26 ways to make your woman smile

[ladyscorpio]

Perhaps you need to let this "friendship/relationship" such as it is go. You are still from reading what you have written holding onto it. Not something you want to carry with you all the time.

Free yourself up bredren.

its a combination. I am part pissed and part sad. Pissed because she had my nose wide open and I had hers wide open and it didnt either of us. Pissed because when we would have disagreements as friends...some time would pass...and I would almost always be the one to make the call. Pissed and sad because her track record pretty much indicates that she will not be the one to make the call. Sad because she is more stubborn than I am. Sad because the shit it stupid that we cant get it together.....

fyi: we are not enemies and we have exchanged a dew emails not pertaining to our relationship or friendship.

 

[dwnsouth]

Perhaps you need to let this "friendship/relationship" such as it is go. You are still from reading what you have written holding onto it. Not something you want to carry with you all the time.

Free yourself up bredren.

as of right now. I am straight. Hope to remain this way for a while. Thanks for the concerns...

 

[shanebp1978]

You can also write topics down to talk about in the evening.

You can do this right before you talk to her, but then give the information in a chronological order, like you've been jotting little notes down all day.

This makes them think you've been thinking about them ALL day. An noticed things throughout your day that were not only interesting, but it was important that you SHARE them with her!!

Or I guess you could just ACTUALLY jott down things throughout your day!

 

[smoove2k6]

You can also write topics down to talk about in the evening.

You can do this right before you talk to her, but then give the information in a chronological order, like you've been jotting little notes down all day.

This makes them think you've been thinking about them ALL day. An noticed things throughout your day that were not only interesting, but it was important that you SHARE them with her!!

Or I guess you could just ACTUALLY jott down things throughout your day!

Not so sure about this one!

 

[SuchATease]

I apologize to all. But when I started reading this...it struck a nerve. I am not going to lie. The shit hurt. I did things for her that I never even thought about doing with other chicks. Just so you all know. me and the ex were friends at first....tried the relasionship. and it failed in a few months.... made up and stayed friends on and off over 5 years. did all sorts of stuff as friends...bike riding...her bosses wedding....breakfast as waffle house at midnight.... both took a weekday off work to go to New Orleans.....tried the relationship again a few months ago...it failed again....FUCK

I am out


Again....sorry for derailing the post




However, let me be the one to attest to the things in this post....THEY DO WORK...if the woman TRUELY appreciate these kind of things.....

Awwwww, it's okay darling the woman for you is out there....

I just wanted to add trying new things with her. I'm the type of woman to get the newspaper and find free/cheap activities to do as a couple. So a couple of weeks ago I found the Jazz Institute was having free couples hand dancing. Now I know my SO doesn't like to dance. The most he will do is 2 step which is fine.

I sent him a text like you + me = hand dancing? and he replied yes! I instantly started smiling!!

Not being afraid to try knew things is such a turn on!

 

[JofromthaNO]

You can also write topics down to talk about in the evening.

You can do this right before you talk to her, but then give the information in a chronological order, like you've been jotting little notes down all day.

This makes them think you've been thinking about them ALL day. An noticed things throughout your day that were not only interesting, but it was important that you SHARE them with her!!

Or I guess you could just ACTUALLY jott down things throughout your day!

That isn't very, um, nice of you... more so, like, deceiving of you to your girl...if she knew that, I doubt she would be smiling about that

I mean, I know we get busy throughout the day, but I DO think about the man I'm currently dating during the day...he's JUST that special to me...

 

[onyxfemme]

Uh-Oh Shane....

That isn't very, um, nice of you... more so, like, deceiving of you to your girl...if she knew that, I doubt she would be smiling about that

I mean, I know we get busy throughout the day, but I DO think about the man I'm currently dating during the day...he's JUST that special to me...

 

[shanebp1978]

Not so sure about this one!

I was kinda being facetious.

 

[ladyscorpio]

You can also write topics down to talk about in the evening.

You can do this right before you talk to her, but then give the information in a chronological order, like you've been jotting little notes down all day.

This makes them think you've been thinking about them ALL day. An noticed things throughout your day that were not only interesting, but it was important that you SHARE them with her!!

Or I guess you could just ACTUALLY jott down things throughout your day!

dry humor huh. ​

That isn't very, um, nice of you... more so, like, deceiving of you to your girl...if she knew that, I doubt she would be smiling about that

I mean, I know we get busy throughout the day, but I DO think about the man I'm currently dating during the day...he's JUST that special to me...

uhhh maybe read between the lines??

Mister BP doesn't seem the type to do something with deception in mind when it comes to a woman he truly cares for.

Or perhaps some women might just be that needy...

I could be wrong of course but....

 

[onyxfemme]

All I know is I cant stop smiling

 

[JofromthaNO]

dry humor huh. ​

uhhh maybe read between the lines??

Mister BP doesn't seem the type to do something with deception in mind when it comes to a woman he truly cares for.

Or perhaps some women might just be that needy...

I could be wrong of course but....

I was being a little facetious myself...

I'm sure that brother takes care of home...

 

[watchin]

Its the little things that count the most with me.

Randomly playing a song that you said reminded you of her in the car when she is with you. Turning it up and smiling while not acknowledging it is even betta!

Kissing her on the neck while shes brushing her teeth and cant just turn and kiss you back. Goosebumps everytime!

Rubbing all up against her booty while she is washing dishes. Yes!Yes!

Kissing her cleavage outta nowhere when shes is wearing a low cut blouse

Buying her a cd or dvd that she randomly mentioned a month ago

All that and more will get my man adored and well satisfied.

