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When I go to work and I see some ladies dress professionally and then I see some who have their tits and ass bulging out everywhere...I wonder if the woman expects men to drool or does she expect nothing or what. What is she thinking exactly?
....Does she want compliments like ...wow...you sure look sexy today!...(no..that will get yo ass fired!)...maybe....I should just walk around with my dick hard all day and my tongue hanging out....Do they do it to be cute?.....Do they do it for the women...and not for the men......I need to know!....The same for church....same clothes...different place!
 
This is hard for me to answer...I have a pair of workout pants that I feel good in...but nothing that I feel sexy or cute in...never felt that feeling in my life.


With that said, if I see a chick at work with all that hanging out I'd think she want attention. I think it's a difference between being fashionably workable and being workabley hoish. A fitted skirt for work doesn't necessarily mean it has to be tight; with the same regard I'd much rather have a collared shirt over a low cut dress shirt...But this is just my opinion.



That and some women crave attention so they might actually want the dudes to say something so they can file a sexual harassment claim...
 
Interesting question... I've wondered the same thing. Hopefully the ladies can shed some light.

melonpecan said:
This is hard for me to answer...I have a pair of workout pants that I feel good in...but nothing that I feel sexy or cute in...never felt that feeling in my life.
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Really Mel? Never?

Well, I find your intelligence and sense of humor very sexy... and "melonpecan" just sounds cute. :D

melonpecan said:
With that said, if I see a chick at work with all that hanging out I'd think she want attention. I think it's a difference between being fashionably workable and being workabley hoish.
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:lol:
 
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flipflop said:
When I go to work and I see some ladies dress professionally and then I see some who have their tits and ass bulging out everywhere...I wonder if the woman expects men to drool or does she expect nothing or what. What is she thinking exactly?
....Does she want compliments like ...wow...you sure look sexy today!...(no..that will get yo ass fired!)...maybe....I should just walk around with my dick hard all day and my tongue hanging out....Do they do it to be cute?.....Do they do it for the women...and not for the men......I need to know!....The same for church....same clothes...different place!
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Why don't you just keep your opinion to yourself unless she INVITES it. Not really that hard to do. Women can dress any way they want to, without expecting to be harrassed. Black men demand the same thing from police.
 
SickMyDuck said:
Really Mel? Never?

Well, I find your intelligence and sense of humor very sexy... and "melonpecan" just sounds cute. :D
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Thanks... :D

But for reals, yeah, never. Just was never dealt those cards where I had someone constantly tell me I was pretty or sexy or what not...I know I'm loved and I've been loved but to hear those words is totally different. So unlike some women I don't have that urge to dress a certain way to hear certain things - I try to dress for functionality. I remember in college thinking chicks were dumbasses walking 165 acres of campus in 4 inch heels in 90 degree weather :smh: Jeans and tennis shoes all day...but when I WANTED TO DRESS or wanted to wear something specific then I could. That's why I think...

Blunt said:
Why don't you just keep your opinion to yourself unless she INVITES it. Not really that hard to do. Women can dress any way they want to, without expecting to be harrassed. Black men demand the same thing from police.
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...sometimes women like the one's the OP are talking about want to be harassed. It's not practical to be in the workplace with your shit hanging out and not covered and it's just unprofessional. I know I try the opposite. It's winter so I got on layers I can take off cause the heat is on at work. When it get's hot, I'll have layers I can put on cause of the AC. If it's winter and dude seeing tits, something is wrong with that picture. Yeah Blunt, black men don't expect to be harassed by the police, but they don't passively look to be fucked physically by the police either or for a six figure settlement.
 
I DONT KNOW ITS A CATCH 22 , I WORK @ AMERICAN EXPRESS AND THATS CORP AMERICA ,, I SEE FINE FEMALE WHO DRESS NICE THEN ON FRIDAYS (JEANS DAY ) I BE LIKE :eek::eek::eek: IT IS HARD NOT TO LOOK ,, BUT YOU CANT SAY SHIT OR THAT YOUR JOB ,, :smh::smh::smh:
 
KATDADDY said:
I DONT KNOW ITS A CATCH 22 , I WORK @ AMERICAN EXPRESS AND THATS CORP AMERICA ,, I SEE FINE FEMALE WHO DRESS NICE THEN ON FRIDAYS (JEANS DAY ) I BE LIKE :eek::eek::eek: IT IS HARD NOT TO LOOK ,, BUT YOU CANT SAY SHIT OR THAT YOUR JOB ,, :smh::smh::smh:
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But what about the rest of the week? Do you only notice them on Fridays, because that's what it sound like. If that is the case then it might just be the jeans...kinda like how ass look better in those terry cloth jump suits...
 
