 
hell with all the shit thats going on in the world right now i dont care what she brings home, as long as she makes it home.
 
thug: i assume that by stereotypical thug nigga you mean somebody who hustles or is up to dirt - aka has ambition and drive but lacks direction and role models. this can be fixed as this character has heart, drive, and can see something through. this has upside.

i'd prefer my daughter with a black man over all else. my daughter with a woman means i failed as a father. my daughter with a non-black man - i failed as a father.
 
thug: i assume that by stereotypical thug nigga you mean somebody who hustles or is up to dirt - aka has ambition and drive but lacks direction and role models. this can be fixed as this character has heart, drive, and can see something through. this has upside.

i'd prefer my daughter with a black man over all else. my daughter with a woman means i failed as a father. my daughter with a non-black man - i failed as a father.

No doubt.

Not sure why but my first impulse that I chose was the non-black male because I assumed the thug nigga was the stereotypical cat we all know and love - smoke-drank-party but no job, disrespects most if not all women, doin illegal shit, kids all over the hood, the whole 9. But, like a lot of yall are pointing out thugs can be educated and what not. On the real tho, some cats are just so far gone no amount of education/influence is really gonna put a dent in a streetlife philosphy thats been built up over a lifetime. Change the preferences to religion based and you get the same vibe.

I guess my final answer is it depends on the level of thuggery of this theoretical brotha. If you are out to disrespect the jewel of my world I could give a fuck about us being racial brothers. First on the list is always will the dude treat her right and be compatible and what not. If its a bro im jumpin for joy and sheddin tears at the wedding n all. If its not seeing her happy and prosperous is tight consolation prize. IMO, the major wakeup call in parenting is all you get to do is set up the dominoes. All they shit they do is on them and you seldom have control after the chips start to fall. That's why its so IMPORTANT to be the guiding light from jump.
 
thug: (noun) an aggressive and violent young criminal

definitely wouldnt want my daughter with a criminal... definately wouldn't want my daughter with another woman... so by default, non-black man would be my answer... but as someone else mentioned, u left out the traits of this non-black dude... he could be a white rapist or a future jihad suicide bomber... or something else far worst that the black dude that engages in petty crimes to but sneakers bcuz he's too lazy/ignorant to get a job
 
I clicked Non-Black man. I am not racist, and I want my daughter to be happy IF current happiness will not impede future happiness (I.E. pregnancy, dating a soon-to-be abusive guy (showing signs already), etc. ). If she wants to be a lesbian, I don't like it, but I am ok with it if it makes her happy. Yes, being a lesbian could impede future happiness, but I'd take that before the thug anyday. Thugs are no-good creatures that I personally wish I could extinguish. If the Non-Black man is educated and treats her nice I don't care.

I would sit them down, not to discourage them, but let them know that there are people like CBM_Redux who their relationship would anger to no end. There are CBM_Redux managers and bosses who could make your life miserable and/or not hire you/fire you because of it. I would tell them that their life will be an uphill climb just by them being together, but I support them.
 
thats not my choice to make and im sooo happy they are far more choices than those in reality
 
Thugged out dudes are no good. I know a lot of chicks that went for thugs them dudes don't mind putting hands on a woman. I used to work with this chick, she was going with one of the biggest d boys in the city. She told me dude used to choke her out on the reg, she broke her ankle fuckin round with this dude, and of course she lied and said she fell. All kinds of grimy shit.
 
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Re: A fathers delimma: U HAVE to choose one..which would U have your daughter bring h

it's her life,,, she will have to make her own decisions & mistakes,,, the more you try to persuade her, the more she will rebel anyway

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