 

[jucurious]

*waiting for more men to post what they do and did*

 

[shanebp1978]

dry humor huh. ​

It's like I'm a Brit here.

Not so sure about this one!

An back to this confusion and doubt.

It works very well for me, and might for someone else. I will never believe there is one way to get the skins or cat.

Women may be similar, but not one is the same. An with making my woman happy, I personally like to KISS . . . KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID.




It's important for me to take notes during the day to discuss at the end of it with her. Not only do I VALUE her opinion as a person, it behooves me, because I have dollarized the financial benefit of her input. I receive not only a emotional but also financial benefit.

You may know Smoove others may not, so I will explain, the sales strategy of Dollarization is simply recognizing the benefits to a customer or client.

Not just selling, but making the dollar/emotional benefit clear.

Many of our needs we satisfy for goods, services, housing, or experiences are sold to us by showing us the emotional or financial benefit.

I think this thread is an exercise in dollarization, .

The benefit we are discussing to sell is happiness.

I like to sell the benefits of being with me from the get . . .

MY PERSONAL AD:

Hi, my name is Shane. I'm a good conversationalist. Emotional mature, and looking to share the experience of life in a casual dating or healthy relationship situation.

I'm great for dinner parties, and or werewolf bar mitzvahs, ( Boys becoming men, men becoming wolfs ). And my countenance is so hideous most women gouge their own eyes out at the sight of me, so you won't ever have to feel jealous or fight for your man.

Boy, I'm a catch!

This thread could be named: 26 ways to Sell the benefit of your ability to create happiness for your woman . . .

Alec Baldwin said it best A-B-C . . .

http://jonathantower.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/alec-baldwin-glengarry-glen-ross.jpg

I always CLOSE with a good showing.




Well folks, thanks for calling. This is Shane, and I'm gonna be keeping you company for the next few hours right here on the midnight shift.

Lets get into some music for you cool kids, st8 from our brother of another mother out there on that island with no palm trees . . . that cool cat, T-E-N . . . . let's play a little old school funk/soul from 1983!

It's Janice McClain, and she's giving you her love!

Janice McClain - Giving My Love

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[SOSTREET]

GOOD TO GO..........1-3 START TODAY

 

[BrownTurd]

Trust me, something on this list will work for your woman.

1. Tell her she is beautiful

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to. SIMP MOVE

5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much
she means to you. SIMP MOVE

6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the
most.

7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're
done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her....let
her know she's yours and they aren't. SIMP MOVE

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi" BIG SIMP MOVE She probably fucking someone else

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it)

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't
like it

13. Make her laugh

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge)
TELL HER

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed
animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep),
jewelry(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts
(she'll most likely wear it to bed) and don't forget
to bring her flowers or something special once in a while. SIMP MOVE

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when
you're alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends (guys, this WILL NOT, i
repeat WILL NOT kill you)

21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22. Kiss her just for the heck of it

23. If you're listening to music, let her listen too.

24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if
its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all
the world to HER.

25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas,
or just when ever, take it and tell her you love it, even if
you don't (it'll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem
like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't
care so call even if you can only talk for a minute.

SIMP MOVE

 

[jucurious]

SIMP MOVE

wow this SIMP word is out of control!


u call it simpin and a good portion of us call it doing something nice for and tuning into ur girl

u need a hug turd? u mad cuz u realized women don't want to be with a piece of shit?


j/k...i just had to go there with the name but seriously...y do u think its simpin?

what is ur definition of simpin?

 

[onyxfemme]

My girl

wow this SIMP word is out of control!


u call it simpin and a good portion of us call it doing something nice for and tuning into ur girl

u need a hug turd? u mad cuz u realized women don't want to be with a piece of shit?


j/k...i just had to go there with the name but seriously...y do u think its simpin?

what is ur definition of simpin?

 

[BrownTurd]

wow this SIMP word is out of control!


u call it simpin and a good portion of us call it doing something nice for and tuning into ur girl

u need a hug turd? u mad cuz u realized women don't want to be with a piece of shit?


j/k...i just had to go there with the name but seriously...y do u think its simpin?

what is ur definition of simpin?

Not all Women...but a some will take advantage of that. A Brotha would be setting himself for failure in some cases. That kind of behavior would be expected and when it is not giving some woman can't help but to think something is wrong. Then you know what happens next...lol Yall call up your girlfriends and then the conspiracy theory's come out.

Like I always say be yourself 1st. If you are naturally romantic that is wonderful. But once you start doing things because you think she will like it...you are setting yourself up for failure

 

[jucurious]

Not all Women...but a some will take advantage of that. A Brotha would be setting himself for failure in some cases. That kind of behavior would be expected and when it is not giving some woman can't help but to think something is wrong. Then you know what happens next...lol Yall call up your girlfriends and then the conspiracy theory's come out.

Like I always say be yourself 1st. If you are naturally romantic that is wonderful. But once you start doing things because you think she will like it...you are setting yourself up for failure

ummm that doesn't make sense to me...don't ppl in relationships do things and sometimes buy things for each other b/c they think the other person will like it?

since when did that b/c simpin? iono, it seems like ppl are really limiting themselves on the range of feelings they show, the level of that feeling and how they express it.

now if it was something u HATED doing or did not like doing and u did it for ur s/o that is a different story BUT if u know ur girl likes cheesy stuff a post it note saying HI is not gonna be the end of the world. now if she responds like "wtf are u wasting paper for?" or "why did u write me this bullshit?" then that's a warning sign (unless she's a go green girl, then i would use recycled paper lol)

u gotta listen and pay attention and find out what types of things the other person likes.

 

[clayizaiken]

bump, for brother smoove. thank you, fam.