Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years ago
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Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
Wow this is the toughest question.
My first instinct is to scream hell no, but the more liberal part of me would say it depends on the circumstances meaning
1) Was he an abused runaway at that point in his life- confused and intoxicated and in general emotionally fucked up loooong before I met him- then no I wouldn't leave. Nothing we can do about the past. He obviously worked hard to get his shit together and get his life out the gutter. How can you hold that against someone?
However, if he is just gay, or bisexual and didn't tell me then no I couldn't do it.
Wow this is the toughest question.
My first instinct is to scream hell no, but the more liberal part of me would say it depends on the circumstances meaning
1) Was he an abused runaway at that point in his life- confused and intoxicated and in general emotionally fucked up loooong before I met him- then no I wouldn't leave. Nothing we can do about the past. He obviously worked hard to get his shit together and get his life out the gutter. How can you hold that against someone?
However, if he is just gay, or bisexual and didn't tell me then no I couldn't do it.
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I'd have to leave him. Not divorce. But i'd have to leave him.
I'd have to leave him. Not divorce. But i'd have to leave him.
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damn just disappear?
damn just disappear?
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
I think I worded this thread wrong. I tried to plug a male situation into a female reaction.
I think this thread should've read. Would you stay with your husband or boyfriend if he admitted to a onetime homosexual experience.
I think I worded this thread wrong. I tried to plug a male situation into a female reaction.
I think this thread should've read. Would you stay with your husband or boyfriend if he admitted to a onetime homosexual experience.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
I'd feel betrayal of the utmost. And i wouldn't be able to be around him. He never lied to me. Our entire relationship was built on absolute trust.
So no, i couldn't be around him.
I'd feel betrayal of the utmost. And i wouldn't be able to be around him. He never lied to me. Our entire relationship was built on absolute trust.
So no, i couldn't be around him.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
damn man you always been suspect. so this is how homos prepare in case they get found out
damn man you always been suspect. so this is how homos prepare in case they get found out
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There was a thread on mainboard about wouod you leave your wife if you saw her doing dp in the past or whatever. This was the counter thread. Read the board before you post and leave duece alone.damn man you always been suspect. so this is how homos prepare in case they get found out
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I've never been suspect... you can't point to any posts that even remotely show me being suspect. This thread is a flip of gameboy's thread.
damn man you always been suspect. so this is how homos prepare in case they get found out
I've never been suspect... you can't point to any posts that even remotely show me being suspect. This thread is a flip of gameboy's thread.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
So to you its more of trust and honestly over past history?
So to you its more of trust and honestly over past history?
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
Absolutely. If he lied to me about that, kept that from me, there's no telling what else he's lied to me about. Trust is absolute. I believed in my husband like devout crazy christians believe in god. That's the level of faith i had in him.
If he were to keep soemthing like that from me how could i believe that he even loved me?
Absolutely. If he lied to me about that, kept that from me, there's no telling what else he's lied to me about. Trust is absolute. I believed in my husband like devout crazy christians believe in god. That's the level of faith i had in him.
If he were to keep soemthing like that from me how could i believe that he even loved me?
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Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
Poor thing, how ur husband die?
Poor thing, how ur husband die?
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HELL NO.......There is NO telling what I'd do to him
HELL NO.......There is NO telling what I'd do to him
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co-sign with everything you said
everyone has a past but finding out this way is a no go for me.
co-sign with everything you said
everyone has a past but finding out this way is a no go for me.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
I can be sympathetic. If he was too embarrassed to mention it, I can understand.
If he did it out of curiosity and didn't want to admit it, I can understand.
However, whether it was one time or not, and he is gay or bisexual flat out without warning...we'd have to have a talk. I wouldn't leave him because people come to terms on their own understandings of themselves. But my husband? We'd definitely have to talk. If me and a dildo in his ass can't help his satisfaction and he wanted to stay married, I'd have to do some soul searching...
I can be sympathetic. If he was too embarrassed to mention it, I can understand.
If he did it out of curiosity and didn't want to admit it, I can understand.
However, whether it was one time or not, and he is gay or bisexual flat out without warning...we'd have to have a talk. I wouldn't leave him because people come to terms on their own understandings of themselves. But my husband? We'd definitely have to talk. If me and a dildo in his ass can't help his satisfaction and he wanted to stay married, I'd have to do some soul searching...
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ok............
if you so called bi sexual women that are married to "straight men" had to deal with this....why or how would a bi sexual mans (really gay... the term bi is some bullshit.....in my pov) sex act be anymore different than what you do with another woman....
i can totally overstand a straight womans decision to put his faggot ass out....maybe even pay sommeone to touch him up for not being 100 about who & what he really was...
ok............
if you so called bi sexual women that are married to "straight men" had to deal with this....why or how would a bi sexual mans (really gay... the term bi is some bullshit.....in my pov) sex act be anymore different than what you do with another woman....
i can totally overstand a straight womans decision to put his faggot ass out....maybe even pay sommeone to touch him up for not being 100 about who & what he really was...
