Ladies let's have a Discussion: How Important Are Orgasms To You?

[Mo-Better]

How important is your orgasms to you? OK I know this has been asked before but I'm not entirely sure previous responses were 100% real. I've heard women say if I don't cum its alright, I still enjoy the sex. As long as he cums. Really?

Can we be real? When you masturbate don't you masturbate until you orgasm? No one I've ever heard of masturbates without the intent of reaching orgasm. So why would not having an orgasm during sex be acceptable? If your with a man that repeatedly fails to make you cum do you stay with him? Teach him what works for you or seek to replace him?

Lastly if your multi-orgasmic are you happy with just one orgasm or do you want your multiple orgasms?

 

[melonpecan]

When I first lost my virginity I didn't orgasm...or rather I didn't know what it felt like... But once I did it was like a leaky faucet- it wouldn't shut off. I can't think about sex now without one, but depending on what's going on defines the intensity. I don't have to wait long for one though so gettin' mines should only take all of fifteen seconds.

 

[RAULDK]

HAD A WOMAN THAT REFUED TO CLIMAX DUE TO HER BEING EMBARRASSED ABOUT SQUIRTING.
I WENT DOWN AND MADE HER CUM THE FIRST TIME WITH ME AND SHE SQUIRTED SO HARD THAT IT HIT ME IN THE EYE AND LATER THAT DAY IT GOT REAL RED EVEN THOUGH I WASHED IT OUT SEVERAL TIMES. I HAD TO GO TO THE DOC AND HE GAVE ME A PRESCRIPTION FOR PINK EYE.

WHEN I SAW HER 2 DAYS LATER SHE WAS SO UPSET AND SAD ABOUT IT.

I THINK I CAUSED IT WHEN I SCREAMED OUT AFTER GETTING IN HER APT. " YOU OWE ME 5 DOLLARS FOR MY DOC CO-PAY AND 5 DOLLARS FOR MY MEDS"

LOL

ONE TIME A WOMAN CAME SO HARD ON ME RIDING THAT SHE COULDN'T GET OFF ME OR MOVE. SHE JUST SAID LET ME LIE HERE FOR A COUPLE OF MINUTES.

FUCK, SHE FELL ASLEEP ON TOP OF ME WITH MY DICK STILL IN HER.

ANOTHER SAID THAT I MADE HER LOOSE SIGHT IN ONE EYE DURING HER CLIMAX. I TOLD HER I WOULDN'T PUT THE DICK SO DEEP NEXT TIME. I HIT HER OPTIC NERVE. LOL

 

[melonpecan]

ANOTHER SAID THAT I MADE HER LOOSE SIGHT IN ONE EYE DURING HER CLIMAX. I TOLD HER I WOULDN'T PUT THE DICK SO DEEP NEXT TIME. I HIT HER OPTIC NERVE. LOL

That's funny. I passed out once- limp body and all.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

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[DeSiRe]

How important is your orgasms to you? climax is a requirement...very important

When you masturbate don't you masturbate until you orgasm? of course

So why would not having an orgasm during sex be acceptable? many woman can only climax thur clitoral simulation...some rarely cum from penitration...luckily im not one of them

If your with a man that repeatedly fails to make you cum do you stay with him? no

Teach him what works for you or seek to replace him? replace...gotta be working with something or its not worth my time

Lastly if your multi-orgasmic are you happy with just one orgasm or do you want your multiple orgasms? multi please

u gotta understand who u are dealing with

there are alot of women who dont know shit about sex or their bodies...some are scared to explore...some dont think its important

i had a homegirl who claimed she never orgasmed before...but she stayed braging on her man's dick...me and my other friend would look at her like

 

[Mo-Better]

HAD A WOMAN THAT REFUED TO CLIMAX DUE TO HER BEING EMBARRASSED ABOUT SQUIRTING.
I WENT DOWN AND MADE HER CUM THE FIRST TIME WITH ME AND SHE SQUIRTED SO HARD THAT IT HIT ME IN THE EYE AND LATER THAT DAY IT GOT REAL RED EVEN THOUGH I WASHED IT OUT SEVERAL TIMES. I HAD TO GO TO THE DOC AND HE GAVE ME A PRESCRIPTION FOR PINK EYE.

WHEN I SAW HER 2 DAYS LATER SHE WAS SO UPSET AND SAD ABOUT IT.

