Have you ever flew a kite before....
Well your target females are obvious diff. then mine. Something that you didn't understand
you are funny bro, you totally missed what I was saying based on everything you post. Ill try to break it down for you. snitch, you are taking this literally...the kite is an example of a way to transition into one of your questions. I'll give you an example rooted towards one of your questions.
Snitch: So check this out, I was out with a few of my friends yesterday at XXX beach. It was crazy windy out there but i just like to go fly my kite out there. It relaxes me and its also a whole lot of fun.
Snitch: Have you ever flew a kite before?
Her: Nah!
You: Really? so what do you do for fun other than work?
Her:blah blahhh
you see what I mean about it not sounding like a job interview and using the kite example as a transition?
You are absoutley right that it may have been that particular female. However, the mistake most guys make is that start off asking questions. Where you from? What you do? You come here often? Why should a woman invest in a guy she does not know? Most dudes want her to immediately invest without investing first. its a simple pyschological concept based on go first principle. which states that if you go first and lead the interaction, she will follow you into that state. If works well for emotional states, if you do happy she will follow you into happy. hence never go negative and if she goes negative you go positive she will fowllow you there, but I digress. so here is how it usually happens, the man ask questions then he tries to build rapport with her based on her answers. I think this way is too regualr and boring example
You: Where are you from?
Her: Atl
You: Word, my fam is from down south too.
[clearly trying to build rapport with her]
A more clever way
You: you strike me as a girl from down south
[statment rather than a question]
she will then say no or yes. and elaborate where she is from.
or
You: You strike me as a girl from down south
Her: You pyschic or something? (sarcasm)
You: Yes I am, I called cleo and she told me I will meet this librarian from down south today, that wears pink shoes.
(assuming she wears pink shoes and she is clearly not a librarian) you are kind of teasing her here
Her: laughs (and refuses to invests)
You: (investing)My folks were from down south, I use to go down there every summer when I was a kid. The bayous use to be fun, my cousin an I use to go fishing there all the time. Once I flew my kite in the bayou...yadda yadda
[clearly leading he interaction and she will follow]
You: you ever went there?
Her: No but I did go to New Orleans once though
You: so thats where you are from, oh ho!
Her: actually I am fro NY
Additionally, I am fair, you are correct that there is no one way to get a female. but most guys start by asking her questions in less than a few minutes. Try starting off teasing her, joking, being playful, talking about some random topic without even asking her name. You will then notice her body language changes within 3-5 minutes or she begins to face you with open arms or mimics your body language and tonality, ask you questions, smile, laugh at your good and stupid jokes, hang around even though she may have to leave, unfold her arms, touch you thats when you know she is attracted when she begins to do a few or some of those things.
then you can go into your questioning and deep conversation
I'm very sensitive to smells ... I don't even wear perfume myself I just rub cocoa butter on my body ... I honestly can't be around somebody who has a strong smelling perfume or cologne on so I kept it moving
I've seen that before hell its happened to me at least once or twice.