I'm just throwing this out there...

Sometimes women just hold on to shit (clothes or clothes size) a bit too long! :lol:

As in maybe that size 6 was a good respectable fit when you were let's say 21 and 120 lbs. But now you are 28 and 140. Those extra pounds can turn this...

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Into this...

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I think 85% of the time this is the problem. Now they are walking around getting complimented and they feel good not realizing why they are being complimented.

Then when they figure it out the compliments feel so good they don't want to stop. My .2.
 
melonpecan said:
^^^

You confusing me Andey, slower.
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For real? :)

Aight I don't know your size or your age but I'm sure you can't fit into the same things you did as a teenager right?

So let's say when you were in high school or college you were a size 4. Women grow into their bodies at different ages. So let's say in college your chest got a little bigger. Your hips spread a little. Ass started poking out a little. So you moved up to a size 6. In college.

Probably around that age you were way more athletic. More out and about. Now you've reached 28. Maybe you have gained a little weight. Not much but the ass is a little phatter. Chest a little bigger. Hips a little wider. So you go into the dressing room and put on a size 6.

Just because you can put on that same size 6 and button it doesn't mean it fits the way it did when you were in college. But you REFUSE to get a size 8 cause you are a 6 always will be a 6 and forever will be a 6 til the day you die! :lol:

So now that size 6 skirt and blouse is clinging just a little more than it used to. Crawling up just a little more than it used to. But in YOUR mind the shit fit cause you are a size 6.

Get me? So now the guys that looked at you in that size 6 who were like :hmm: when you were in college are now looking at you like :eek: You used to have to put on a 4 to be skimpy or get looks like that so in your mind the guys are just more mature now. Not realizing your body has filled out what used to hang loose.

Plain Jane to Rosa Acosta is a matter of the same size plus 20 lbs.
 
^^^

Male logic is too cute! ;)



Any chick who dares to put on clothes that are too small not out of necessity has got to be more than 50 pounds overweight. They way some of these clothes are made now adays everything show cleavage and here is a pencil skirt that fit tight even if you wear a 3x, (that's the big big girls for you men trying to visualize).

Sorry Andey but that whole scenario just seems waaaay to unrealistic. I got clothes from my 8th grade year packed up somewhere, (that's like....13 years ago?), that I can't fit hoping I can fit back in them. But do I try them on and take a walk out in them? Hell no. I don't even do that with the clothes I bought in college I can't fit into anymore, (pre-babies). If anything I'd buy my work clothes a little bigger since I have a sedentary job, and wear shit that fit a little more properly on casual Fridays.


But I'm casual everyday so I don't care. :cool: :lol:


I'm telling ya'll, attention whores. They WANT a lawsuit. In this day and age with the economy, if they can stay at home, buy a cheap house out of foreclosure, MAYBE start a small business and buy a extra car they gonna think they ballin'. I dare someone to do a sting op, watch a skimpy bitch smile through her tears.

I

Dare

You
 
Women have a misconception about what men want. Just last week one of the more attractive sistas in the gym told me she wasn't big enough. I was astonished she felt this way.

Ladies all men are not looking for women who are big. Some of us still appreciate a well dressed in shape woman.

Where this idea came from that a woman must have big tits and a gigantic ass is beyond me.

Ladies if its bulging, hanging out the side or front its too small. If it doesn't button easily its too small.

IMO more is not better not when it comes to a woman.
 
:lol: @ Bills

Mo-Better said:
Women have a misconception about what men want. Just last week one of the more attractive sistas in the gym told me she wasn't big enough. I was astonished she felt this way.

Ladies all men are not looking for women who are big. Some of us still appreciate a well dressed in shape woman.

Where this idea came from that a woman must have big tits and a gigantic ass is beyond me.

Ladies if its bulging, hanging out the side or front its too small. If it doesn't button easily its too small.

