From the website realassanova.com
YOU JUST DONT GET IT...
I read one of the comments on my post about women not being equals, and it is clear to me that there might still be a few of you that just don't get it, so I'm going to write this follow-up post. I wouldn't write a post like that unless I had the research and personal experience to back it up.
So let's think about how most people think women should be treated. Most people think that women should be treated nicely, as equals or above men and whatnot. And that's the core issue, treating women as equals or above men is clearly something that they LEARN they should want. It doesn't mean that it is something that they innately want. They only want it because they are told that they want it by society.
Now let's think about what is innate in women; something that they are born to be attracted to: dominance aka power. It doesn't matter if that power is good or bad, as long as it is power. This is precisely why women say that they don't want assholes or dominant men, but they clearly fall for them almost each and every single time. Society tells them that they shouldn't want these men that treat them as if they are lower than them (the guy in question), but they always end up sleeping with these men.
Women are constantly in a state of conflict, trying to decide if they want what society tells them that they should want (equality or to be put on pedestals) or if they want what their instincts tell them to want.* This is precisely why women will outwardly express their disgust for men who act as if women are lower than them, but inwardly be drawn to these men, and eventually fall for them.
Whoever wrote the comment about a dominant man being weak is just another attempt by society to paint dominant men in a bad light. I am a dominant man, and I only care about what is in my best interests. It has nothing to do with being weak or trying to compensate for something. I want what I want, and I have little regard for how I go about getting it.
Women are attracted to dominant men because their instincts tell them to be. Instincts don't care whether the guy is abusive of not. Instincts only care what is best for a woman's offspring, and that is a man with power. So what if the man is abusive (or one of the other bad labels that are associated with dominant men) or not? Instincts only recognize power, regardless of what form it comes in. His clear show of dominance over women is also a show of dominance over many men, which guarantees her offspring lots of resources and the best chance of survival.
I use to think the same way one of the commenters think. I went my whole life trying to go by society's rules and by what women said that they wanted. I'm going to tell you a little story about how and why I transformed into the dominant guy I am today. I am the way that I am because women kept rewarding me for my dominant behaviors. I don't remember too many times when I was actually punished for my behavior. Sometimes scolded? Yes, but always rewarded in the long run.
You guys already know how I said that it use to be difficult for me to get blowjobs during sex because I always asked for them. One day I said screw it, and simply started telling women to do it. I have yet to have a woman tell me "no" since. I use to ask women for sex or if they wanted it. I also use to be timid when asking. Half of the time, I wouldn't get it. I now simply tell women what to do when it comes to sex (or I just do it for them), whether it's to sit next to me, take off an article of clothing, kiss me, etc. VERY few times have I been rejected or had a woman object to doing what I want.
I once came all over a girl's face. She didn't like it, but afterwards she was all smiles. I use to try to make women happy in relationships, and it rarely worked. Now I just do whatever I want, and the women might initially get mad, but they always stick around or come back to me. I cheated on Appleface twice within 24 hours, practically humiliating her with her friends. She was furious, but all these years later, guess who is the guy she keeps coming back to and cheating on her boyfriends with. Me.
Freckles hated everything about me. She didn't like the blog, she hated that I wrote about her, and she hated that I felt no need to be nice to anyone I didn't know. What did she do? She invited me in her room and she made-out with me. Take a guess as to when she finally left the picture. She left once I started doing what she wanted me to do. All of those girls that hated me and said that they'd never sleep with me? Sooner or later, they all ended up in my bed or said that they would date me.
With one girl, I flat out humiliated her, and never did anything she wanted me to do. She tried breaking up with me, and guess what happened. She left me a long voicemail saying that she would get rid of her lifelong friends and didn't care that I was dating two other women. She just wanted to be my girlfriend again. When did she finally leave the picture? When I finally tried being nice to her. With another girl, she thought I was so nice, yet when I took her out, I completely ignored her, and wrote another girl's number on my arm where she could clearly see it. And guess what she did. She ended up letting me fuck her brains out that very same night.
Cornfed once called me to tell me that her grandfather died. What did I say to her? "Don't call me unless you want to fuck.". What did she do? Disappear for awhile, but guess what? She ended up coming back to me and fucking me some more. There was another girl that wasn't into threesomes and stopped me when I was with her friend and tried to be smooth about it. Later, I simply told her that I wanted to date her and another girl at the same time. Did she try to stop me this time? Nope. She just went with it.
I could go on and on with these examples, and I'm not even going to get started with the Mode One stories. Women absolutely love dominant men, whether they want to admit it or not. And keep in mind that I'm not usually mean, but I just wanted to use those most extreme examples to get my point across (and most of these stories, you can read about right here on the blog). If this doesn't get you to just see things as they are, without letting your feelings and what society thinks cloud your vision, then I don't know what will.
If you were a smart man, you'd be nice to women in front of other people (or be subtle with your dominating behaviors), thus appearing to be playing by society's rules, but be very dominating to women when no one else is around. That is the perfect formula for attraction, and women won't be able to be anything other than crazily attracted to such men.
*two cents*
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