10 Things Women Do That Drive Men Away

[bigirl]

Well, you've got to have credit to get a house and other things for the family.

no you don't. thats the problem with america is everyone buys things they can't afford on credit and are one paycheck away from bankruptcy
if you don't have the money, don't buy it!

 

[MartinAsante]

That's what I'm saying...you did what for it? That shit is like inflation to me.

You like paying $20 bucks for the same old french fries. Where's the "Value Added Resale" ??

Stop clumping more trimmings, and give me some finer cuts meat on my burger.

I once dated a 'basic" chick but dam, if I mentioned she would not only give me good coochie, but would handle all my loose ends..shit I just couldn't get to...or would slip my mind.
Fine chicks at Macy's would wonder why I would pay this chick so hard at the counter that the manager would come from the back to verify the purchases. She never had to ask for nothing. It was just coming. She deserved it.

Church. I was in a long relationship in college and she just complimented me in everyway. She was more organized and what she was good at, I wasn't and vice versa. That was perfect. But like the Roots rapped, things fall apart.

 

[Lick]

1. Acting Sweet to Get a Man, Then Changing 
 
"I don't know why women act so sweet during dating and change completely when they know they've got you." 
 
—Alvin, computer technician 
 
She used to go to bed in a naughty nightie and didn't care about sweating the curls out of her head. Now she goes to bed with a head full of rollers and a face covered with Noxzema. When they were dating, she batted her eyes, spoke softly, and always looked sexy. But now that she's got him, that all changed. The gently batting eyes and shy smiles have been replaced with frowns, pursed lips, and shrill tones. No more sexy clothes. Now she dresses like she doesn't care what she looks like, every day is a bad hair day, and she's fast losing the curves in her body and developing a pleasantly plump figure. 
 
Of course, men can't expect women to be superwomen who are able to work, cook, clean, and make love with flawless precision. But a woman shouldn't start out playing the superwoman role at the beginning and then change. It's better to present herself as she is and get it all out in the open. When a woman changes her entire act after the relationship gets going, men feel as though they've been duped. Suddenly, he doesn't know what to believe anymore and feels he can't really trust the woman he thought he knew. 
 
2. Not Giving Enough Space 
 
"She clings to me because she thinks that every minute I'm not with her I'm fooling around." 
 
—Lewis, personal fitness trainer 
 
The "S" word must be used carefully. Some men intentionally abuse the term "I need my space" to ensure that they can have their cake and eat it too — fool around while not giving up what they already have. But not all men are that way. Most men simply just want some room to be by themselves. Men, just like women, need to feel that they aren't trapped or being held hostage in their lives. From time to time, men want to get away and be alone or hang out with their friends. 
 
But it's a strain on the relationship when women think that a man is being selfish, silly, or making up an excuse to go out and cheat just because he wants some space. The smart woman knows that a man needs his space and doesn't hold it against him. She's confident enough to know that each person needs his/her own space to maintain a healthy relationship. On the other hand, jealous and possessive women are well known for their deliberate attempts to prevent a man from having any sort of privacy. Those are the women who think letting a man out of their sight is a mistake. They keep choke holds on their men and eventually drive them away. But if a woman can't give the man a little space, either the relationship isn't solid or she has some personal problems she needs to deal with. If it's because she can't trust him out of her sight, she doesn't need that man anyway. 
 
3. Wanting Too Many Things 
 
"I'm just a working man. I can't afford a two-story house in the suburbs, a Lexus, a Range Rover, a bunch of credit cards, and kids too." 
 
—Jesse, mail courier 
 
Some black men say black women are unrealistic in their expectations and want too much. Of course, wanting a good hardworking man who respects women isn't asking too much. But what about when it goes far beyond that? For some women, having a good man just isn't enough. They also want a Lexus, a two-story home in the suburbs, and a string of credit cards. When they don't have these things, they moan and complain as though life is terrible. If the man dares to say something about how he's happy with things as they are, he'll be accused of being complacent, lazy, and lacking ambition. It's fine to have goals and want some luxuries. But counting the blessings you already have never hurts either. 
 
