Have you ever refused oral sex?

DJCandle

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So i'm dealin with one chick right now, and she's bad in bed. She enjoys to ride, takes it like a champ, fucks me and sucks me well, but here's the catch...

... she refuses oral sex. And not giving, but receiving. :eek:

Now call me old fashioned, or normal, but I thought everyone loved gettin some head no?!?!! She'll let me play wit it, finger it, but when it comes down to it, I can't put my tongue on the kitty, and that's one of my favorite things to do!!!

Anybody know what the problem could be? I'm at a loss for words on this one.
 
Only read the title.....and

Yes. :hmm: It was while watching "Precious" at home in my bed and the chick started rubbing my dick through my pants.
 
she might be subconsious about herself

she might be thinking...what if it looks funny or smells weird

if u make her feel really comfortable about herself it might make her feel better

try fingering her then lick your finger afterwards and act like you really really like it
 
she might be subconsious about herself

she might be thinking...what if it looks funny or smells weird

if u make her feel really comfortable about herself it might make her feel better

try fingering her then lick your finger afterwards and act like you really really like it

:lol: & :hmm: @ you coaching


Play by play?
 
she might be subconsious about herself

she might be thinking...what if it looks funny or smells weird

if u make her feel really comfortable about herself it might make her feel better

try fingering her then lick your finger afterwards and act like you really really like it

:yes:
 
be persistent....find out what the issue is......get her to speak on it...its be real or be gone in 2010
 
Happened to me to. Probably self conscious

"Am I clean enough?" etc

The flipside is when you meet a sista who likes to receive but not give. She was happy to let me eat the snatch but would not return the favour.

Straight smash and dash.


Let's just say that after putting in the work on another appreciative sista..she went nuts over me.

Some women love that ish, you just have to get her relaxed enough.

 
she might be subconsious about herself

she might be thinking...what if it looks funny or smells weird

if u make her feel really comfortable about herself it might make her feel better

try fingering her then lick your finger afterwards and act like you really really like it

:yes:
That what it sounds like to me. I know women and that's in her head. Once you talk her into it, she's going to want it all the time and life will be perfect.
 
Not trying to be funny but isn't the fact that she has these thoughts or reservations reason enough for the OP not to dive in?
 
she might be subconsious about herself

she might be thinking...what if it looks funny or smells weird

if u make her feel really comfortable about herself it might make her feel better

try fingering her then lick your finger afterwards and act like you really really like it

This is true. I'll be givin this a shot. :yes:
 
Many women are not that into oral sex...Same applies with men...

Maybe they had a sexual partner who didn't do it so well...

Maybe they have never cum from it...

I'm not so much into it, so I have turned it down. Some people find it more intimate an act, and won't just let anyone go down on them...

And, as another poster said, some women are just "shy" about letting a man get that close to them... directly ask her, and work on making her feel comfortable about it...
 
Hell even I have turned it down. Depends on the woman, her skill level, my mood it can be any number of reasons.

I've never of a heard a woman to consistently turn down oral sex. Some women have hangups based upon religion and their home-bringing telling them sex is nasty. Its been my experience these women are the toughest to maintain a relationship with.
 
So i'm dealin with one chick right now, and she's bad in bed. She enjoys to ride, takes it like a champ, fucks me and sucks me well, but here's the catch...

... she refuses oral sex. And not giving, but receiving. :eek:

Now call me old fashioned, or normal, but I thought everyone loved gettin some head no?!?!! She'll let me play wit it, finger it, but when it comes down to it, I can't put my tongue on the kitty, and that's one of my favorite things to do!!!

Anybody know what the problem could be? I'm at a loss for words on this one.

It's a long shot, but I'm gonna throw this one out there......Ask Her!!!!
 
i believe if a chick dont like head she got 2 be stank subconscious or her pussy is deformed or something....... i mean i meet bitches who dont like dat shit i keep it moving.... I NEED TO EAT PUSSY ITS Nothing else i would rather do sometimes.. and i know im the best at what i do... my ex best friend Desiree taught me how to stay on the clit sucking it while sticking my tongue deeply inside her pussy .. and watching her shake squirm and cum was priceless....YACE.. high 5.....
 
Personally it's not my thing...a chick can be fresh out the shower and still turn it down. If a chick isn't into she isn't into it. It's not always what you think. Like dood said chick has sex with him and does whatever no problem if she stunk that would be apparent during those other acts. I think boobs get no love because everybody thinks oh yeah I gotta go down to make her get hot psshhhhhhhhhhhhh if you can do your thing with boobs right you get the same result. Aww man I posted on here again lol whatever. :lol:
 
I've never cum from receiving oral, so for me, it's just not a big deal. I won't refuse the opportunity, but I just haven't had anyone make my toes curl, and because of that, I'd prefer a backshot or to ride it, than for a tongue to be on it.
 
**Faints**
What is going on in the world today??
I've never cum from receiving oral, so for me, it's just not a big deal. I won't refuse the opportunity, but I just haven't had anyone make my toes curl, and because of that, I'd prefer a backshot or to ride it, than for a tongue to be on it.
 
Update:

After a long arduous battle with the consumption of her vagina, I finally achieved my goal of eating this woman's wonderful kitty. And let me tell you, it didn't disappoint.

Waxed down, clean, smellin like some lemon extract she puts on herself... a cup of ice, and I went to work. I made her cum 3 times orally and piped it twice. :yes: Whatta night... :itsawrap:

Turns out she had a bad experience with it once, and I guess the simp beforehand didn't handle it well, but yours truly savored it as if it was never coming back, which by looking at the text on my phone right now reading, "thx for last night... i've never came that hard before.." definitely implies a return visit. :yes::yes:

Thanks again for the support yall! Patience and persistence trumps all!
 
Yes. Once because it was being offered by someone who I knew wasn't very good at it and another time because the giver was too good at it.
 
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Update:

After a long arduous battle with the consumption of her vagina, I finally achieved my goal of eating this woman's wonderful kitty. And let me tell you, it didn't disappoint.

Waxed down, clean, smellin like some lemon extract she puts on herself... a cup of ice, and I went to work. I made her cum 3 times orally and piped it twice. :yes: Whatta night... :itsawrap:

Turns out she had a bad experience with it once, and I guess the simp beforehand didn't handle it well, but yours truly savored it as if it was never coming back, which by looking at the text on my phone right now reading, "thx for last night... i've never came that hard before.." definitely implies a return visit. :yes::yes:

Thanks again for the support yall! Patience and persistence trumps all!
 
Update:

After a long arduous battle with the consumption of her vagina, I finally achieved my goal of eating this woman's wonderful kitty. And let me tell you, it didn't disappoint.

Waxed down, clean, smellin like some lemon extract she puts on herself... a cup of ice, and I went to work. I made her cum 3 times orally and piped it twice. :yes: Whatta night... :itsawrap:

Turns out she had a bad experience with it once, and I guess the simp beforehand didn't handle it well, but yours truly savored it as if it was never coming back, which by looking at the text on my phone right now reading, "thx for last night... i've never came that hard before.." definitely implies a return visit. :yes::yes:

Thanks again for the support yall! Patience and persistence trumps all!

Who doesn't love a happy ending?:D
 
Only read the title.....and

Yes. :hmm: It was while watching "Precious" at home in my bed and the chick started rubbing my dick through my pants.

Was a good movie, are you trying to tell us you weren't in the mood because you were focused or you didn't want to rub or suck you, lol?


As for me, yeah, it's good to be choosey and unpredictable at times...
 
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