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
wow
you'd stay wit a homo.... you'd ahve to really think about that???? wtf???? black women are really fucked up in the head...... that shit is crazy....... you would even be willing to fuck him in the ass wit a dildo????
wow
you'd stay wit a homo.... you'd ahve to really think about that???? wtf????
black women are really fucked up in the head...... that shit is crazy....... you would even be willing to fuck him in the ass wit a dildo????Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
Because I am a hyporocrite in this manner. I dont want nothing to take away from my mans masculinity. I am ultra feminine an like ultra masculine men. I dont like ANYTHING questionable about my man. Me being sexually bi w/ a ultra feminine woman like myself=winning. My dude fucking another dude in the ass or worse getting fucked in the ass=LOOSING....Hypocritical yep...Do I give a fuck? NOPE
Because I am a hyporocrite in this manner. I dont want nothing to take away from my mans masculinity. I am ultra feminine an like ultra masculine men. I dont like ANYTHING questionable about my man. Me being sexually bi w/ a ultra feminine woman like myself=winning. My dude fucking another dude in the ass or worse getting fucked in the ass=LOOSING....Hypocritical yep...Do I give a fuck? NOPE
ok............
if you so called bi sexual women that are married to "straight men" had to deal with this....why or how would a bi sexual mans (really gay... the term bi is some bullshit.....in my pov) sex act be anymore different than what you do with another woman....
i can totally overstand a straight womans decision to put his faggot ass out....maybe even pay sommeone to touch him up for not being 100 about who & what he really was...
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once a fag ............always a fag!!!!!!! there is no coming back from having or letting another man put his dick in your ass.....
once a fag ............always a fag!!!!!!! there is no coming back from having or letting another man put his dick in your ass.....
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
I think that's more of a social issue than a biological issue.
I think that's more of a social issue than a biological issue.
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gay people are too funny..... there is nothing winning about being a lesbian... no matter how fem they are... @ the end of the day.... you still playing worshiping a rubber dick
gay people are too funny..... there is nothing winning about being a lesbian...
no matter how fem they are... @ the end of the day.... you still playing worshiping a rubber dickRe: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
Well thread baiter-you seem to know alot about gays, lesbians and such since all this morning you have been bumping all of the thread that relate to such. I actually dont worship a rubber dick. I worship and get fucked by a real one who does it well. I truthfully dont care about what you think of me. I mean why should I? However, please watch your mouth and refrain from talking sideways to me and baiting the other ladies on the board. 1st warning next time that is your ass.
Thanks
Well thread baiter-you seem to know alot about gays, lesbians and such since all this morning you have been bumping all of the thread that relate to such. I actually dont worship a rubber dick. I worship and get fucked by a real one who does it well. I truthfully dont care about what you think of me. I mean why should I? However, please watch your mouth and refrain from talking sideways to me and baiting the other ladies on the board. 1st warning next time that is your ass.
Thanks
gay people are too funny..... there is nothing winning about being a lesbian...
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
You of all people....on this board at least, seems to know more about this than others.
You're exposing yourself. I'm advising you to stop now before someone more virile takes notice.
You of all people....on this board at least, seems to know more about this than others.
You're exposing yourself. I'm advising you to stop now before someone more virile takes notice.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
First off, I'm neutral.
But Onyx, why this man get a warning for discussing his point of view on a discussion board??!?
Y'all tripping. He can't speak/type his mind? C'mon now!
For the record, I'm completely in concurrence with Onyx, and yes it is hypocritical. I'm glad she's able to admit it, as am I able to admit it. I don't have a problem messing w/ a woman that likes girls also, but the dick must take priority. She has to love the dick way more, have it be the entree, if you will, and everything else be a side.
I also agree with some of the stuff that MBP said, gay is gay. Homosexual = sex acts with a same sex partner.
There is a double standard. When a man engages in a homosexual act, he compromises his masculinity, whereas a woman does not compromise her femininity when she engages in a homosexual act.
This is the same premise as women not having to be responsible and have accountability, whereas us men have to be and have these qualities to be a man.
I didn't make the standards, I just abide by them. I take this world as it is, and not as I would have it.
I'm not trying to play devil's advocate, just serving some food for thought.
First off, I'm neutral.
But Onyx, why this man get a warning for discussing his point of view on a discussion board??!?
Y'all tripping. He can't speak/type his mind? C'mon now!
For the record, I'm completely in concurrence with Onyx, and yes it is hypocritical. I'm glad she's able to admit it, as am I able to admit it. I don't have a problem messing w/ a woman that likes girls also, but the dick must take priority. She has to love the dick way more, have it be the entree, if you will, and everything else be a side.
I also agree with some of the stuff that MBP said, gay is gay. Homosexual = sex acts with a same sex partner.