4. Not Saying What She Means 
 
"Women expect you to read their minds like a psychic." 
 
—Jamal, college student 
 
Men aren't very good mind readers. In fact, we often have difficulty just figuring out what women mean with the words they speak. I think women are far more sophisticated communicators than men; they seem to be more adept at the subtleties of gestures, facial expressions, and body language. Therefore, men and women almost always suffer from communication breakdowns in relationships. 
 
Unfortunately, some women do not express themselves honestly and openly. It seems that they are more apt to use voice inflections and body language to communicate what they mean, even when the actual words they are saying convey the opposite. Take this situation, for example: "No, I don't mind if you go out with your friends instead of taking me to a movie tonight," a woman says, tapping her foot and looking away with her arms folded. Although her mouth is saying quite literally, "No, I don't mind," her body is saying she does mind. Women expect the men in their lives to read their nonverbal cues. 
 
Some men fail to read the nonverbal cues of the women in their lives. When this happens, an argument is almost always the result, because the woman feels that she communicated her feelings to the man and he ignored her. For example, I'll use the scenario from the previous paragraph. When that man comes home from his night out with the guys, his wife is going to be angry at him. She'll probably snap at him when she talks, slam doors, or even yell at him. 
 
"What's the problem?" he'll ask. 
 
"You know what the problem is!" 
 
But he really may not know what the problem is, because she never came out and said what she meant in words. She expected him to read the nonverbal cues and he totally missed them. As a result, the woman believes that the man is just being callous and self-centered. Likewise, the man is upset too; he thinks she's nagging him for no reason. Both of them will go to bed angry.
 
 
5. The Three B's Of Sex 
 
"I'm going to be straight about it: sex is important to me." 
 
—Gene, entrepreneur 
 
Perhaps it would be nice if sex didn't play such a major role in relationships. But for most people, sex is a big part of a relationship. And for men, it's probably more important than it should be. The sexual aggravations of men boil down to the three B's: bad, boring, and the boudoir battle. 
 
Bad sex 
 
Sex is a learned skill. It's similar to driving a car. Basically, anyone can do it. Some are good at it. And others are experts. But everyone has an idea of what they consider good and bad sex. Common complaints among men are: lack of enthusiasm, lack of rhythm, no creativity, and poor technique. If a person in a relationship is dissatisfied or experiencing sexual dysfunction, it's something that should be openly and honestly discussed. The reasons for sexual dysfunction can be psychological, physiological, ethical, and religious, or a host of other things. If the problems seem insurmountable, the advice of a pastor or therapist may be necessary. 
 
Boring sex 
 
Boring sex isn't necessarily the same thing as bad sex. But it is far from good. Boring sex is always doing it in the same place, at the same time, and in the same old position. It's when the sex gets to the point that it feels like more of a duty than a desire. Boring sex is when you're going through all the motions but there's no spice or passion involved. 
 
Boudoir battle 
 
Using sex as a weapon doesn't do anything but make a man angry. It can be subtle things such as not being open to touching and cuddling. Or it can be more strategic. It can be the refusal to do certain things in bed. The most brutal form of bedroom battle is outright refusal. 
 
Of course, a man can't expect a woman who is angry at him to make mad, passionate love to him. That's where communication comes into play. It's far better to talk and resolve the differences than to play games of will because any real man will be very insulted by such behavior. Then he may become vengeful and the whole thing turns into a cold war of revenge. Boudoir battle can lead to deep resentment and some men will use it as an excuse to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. 
 
6. Constantly Talking About Other Men 
 
"She's always talking about this guy at her job and it really pisses me off." 
 