I THINK I CAUSED IT WHEN I SCREAMED OUT AFTER GETTING IN HER APT. " YOU OWE ME 5 DOLLARS FOR MY DOC CO-PAY AND 5 DOLLARS FOR MY MEDS"

LOL

ONE TIME A WOMAN CAME SO HARD ON ME RIDING THAT SHE COULDN'T GET OFF ME OR MOVE. SHE JUST SAID LET ME LIE HERE FOR A COUPLE OF MINUTES.

FUCK, SHE FELL ASLEEP ON TOP OF ME WITH MY DICK STILL IN HER.

ANOTHER SAID THAT I MADE HER LOOSE SIGHT IN ONE EYE DURING HER CLIMAX. I TOLD HER I WOULDN'T PUT THE DICK SO DEEP NEXT TIME. I HIT HER OPTIC NERVE. LOL

WTF? Knowing what I know about the female anatomy I would like to know what the hell you went down on to have a woman squirt and hit you in the eye. There's a big difference in 69 and I went down on.... If it wasn't a 69 position I'm not sure that was a woman you had.

 

[Mo-Better]

When I first lost my virginity I didn't orgasm...or rather I didn't know what it felt like... But once I did it was like a leaky faucet- it wouldn't shut off. I can't think about sex now without one, but depending on what's going on defines the intensity. I don't have to wait long for one though so gettin' mines should only take all of fifteen seconds.

Are you sure we don't know each other? I know someone the same way. She has countless orgasms and I'm not talking about those little ones either.

 

[Mo-Better]

u gotta understand who u are dealing with

there are alot of women who dont know shit about sex or their bodies...some are scared to explore...some dont think its important

i had a homegirl who claimed she never orgasmed before...but she stayed braging on her man's dick...me and my other friend would look at her like

As I said earlier I've heard stories about women who claim to have never orgasmed. I myself would have to believe the sexual encounter would be missing something.

I also know there are women who are inhibited who look upon sex as something they have to do. Their duty they refuse to allow themselves to enjoy the act.

But to all those who have responded no one has really addressed the questions I asked.

 

[SoopamanLuva]

My wife acts like it's not that important, she just loves the intimacy of the act, screw that. I make it my mission to get her 2 good ones before I get mine.

 

[DeSiRe]

As I said earlier I've heard stories about women who claim to have never orgasmed. I myself would have to believe the sexual encounter would be missing something.

I also know there are women who are inhibited who look upon sex as something they have to do. Their duty they refuse to allow themselves to enjoy the act.

But to all those who have responded no one has really addressed the questions I asked.

did u not read what i quoted in my orginal post?...i answered every question

 

[Mo-Better]

My wife acts like it's not that important, she just loves the intimacy of the act, screw that. I make it my mission to get her 2 good ones before I get mine.

I feel the same way about sex. I don't want my woman walking around feeling unfulfilled.

An I refuse to believe when they say their orgasms are not that important. If orgasms were unimportant why do so many women have sex toys?

 

[SoopamanLuva]

I feel the same way about sex. I don't want my woman walking around feeling unfulfilled.

An I refuse to believe when they say their orgasms are not that important. If orgasms were unimportant why do so many women have sex toys?

Why do women fake orgasms? That doesnt make sense either.

I think its just a built in excuse so she cant be disappointed in your performance. Then she can come back during an argument and get you with it. I don't buy it, im going for the sleeper every time im in it.

 

[Mo-Better]

u gotta understand who u are dealing with

there are alot of women who dont know shit about sex or their bodies...some are scared to explore...some dont think its important

i had a homegirl who claimed she never orgasmed before...but she stayed braging on her man's dick...me and my other friend would look at her like

did u not read what i quoted in my orginal post?...i answered every question

I see where you referenced a "homegirl", You've also spoken in generalizations speaking of "a lot of women" and how "some are scared" but what I don't see is where you expressed your personal views on this matter.

So again "how important is an orgasm to you? I doubt you fall into the category where not having an orgasm during sex be acceptable.

 

[Mo-Better]

Why do women fake orgasms? That doesnt make sense either.

I think its just a built in excuse so she cant be disappointed in your performance. Then she can come back during an argument and get you with it. I don't buy it, im going for the sleeper every time im in it.

As for your question, I have no idea why a woman would fake an orgasm unless she was in the business.

 

[DeSiRe]

I see where you referenced a "homegirl", You've also spoken in generalizations speaking of "a lot of women" and how "some are scared" but what I don't see is where you expressed your personal views on this matter.

So again "how important is an orgasm to you? I doubt you fall into the category where not having an orgasm during sex be acceptable.

