i feel the same way when i see a black woman with a man of another race. like he may think he knows what he has, and he genuinely might not looking to fulfill an exotic fantasy but keeping it real deep down he is and he doesn't even realize what he's got and she doesn't even realize what she's doing. just my immediate thought that i always keep to myself.
Same here bro.

i learned different things at a young age haha like all the countries in africa and their state capitals, before i knew americas

He did too. She's quite an interesting woman now.
well its people seeing what they wanting to see and ignoring their instincts as well. sometimes women well the real seasoned vet gold diggers are sneaky. they refuse all gifts and advances looking for the home run and not the single. the dude thinks to himself damn she wont let me do nothing for her. then after he gets caught in the pussy trap she springs all of everything on him. happens all the time and honestly unless she's asking for shit upfront and expecting shit from the beginning there's really no sure fire way to tell if she's a gold digger or not. this is with women period not just white or black. cause after a certain point if you're really feeling a woman you want to get her nice things and you want to buy her stuff etc etc. so if she waits out long enough and keeps up the pretending she doesn't even have to ever ask. just make you feel her and then let the gifts roll in. now in the man's mind everything is good he got himself a good woman and he's taking care of her and showering her with affection and gifts and in the diggers mind she's thinking jackpot. now this isn't always the case BUT this is how it usually happens to men who don't have their eyes open truly. it comes down to true compatibility. throw the sex out the window do you naturally do things that you like? does she really make you happy? is she really interested in the things she says or is she pretending? is she just putting up with you? is she always saying yes? she never dislikes anything that you guys do like never? she never seems to have her own opinion? if you say you like 1 comedy and hate drama and she agrees. then the next day you say you hate comedy and love drama and she agrees again, how?
just that type of stuff, fucking is fucking but the rest of it is what counts when trying your best to not get a gold digger. me i feel that my chances of NOT landing one are high if i date me a black woman. i feel that the chances of the relationship not lasting because of outside factors are higher if i date a white woman or asian woman because of the extoci factor, the family factor and the used as a tool to rebel factor. nothing worse than being used cause she's mad at her dad and wants to hurt him by dating a "black" while you're out there trying to put your all in to betty sue, or maria, or phung li.
just my thoughts on the stuff