—Shawn, corporate executive 
 
Men don't like to hear women constantly talking about other men. It's not necessarily an ego thing. It's just that each man wants to feel special and important to the woman in his life. Women don't have to cradle us like babies. Nor do they need to be patronizing. But a woman would be wise to realize that the ego of a man can be fragile. Black men in particular are constantly attempting to gain and maintain the basic elements of American manhood: the ability to provide, protect, and be masters of our own destinies. Not talking excessively to your husband or boyfriend about how great you think other men are is one small thing that can go a long way toward healing the beleaguered black male ego. 
 
7. Being A Drama Queen 
 
"She calls my pager all day when I'm at work. Then when I call her back, she just starts whining about some little thing that could've waited until later." 
 
—Art, sanitation worker 
 
Drama queens are always whining, pestering, or nagging about something. With them, nothing can ever be right. They pull all kinds of little tricks to get and control a man's attention. If he's watching television, she wants him to get up and put out the trash. When he has time off from work, she tries to plan each hour for him. If it's bill-paying time, she's crying about her car note being late. 
 
Another technique used by the drama queen is to play damsel in distress to get a man's attention. In this role the drama queen says "save me." Initially, it may make a man feel good to be the chivalrous knight in shining armor coming to the rescue. But too much distress can drive even the most loyal knight to ride off into the sunset. 
 
8. Being Hard And Cold 
 
"I work the graveyard shift so I don't have to be at home with my wife." 
 
—Derek, police officer 
 
That response was from a man who had been married less than one year and was already engaged in a cold war with his wife. Most of the time she was openly disrespectful to him as a human being, not just as a man. Other times she was cold and aloof, barely acknowledging that he was in the room. Believe it or not, men have feelings too. Hard and cold behavior is enough to drive anyone away. Again, we aren't asking to be cradled like babies. But every man wants home to be a safe refuge from the cold-hearted world. However, when the world at home is colder than the work world, there is no solace. 
 
9. Cheating 
 
"They call us dogs, but women are out there fooling around just as much." 
 
—Barry, auto mechanic 
 
Some women will maintain that when a woman is cheating it's always the fault of a man. That simply isn't true. Women are human beings and are therefore just as subject to dishonesty and deceit as any man. 
 
Cheating takes two forms. First, there's the obvious form, which is having affairs. But the second way of cheating is mental. It's the subtle art of getting over on him. She may not be fooling around with another man but she may be cheating by fooling around with the checkbook balance. Her body may be faithful, but she may be cheating by playing manipulative games to keep him within her control. Such games rob a man of his energy and creativity and prevent him from realizing his full potential. The truth is that cheating doesn't have to be just about affairs or lovers. Cheating is deception of any kind. 
 
10. Engaging In A Power Struggle 
 
"I can't stand it when a woman always wants to prove to me that she's smart, tough, and independent." 
 
—Lawrence, attorney 
 
It really irritates men when women they're involved with are constantly trying to upstage them. This is especially bothersome for those men who aren't trying to compete with their mates. This behavior takes many forms. Some women who engage in power struggles with their mates do it through career competition: who can make the most money or get the most prestige? For some the competition is based upon education level: who has the most advanced degree from the most prestigious school? Another form of engaging in a power struggle is competing in disagreements: who gets the last word in? In addition to those power struggles, the men I spoke with mentioned four other ways some women engage in a power struggle: (1) Making sure they look smarter than a man by intentionally upstaging him in public. (2) Disagreeing for the sake of disagreement. (3) Unnecessary rudeness. (4) Being condescending or cutting down what a man says when he states his personal thoughts and opinions. 
 
The guys I spent the evening talking with agreed that they weren't intimidated by women who made more money, drove more expensive cars, or had more education than they did. Their issue was with women who want to flaunt those things in order to be the superior person in a relationship. They all agreed that such behavior was a complete turnoff. No matter what form the power struggle comes in, it's an energy drain for a man who isn't interested in competing with his mate. Engaging in a power struggle is a quick way to drive a man away. 
 
I know this list is going to make the tempers of some women flare. But remember, this isn't a list of complaints. It's information intended to give women insight into what men are thinking; it's a bridge across the communication gap. Without straight and candid communication, we can't solve the issues that threaten to end so many relationships. Use these ten issues as a starting point for a dialogue with your husband, the man in your life, or a male friend. Such a discussion will give you even better insight.