IMO more is not better not when it comes to a woman.
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See this is the reason why I haven't bought any collared shirts lately which I LOVE. The kids got me cups overflowin'. I'm soo close to gettin' a reduction but the point is, some men do like an in shape woman but they like certain parts to be...bulging...

I mean my cousin admits she has a pancake but all her boyfriends I've met said they love her tits and legs. So if she were man shopping I'd expect her to put on a miniskirt at least (though she never does).

Which brings me back to the OP - chicks showing off what they THINK are their greatest asset.


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Oh wait. I'm not sure where that came from either Mo but I know people who will say they will not be with certain chicks cause they don't have a big ass. Or I'll hear people say I wish my girl had more ass. Some man somewhere had to start the trend cause chicks wouldn't want to have it if men didn't want it.
 
Mo-Better said:
Women have a misconception about what men want. Just last week one of the more attractive sistas in the gym told me she wasn't big enough. I was astonished she felt this way.

Ladies all men are not looking for women who are big. Some of us still appreciate a well dressed in shape woman.

Where this idea came from that a woman must have big tits and a gigantic ass is beyond me.

Ladies if its bulging, hanging out the side or front its too small. If it doesn't button easily its too small.

IMO more is not better not when it comes to a woman.
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Bolded: SOME being the key word. Not ALL. And the idea comes from ALL Those guys who DO like hefty gals.
 
melonpecan said:
:lol: @ Bills



See this is the reason why I haven't bought any collared shirts lately which I LOVE. The kids got me cups overflowin'. I'm soo close to gettin' a reduction but the point is, some men do like an in shape woman but they like certain parts to be...bulging...

I mean my cousin admits she has a pancake but all her boyfriends I've met said they love her tits and legs. So if she were man shopping I'd expect her to put on a miniskirt at least (though she never does).

Which brings me back to the OP - chicks showing off what they THINK are their greatest asset.


Edit :

Oh wait. I'm not sure where that came from either Mo but I know people who will say they will not be with certain chicks cause they don't have a big ass. Or I'll hear people say I wish my girl had more ass. Some man somewhere had to start the trend cause chicks wouldn't want to have it if men didn't want it.
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Hell you know how i like my women. I think it's good black men like women with meat on'em. Big boobs, asses. Thighs, wide hips. Gives me hope that there's SOME kind of humanity still left in our people :lol:
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
Hell you know how i like my women. I think it's good black men like women with meat on'em. Big boobs, asses. Thighs, wide hips. Gives me hope that there's SOME kind of humanity still left in our people :lol:
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I keep reading these Black novels and autobio's and with the descriptions of Black women and how beautiful and sexy they are, I wonder why men today look for slim goodies wearing a size four. I need to find that passage of Easy Rawlins old flame where he describe her as the sexiest thing alive but she busty and big, almost like making love to a robust hock of ham, AND LIKING IT.
 
melonpecan said:
I keep reading these Black novels and autobio's and with the descriptions of Black women and how beautiful and sexy they are, I wonder why men today look for slim goodies wearing a size four. I need to find that passage of Easy Rawlins old flame where he describe her as the sexiest thing alive but she busty and big, almost like making love to a robust hock of ham, AND LIKING IT.
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yo
real talk
your personality is cool
so is your sense of humor
and you say you got some f's?
lemme see something (could be g to x rated):D

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melonpecan said:
Both of ya'll :lol:


I been doing good this week. I MIGHT grace the anon thread later on...but that's as close as it gets!
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good this week? i like the sound of that.

not to hate on the anon thread but passing them on to me will be just as effective
i shares none that don't want to be shared so if you're feeling bad then go head hit the pm and then unleash. its like a vault maybe a little xscape you're my little secret. think of that and bills in the same breath.
true story:yes::yes::yes:
 
melonpecan said:
^^^

Ded.




I guess LI will get you caught up sometime soon ;) .
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Legacy_Infinity said:
LI did NATHAN! You the one announcing you may post somewhere. lol I told you to hit me up on our date. How you gonna say LI will get you caught up what the fuggizzle my nizzle?
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all i know is i wanna see the f's
so melon or l.i.
make that happen por favor
i gotcha back if you tryna see ;)
anon bills= one in the same
 
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