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Anthony-Cruz

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So about 2 weeks ago, I got into contact with an old friend from middle school about 10 years ago. Over those years, she got fine as hell :eek: so I'm thinking damn, lets see what's up with her. We got to talking mostly over Blackberry Messenger :yes: the first week or so and she was really cool. She was talking about how I always used to clown and tease her in middle school and how much of an asshole I was :lol: but it was cool.

Eventually, we took it to the phone and we'd talk late into the night. I usually just like getting at bitches on BBM but she was really cool, so I didn't mind. She's a really smart girl, 2 degrees, she knows how to hold a convo. So during these phone conversations, she'd talk about the guys she used to deal with in the past and how they all kind of played her. They would just be nice at first, try to smash and keep it moving or just try to put her on the team. None of them wanted to make it official with her. I'd tell her, that's your own fault for letting those guys do you like that and not holding yourself to a higher regard. She didn't really disagree but said she was done with that and now wanted more, especially after talking to me and seeing the level I;m on.

Really, I just had it in my mind to smash and keep it moving but talking to her more and more, I started feeling her and last night she came over. Before she even came over, she had said that she really liked me and was feeling like she wanted to be with me even though it was so soon. I wasn't trying to go there yet but I didn't mind taking my time and seeing where it went.

So while she was here last night, we really kicked it off and I ended up hitting. Usually after I smash, I'll go play PS3 and kind of wait for the girl to get the picture and get ready to go and I was feeling to do that but she was like "hold me" so I did and it was whatever. We were laying in bed for a few hours just talking and doing shit off and on.

So around 3 in the morning, she says she's gonna take off and I'm like cool. The whole night she was cheesing and just all happy and shit lol. So she gets in the cab, I tell her to call me so I know she gets in safe. She hits me on BBM 20 minutes later and says she's home. So we had a really short awkward conversation on BBM before I said I was going to bed and that was that.

Reading this, you're probably thinking, "okay and?" lol but there was a few uncomfortable moments last night where she'd be like "I wanna be with you but I don't know, I don't know" :confused: and get all quiet. Not that I really cared because I had already smashed at that point lol and then the awkward BBM conversation right before bed. Before we even met up last night, we made plans to do something on the weekend but last night, she said something came up and she couldn't (which sounded like bullshit) :confused: but I was like whatever.

I know BGOL is full of pimps and playas :lol::rolleyes: and I'm just a young nigga looking for some insight from the fam. This could really mean nothing but I'm just getting this weird vibe from this situation. I already hit, so I'm thinking I should just keep it moving before shit gets really awkward. I'm also thinking that she feels kind of shitty that she let me hit so soon and now thinks thats all I want (she did say something similar last night).

Fam, what do you think?
 
You got your dick wet... let it rest at that. By doing too much thinking, you're going to get caught up in "the vortex". If and when she wants to hang out or come over, just rolling with it. Keep off the Blackberry and keep the PS3 warm and you'll be fine. If not, :itsawrap:
 
Race Harley said:
You got your dick wet... let it rest at that. By doing too much thinking, you're going to get caught up in "the vortex". If and when she wants to hang out or come over, just rolling with it. Keep off the Blackberry and keep the PS3 warm and you'll be fine. If not, :itsawrap:
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Word. It was it is right. Imma leave it like that.
 
nigga u need to figure out wut u want b4 askin us cuz i hav no idea if u tryna b with her or use as jumpoff
 
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spicykjun said:
nigga u need to figure out wut u want b4 askin us cuz i hav no idea if u tryna b with her or use as jumpoff
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:lol::lol::lol::lol:

Yeah, I guess I didn't make myself clear in the original post.

I won't even try to front, I do like her but after last night, the vibe just feels weird now, even though I did hit. I almost feel like I should just have her as a jumpoff and keep it moving like that.

I think some girls as girlfriend material and some are strictly jumopoff material and before meeting her, I had it in my mind that she would probably be a good girl but after last night, she could possibly be in the lane of a jumpoff. I could be completely wrong because it is soon but that's the vibe I'm getting.
 
Bro,no offense but....

If she had gotten with this weekend,and been all into you...you would have made a post on Monday about being in a serious relationship too quickly,right?

Go with the flow...make up your mind and follow it.
 
1-she don't like to waste time

2-she wanted to bust a nut

3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

4-you're on bgol making a colin thread, seems like you caught some feelings already :rolleyes: you're falling in love(her sex game is on point)

5-she has "two-degrees", you was just another conquest

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)

7-who's the real player?
 