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William July, II is an author to watch. In June 1996, his self-published Brothers, Lust, and Love: Thoughts on Manhood, Sex, and Romance climbed onto two bestseller lists.

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Yeah…. But the guy always allow it… People do what you allow them to do to you.

 

[PoppaSo]

no offense sounds like you been playing a bitch in plenty of your relationships.

Your check is already cashed Bro. You can't draw on it twice.

Re-Read. You would be classified as a #5.

 

[PoppaSo]

Church. I was in a long relationship in college and she just complimented me in everyway. She was more organized and what she was good at, I wasn't and vice versa. That was perfect. But like the Roots rapped, things fall apart.

Chauch. Word.

Homegirl had several bad relationship before she got to me and the kids to prove it. By the time she got to me, she knew just want to do. Caught me down on my luck with a sinking business in the heart of Manhattan...a music video studio. Chick had to bring me sandwiches to keep me from starving. I was working day and night and still no happs. Couldn't make the rent and was being tossed out of my studio. I had already lose my apartment. I was too devastated to even put my stuff in storage. She found a place for me and put me up for a month.

Well last day before I skid row, I got a call from a corporate 500. They offer me 100,000 9 to 5, benefits, dental, 5K AE card, two office and a gym pass.

She got wealthy for snatching a brotha up. I bought her kids, suits, leathers, piano, shoes, you name it.. Macy's perfumes counters.
She wasn't pretty or sexy but real.

Eventually, she and I had to different paths, but one thing I taught her was how to make "decent dough" on her own. Real Value.
She was a good women.

 

[MartinAsante]

no you don't. thats the problem with america is everyone buys things they can't afford on credit and are one paycheck away from bankruptcy
if you don't have the money, don't buy it!

But how would you say to buy your family home, which can cost 400K-500K, you need a mortgage. Why piss away your money on rent when you can put into your own property? But you need decent credit to get a good rate.

 

[bigirl]

But how would you say to buy your family home, which can cost 400K-500K, you need a mortgage. Why piss away your money on rent when you can put into your own property? But you need decent credit to get a good rate.

how about save your money and don't buy a bunch of useless crap and when you have enough then you build your house. first when you have enough build your foundation. then build a room and a bathroom and a kitchen if you have it. if not kitchen next. then you just keep building as it comes. thats how we do it. that way nobody can't ever take your house. its YOURS.

 

[MartinAsante]

how about save your money and don't buy a bunch of useless crap and when you have enough then you build your house. first when you have enough build your foundation. then build a room and a bathroom and a kitchen if you have it. if not kitchen next. then you just keep building as it comes. thats how we do it. that way nobody can't ever take your house. its YOURS.

That might be practical in bigirland(going by your location) but. unfortunately, that isn't a pragmatic solution in today's housing market. Not to mention, land is at a premium.

 

[dredhed0]

This one, this is the only one that Black women do that kills it for them. I'm not one of those brothas that says how Black women are this or that and thats why I date outside my race. Bullshit. I'm 38 and only dated Black women and married a Black women.
HOWEVER.

This is my theory but I bet I get co-signs. Some Black women don't know how to let a man be a man. Because they were raised around nothing but women(too many fatherless households)they've lost the art of knowing what to say and not say, do and not do around the opposite sex. I know you a strong Black sista, but that doesn't mean your ass need to be the boss. This is supposed to be a 50/50 thing. If you can't handle that, if it doesn't sink in after awhile guess what....I'll leave.

cosign

 

[outlaw]

Scheduling everything.
Trying to get the last word.
Getting out of shape.
Complaining about football, basketball, video games, computer.
Telling him do something before he can do it himself.
Listening to his girl/s and not him.

great thread, cosign a lot of things in this thread plus a few more:
without reading all the responses I'm going to add

1) Comparisons to famous/former men
2) Talking about love+marriage+kids FAR too soon
3) Nobody likes a lazy woman

 

[SinaminDelite]

11. Read dumb magazines like Essence and Cosmo that are filled with stupid lists like this that give shitty advice and then they go home and believe and apply that advice to their man instead of talking to dude and seeing what he wants.