There is a double standard. When a man engages in a homosexual act, he compromises his masculinity, whereas a woman does not compromise her femininity when she engages in a homosexual act.
This is the same premise as women not having to be responsible and have accountability, whereas us men have to be and have these qualities to be a man.
I didn't make the standards, I just abide by them. I take this world as it is, and not as I would have it.
I'm not trying to play devil's advocate, just serving some food for thought.
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Because he continuously baits on topics such as this, and I do not appreciate how he goes on some of the females on this side. Thread baiting for an argument will get you a ban. Rules are rules. At least people could do is learn how to debate maturely w/o cursing and name calling or attacking ones character..It is what it is. And he has a history of this.
Because he continuously baits on topics such as this, and I do not appreciate how he goes on some of the females on this side. Thread baiting for an argument will get you a ban. Rules are rules. At least people could do is learn how to debate maturely w/o cursing and name calling or attacking ones character..It is what it is. And he has a history of this.
Re: Would you stay with your husband if you found a pic of him in a gay sex act years
I guess having an opinion, perspective, or point of view on a given topic equates to one "knowing alot" about it, huh?
Also, he's just giving his opinion on a lifestyle.... not of what he "thinks of you". It's you (all) that are taking it personal.
A hit dog will holla, though, huh?
I am only trying to respectfully show that this is only ........a discussion.
An exchange of ideas & thoughts.
I guess having an opinion, perspective, or point of view on a given topic equates to one "knowing alot" about it, huh?
Also, he's just giving his opinion on a lifestyle.... not of what he "thinks of you". It's you (all) that are taking it personal.
A hit dog will holla, though, huh?
I am only trying to respectfully show that this is only ........a discussion.
An exchange of ideas & thoughts.
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OK, I didn't read the entire thread. I didn't see where he attacked anyone's character.
OK, I didn't read the entire thread. I didn't see where he attacked anyone's character.
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Funny how you the only person after my post that seemed to have that big of a problem (if at all) with what I said...you need some ice cause you burning a little too bright.
Anyway, in defense of my womanhood, Blackness, and overall stature as a person: if we married, we married. This homosexual act didn't occur while we were married or probably even together. So why wouldn't I stay with my husband? If getting done in the ass is still on his mind, why as his wife wouldn't I help him reach that climax in that way? LI said she believed in her husband devoutly; if as a wife we are to be with our men devoutly wouldn't getting through or pass something be the definition of 'for better or for worse'? Let me speak on how I'd divorce my husband for some random act done before we met and how I condemned his name on the Internets and I refuse to let him see his children - I'd be a bad Black bitch muthafucka for doggin' out the brotha man. But let a woman stand with her man to figure himself out to be a better person by coming to terms, I'm the scum of the earth.
What the fuck?
You round here talking about the women you fucked doing hair and makeup, flaunting skills that EVEN I AS A WOMAN DO NO POSSESS and yet you want to condemn the LBGT community? It doesn't take a gaydar to realize you got some technicolor in your closet. Oh but wait, let's turn this around. Let me tell my husband about a lesbian experience and expect him to stay - what would that make me then? Would he be a lost misguided black man for staying with me? Remember only a hit child will holler so something round here ringing true in thread.
Why don't you try this again when either you went and bit your pillow or you washed your mouth out with soap. If you can't cope don't take one of those eyebrow archer thingies and cut yourself, that only makes things worse.
wow
you'd stay wit a homo.... you'd ahve to really think about that???? wtf????
Funny how you the only person after my post that seemed to have that big of a problem (if at all) with what I said...you need some ice cause you burning a little too bright.
Anyway, in defense of my womanhood, Blackness, and overall stature as a person: if we married, we married. This homosexual act didn't occur while we were married or probably even together. So why wouldn't I stay with my husband? If getting done in the ass is still on his mind, why as his wife wouldn't I help him reach that climax in that way? LI said she believed in her husband devoutly; if as a wife we are to be with our men devoutly wouldn't getting through or pass something be the definition of 'for better or for worse'? Let me speak on how I'd divorce my husband for some random act done before we met and how I condemned his name on the Internets and I refuse to let him see his children - I'd be a bad Black bitch muthafucka for doggin' out the brotha man. But let a woman stand with her man to figure himself out to be a better person by coming to terms, I'm the scum of the earth.
What the fuck?
You round here talking about the women you fucked doing hair and makeup, flaunting skills that EVEN I AS A WOMAN DO NO POSSESS and yet you want to condemn the LBGT community? It doesn't take a gaydar to realize you got some technicolor in your closet. Oh but wait, let's turn this around. Let me tell my husband about a lesbian experience and expect him to stay - what would that make me then? Would he be a lost misguided black man for staying with me? Remember only a hit child will holler so something round here ringing true in thread.
Why don't you try this again when either you went and bit your pillow or you washed your mouth out with soap. If you can't cope don't take one of those eyebrow archer thingies and cut yourself, that only makes things worse.
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