Alpha female got me by the balls, a little help please.

[wetwork]

Ladies,
A few months ago, I met this female in an online class. We started doing projects together and as time went by, I started feeling attracted to her.We met in real life, dated a few times (dinner,sporting events, etc, a few hugs but no sex), even got introduced to her mother and some other family members. Anyway, I went out of my way to impress her, but nothing was working. I recently found out she considers herself an alpha female, so I've being doing research on dealing with alpha females.I've been hung up on this woman for nearly two years and think she is the one. Any advice on dealing with an alpha female? I have some more back story for those interested in hearing it, if it will help.

 

[bootlegga]

Any advice on dealing with an alpha female? I have some more back story for those interested in hearing it, if it will help.

leave?

 

[actinanass]

Really dude?

Do you consider yourself an alpha male? If so, then perhaps she's not the "one" after all.

Smart thing to do is to back off her for a bit. Get busy doing something productive *like growing some nuts...I'm just saying*, if she pursues, then it might be that she likes to be the dominate figure. If that's what you want, then go for it. If not, move around to someone that fits your liking....

 

[DeSiRe]

u didnt give much info and i dont really understand what u are asking

are u an alpha male?

either shes gonna want a man she can walk over...or a man that is more of an alpha than she is

personally ive been called an alpha female and i cant stand a submissive man...but everyone isnt like me...so

 

[actinanass]

u didnt give much info and i dont really understand what u are asking

are u an alpha male?

either shes gonna want a man she can walk over...or a man that is more of an alpha than she is

personally ive been called an alpha female and i cant stand a submissive man...but everyone isnt like me...so

you an alpha female?

Now desire, would you consider me an alpha male?

 

[wetwork]

Liked the nuts comment. I got nuts, trust me, but there is something about this girl. Thanks for the input though.

 

[DeSiRe]

you an alpha female?

Now desire, would you consider me an alpha male?

why u questioning me

 

[wetwork]

Actually, I wasnt up on the whole alpha. beta, gamma personality bit. As for walking away, I've tried to walk away from her(not call or txt), but to be honest, other women I met just aint her. Most of the women I've met arent as smart as the hair on this girls pussy.

 

[actinanass]

why u questioning me

i mean this thread needs to take another life as its own because the OP has to figure out if he wants to get walked on or not....

So answer my question WOMAN!!!!

 

[actinanass]

Actually, I wasnt up on the whole alpha. beta, gamma personality bit. As for walking away, I've tried to walk away from her(not call or txt), but to be honest, other women I met just aint her. Most of the women I've met arent as smart as the hair on this girls pussy.

how long did you walk away?

Remember, there's always someone better.... If you are content on being with this girl, then by all means be with her *if she wants you of course*. Has she said she wanted to be with you?

 

[wetwork]

No actually she's said she doesnt, but we still communicate and I've met her in 3 different cities since she said that. Matter of fact, she came into town a couple of months ago and saw me every day for nearly a week. We were actually having a good time then we argued and the time never seemed right after that to make a move.

 

[onyxfemme]

I hate actually saying I am an alpha female but I am...My man is definitley and alpha male....
If you want her....DONT SWEAT HER......Distance yourself and make her believe you are not interested anymore.

 

[actinanass]

No actually she's said she doesnt, but we still communicate and I've met her in 3 different cities since she said that. Matter of fact, she came into town a couple of months ago and saw me every day for nearly a week. We were actually having a good time then we argued and the time never seemed right after that to make a move.

if she don't want you then case fucking close..

Go GPS your nuts nigga!

 

[DeSiRe]

i mean this thread needs to take another life as its own because the OP has to figure out if he wants to get walked on or not....

So answer my question WOMAN!!!!

u asking questions u already know the answer to!!

 

[actinanass]

u asking questions u already know the answer to!!

I just wanna know again.....

 

[Mo-Better]

If you can't handle a strong woman (it seems you have doubts) she's not the one for you. Move on.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Man *sucks teeth* find a woman that actually wants you....the girl does NOT want you. Deal with it. 2years??? you gotta be kidding me.

I hope you find that "one" you yearning for though

 

[doggish_098]

a few months ago i met this woman.... i've been hung up on this chick for 2 years...


ummmmmm the time line is not adding up

 

[deputy dawg]

 

[Crown&Coke]

She dont want you if you been chasing her for 2 years. ​

 

[Chicutie]

a few months ago i met this woman.... i've been hung up on this chick for 2 years...


ummmmmm the time line is not adding up

That's the same thing I was thinking

 

[wetwork]

We started taking classes together in Fall 08. I met her in person in April of 09 and saw her 5 times since then in various cities. Anyway, we argued over that alpha male/female things and she told me to fuck off so this time I wil for good. Thanks to everyone for their comments. Funny thing, I have a couple other female friends who say if u treat a black woman too kindly she will walk all over you. Any thoughts?

 

[melonpecan]

Hmm...

It pays for a woman to know when to be dominant and when to be submissive in a relationship. The same thing goes for men. If she wants to be the dominant one let her take the lead. But don't be a pussy.

Now there are times when you need to be dominate; don't wait for her to do so. And don't think that just because you don't call or text for about a week and she don't call she not interested; it can be the complete opposite. She sound like she is very 'state it like it is'. If you want to see where this goes, ride it out. But if you feel very strongly that there is something different about this girl I think the two of you need to have a deep conversation. You might get a soft side out of her that you never expected.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I think that you like her ... but she's not interested in you the way you're interested in her. If there was genuine interest, you would have seen her more than 5 times after you initial meeting. yes, she may think you're cool and ok for a good time... but probably not a relationship, which it sounds like you're into.