[hide]I couldn't help but notice there are a lot of comments about what i've achieved collegiately. Now i would go head and answer the question for ya'll but ya'll seem to have all the information you need to come to a "factual" conclusion. So you dont seem like you need my help. But i will say this: i think in life it's wiser to research and get your facts maybe by asking questions before you make an assumption about anything because if you happen to be wrong well you just look like an idoiot. Now i'm not callin you an idiot but i'm jus sayin.
On another note i'ma switch up my format for this topic i've acknowledge i can be hard to understand sometimes (sometimes i know what was assumed about me that throws the person off so i can back track), but ima try to break it down a lil different today. Which isn't fun because i'm not a concrete thinker. I'm a abstract thinker. And if someone doesn't realize what i'm trying to abstract then they wont understand that part of me.[/hide]
To some i may be preaching to the choir but trust and believe most of ya'll went through this phase if ya'll not going through it now.
On another note i'ma switch up my format for this topic i've acknowledge i can be hard to understand sometimes (sometimes i know what was assumed about me that throws the person off so i can back track), but ima try to break it down a lil different today. Which isn't fun because i'm not a concrete thinker. I'm a abstract thinker. And if someone doesn't realize what i'm trying to abstract then they wont understand that part of me.[/hide]
To some i may be preaching to the choir but trust and believe most of ya'll went through this phase if ya'll not going through it now.
Was texting with one of my female friends qnd she meet a guy she actually liked. Then wanted to explore a relationship with him. And to make a long story short, she hasn't had sex with him but she allowed him to give her tha oral treatment.
And what's transitioned after the fact is that he contacts her in a way that can be percieved as just sexual. When i say that i mean late at night he just want to see her at a time when the only thing that can eventually pop off is the grown folks business.
And i was going to respond to her but this is something i've known about for a long time and i felt it'd be better if i share it with the masses while i'm bored here at work doing an 8 hour shift.
Ok now that you understand the scenario lets back track a lil bit. When a man meets you his number one desire is to sleep with you. He/we approached you off of the physical attraction we have to you. Now unless he meet you at school, work, or somewhere he has a chance to get to konw you on a morer personal level- 9/10 the intial attraction is physical, which means sexual.
With that being said now and depeding where you're at in your life, if you're a woman out looking for some dick, then that's fine that's one thing. But if you're looking for more then you shouldn't let him eat you out. The problem is that she's actually interested in him. And she wants him to be interested in her but her actions went against the nature of men. Opening your legs is opening your legs regardless if we penetrate or not. That's not really the battle. Our goal is to get as close to your heaven as humanly possible. If that means getting a finger in it or just grazing over it- every step we take to getting closer is a win in our check book if he keeps a check boo (ya'll dont need to know about the check book).
If he has any access to your pussy then you attribute to clouding his vision. Not many men can think independently with both heads.
Where i think this female was mislead was that they felt that just because they didn't go all the way they feel like they showed some kind of rerstraint.
Now for those that feel like that was restraint then technically you should be agree with the philosphy that hilliary shouldn't be too mad at bill because technically speaking he showed restraint. And deserves a pat on the back at minimum.
Getting your pussy ate is not restraint. It's selfish and it's about you. Now aint nothing wrong with being selfish i aint knockin that, dont get that twisted. Because i have been known to be selfish a time or two in my life. But the problem is that you get up the next day and want respect. It dont work like tha.
And what's transitioned after the fact is that he contacts her in a way that can be percieved as just sexual. When i say that i mean late at night he just want to see her at a time when the only thing that can eventually pop off is the grown folks business.
And i was going to respond to her but this is something i've known about for a long time and i felt it'd be better if i share it with the masses while i'm bored here at work doing an 8 hour shift.
Ok now that you understand the scenario lets back track a lil bit. When a man meets you his number one desire is to sleep with you. He/we approached you off of the physical attraction we have to you. Now unless he meet you at school, work, or somewhere he has a chance to get to konw you on a morer personal level- 9/10 the intial attraction is physical, which means sexual.
With that being said now and depeding where you're at in your life, if you're a woman out looking for some dick, then that's fine that's one thing. But if you're looking for more then you shouldn't let him eat you out. The problem is that she's actually interested in him. And she wants him to be interested in her but her actions went against the nature of men. Opening your legs is opening your legs regardless if we penetrate or not. That's not really the battle. Our goal is to get as close to your heaven as humanly possible. If that means getting a finger in it or just grazing over it- every step we take to getting closer is a win in our check book if he keeps a check boo (ya'll dont need to know about the check book).
If he has any access to your pussy then you attribute to clouding his vision. Not many men can think independently with both heads.
Where i think this female was mislead was that they felt that just because they didn't go all the way they feel like they showed some kind of rerstraint.
Now for those that feel like that was restraint then technically you should be agree with the philosphy that hilliary shouldn't be too mad at bill because technically speaking he showed restraint. And deserves a pat on the back at minimum.
Getting your pussy ate is not restraint. It's selfish and it's about you. Now aint nothing wrong with being selfish i aint knockin that, dont get that twisted. Because i have been known to be selfish a time or two in my life. But the problem is that you get up the next day and want respect. It dont work like tha.
