honest question: what are the + / - for women that date men that are....

[stickyfingerz]

better looking than them......
not in a pretty way but sometimes you see couples & you look @ the man.... & you automatically have an impression of the type of woman he might have / be with.....until you see the woman.....its almost always a wtf... kinda response... the chick might not be ugly.... just not the level of attractiveness that one might expect...... can anyone elaborate on the issues that might effect/affect some women in regards to this....

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I can relate on several levels. lol

 

[followup]

it's not all about looks. and if they are both attractive, then it's a good fit. Even when one person is much uglier than the other, there is some mutual benefit to it outside of looks. Only the couple knows what that is though.

 

[Crown&Coke]

Its all perception and whos looking at them. Some people might look at that same couple and think the woman is better looking than the man. ​

 

[dHustla]

Me being as handsome as I am... I can relate to this on a personal level.

It's really a double edged sword and I'll tell you why...

Pros: It can be used as a catalyst to boost the esteem & ego of the woman that's with me because even though these other hoez is looking at her with disdain... she still got what they obviously covet.. ya boy
Example of thoughts & facial expression exchanges:
Hatin' ass ho(HaH): Why he wit' her?
Bitch that's wit me(wednesday aka followup): Same reason he ain't wit chu!! Hoe, have a seat!
Me: (not helping & halfway flirting with everybody on the sly) Here we go..

Cons: It causes insecurities, if not already present, to manifest in the girl that's with me.

Now I got to build the bitch back up by saying sweet everythings(yea, sweet everythings) in her ear and after we leave... it would go something like this...

Ya boy: Now, you gon' let the way some hoes was looking at you affect how you feel about yourself? How much sense does that make? What somebody else think about you being with me?.. Now I can't get my dick sucked ..........cuz you sad!
You gon' let them ... put a wedge between me and you? No? Then hit this head!

 

[followup]

^^^

 

[Andeyhollawho]

You mean like this?

If you love someone you love them. The only drawback to this could be jealousy.

Of course the less attractive half may be worried about the more attractive half being hit on. TI in this case I guess? No homo (and I never use that shit. )

But I used to work not far from where they stay at and saw Tiny all the time. She get hit on CONSTANTLY! Dudes know that women are always fucking with TI so they come on to her thinking she will be easy cause she will be pissed. Shit work both ways.

 

[dHustla]

Ya know, Andey, I don't think Tiny is ugly at all.



I'm not one of those colorstruck niggas that think every lightskinned woman gotta be the finest. I think Tiny is cute. And I think she had a stroke or something because one side of her face sags and it wasn't always like that, look at the pic you posted for instance, it's pre-stroke.

Anyway, I really don't care, she ain't my cup of tea, but she's far from ugly and what do I care... She married to a nigga that's built like me (meaning I can relate to him) so I gotta respect it.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

My husband and i were the odd couple. He wasn't ugly by any means. But his style and way of being were completely and totally different than my own outward style. Many people over the years didn't even beleive we were together because we appeared so different.

I liked it. Because it was different. And people talked about it lol. And even sometimes i'm sure it made people think.

Hell i was talking to this 1 chick today, just a bit ago. And she looked good! Very pretty. But she was iwth this big heffalump. And to make it even better the heffalump cheated on her with another heffalump. SMH

Just goes to show....

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Ya know, Andey, I don't think Tiny is ugly at all.



I'm not one of those colorstruck niggas that think every lightskinned woman gotta be the finest. I think Tiny is cute. And I think she had a stroke or something because one side of her face sags and it wasn't always like that, look at the pic you posted for instance, it's pre-stroke.

Anyway, I really don't care, she ain't my cup of tea, but she's far from ugly and what do I care... She married to a nigga that's built like me (meaning I can relate to him) so I gotta respect it.

I mean I don't think she's all that ugly either but she is by no means a super model chick like you'd expect TI to be with. But they been down since before he was TI so you know how that go.

 

[dHustla]

I mean I don't think she's all that ugly either but she is by no means a super model chick like you'd expect TI to be with. But they been down since before he was TI so you know how that go.

There you go projecting, mayne.

I'm just saying.

 

[DaAssWatcher]

You mean like this?

If you love someone you love them. The only drawback to this could be jealousy.

Of course the less attractive half may be worried about the more attractive half being hit on. TI in this case I guess? No homo (and I never use that shit. )

But I used to work not far from where they stay at and saw Tiny all the time. She get hit on CONSTANTLY! Dudes know that women are always fucking with TI so they come on to her thinking she will be easy cause she will be pissed. Shit work both ways.

That nigga catches Hell for that.

 

[doublejizzle]

You want your mate to be attractive to you, but at the end of the day, looks will fade. The person has to make you happy.