50 Cent reacts to SlowBucks beating up Ashanti’s sister
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A few things here.
IMO, the only time a woman should be physically dealt with is if she is coming at a man with a weapon that can kill him (gun, knife, club, chainsaw, etc.). Then it's self defense.
If a woman feels that if she can hit him at all, or if a man feels the need to hit a woman, then they don't need to be together, period.
If someone (male or female) is involved with someone who tries to provoke them into an argument or a physical confrontation, then they don't need to be together, period.
If a woman or man stays in a relationship where they get continuously physically or mentally attacked, they need to get counseling on self-esteem and how healthy relationships work, and they need to get out of the relationship.
In college, I was involved with someone who I was really into. She dumped me for someone who beat her ass consistently. I was also at a school where athletes and fraternity guys would physically, mentally, sexually, and emotionally abuse women, yet these men were still revered on campus - even by the women who they abused. It really fucked my mind up for several years, and gave me a very negative view of Black women. Much later, I talked to a friend of my ex, who told her that I treated her well, and was nice to her, but her "heart was somewhere else." This was after my ex married the guy and had children by him before finally divorcing him. I think she's on her third marriage now. I also learned that my ex had seen her mother become involved in abusive relationships, and that many of the women I knew - especially those who I dated who said I was "nice", but ended the relationship - grew up without fathers, or fathers who weren't around consistently, or in households where her father was abusive to her mother, and often to her. It showed me that there are a lot of fucked up women and men who don't know how to treat each other, what to look for in a potential partner, and what a good relationship involved. It also showed me that I have to be more selective of the type of woman I chose to be with, and that everything is not for everybody.
I remember when Stephen A. Smith got suspended by ESPN during the Ray Rice situation, when he said that some women provoke physical altercations in relationships. I am not a Stephen A. fan. Although I understood what he was trying to say, it came out wrong. It almost looked like he was justifying some women getting hit. He would have been better off just saying that nobody should be putting their hands on another person and left it at that. When men on here talk about being provoked, they need to ask themselves why they're involved with a woman who gets them angry to the point of wanting to hit someone? In a relationship. a woman is supposed to work with you, not stress you out.
IMO, the only time a woman should be physically dealt with is if she is coming at a man with a weapon that can kill him (gun, knife, club, chainsaw, etc.). Then it's self defense.
If a woman feels that if she can hit him at all, or if a man feels the need to hit a woman, then they don't need to be together, period.
If someone (male or female) is involved with someone who tries to provoke them into an argument or a physical confrontation, then they don't need to be together, period.
If a woman or man stays in a relationship where they get continuously physically or mentally attacked, they need to get counseling on self-esteem and how healthy relationships work, and they need to get out of the relationship.
In college, I was involved with someone who I was really into. She dumped me for someone who beat her ass consistently. I was also at a school where athletes and fraternity guys would physically, mentally, sexually, and emotionally abuse women, yet these men were still revered on campus - even by the women who they abused. It really fucked my mind up for several years, and gave me a very negative view of Black women. Much later, I talked to a friend of my ex, who told her that I treated her well, and was nice to her, but her "heart was somewhere else." This was after my ex married the guy and had children by him before finally divorcing him. I think she's on her third marriage now. I also learned that my ex had seen her mother become involved in abusive relationships, and that many of the women I knew - especially those who I dated who said I was "nice", but ended the relationship - grew up without fathers, or fathers who weren't around consistently, or in households where her father was abusive to her mother, and often to her. It showed me that there are a lot of fucked up women and men who don't know how to treat each other, what to look for in a potential partner, and what a good relationship involved. It also showed me that I have to be more selective of the type of woman I chose to be with, and that everything is not for everybody.
I remember when Stephen A. Smith got suspended by ESPN during the Ray Rice situation, when he said that some women provoke physical altercations in relationships. I am not a Stephen A. fan. Although I understood what he was trying to say, it came out wrong. It almost looked like he was justifying some women getting hit. He would have been better off just saying that nobody should be putting their hands on another person and left it at that. When men on here talk about being provoked, they need to ask themselves why they're involved with a woman who gets them angry to the point of wanting to hit someone? In a relationship. a woman is supposed to work with you, not stress you out.
How’d this chick go under the radar so long. She can get it
Yeah there is, the two parts I put in bold are seperate things. I always go back to that scene from “BabyBoy” when Jody slapped Evette, there are gonna come times when a man and woman are in a heated argument where feelings are involved and one or both of them will lose their cool and she will hit him or he will hit her, but right after they will catch themselves and realize they made a mistake. Guys that abuse women do stuff like that shown in the video, black eyes, bloody mouth, broken teeth, arms, legs, rape, they don’t lose their cool and do those things they do it because they feel powerful when they do it and will continue to do it over and over again
since day 1, the so-called black, so-called men, has always physically assaulted his black sisters.
however, he will NEVER fuck up the white man who has transformed him n2 an AMERICAN NEGRO.
the so-called black, so-called man is a craven coward and completely fears the white man.
however, he will NEVER fuck up the white man who has transformed him n2 an AMERICAN NEGRO.
the so-called black, so-called man is a craven coward and completely fears the white man.
blaming the woman and making excuses for the dude, without even knowing any of the details.
I'm not blaming the woman, I'm just saying in general.
Every person handles confrontation differently and it's important to know how your partner handles that shit, male or female.....Especially before you get seriously involved with that person.
....and for the record, Slowbucks is a whole pussy for the shit he did.
If my wife cheated on me I wouldn't fuck her up that's the game only way I whip a bitch ass for cheating is if I catch her in the act at our crib
I'm not doing a single day in jail cause a bitch cheated; shit most ppl in general cheat
I don't care if u cheated once ya whole relationship; u still a cheater
It's not ya pussy it's just ya turn
If he did that I want him locked up
A fucking Men....well said my brother
That sounds very good on paper and the Internet, but in real life it’s not that simple.
Bitch got outta pocket, she need some discipline.
Because yall emotional
I'm a cheater so unlike yall I respect the game. Just like I wouldn't rat on a dude I don't rat on females either. Only way id tell my boy that his girl cheated on him is if I knew he was being faithful
I've been cheated on before and I never reacted with violence it's no excuse to whip a chick ass like that (until it's confirmed idk he even did that shit)
Never understood dudes who wanted to fight another dude for fuckin his bitch it dont make sense and never will
Only dude Id fight is if it's a close friend cause that's out of line I could never look at my dudes girl
Humans by nature are emotional, that's what generally separates us from animals. You know what? Even animals have emotions, even pigeons fight each other over food.
I definitely respect the fact that if you're a cheater that you respect the game. I've known dudes in the past that cheated on the wives but said they'd fuck their wives up if they found them cheating. Weird but that's usually a cheaters mentality.
As far as what this thread's about, I' definitely not condoning what he did or violence in general, just saying it's not natural for people to say "It's just my turn" once the found out they were cheated on.
As far as fighting the other man if your woman cheats on you, I wholeheartedly agree with not understanding that mindset to fight the guy if you didn't know him.
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