I just got on my roomie about that shit. Cosmo is like her fucking Bible. I'm like put that shit down, because you'll never learn about a REAL relationship in there.

That is so fucking true. I do not have girlfriends that do that.They want you to be miserable with them

!!! I don't tell my single associates shit about what goes on in any of my relationships. They'll be quick to tell you "Girl you need to leave his ass alone," even if you know you're in the wrong and you just felt like venting. Bitter bitches.

 

[bigirl]

That might be practical in bigirland(going by your location) but. unfortunately, that isn't a pragmatic solution in today's housing market. Not to mention, land is at a premium.

well thats how everyone i know does it.

 

[PoppaSo]

Bruh, you sound like a pimp! hahaahahah!

Occasionally suffer from Pimposidol Tendencies. Nah, I just have low tolerance for BS.

I'm easy going really.

 

[BusterHymen]

#11 for me is... always say "you think you know everything" or "you don't know everything"..... but turn around and ask a brotha a million fuckin questions (HOW TO and WHAT DO I THINK)
I don't know if it's gonna rain or not.. (thinking to myself) Do I look like a fuckin' weatherman?

just my rant....I'm out

 

[A to Dah K]

4. Not Saying What She Means

"Women expect you to read their minds like a psychic."

—Jamal, college student

Men aren't very good mind readers. In fact, we often have difficulty just figuring out what women mean with the words they speak. I think women are far more sophisticated communicators than men; they seem to be more adept at the subtleties of gestures, facial expressions, and body language. Therefore, men and women almost always suffer from communication breakdowns in relationships.

Unfortunately, some women do not express themselves honestly and openly. It seems that they are more apt to use voice inflections and body language to communicate what they mean, even when the actual words they are saying convey the opposite. Take this situation, for example: "No, I don't mind if you go out with your friends instead of taking me to a movie tonight," a woman says, tapping her foot and looking away with her arms folded. Although her mouth is saying quite literally, "No, I don't mind," her body is saying she does mind. Women expect the men in their lives to read their nonverbal cues.

Some men fail to read the nonverbal cues of the women in their lives. When this happens, an argument is almost always the result, because the woman feels that she communicated her feelings to the man and he ignored her. For example, I'll use the scenario from the previous paragraph. When that man comes home from his night out with the guys, his wife is going to be angry at him. She'll probably snap at him when she talks, slam doors, or even yell at him.

"What's the problem?" he'll ask.

"You know what the problem is!"

But he really may not know what the problem is, because she never came out and said what she meant in words. She expected him to read the nonverbal cues and he totally missed them. As a result, the woman believes that the man is just being callous and self-centered. Likewise, the man is upset too; he thinks she's nagging him for no reason. Both of them will go to bed angry.



this shit right here give mes a fuckin headache
do yall respond to everything with a "NOTHING"

 

[DANGEROUSBLACKMAN]

1. Talking on the phone 24/7 lieing to their friends and cousins.

2. Don't know how to cook and not will to learn how to cook aspect a brotha to cook.

3. A brotha suppose to cater to them reguardless of circumstances.

4.Using pussy as leverage.

5.Using their friends for the wrong advice.

6. Lie on top of lies.

7. Compare u to another ninja.

8. Thinking a relationship is 50/50 but when shit hit the fan, its the 80/20 rule. Just like Bruce/Bruce said " When I get in a fight....We get in a fight....I want you jabbing that ninja!!!"

9. Sleeps all day up all night.

10. Plotting on every move u make as if the relationship is a game or sport.

11. Acting as if she is independent black woman, but is dependent on the three musketeers for support(The daddy,baby daddy,current boyfriend).

12.Pertraying as if....Damn I went passed ten...my fault..

Co-Sign.

