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ladyscorpio

ladyscorpio

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At some point BLACK people gonna need to wake up and actually start to show LOVE to each other because we are downstroying our own. This is the sort of stuff that saddens the soul......:smh:


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pXG38QxXY-s








PS if ANYONE enters here with ANY negative comments regarding the females on this clip i will dispatch of them permanently. Love and Blessings.


Peace
 
I know brothers who won't date a dark skinned woman. We need to be smarter.

I know we can't get help what we're attracted to but I feel we need to get past skin tones and select women based upon their character.
 
Thanks for the share Lady S.


Black is beautiful no matter what shade you are. How can someone judge you by what shade you are.
 
Mo-Better said:
I know brothers who won't date a dark skinned woman. We need to be smarter.
I know we can't get help what we're attracted to but I feel we need to get past skin tones and select women based upon their character.
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And I've known many women that won't date lightskinned men and dudes who won't touch lightskinned women (myself included). We need to be smarter but we need to judge each other's preferences less as well.
Speaking for myself, character is nice but if the package isn't dark enough, it's not happening, keep on pushing.
 
I have been trying to instill into both my nieces who are two completely different shades one darker and one lighter that they are both beautiful and perfect the way they are because they have already at ages 9 and 8 been the target of the same negative stereotyping that we see these ladies dealing with in the vid. I recently had to sit down with the eldest and have a chat because she does NOT like to have her beautiful thick hair loose because she is extremely self conscious. I really wish I could find out the reasoning behind it because I have always instilled in them both the power of natural living. Talk to your kids people because if we don't someone else is definitely doing so.

The one female who said that her mother was talking about her beauty and then killed her daughter's esteem by saying that if she were lighter.....:smh: This ish begins at the core when we instill in our youth that they are outcasts then they will live as such.


Peace
 
ladyscorpio said:
I have been trying to instill into both my nieces who are two completely different shades one darker and one lighter that they are both beautiful and perfect the way they are because they have already at ages 9 and 8 been the target of the same negative stereotyping that we see these ladies dealing with in the vid. I recently had to sit down with the eldest and have a chat because she does NOT like to have her beautiful thick hair loose because she is extremely self conscious. I really wish I could find out the reasoning behind it because I have always instilled in them both the power of natural living. Talk to your kids people because if we don't someone else is definitely doing so.

The one female who said that her mother was talking about her beauty and then killed her daughter's esteem by saying that if she were lighter.....:smh: This ish begins at the core when we instill in our youth that they are outcasts then they will live as such.


Peace
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Keep fighting, LadyS.
 
ladyscorpio said:
I have been trying to instill into both my nieces who are two completely different shades one darker and one lighter that they are both beautiful and perfect the way they are because they have already at ages 9 and 8 been the target of the same negative stereotyping that we see these ladies dealing with in the vid. I recently had to sit down with the eldest and have a chat because she does NOT like to have her beautiful thick hair loose because she is extremely self conscious. I really wish I could find out the reasoning behind it because I have always instilled in them both the power of natural living. Talk to your kids people because if we don't someone else is definitely doing so.

The one female who said that her mother was talking about her beauty and then killed her daughter's esteem by saying that if she were lighter.....:smh: This ish begins at the core when we instill in our youth that they are outcasts then they will live as such.


Peace
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You're doing all you can, but its hard because they are bombarded by the messages of the dominant culture where they live. Keep doing what you are doing. They will come to appreciate it as adults, but most kids are conformists at heart. They don't want to feel or look different.
 
Not to throw dirt on anyone's complexion but growing up I used to chase after the team lightskin but now it seems as if i'm exclusively team darkskin which is not any better but I do show love to my darker sistas.:yes:
 
P03t said:
the darker the better....:D
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But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
 
JofromthaNO said:
But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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co-sign...
 
Why are people trying to act like this doesn't exist? And we don't form likes dislikes? We have eyes, and we live lives in the real world. And in the real world, as real people we see things we don't like and we make judgements about those things based on experiences or stuff we've heard. My belief is that you cut out the stuff you've heard and rely on the the things you've learned from experience.

I've said before i don't like light skinned guys because of how i percieved light skinned men to be. I don't like alot of things on guys based on how i percieve them to be. Lets not act like we all don't do this. Our lives and enviornments have shaped our perceptions. And thus shaped how we're attracted to others.

These things break down to survival reasons.

I'm not saying be extreme about and go about dousing light skinned men in gasoline and setting them on fire. People are too extreme. Just because i don't like this hue of person attraction wise doesn't mean they shouldn't BE. That's just silly.

