Was just listening to this chick basically brag about how she turned me down (she didn't know I could hear her). I'm sittin there like half flattered and half confused. Sayin shit like 'just cuz you got a car don't mean I want yo ass' to her girl on the phone. (She was at the bus). It reminded me how some women reject me for the fun of it and a thought crossed my mind 'is the fun in the rejecting or bragging to your girl how you rejected him'. Not important for me to know but I'd like to know.
Women, do you really want to hear about how ur girl turn down men
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No, that is chlidish. And are you the big guy in your youtube video in your sig?
Muah*
But what fun is it for a woman hearing about how her gurl rejected guys
it gives them a false sense of accomplishment. Usually it's something wrong with herself that she can't or won't want to change, so she rejects men who approach her so she can make a half ditch effort to feel good about herself.
Dude, one chick turned you down.
So what.
I don't care if you have been shot down by 50.
There are more than 3 billion more women on the face of the earth.
You will find a chick that you like and that likes you.
Think about it this way.
You only have to win the Power Ball lottery one time to be set for life.
Once you hit, you won't be worrying about all the times you didn't win.
Life is a game to be played responsibly.
Never fixate on some random chick that ain't checking for you.
So what.
I don't care if you have been shot down by 50.
There are more than 3 billion more women on the face of the earth.
You will find a chick that you like and that likes you.
Think about it this way.
You only have to win the Power Ball lottery one time to be set for life.
Once you hit, you won't be worrying about all the times you didn't win.
Life is a game to be played responsibly.
Never fixate on some random chick that ain't checking for you.
I still want to know if he's the big fella rapping in his youtube sig.
Save your encouragement for someone that is complaining. I wasn't even venting g-dog.
You just keep pushin don't you...
I'm just asking! lol You ask a question, i'm asking a question. it's not a bad thing hun. It's a yes or no. If it is, i'll be like "oh, that's why he's always got that guy in his sig. And ha ha i like the weed song. And he's a big boy maybe that's why the girl was rude to him. Heffas." if it's not? I'm wondering why you keep that guy in your sig? I think that's a little strange. And who is he? lol
I think it has more to do with the OP
It's been known.
You're welcome.
He still didn't answer me though. But that's understandable.
He still didn't answer me though. But that's understandable.
Other then the fact I make a lot of them about the same topic I don't see why not. Contrary to what one might like to think this isn't a bait thread to open up for female bashing. It's a 'honest' question. Just expecting a answer that will confirm something else.
Say it, I know you wanna say it and will probably eventually say it somewhere else in another thread so go ahead and say it now. You could be right for the wrong reasons or just wrong.
Going by what i see right now, and i've only been looking for a few months. Every thread you make tends to lean toward a "women=bad" direction. Just from what i've seen. You may say it's not meant to be a women bashing thread. But the honest part of it is? Whenever i see your name i think, 'ha...i wonder what he's on to us about NOW.'
I read them because....i'm goofy like that. But everytime i see your name i make the pre judgment that you're going to bash black women in some kind of way. And in my view? Your posts can be kind of convoluted sometimes. They don't make sense what you're trying to say. Sometimes.
Fair enough. But you can't sit up here wit a straight face and say I said that all black women are anything. You might have seen me copy and paste something that someone else said bad about black women and put the lil quotes around it but that's about it. Let's be honest, if I made a thread about how wonderful black women are and how great black women can be it wouldn't go any fucking where. Controversy is what gets emotional responses. Acknowledging black women's strengths will turn into a women bashing thing anyways so why not start out wit bait? I have made posts on sol and bgol about good black women and the things I love and understand about them...it wasn't well received. On sol I think one gets bumped every now and again but that shit is stale.
It's an ego thing, alot of times these are the same females who end up complaining about noone wanting them. She is miserable with herself, and it will come back to bite her in the ass. One day she is going to like someone alot and he will reject her ass the same way. It's one female, keep it moving and fuck that bitch.
It's an ego thing, alot of times these are the same females who end up complaining about noone wanting them. She is miserable with herself, and it will come back to bite her in the ass. One day she is going to like someone alot and he will reject her ass the same way. It's one female, keep it moving and fuck that bitch.
Let me be brutally honest and flat out ask it the way I should have asked it. Women are some of yall lives so boring that you find entertainment in talking about guys you reject and hearing about how your girl rejected guys entertaining? I'm basically asking that not 'why do ya'll do it'. I know why ya'll do it but I seriously can't imagine my life being so boring that I'd want to hear about how mike jones dogged out some hoes. I could understand why mike jones would do it (don't agree just understand)because it gives him a sense of self worth but why would I or someone else want to hear it? I mean it doesn't boost my ego hearing what other people do. I jus want to know do some of ya'll like hearing it from your girlfriends? I mean do yall brag to your girlfriend because you know she wants to hear it?
I had to think and you know what? It's not a brag when i do it so much as a, "Girl can you believe it? How funny is that." I would never do it in front of your face. And it would really depend on exactly HOW it was done. here in Dallas these youngins do this thing where they say, "Say" alot. I'm not EVER dressed in a fashion that should appeal to these young fellas. But without fail. IN a certain area of town. I will get approached by a guy saying, "say....Say....Say lil mama....SAY...." I acknowledge and go through the rigmarole of being approached by this guy and in hopes he won't shoot me for turning him down.
And then now that i think about if it pops into my head? I will mention it to my girl. And i had to remember this time where my gf corrected this young fella for how he approached her. He knew he was wrong and he shaped up. He was embarrassed.
I don't think it's ever ok to just diss a guy in public in an embarrassing sort of way. That's kind of unneccasary and i don't believe a real woman would even go that route. Nor should she.
And then now that i think about if it pops into my head? I will mention it to my girl. And i had to remember this time where my gf corrected this young fella for how he approached her. He knew he was wrong and he shaped up. He was embarrassed.
I don't think it's ever ok to just diss a guy in public in an embarrassing sort of way. That's kind of unneccasary and i don't believe a real woman would even go that route. Nor should she.
I've seen women brag about less. I don't know anyone personally that has done this but I know women can be shallow like that. Especially if they are in that group mentality...one got to prove she can pull more dick than the next girl.
LI has me intrigued though...is that you in the video?
He won't answer which...kinda is an answer. But then it's a cop out type of thing for later so he can say, "i never said that". I use that tactic myself. lol