Compare her to the rest of the chicks u holla at and see where she stands. If she's in the top 3, take things s-l-o-w, but not too slow to make her 'idle'. An idle female is a terrible thing. If she's not in the top 3, fuck it and keep it moving.

The old 'Ive been hurt real bad in my past, so I want to take our time and build a relationship' line usually works.
 
Fuck it, might as well just keep on rolling with it. See where it goes.

Maybe you'll get comfortable with the broad again. Just spend some time with her so you can figure out if you want to be with the girl or not cuz right now you don't sound too sure.
 
thats how i read it. She damn near told dude that no nigga out there has ever taken her seriously, and here comes this goofball talking about middle school and all sorts of fuckery.

middle school bruh?
UltimateLurker said:
1-she don't like to waste time

2-she wanted to bust a nut

3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

4-you're on bgol making a colin thread, seems like you caught some feelings already :rolleyes: you're falling in love(her sex game is on point)

5-she has "two-degrees", you was just another conquest

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)

7-who's the real player?
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UltimateLurker said:
1-she don't like to waste time

2-she wanted to bust a nut

3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

4-you're on bgol making a colin thread, seems like you caught some feelings already :rolleyes: you're falling in love(her sex game is on point)

5-she has "two-degrees", you was just another conquest

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)

7-who's the real player?
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:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Damn. Didn't look at it this way. I don't know about all that but this is another way to look at it.

I know for sure that I did my thing in the sheets. This girl was cheesing like crazy after, telling me to stay in bed with her and that "she loves this feeling" and going in like that. She definitely got it.

As for me falling for her, that's not even it. I did say I do like her but my whole thing was before meeting her, I was thinking she had potential but after last night, I'm thinking what you're thinking that she just wanted to fuck and she's more in the lane of a jumpoff, which is cool too. I could keep her on the team and just fuck with her like that.
 
You gone regret that shit. Even people that are "happy" in a relationship still wish they were single.
 
On the cool from what you have written about her she's just a pretty girl with no game. If she tells you that she gets used as jumpoff material on the regular just let her find her own way, don't get too involved.

Their are a whole lot of lame fine women out here. Really the only thing you can do with her is break her. Have her break bread, get her to do freaky shit, hint at threesomes,etc.

Keep some,motherfucking options on deck before you find yourself too emotionally involved. I seen lame chicks break good dudes more then once because you looking at,the,outside and them degrees and shit. Lame chick can fuck your world up because she is easily persuaded by other niggas and friends.
 
reread your first part about her always being put on niggas teams. you got setup bruh.
Anthony-Cruz said:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Damn. Didn't look at it this way. I don't know about all that but this is another way to look at it.

I know for sure that I did my thing in the sheets. This girl was cheesing like crazy after, telling me to stay in bed with her and that "she loves this feeling" and going in like that. She definitely got it.

As for me falling for her, that's not even it. I did say I do like her but my whole thing was before meeting her, I was thinking she had potential but after last night, I'm thinking what you're thinking that she just wanted to fuck and she's more in the lane of a jumpoff, which is cool too. I could keep her on the team and just fuck with her like that.
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UltimateLurker said:


3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)
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This sounds about right to me... Weve all been there, sometimes you just have an off night. Find another project and youll have no time for her anyway. Shell come to test the waters again, when she sees you aint sweatin her. Keep it cool and see what happens. But to be blunt, unless you pull a rabbit outta your hat, consider this an L pimp.
 
K. Hash said:
Compare her to the rest of the chicks u holla at and see where she stands. If she's in the top 3, take things s-l-o-w, but not too slow to make her 'idle'. An idle female is a terrible thing. If she's not in the top 3, fuck it and keep it moving.

The old 'Ive been hurt real bad in my past, so I want to take our time and build a relationship' line usually works.
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good start
u say she educated, interesting , fine as hell and you started feelin her

weigh the pos. vs. the negs. and figure out where u are in life right now (do u want a real relationship or are u jus tryna get all the pussy u can ) and go from there

u may hav to step out the pimp shit and look at reality homie cuz eventually no1 want to b the "old nigga at the club" and thats wut happens to the so-called long term playas n pimps figure out how much longer u may b willing to play tha "game" and spend time getting to kno the girls worth (if u yung and playin u prolly hav otha hoes u fuckin) stop fuckin her on sum "i think we moved kinda fast " sorrowful type shit
u said u feelin her soo spend more time with her than on the phone or n the bed and see wut she is about
 
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UltimateLurker said:
1-she don't like to waste time

2-she wanted to bust a nut

3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

4-you're on bgol making a colin thread, seems like you caught some feelings already :rolleyes: you're falling in love(her sex game is on point)

5-she has "two-degrees", you was just another conquest

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)

7-who's the real player?
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Grand Opening.....


