If a man makes you cum from oral sex, is that CHEATING to you?

[BVF]

I don't know why I bothered to start a thread in SOL but here it goes:

I've been dating this woman for a couple of months now.....At first, since she's new, I don't need much stimulation to have sex with her....But after awhile, I need something else....

If I have a problem getting hard, I like to eat the girl's pussy until she cums and once I hear her moan from pleasure from cumming, my dick gets hard and then I go up in the pussy and do what I want...But the woman I'm with now is different....

Last night I was at her house eating her pussy and like before, she stopped me from making her cum because she said she would cum too hard and it would make the bed too messy...Plus she considered me making her cum orally to be "cheating".....She would rather have me make her cum with dick but she doesn't come as hard as I think she would from Oral...

So since she didn't let me make her cum, I couldn't get hard and neither one of us ended up having an orgasm last night......She said that cumming too hard will "embarrass" her....

Now I can't see the reasoning behind this....I've NEVER met a woman who wouldn't let a man make her cum, however he was able to do it.

So I'm asking is it wrong for me to want her to cum from me eating her out? And is it normal for a woman to not want to cum hard from oral sex as opposed to having a less intense orgasm from dick?

 

[onyxfemme]

Ummmmmmm she is tripping........hard.......

 

[mpthaking89]

this thread is ....................................

 

[Mo-Better]

I don't know why I bothered to start a thread in SOL but here it goes:

I've been dating this woman for a couple of months now.....At first, since she's new, I don't need much stimulation to have sex with her....But after awhile, I need something else....

If I have a problem getting hard, I like to eat the girl's pussy until she cums and once I hear her moan from pleasure from cumming, my dick gets hard and then I go up in the pussy and do what I want...But the woman I'm with now is different....

Last night I was at her house eating her pussy and like before, she stopped me from making her cum because she said she would cum too hard and it would make the bed too messy...Plus she considered me making her cum orally to be "cheating".....She would rather have me make her cum with dick but she doesn't come as hard as I think she would from Oral...

So since she didn't let me make her cum, I couldn't get hard and neither one of us ended up having an orgasm last night......She said that cumming too hard will "embarrass" her....

Now I can't see the reasoning behind this....I've NEVER met a woman who wouldn't let a man make her cum, however he was able to do it.

So I'm asking is it wrong for me to want her to cum from me eating her out? And is it normal for a woman to not want to cum hard from oral sex as opposed to having a less intense orgasm from dick?

So you have this routine you like to run but she's not down with it. There are women who never want to "let loose." It's not cheating but it can take a lot out of them when they cum hard from oral sex. But some women feel they need to retain control and will never allow themselves to give their all during sex.

Oral sex breakdowns that barrier, I know one women that will scream "Oh God then Oh shit," she would pull the sheets off the mattress, beat the mattress like its a big bass drum, biting pillows, scratch my arms pull at my hair and even squirt. It's quite a ride. So her excitement level is already way up there when I'm coming at her with the dick. So yeah she's out of control for awhile. Some women never allow themselves that joy.

In answer to your question no its not wrong, some women be tripping. At least your method ensures her some satisfaction. Some women don't ever want to show that side of themselves. They feel I can't let this man know everything about me. Some women never want to believe they have a freak inside them. An will later feel guilty about having enjoyed the sex so well.

NEWS FLASH: Every woman alive has a freaky side it just takes the right man to bring it out of them.

 

[Machete]

I don't know why I bothered to start a thread in SOL but here it goes:

I've been dating this woman for a couple of months now.....At first, since she's new, I don't need much stimulation to have sex with her....But after awhile, I need something else....

If I have a problem getting hard, I like to eat the girl's pussy until she cums and once I hear her moan from pleasure from cumming, my dick gets hard and then I go up in the pussy and do what I want...But the woman I'm with now is different....

Last night I was at her house eating her pussy and like before, she stopped me from making her cum because she said she would cum too hard and it would make the bed too messy...Plus she considered me making her cum orally to be "cheating".....She would rather have me make her cum with dick but she doesn't come as hard as I think she would from Oral...

So since she didn't let me make her cum, I couldn't get hard and neither one of us ended up having an orgasm last night......She said that cumming too hard will "embarrass" her....

Now I can't see the reasoning behind this....I've NEVER met a woman who wouldn't let a man make her cum, however he was able to do it.

So I'm asking is it wrong for me to want her to cum from me eating her out? And is it normal for a woman to not want to cum hard from oral sex as opposed to having a less intense orgasm from dick?

Sound like da bitch go issues with sex. RUN. If you too weak to run, then sit down and talk to her about it. I guarantee that she'll tell you why she feels the way that she does. Guarantee it's a childhood thing, or some simp she used to deal with told her that she was too loud, or too wet or w/e. Unfortunately, when u deal with a woman, u dealing with all the crap from her past relationships. Talk her into it, if she still has an issue with it, explain to her that you not going to stop until she screams.

I still suggest running.

 

[BCAA2009]

 

[Lady-Wiz]

She said that cumming too hard will "embarrass" her

wait... what?

 

[cbm_redux]

...she stopped me from making her cum because she said she would cum too hard and it would make the bed too messy...Plus she considered me making her cum orally to be "cheating"...

That is one of the stupidest and more absurd things I've heard in recent days. And considering that I've been reading BGOL posts lately, that's quite an indictment.

 

[HALO2]

 

[bluskyII]

No. It makes her a LUCKY lady.

 

[!!*10der*!!]

Did I miss something? WTH! ​

 

[mcguyver]

That is one of the stupidest and more absurd things I've heard in recent days. And considering that I've been reading BGOL posts lately, that's quite an indictment.

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