A Lazy Fuck

Oh, well it's the pushing and the excersises that does it usually. Maybe follow is saying something different specifically for her. Not sure but i do know when having children, your pc muscles do get stronger. Alot of stuff changes when you have kids a woman has to be....well i don't want to say HAS TO, can be aware of.
 
MY EX WAS A LAZY FUCK!!!!!!!!!! IF I DIDNT INITIATE SEX...... IT WOULD
NEVER HAPPEN!

My jump off used to do this, if I never initiated we wouldn't have sex, yet she claimed it was always satisfying. Finally got her to speak about this and she said this shit:

"If I'm as sexy and attractive as you claim then I don't see what's the problem with coming to me for sex. I'm spoiled, I'm used to guys getting at me for sex".

Wtf???
 
My jump off used to do this, if I never initiated we wouldn't have sex, yet she claimed it was always satisfying. Finally got her to speak about this and she said this shit:

"If I'm as sexy and attractive as you claim then I don't see what's the problem with coming to me for sex. I'm spoiled, I'm used to guys getting at me for sex".

Wtf???

yeah, some chicks are like that, I'm no doctor but my first thoughts are of maybe she is insecure, fears rejection, always wants to be chased. Or it could be deeper maybe related to other sexual experiences.
 
I'mma be a lazy bgol member and just ask. What is the name of the fetish. Just Curious as I agree with a balanced sex personality, is that a new term?

Somnophilia. You know, what got me thinking that this might be a fetish was another thread on the SOL board that asked whether girls liked it when their guys wake them up for it... I just started Googling and Googling because I felt like I was weird because I liked it- a little too much.

I do believe "balanced sex personality" might be your creation. Kudos- and sorry it took so long for me to post back my thread subscriptions are wacky and I had no clue this thread was still kicking up dust.
 
because my vagina will be a little bigger


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lmao@that thread. I never saw a thread where a dood got amped about a chick not moving during sex lol wow.
 
My jump off used to do this, if I never initiated we wouldn't have sex, yet she claimed it was always satisfying. Finally got her to speak about this and she said this shit:

"If I'm as sexy and attractive as you claim then I don't see what's the problem with coming to me for sex. I'm spoiled, I'm used to guys getting at me for sex".Wtf???

That's the truth right there for most women. I break em. I'll go without if it looks like I have to always initiate. I do not chase pussy. Any woman that's had a relationship or just sex with me, came to me.
I could not have a jump off with her mentality.
 
wow at the ignorance....but anywho....
When I think of a lazy fuck-I think of Crystal Clears big ass...:angry:
I like curvy bbw's! And it pisses me off that she isnt bouncing or throwing her big ass back in her vids!

No more downloading her....

Good day..............................I SAID GOOD DAY!
 
wow at the ignorance....but anywho....
When I think of a lazy fuck-I think of Crystal Clears big ass...:angry:
I like curvy bbw's! And it pisses me off that she isnt bouncing or throwing her big ass back in her vids!

No more downloading her....

Good day..............................I SAID GOOD DAY!

Perfect example. Unfortunately Black porn is littered with lazy chicks and dudes that think they're stars.
 
My jump off used to do this, if I never initiated we wouldn't have sex, yet she claimed it was always satisfying. Finally got her to speak about this and she said this shit:

"If I'm as sexy and attractive as you claim then I don't see what's the problem with coming to me for sex. I'm spoiled, I'm used to guys getting at me for sex".

Wtf???

yeah, some chicks are like that, I'm no doctor but my first thoughts are of maybe she is insecure, fears rejection, always wants to be chased. Or it could be deeper maybe related to other sexual experiences.

^^These (reasons)

OR she has a feeling of superiority and/or entitlement that has her feeling like she don't need a man. A feeling that she's too fine for just any man, and eventually has her looking down her nose at every man.
 
That's the truth right there for most women. I break em. I'll go without if it looks like I have to always initiate. I do not chase pussy. Any woman that's had a relationship or just sex with me, came to me.
I could not have a jump off with her mentality.

I feel you! But hold out for how long?

I think that if I have to hold out for over 2 weeks... it ain't worth me being there. (not the pussy, but the situation ain't worth my time)

Now that I'm thinking about it, I feel like if I have to hold out at all then that means that I want it more than she does, and just maybe she don't want it at all. Either one is cause enough for me to find something else to do with my time & energy.

Maybe I'm just impatient :dunno:
 
wow at the ignorance....but anywho....
When I think of a lazy fuck-I think of Crystal Clears big ass...:angry:
I like curvy bbw's! And it pisses me off that she isnt bouncing or throwing her big ass back in her vids!

No more downloading her....

Good day..............................I SAID GOOD DAY!