Grand Closing.:yes:
 
UltimateLurker said:
1-she don't like to waste time

2-she wanted to bust a nut

3-your sex game was probably lame, which is why she's playing you cool, this bothers you, thus your thread

4-you're on bgol making a colin thread, seems like you caught some feelings already :rolleyes: you're falling in love(her sex game is on point)

5-she has "two-degrees", you was just another conquest

6-she use that common female sympathy bullshit to lure you
----->"most of the guys just play me and leave"(clue)

7-who's the real player?
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DAMN !!!!!!!!! :eek::eek::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
All this is unnecessary, dude said he met her in middle school. He claims she has 2 degrees which is probably a lie because its hard to get 1 degree before 24 let alone 2 while she apparently likes to go dick hunting.
spicykjun said:
good start
u say she educated, interesting , fine as hell and you started feelin her

weigh the pos. vs. the negs. and figure out where u are in life right now (do u want a real relationship or are u jus tryna get all the pussy u can ) and go from there

u may hav to step out the pimp shit and look at reality homie cuz eventually no1 want to b the "old nigga at the club" and thats wut happens to the so-called long term playas n pimps figure out how much longer u may b willing to play tha "game" and spend time getting to kno the girls worth (if u yung and playin u prolly hav otha hoes u fuckin) stop fuckin her on sum "i think we moved kinda fast " sorrowful type shit
u said u feelin her soo spend more time with her than on the phone or n the bed and see wut she is about
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Anthony-Cruz said:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Damn. Didn't look at it this way. I don't know about all that but this is another way to look at it.

I know for sure that I did my thing in the sheets. This girl was cheesing like crazy after, telling me to stay in bed with her and that "she loves this feeling" and going in like that. She definitely got it.

As for me falling for her, that's not even it. I did say I do like her but my whole thing was before meeting her, I was thinking she had potential but after last night, I'm thinking what you're thinking that she just wanted to fuck and she's more in the lane of a jumpoff, which is cool too. I could keep her on the team and just fuck with her like that.
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Look playa,

You knew something was up because her body language, tone of voice, or etc changed which drew a red flag in your brain...you're not crazy. The interesting thing about that is that many times we as humans give off signals subconsciously which means she probably didn't even realize that she was making things awkward between you two. This is why I bring things like these to their attention so that we can talk about them and hopefully come to an understanding. Basically the bottom-line here is that you know something changed and it has you puzzled which is why you came here in the first place. But that my friend was not a wise decision because you're only going to become more confused by everyone's differing opinions. I'm not going to sit here and try to tell you what she is thinking and feeling because I'm not a psychic but I will however tell you who can give you those answers. Her. So ask Good luck.
 
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jhoonvill said:
All this is unnecessary, dude said he met her in middle school. He claims she has 2 degrees which is probably a lie because its hard to get 1 degree before 24 let alone 2 while she apparently likes to go dick hunting.
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thats y i said take time to get to kno her

he said he was feelin her soo i went the route n which a tru playa would go about handling sum1 they were "feeling"

now jumpoff route is completely diff
now if he catch her in a lie yea str8 jumpoff but if she is wut he says she is and he is feelin her then he wouldnt lose as if he would if he goes those other routes

nigga could type a bucha shit but im feelin colinish today
 
jhoonvill said:
All this is unnecessary, dude said he met her in middle school. He claims she has 2 degrees which is probably a lie because its hard to get 1 degree before 24 let alone 2 while she apparently likes to go dick hunting.
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If she is 24 that means that it has been 6 years since she has completed high school. Which means thay she could have spent two years to get an AA and 4 to get a bachelors which totals six which means you're wrong. What is hard for you to do by 24 is not necessarily the same for everyone.
 
Deuterion said:
If she is 24 that means that it has been 6 years since she has completed high school. Which means thay she could have spent two years to get an AA and 4 to get a bachelors which totals six which means you're wrong. What is hard for you to do by 24 is not necessarily the same for everyone.
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i say its difficult for a dick-hunter to have enough energy to study.
 
Deuterion said:
If she is 24 that means that it has been 6 years since she has completed high school. Which means thay she could have spent two years to get an AA and 4 to get a bachelors which totals six which means you're wrong. What is hard for you to do by 24 is not necessarily the same for everyone.
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too add to that

nowadays you can complete highschool by 16 if motivated enuff not sayin that she did jus sayin its possible

jhoonvill said:
i say its difficult for a dick-hunter to have enough energy to study.
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she studied enuff to graduate
 
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