How important is your orgasms to you? climax is a requirement...very important

i answered all ur questions

 

[Crown&Coke]

I wanna know something from the ladies. . . . .Do any of you feel that you should only cum after a certain time period? The reason I ask because me and my friends have dealt with women before that would hold back during sex because "They didnt wanna cum yet". . . . .WTF is that about?​

 

[onyxfemme]

OP:
An orgasm is not that important to me.....BUT.......I am multiorgasmic I can cum back to back if being sexed right. But honestly I can cum by giving head too....soooo....What was the question again? Oh no it isnt that importnat to me, I get off by my dude getting off.


Crown&Coke:
We say that for 1 of 2 reasons-
1-Some women only have 1 cum in them per sexual romp so if they do cum they cant hang w/ you afterwards
2-We are just talking shit and boosting your ego

 

[Mo-Better]

OP:
An orgasm is not that important to me.....BUT.......I am multiorgasmic I can cum back to back if being sexed right. But honestly I can cum by giving head too....soooo....What was the question again? Oh no it isnt that importnat to me, I get off by my dude getting off.

If all you've stated is true you are unique in your ability to orgasm. I too get off on getting my lady off but I still want mine.

But how do/would you feel about a man that lacked the skills to get you there?

 

[onyxfemme]

Oh it is very much true-you know I dont lie about sex
I think it has something to do w/ a man moaning or talking to me...
Anywho-As far as a man that lacks the skills to get me there...It depends on if we have a deeper connection on another level. Sex is mental to me when dealing w/ men. If I love or care about you then I am feeling you on that level...I hope that makes sense.
But if I was w/ a woman then it would be purely physical and if she didnt satisfy me sexually then why would I even deal w/ her?

If all you've stated is true you are unique in your ability to orgasm. I too get off on getting my lady off but I still want mine.

But how do/would you feel about a man that lacked the skills to get you there?

 

[Crown&Coke]

Crown&Coke:
We say that for 1 of 2 reasons-
1-Some women only have 1 cum in them per sexual romp so if they do cum they cant hang w/ you afterwards
2-We are just talking shit and boosting your ego

Having a woman cum and quit on me is hot garbage. As for the second one, if its somebody a woman is fucking on the regular then she cheating herself. ​

 

[melonpecan]

Wow...so many to respond to...

Are you sure we don't know each other? I know someone the same way. She has countless orgasms and I'm not talking about those little ones either.

Yeah I'm sure. I don't know if it's a sensitive body thing or a mental thing, or emotional. But it happens...

My wife acts like it's not that important, she just loves the intimacy of the act, screw that. I make it my mission to get her 2 good ones before I get mine.

Is this some unwritten man rule?

I wanna know something from the ladies. . . . .Do any of you feel that you should only cum after a certain time period? The reason I ask because me and my friends have dealt with women before that would hold back during sex because "They didnt wanna cum yet". . . . .WTF is that about?​

Sometimes I do to let them build up. It takes practice though.

OP:
An orgasm is not that important to me.....BUT.......I am multiorgasmic I can cum back to back if being sexed right. But honestly I can cum by giving head too....soooo....What was the question again? Oh no it isnt that importnat to me, I get off by my dude getting off.

Are we related?

Sex is mental to me when dealing w/ men. If I love or care about you then I am feeling you on that level...I hope that makes sense.
But if I was w/ a woman then it would be purely physical and if she didnt satisfy me sexually then why would I even deal w/ her?

I think that has a lot to do with a woman having an orgasm...


...it's only physical with a woman?


Mo, I thought I answered the question...well I guess I did indirectly...

Melonpecan = multi-orgasmic
Doesn't know how to be non or single orgasmic
Keeps her multi-orgasmic status

 

[onyxfemme]

Melon-
We might be related
When I said it is only physical w/ a woman-I meant it can only be physical w/ ME and another woman. I can not have anything other than a physical/sexual relationship w/ a woman.

 

[PrincessC]

I would be really disappointed if I consistently did not orgasm during sex. There's pretty much no point to doing it if you aren't going to have an orgasm (other than getting pregnant).
As for the other stuff...some guys just aren't "trainable", so no matter what you say, it will never be good. And some women just don't know their bodies and aren't good teachers, so they don't know how to teach their partner how to fuck them.

 

[melonpecan]

Melon-
We might be related
When I said it is only physical w/ a woman-I meant it can only be physical w/ ME and another woman. I can not have anything other than a physical/sexual relationship w/ a woman.

I getcha. I dunno...on one hand I could see myself fucking a woman but I don't think I could have a relationship with one...not because I like men but because I'd end up choking her...