What ignorance?

talk about it! TALK ABOUT IT! TALK ABOUT IT!
 
But women ARE superior to men, in the fact that you want US. We are the hunted. We are the chosen. You hunt us. You enter us. You make us submit to your will. That therein lies our power. Our control over you.

Why is this so hard for you all to grasp? We don't have to do anything. You come to us. If you do not want us? There are 15 others just like you who can take your place.
 
I feel you! But hold out for how long?

I think that if I have to hold out for over 2 weeks... it ain't worth me being there. (not the pussy, but the situation ain't worth my time)

Now that I'm thinking about it, I feel like if I have to hold out at all then that means that I want it more than she does, and just maybe she don't want it at all. Either one is cause enough for me to find something else to do with my time & energy.

Maybe I'm just impatient :dunno:


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When I'm in "Proving a Point" mode, I can hold out a long time. I was a virgin for the first 17 yrs of my life, I'm pretty sure I can do it however long it takes.


Fortunately, I've never had to do that for longer than a week or so. Never really had to test my stamina like that for too long.
 
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When I'm in "Proving a Point" mode, I can hold out a long time. I was a virgin for the first 17 yrs of my life, I'm pretty sure I can do it however long it takes.


Fortunately, I've never had to do that for longer than a week or so. Never really had to test my stamina like that for too long.

Ok, I gotcha.

But you see where I'm coming from? If there's a point to be proven...then it may not be a point worth proving.

I'll just take my dick & balls somewhere they're appreciated :angry:
 
But women ARE superior to men, in the fact that you want US. We are the hunted. We are the chosen. You hunt us. You enter us. You make us submit to your will. That therein lies our power. Our control over you.

Why is this so hard for you all to grasp? We don't have to do anything. You come to us. If you do not want us? There are 15 others just like you who can take your place.

And that's the idea I demolish with every woman I have even a slight interest in.
The way I see it
How is your pussy more powerful or precious than my dick? I'm no more disposable than you are. If you don't want to act right, there are other women who are dying to take your spot. I'm cute. I'm smart. I'm funny. I'm not a predator like a lot of dudes(most probably) so women find me intriguing and attractive. I don't hunt anybody (not just because I'm married, I wasn't a hunter before). So if a woman wants my attention and wants to keep it, she's not going to get it doing nothing, 'cause I'll just keep it moving.
When I try to spread my philosophy to other dudes, I get this :confused:.
 
But women ARE superior to men, in the fact that you want US. We are the hunted. We are the chosen. You hunt us. You enter us. You make us submit to your will. That therein lies our power. Our control over you.

Why is this so hard for you all to grasp? We don't have to do anything. You come to us. If you do not want us? There are 15 others just like you who can take your place.

:smh: where do I start? :smh:


*throws up hands, turns around, and walks out thread*
 
Ok, I gotcha.

But you see where I'm coming from? If there's a point to be proven...then it may not be a point worth proving.

I'll just take my dick & balls somewhere they're appreciated :angry:

I do but sometimes you gotta make a stand and take the power back in a relationship. In casual joints, I'm just like you because then it came more trouble than it was worth.
 
And that's the idea I demolish with every woman I have even a slight interest in.
The way I see it
How is your pussy more powerful or precious than my dick? I'm no more disposable than you are. If you don't want to act right, there are other women who are dying to take your spot. I'm cute. I'm smart. I'm funny. I'm not a predator like a lot of dudes(most probably) so women find me intriguing and attractive. I don't hunt anybody (not just because I'm married, I wasn't a hunter before). So if a woman wants my attention and wants to keep it, she's not going to get it doing nothing, 'cause I'll just keep it moving.
When I try to spread my philosophy to other dudes, I get this :confused:.

CHUUCH!!


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*taking notes vehemently*
 
And that's the idea I demolish with every woman I have even a slight interest in.
The way I see it
How is your pussy more powerful or precious than my dick? I'm no more disposable than you are. If you don't want to act right, there are other women who are dying to take your spot. I'm cute. I'm smart. I'm funny. I'm not a predator like a lot of dudes(most probably) so women find me intriguing and attractive. I don't hunt anybody (not just because I'm married, I wasn't a hunter before). So if a woman wants my attention and wants to keep it, she's not going to get it doing nothing, 'cause I'll just keep it moving.
When I try to spread my philosophy to other dudes, I get this :confused:.

My husband didn't go after women. Not directly. He got women by being his regular nonchalant no big deal. I'm not interested in you physically self. And then when i presented to him that he COULD get it. He took it. And took it for 20 years. He asserted his dominance, just because you're not actively like alot of guys hunting? Doesn't mean you're not a hunter. He was just a different type of hunter.

