Ended up @ Applebee's w/ 4 girls and 3 kids.....
...First off, this just happened like 2 hours ago.
We have only seen each other twice before, the day we met and once since when I dropped by her house to holla at her.
She tells me earlier this week that she's off Thursday and says she wants to see me, she calls me today on the way to pick up her 5 yr old son saying that she's taking him to Applebee's to eat and invites me to come. I say, "cool, I'll meet y'all there". I was apprehensive about meeting her son so soon because I was raised by a single mother too and I know how it is when you introduce them to new people. Anyway, she calls and tells me that her friend needs a ride to the gym where she's going after we eat and that Jessica (her friend) will come with her. So I'm thinking, "this shit don't matter to me, because I'm in and out, just stopping by while they are there to grab a bite to eat, meet and greet, and leave".
First she is 15-20 minutes late. Then they show up in 2 different cars. Jessica, who is riding w/ my friend (my friend's name is Felicia by the way), has 2 kids. Felicia has her son w/ her, and they got another friend, Amber, who came in her own car. Amber, has on a one piece knit skirt w/ tights and heels on, she is BAD. Amber also has 5 visible tattoos just on her forearms and hands
. 1 on each hand, 1 on each wrist, and some nigga named "Corey" on her right forearm.
Back to the story, so we go in and are seated, kids and all. I'm still taken aback by this but I ain't saying shit, just playing it cool. Then Felicia is on the phone texting and answering and tells me to let her out of the booth we were in, when she got up she says, "oh, 1 more person is coming".
So lets get this count down. We got myself, Felicia, Felicia's son, Jessica and her two kids (a 4 yr old & a 3 yr old), Amber fine ass, and this other girl whose name I couldn't remember. All in all it was 8 human beings at this fucking table!
In my head I'm thinking, they can't think I'm paying for all these people because I just met Felicia and I don't know any of the others, plus I didn't get that vibe. Plus I had talked to Felicia about something similar and she had her mind right.
Long story short, kids are kids and what can I say? I don't have any so I don't feel like I should have to deal with some shit when I don't want to. I realize this is by no fault of the kids, so the slapping of hands on the table, the pouting, the fake crying and the loud outbursts just have to get charged to FELICIA. Her friends ALL looked better than her body-wise, so they were all eye-balling me on the sly, but so much so that it couldn't be hid. Every time I'd look up from the menu Amber would be looking at me and try to look away real quick. I caught Jessica doing it a few times too. Old no-name girl that was sitting next to me was 21 and kept touching me and brushing up against me. I didn't notice until Amber pointed it out afterwards. Amber don't like No-Name girl, btw. I paid for me, Felicia, and her son. It wasn't shit, my issue was that she ain't tell me about all this. And had she told me I would have taken a rain-check.
That shit was wild as hell. Arkward at times too. Just way too much more than I signed up for. Feel me?
I think I did a good job of not letting it erk me too much and trying to make the best of the situation. But I'ma have to tell Felicia about that shit man! Shit just ain't cool.
Just want some feedback from y'all man, on dealing w/ chicks w/ kids.
was taking them dollar store slippers off your crusty dry feet while you were laying on your trap house couch??? I like that pic