 

[bigirl]

do yall respond to everything with a "NOTHING"

not me. if something is bothering me and I am asked whats wrong I will spell it out point blank. actually most men seem to not be able to take it. they get scared and run away

"oh i guess i will come back when you are feeling better"
this is how you guys get yourselves into trouble. instead of dealing with it the first time you disappear for days and think it will be gone when you come back.

NOPE. right back to the same discussion you cut out on.

 

[MissStarKitty]

I admit to doing a couple of things on the list, especially the in the beginning wearing sexy clothes to bed, or nothing at all, then changing and wearing some baggy sweats, a big t-shirt, and a headwrap to bed. But then again in the beginning we weren't living together either. I have never gone as far as to wearing rollers and noxema to bed, I gotta draw the line somewhere.

And I've done the not saying what I was about to say or really want to say but that's truly for the sake of me stopping myself from saying something I will regret or think he will not understand. But he's told me that drives him nuts and I have tried to stop doing that.

 

[Red_Camel]

Stop dressing sexy exclusively for her man sometimes.

Scheduling everything.

Trying to get the last word.

Not taking her man's side against others even if he may be wrong.

Getting out of shape.

Complaining about football, basketball, video games, computer.

Criticizing when he takes time off even though he plans to get back on his feet.

Telling him do something before he can do it himself.

Using him for his money.

Listening to his girl/s and not him.

That should be number 1 on the list right there. As a man of means, I take it as a form of disrespect when am with a girl/woman and she does this. And that's my cue to drop her and keep it moving right away. Ladies, there's nothing wrong with seeking second opinion/insight/advice when you are in a relationship. But as one of the fella's pointed out above in this thread, if you're going to do so, on behalf of all men, I beg of you to talk to an Wiser woman/man (use your own discernment 'cause been older doesn't necessary means wiser. I've come across a lot of old fools in my lifetime ). Thank you

 

[Red_Camel]

Women only complain about these things if you are not taking care of business. The way I feel, if you are not employed at the moment, you shouldn't have time for sports, video games, etc.

Let me sight partial agreement with you on this one Sis. But truth is, some women will complain even if you were running your own business with the multiples cars and your own jet. What will the complain be in this scenario? and am sure some of the fella's has heard this one "You don't spend enough time with me. Sometimes I feel like you put your work before me"

This is some BS. How about a women who stays sweet and the man leaves her for that? Seems to me that men like a woman who is going to cause them drama, just so they can have some drama in their life. Sweet girls finish last.

Where did you see that happen? in a movie? nah. You see, boys like drama, real men like a peace of mind. For a man to leave a sweet woman, means he needs to do some self-checking or she does. nuff said.

 

[DaleMabry]

this shit right here give mes a fuckin headache
do yall respond to everything with a "NOTHING"

Yeah man I hate that shit. Don't say "nothing" as a test to see if I will beg and plead for you to open up. I'm too old for that sort of game and frankly, I don't plan on playing it ever again. You are either strong and secure enough to state your position / speak your piece (I see you BiGirl!! lol ) or get the fuck on.

 

[Brown Bear]

This depends on the circumstance. Yesterday I was in the airport and this man holding a little girl turns around to an older lady and yells "Shut Up! It's not your decision to make." Everybody was looking at them. Come to find out that was his mother in law and his wife and his father-in-law were there. This woman let her husband disrespect her mother, and when she tried to speak up he said "You can shut up too." Any man I'm with that disrespects my mother, father, or siblings is getting cut. Period

But what if your mother, father or sibling(s) disrespect him first? Sometimes, your parents (not yours, but in general) can say something and you'll know what they meant or what they were talking about, but if they say the same thing or something similar to your guy/girl they'll take it as offense. It really is just a big ass misunderstanding, though.

