Is Your Current Boyfriend Or Girlfriend The Best You Ever Had??(Sexually)
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Uhm... I still think about the great ones from time to time. I don't have a current, but when I'm with someone that has a lackluster performance I tend to think about the great ones of the past.
No matter how much the great ones may have done me wrong or not been worth my time, I still think about maybe contacting them/her because the sex was great.
This is especially true when I'm dealing with someone that I feel isn't doing her best or isn't applying herself.
Uhm... I still think about the great ones from time to time. I don't have a current, but when I'm with someone that has a lackluster performance I tend to think about the great ones of the past.
No matter how much the great ones may have done me wrong or not been worth my time, I still think about maybe contacting them/her because the sex was great.
This is especially true when I'm dealing with someone that I feel isn't doing her best or isn't applying herself.
On another note, I seem to be the man that is always the best they ever had.
I'm not boasting, I promise, these are their words.
I told my buddy this and the said that "chicks lie, man", but that puzzled me even more. They don't have no reason to lie, especially after the fact when we've both moved on and run into each other years later.
I've had 4 out of the last 7 tell me that I was/am the best they ever had.... the other 3 weren't around long anyway.
Anyway, I always try my best, that's why I feel like I'm being done an big injustice to be dealing with somebody that ain't on my level, so to speak.
I'm not boasting, I promise, these are their words.
I told my buddy this and the said that "chicks lie, man", but that puzzled me even more. They don't have no reason to lie, especially after the fact when we've both moved on and run into each other years later.
I've had 4 out of the last 7 tell me that I was/am the best they ever had.... the other 3 weren't around long anyway.
Anyway, I always try my best, that's why I feel like I'm being done an big injustice to be dealing with somebody that ain't on my level, so to speak.
But the point that that stops being the main WOW factor in your relationship wears off after a few months
.That's not a bad thing though because only then can you really be objective about where you might be headed with a person. Sex makes you (or me anyway) cloudy as hell with the rational thinking sometimes. I suck at objectivity when dick is exceptional. No, I don't really think too much about other men from the past. If my man was subpar in any sexual area (and he aint!
), I probably would. Bad sex is like the hole in the dam of a relationship. You can pretend it's not there but eventually you have a serious problem if it's not dealt with.
But the point that that stops being the main WOW factor in your relationship wears off after a few months
No, I don't really think too much about other men from the past. If my man was subpar in any sexual area (and he aint!
nooooo not you Izzy.....
I love her to death but shes probably among the worst whe it comes to sex
that must be weird!!
but isnt it usaully the women with the best sex are the ones you care about the least!!
that must be weird!!
but isnt it usaully the women with the best sex are the ones you care about the least!!
Deservingly so in my case(s).
I've had some of the BEST sex with the WORSEST of bitches.
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^^^ Damn "worsest"? ... that's really bad lol
makes you wonder tho..sidechicks always keep it fun and exciting but if you were ever to make one your main chick that would get boring too!!
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Yep. Fourteen years in and we keep reaching for new heights.
nooooo not you Izzy.....
Yeah, I was surprised to see that too LS... but I guess it just goes to show that no matter how bright or intelligent someone is, amazing sex can cloud their judgment. No disrespect Izzy... you were just a great example.
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makes you wonder tho..sidechicks always keep it fun and exciting but if you were ever to make one your main chick that would get boring too!!
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Not true, the main chick is mentally stable, we never fight, argue, bicker etc... We just get along really well. Bottom a boring fuck. Sidec hicks are nuts at times and I can only deal with them in short spurts of a few hours, then I send them home.
so yeah, ladies...speak on it.
No disrespect Izzy... you were just a great example.
None taken because I'm guilty as charged.
The emotional is never rationale and nothing makes a woman more emotional than getting hit with the oooooo weee! Lucky for me though, I've learned to take a step back and my man is just all around a very kind and good person...with exceptional penis. BUT the kind and good part is the best part
.Hi LS!
She not "trainable"?I don't know sir, I've been there and you know as much as I cared for that particular ex, it just didn't work. Have yall considered sex therapy (not like those strippers and shit on the back of Craigslist) but a real therapist?
Husband was the best. gf is not the best but she's the most loving and comforting.
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I swear I read that back 8 times before I had to convince myself to accept the fact that you didn't type "I suck the dick objectively, exceptionally"
But the point that that stops being the main WOW factor in your relationship wears off after a few months
No, I don't really think too much about other men from the past. If my man was subpar in any sexual area (and he aint!
Me too. I was like ...
I swear I read that back 8 times before I had to convince myself to accept the fact that you didn't type "I suck the dick objectively, exceptionally"
Subjectively, I do suck dick exceptionally.
I know right! Each time I read that it got progressively more interesting and my mind started to wonder to what ever freak shit possibilities she was alluding to. I'm confused and yet I'm not. I don't know.
I know right! Each time I read that it got progressively more interesting and my mind started to wonder to what ever freak shit possibilities she was alluding to. I'm confused and yet I'm not. I don't know.
Same here... she know what she doing.
My husband was the best lover i ever had. My current wifey is not the best. But she's the most loving. Tender. comforting. She's a really good woman for me to be with right now. But sexually she's not that thrilling. At least not to me.
Since i was 13. Discovered it all on my own. Just 2 girls having a sleep over. Playing truth or dare with each other.
well ... so....like...uhm..I ...Subjectively, I do suck dick exceptionally.
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I don't know sir, I've been there and you know as much as I cared for that particular ex, it just didn't work. Have yall considered sex therapy (not like those strippers and shit on the back of Craigslist) but a real therapist?
That's a good question. Do you tell her what you want? You can't expect her to read your mind. Some people aren't the most perceptive lovers so they need extra instruction. Hell, even the best need to be coached a little to a particular person's needs. What used to blow off the last person's head might not work for a new partner.
Tell her what you want. Now if she refuses, cut her loose. All that other stuff would make her a great friend but not being willing to improve your sex life is a deal breaker.
How did your husband feel about this?
How do/did you convey this to your partner or a new person you were dealing with?
I'm asking because there was a period for me that seemed like every female I messed with was "greedy", so to speak. And this wasn't something I was looking for, hell, I didn't even know they liked girls until a few months in. I think only one let me know after a couple weeks, and another said it could be possible.
I told him during our very first phone conversation. Which lasted 30 hours. His sister was bi. A few of his cousins were bi. So it didn't "bother" him at all. My husband was real different kind of cat. Things that meant a great deal to most men, didn't mean crap to him.
I understand, I'm the same way. It didn't bother me at all and I wondered why they, the women I was dealing with, felt the need to hold something like that back, as if they were ashamed of being themselves.
When you were married, did y'all.... "explore", or maybe a better word would be "practice" uhm, messing with women?
Are you correcting my grammar or asking a question? Help me out.
It's a Florida idiosyncrasy, as if to say "ain't it, though". Floridians' accent or drawl makes it sound like "ain't a".
Nevertheless, I concur.
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