Dark skinned women have been catching hell for some time now. So what's the issue with really liking them now for those who do?

People often don't like to look at the reasons behind this stuff either. For someone who says the darker is better? Why? Why do you think that is? I have ideas. But does anyone else?
 
jofromthano said:
but, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" i didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up african americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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exactly.
 
I'm really glad you started this thread Lady Scorpio. I have so much to say on the subject but no time at the moment. I will return.
 
Izayoi said:
You're doing all you can, but its hard because they are bombarded by the messages of the dominant culture where they live. Keep doing what you are doing. They will come to appreciate it as adults, but most kids are conformists at heart. They don't want to feel or look different.
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:yes:

It always starts at home. My mother didn't buy my sister a White doll for most of her young childhood. Little shit like that at an early age is essential.
 
JofromthaNO said:
But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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This....
 
JofromthaNO said:
But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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True but when it comes to personal sexual preferences, it's all discrimination, whether skin tone or body shape, people discriminate.
 
JofromthaNO said:
But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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man thats my personal preference I like sistas (and dated) of all hues but I prefer chocolate girls....

as a black man I notice you can never plz black folks...black love is black love who cares...she's not light enough...or not dark enough...too light or too dark :rolleyes::smh:....ppl need to do what makes them happy and stop letting society standards dictate whats appealing to them....

again the darker the Better IMO....:cool:
 
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Upgrade Dave said:
True but when it comes to personal sexual preferences, it's all discrimination, whether skin tone or body shape, people discriminate.
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Thaaaaaaaaaaaaats what i'm sayin. This dude sent me a PM about my posts in this other thread and i said bro, why are you mad...about who i allow into MY pussy?


:hmm:
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
Thaaaaaaaaaaaaats what i'm sayin. This dude sent me a PM about my posts in this other thread and i said bro, why are you mad...about who i allow into MY pussy?


:hmm:
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They might secretly want to enter into it. You know how we talk out the side of our necks sometimes. We say one thing but do something completely different. I bet if you ask how many of them ever had intercourse with a dark sister, majority of them will say yes.
 
Props LS.

I'm dreading this whole scenario because my two girls...I don't know how they came out. One chocolate, one red bone skinded. But I tell them both they are beautiful, and they are. I got one with hair that takes on its own life...and the other head...I'm still trying to figure out what to do with her hair :( . All this plus the image issues I have of my own self I don't want them to grow up to be that self conscious.


Hopefully I can give them whatever I needed to hear so they don't have the bad thoughts.
 
My older brother introduced me to poetry, with book he brought home called "the darker brother"

I read the title poem, and shared with him that I got it, that I understood. That we are the darker brothers...

He replied: "I'm no where near as dark as you! [compariing arms] See!"

Then I really got the poem.

It happens to men too.
 
I have dated women as dark as Naomi Campbell to as light as Stacy Dash. Those women where both extremely beautiful in there own ways. I told them how beautiful they were every day I was with them but both of them had issues with there skin color. I did my best to try to heal their psychological wounds but they were too deep and no matter how much I praised them they always went back to something that they experienced in their childhood.

Hopefully this movie will help the beautiful dark skinned sistas out there. Black females should not have to go through this. :smh:
 
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JofromthaNO said:
But, why does it even have to be, "the darker, the better?" I didn't chose to be light-skinned, just like Bria (or whatever her name is in the picture) didn't choose to be dark-skinned. How about we celebrate all the different hues that make up African Americans?!? Pushing the discrimination one way (or another) still makes it discrimination...
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A stupendous observation!

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Matter of fact.

I find it real interesting that white women don't have the same division. I never hear about pale white women fighting with olive toned white women or white dudes saying they only date olive toned white females instead pale white women. Red haired white women fighting with brunette women.

Its a damn shame what racism and white supremacy did to us as a race.

As for as they are concerned they are all white and we are all black. When need to stop this in fighting and direct our energy to the real enemy.

Black people need to wake the fuck up.

Skin color and hair texture does not make us better or worser than our brothas and sistas. When need to get off that bullshit.
 
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TurellSmith said:
Matter of fact.

I find it real interesting that white women don't have the same division. I never hear about pale white women fighting with olive toned white women or white dudes saying they only date olive toned white females instead pale white women.

Red haired white women fighting with brunette women. Its a damn shame what racism and white supremacy did to us as a race.

As for as they are concerned they are all white and we are all black. When need to stop this in fighting and direct our energy to the real enemy.

Black people need to wake the fuck up.

Skin color and hair texture does not make us better or worser than our brothas and sistas. When need to get off that bullshit.
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They find other ways to divide themselves.
 

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