Also, some parents (in general again) can be fucking assholes. I speak this solely off of experience. I've had a few girlfriends whose mothers, and even some of their family members were fucking assholes to the letter. I remember one of my exes folks asking me why I didn't have a job. I told them "because I'm in school full time, and I don't want too much on my plate." They scoffed and shrugged like "yeah, sure does sound like a lazy ni99a to me." Every time they'd see me at one of their family gatherings and someone was trying to get up some money for a drink or something, when the muhfucka would come my way, they'd be on some "oh, nevermind, I'll ask ya girl if she can pay for you to drink" type shit.

OR, when it was time to start wrapping it up, they'd always assume that since I wasn't working, I should be able to help clean shit up. The first time it happened, I was cool with it. Second, third, and so on... Not so much. I had actually stopped going to her family's gatherings because of that.

And now, with my current Woman's mother, she has a tendency to tell you to do something, instead of asking. "Go help Johnny and them put that in the car." "Bring my groceries from the car." Like the shit would hurt her to say "Can you...?" or "Would you...?" So I pulled a Vincent off Pulp Fiction on her; "A 'please' would be nice..." She looked at me like and said "Boy, you better go and..." whatever it was she told me to do. I stood my ground. Rather sat my ass down. You want me to do something, you need to ask, just like you'd want to be asked, instead of being TOLD. To get respect, you gotta give respect.

She waited another good 15-20 minutes and asked, "Are you going to do what I asked you to?"

"What was it you asked me to do?" I'd say, oblivious than a motherfucker.

"I asked you to do < whatever >" she said. "No, you didn't ask me, you told me to do that, I said that 'a please would be nice,' remember? I didn't tell you to drop me off when my car was down, did I?"

She don't ask me to do shit else, either.

I digressed a lot, but what I'm trying to say is this... Women have a tendency to think that her FAMILY is perfect as well. None of them can do ANYTHING to make her think otherwise. Crack head cousin stole your man's car and sold it for blow? That's just crazy Tanya... Drunk ass auntie is wondering why your man is so lazy when he just lost his job of 5 years? That's just the way she is... Mom's doesn't know how to ask someone to do something instead of telling them to do it? Well, she's just old-fashioned...

Tell your family to have some respect for the man you're with. If you tolerate your family just walking all over your man, and he doesn't say anything about it, then that isn't a man, and you aren't a woman. you're a kid, and have a lot of growing up to do. And if you snap at him for having a spine, and showing that he's not going to be walked over, even if it is your mom & pops, then you need some serious counseling.

 

[CT's Finest]

Good one. I'll check this one out later...

 

[sizzlelater]

Oh shit I forgot another one:


Getting relationship advice from your bitter ass girlfriends that haven't had a man or were able to keep a man FOR YEARS!!!

My wife and I used to go through with that one till I pointed out that shit to her. Just cause their you're good friends don't mean they know what the fuck they're talking about. You want advice from an outside source go to someone that has a man not two lonely chicks that you can tell will be those women at home with 20 cats.

HAVE 2 CO-SIGN 2 DIS

MY NINJA I WORK EVERYDAY GO TO SCHOOL AT NIGHT AND TRY TO STILL MAKE TIME FOR MY WIFE AND CHILDREN AND SHE HAD THE NERVESTO TELL ME I'M JUST LIKE HER FRIEND MAN. HE DON'T SPEND NO TIME WITH HER, JUST LIKE YOU. I'M TRYING TO BETTER MYSELF. MAYBE I SHOULD START KICKING HER ASS LIKE HE DO. I'M LIKE HIM ALREADY.

THAT SHOULD BE NUMBER ONE

[SIZE="5"[SIZE="7"]STOP LISTENING TO YOUR PUNK ASS FRIENDS.[/SIZE]

I GOT MORE BUT WHY BEAT A DEAD HORSE.

 

[Midnight Studio Comics]

This may be off subject but here goes...


ACTING LIKE YOU SOME FUCKIN HOLY ROLLER, CHOSEN SAINT SENT BY GOD, WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR COMPLETELY WRONG, BECAUSE IN REALITY YOUR A CONFUSED TWISTED PSYCHOTIC BITCH THAT NEEDS THERAPY AND A SLOW DEATH.