I would be really disappointed if I consistently did not orgasm during sex. There's pretty much no point to doing it if you aren't going to have an orgasm (other than getting pregnant).
As for the other stuff...some guys just aren't "trainable", so no matter what you say, it will never be good. And some women just don't know their bodies and aren't good teachers, so they don't know how to teach their partner how to fuck them.

I think this is part of the problem. I think some of it too is that people aren't that comfortable with their bodies or partners to discuss what is right and wrong about their sex life. I was a virgin and had never had an orgasm so when I started having sex if I had never discussed that I didn't feel 'it' we'd probably still be fucking and I'll have the face every time. Which would be a BIG problem. Which could explain why so many people continuously have bad sex with multiple partners...ok I had flashbacks. I need a toy.

 

[onyxfemme]

Yeah never a relationship but.......
Choking?????? As in bondage choking or anger choking?
I like light choking

I getcha. I dunno...on one hand I could see myself fucking a woman but I don't think I could have a relationship with one...not because I like men but because I'd end up choking her...


.

 

[PC Freak]

Melon-
We might be related
When I said it is only physical w/ a woman-I meant it can only be physical w/ ME and another woman. I can not have anything other than a physical/sexual relationship w/ a woman.

WRITING...NOTES

 

[Cleopatra_J]

An orgasm is important, but not always necessary for me to enjoy the sex ... but I'd never be with a man in a relationship if he couldn't give me one ...

I don't care what anyone says, sex is important in any long term relationship

 

[Mo-Better]

I would be really disappointed if I consistently did not orgasm during sex. There's pretty much no point to doing it if you aren't going to have an orgasm (other than getting pregnant).
As for the other stuff...some guys just aren't "trainable", so no matter what you say, it will never be good. And some women just don't know their bodies and aren't good teachers, so they don't know how to teach their partner how to fuck them.

So orgasms are important. This is what I suspected but I also expected more women to share your views on this matter. As a man I have to feel if I'm not getting the job done that woman will seek out someone who can.

As I said before I can't buy into women just having sex without wanting the orgasm and or not expecting to orgasm then being OK with it. Like you said maybe on occasion but not consistently.

Ladies your sexual satisfaction is as important as our satisfaction is to us so if it wasn't right speak the hell up.

 

[Mo-Better]

An orgasm is important, but not always necessary for me to enjoy the sex ... but I'd never be with a man in a relationship if he couldn't give me one ...

I don't care what anyone says, sex is important in any long term relationship

Exactly!

 

[Mo-Better]

Melon-
We might be related
When I said it is only physical w/ a woman-I meant it can only be physical w/ ME and another woman. I can not have anything other than a physical/sexual relationship w/ a woman.

I getcha. I dunno...on one hand I could see myself fucking a woman but I don't think I could have a relationship with one...not because I like men but because I'd end up choking her...

I think this is part of the problem. I think some of it too is that people aren't that comfortable with their bodies or partners to discuss what is right and wrong about their sex life. I was a virgin and had never had an orgasm so when I started having sex if I had never discussed that I didn't feel 'it' we'd probably still be fucking and I'll have the face every time. Which would be a BIG problem. Which could explain why so many people continuously have bad sex with multiple partners...ok I had flashbacks. I need a toy.

Yeah never a relationship but.......
Choking?????? As in bondage choking or anger choking?
I like light choking

WRITING...NOTES

Hmm notes the interesting turn the thread is taking. Ladies don't stop on my part keep this dialog going. I'll draw up a script, contract and get the video equipment, get you all paid.

 

[shywriter]

My theory about women faking orgasms or being reticent to speak up about what they like and what gets them off during sex is that they're worried about bruising egos more than anything. Some cats just can't take constructive criticism. If she's a jumpoff or the wife, LISTEN to what she says, read her body language and if she says "right there, don't move..." she means it.

Just mi dos centavos.

 

[DeSiRe]

My theory about women faking orgasms or being reticent to speak up about what they like and what gets them off during sex is that they're worried about bruising egos more than anything. Some cats just can't take constructive criticism. If she's a jumpoff or the wife, LISTEN to what she says, read her body language and if she says "right there, don't move..." she means it.

Just mi dos centavos.

part of that is true

ive faked before just so he would stop...it wasnt that it was bad per say...i was just over it at the time

 

[SamSneed]

i just like seein all the shit women do when they bust
dont really care if i bust

 

[Mo-Better]

i just like seein all the shit women do when they bust
dont really care if i bust

Sometimes I feel the same way.