It went that way with pretty much every woman we were with.

I surmise guys look at you like that because you're trying to tell them to go against their genetic coding lol.
 
My husband didn't go after women. Not directly. He got women by being his regular nonchalant no big deal. I'm not interested in you physically self. And then when i presented to him that he COULD get it. He took it. And took it for 20 years. He asserted his dominance, just because you're not actively like alot of guys hunting? Doesn't mean you're not a hunter. He was just a different type of hunter.

It went that way with pretty much every woman we were with.

I surmise guys look at you like that because you're trying to tell them to go against their genetic coding lol.

That's probably exactly it. I tell them to look at my results and look at their's and tell me which way is working.

I can agree with you on me being a different type of hunter. That works.
 
That's probably exactly it. I tell them to look at my results and look at their's and tell me which way is working.

I can agree with you on me being a different type of hunter. That works.

Wifey hit me with this idea too. Just like there are different types of hunters. There are different types of game as well. You may not be hunting for what the others are hunting for. Your results with the game you're going for aiming at. Won't be the same for a pygmy with his little tiny bow and arrow hunting wild boar. You may not could get that boar whereas the pygmy guy can. Different approaches.

Thinking back, hubby would never think of speaking or even allowing himself to be spoken too by certain women. Often times the look of disdain on his face when a woman approached him was probably enough for her to get the message that they were not compatible.

So "sitting back in the cut", may not work for certain women either. It's an interesting perspective when i've thought about it. Is it because you really don't care? Or is even THAT a cover to protect yourself from rejection?
 
Wifey hit me with this idea too. Just like there are different types of hunters. There are different types of game as well. You may not be hunting for what the others are hunting for. Your results with the game you're going for aiming at. Won't be the same for a pygmy with his little tiny bow and arrow hunting wild boar. You may not could get that boar whereas the pygmy guy can. Different approaches.

Thinking back, hubby would never think of speaking or even allowing himself to be spoken too by certain women. Often times the look of disdain on his face when a woman approached him was probably enough for her to get the message that they were not compatible.

So "sitting back in the cut", may not work for certain women either. It's an interesting perspective when i've thought about it. Is it because you really don't care? Or is even THAT a cover to protect yourself from rejection?


You made me think about it. It's just my nature. I just wasn't the chasing type. I guess coming up through junior high and high school, I seemed more successful letting the girls come to me than when I went after them, so I went with what worked.

Now that I think about it further, I remember girls approaching me, either themselves or through intermediaries, then when I went after me, got all distant and nothing would come of it. But the girls I let chase me instead of the other way around, went out of their way to get and keep my attention.
 
You made me think about it. It's just my nature. I just wasn't the chasing type. I guess coming up through junior high and high school, I seemed more successful letting the girls come to me than when I went after them, so I went with what worked.

Now that I think about it further, I remember girls approaching me, either themselves or through intermediaries, then when I went after me, got all distant and nothing would come of it. But the girls I let chase me instead of the other way around, went out of their way to get and keep my attention.

I hope you enjoyed your status, lol. Don't go reminiscing with your wife about all these exploits of yours. And what a good trap hunter you were. She may not like it.
 
That makes sense.I watched it, but I think maybe my volume was too low for the dance comment.

The girl was in an altered state- not sure how active she could have been even if she wanted to be.

I like the way that you extrapolated sweet from ticklish & immobile.

I'd take a guess that you like running the show in the bedroom.

I do but honestly women who have taken control and dominated have been more successful in keeping my interest and attention beyond the bedroom.

Its all mental anyway...

Ive been with girls who have been able to control WHEN I came by using their vaginial muscles

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so I guess I maybe giving this chick too much credit cause she got a hot body :D
 
Followup- I see why you are trying to get to the heart of the matter.

My initial post was more about the preference for putting it on some one (fucker-aggressive) or having it put on you (fuckee-passive).

Us ladies can put it on our man by, riding, throwing it back, & constantly moving.
Just like we prefer certain characteristics in the personality of our mate- a passive person vs. an aggressive person, I think it's the same for our "fuck personalities".

There are some men that'll want their girl to ride them, and that's sex for them. Other women who will just open up and prepare for whatever their partner unleashes on them. These types have passive "fuck personalities".

It seems that most people on the board have fairly balanced "fuck personalities".

Like I said before - a glove for every hand.

:yes:
agreed
 
I see. I prefer to be worked all around the bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, etc. I'm not on top too much, but I mostly put my hands and mouth to work while I'm being sexed. We both love getting oral sex too and I win every time LOL.

Oh, I see. :yes: I think I'll be better on top after I have a child

I'm kind of curious, what do you mean by win? :dunno:
 
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