Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorse women physically abusing men?

If that was your mama would the guys here feel the same way? I don't give a fuck, if my mother or sister said they slapped my father or brother in law, and received an ass whopping like Rihanna did.......... So the brothers here wouldn't do anything? It would be OK? She deserved it? I don't think so.......
 
Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

This doesn't really answer your question but to me it's simply a matter of accountability for actions.

You cannot instigate violence then be surprised when or play the victim role when you are subjected to the very violence you instigated. That would be akin to waving a gun in someones face then acting surprised if you wind up getting shot.

As men we understand that you don't arbitrarily approach another man in a violent manner and expect him NOT to respond.

Equality and Chivalry are incompatible objects, much like speed and quality in the business world.

Agreed.

To the question posed by the OP - America wants something/someone to blame - America does not really want a solution.
 
If that was your mama would the guys here feel the same way? I don't give a fuck, if my mother or sister said they slapped my father or brother in law, and received an ass whopping like Rihanna did.......... So the brothers here wouldn't do anything? It would be OK? She deserved it? I don't think so.......

If my mother shanked a nigga for saying hello I would have her back. What's that got to do with Rhianna?
 
BGOL vets need to release that Rhianna/Lindsey Lohan sex tape thats been floating around out there. That Kabalah shit got all the female celebs eatin pussy.
 
I wish I could ask one question to Harpo and her hetero-male hating panel one question on Thurs . . .







Shit is the best. . . :lol::lol::lol::lol:



JG
 
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Get off it. It'd be even worse. People would say she was psychotic... people treat a woman hitting a man and a man hitting a woman different BECAUSE a woman can't do that shit.

But look at it this way... a woman who kills a man gets WAAAAY more prison time on average than a man who kills a woman. People are disgusted when women do shit like this.

Yeah, if you say so:rolleyes:

http://www.heraldonline.com/front/story/1172376.html

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Tuesday, Mar. 03, 2009
Fred Lane's wife is released 8 years after killing
Woman who killed former star running back for the Panthers is free
By Gary L. Wright - The Charlotte Observer

Deidra Lane, who in 2000 killed her estranged husband, former Carolina Panthers star Fred Lane, was released from prison today after eight years behind bars.

Deidra Lane walked out of the Raleigh Correctional Center for Women just before 9:30 a.m. today. She made no comment as she left with her father and oldest daughter in a dark blue BMW.

Now 33, Deidra Lane pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter in 2003 and was sentenced to at least seven years and 11 months in prison.

Fred Lane, 24, was shot to death at close range with a 12-gauge, pump-action shotgun at the couple's southeast Mecklenburg home. The first blast struck his chest. The second hit the back of his head.

She claimed to be a battered wife, while prosecutors argued she ambushed her husband as he returned home from a trip. Police found his body just inside the front door. His still-packed bag lay nearby, his keys hung in the door lock.

Lane was the Panthers all-time leading rusher at the time. He had a promising career with the Indianapolis Colts, where he'd just been traded.

“I've learned to deal with it,” Fred Lane Sr. said Monday of his son's slaying. “My wife and I have prayed about it. I've prayed that my son is OK. We feel he's in heaven.

“We'll always miss him and regret what happened.”

Fred Lane Sr. said he wants to continue to see his granddaughter, who is 8 and has been living with Deidra Lane's parents in Columbia.

Deidra Lane's parents, Charles and Darlene Gary, could not be reached Monday.

Defense lawyers said Deidra Lane was a battered wife who feared for her life when she killed her husband.

In the weeks before the killing, while she was nine months pregnant, Fred Lane rammed her head into a wall, broke open her lip and threw her down a flight of stairs, her lawyers said.

On the day of the killing, Deidra Lane called 911 sobbing and screaming: “He came in and he started choking me and he said this baby's not mine. He started hitting me. He wouldn't leave me alone. I kept telling him to stop.

“I've never been so scared in my life. He just wanted to hurt me and my baby. And I was so scared I just shot again.”

But Mecklenburg Assistant District Attorney Marsha Goodenow said Deidra Lane ambushed her husband, killing him for a $5 million life insurance policy.

Goodenow told the judge that Fred Lane had left his wife. “She had nothing unless Fred Lane was dead,” the prosecutor said. “She had nothing but a $5 million life insurance policy. The high lifestyle of a professional football player's wife was gone.”

Goodenow said Deidre Lane lay in wait for her husband, and shot him the minute he walked through the door: “While he was down and hopeless and dying of a mortal wound, she inflicted another mortal wound. She chased him as he crawled through his own blood to administer that last shot.”

Fred Lane was signed by the Panthers as a free agent in 1997, and at one point was earning about $600,000 a year. He became a quick fan favorite and rushed for 809 yards his rookie year. He was traded to the Indianapolis Colts in April 2000. He was the Panthers' all-time leading rusher with 2,001 yards when he was killed.

Keith Acree, a spokesman for the N.C. Department of Correction, said Deidra Lane has been a well-behaved inmate. She had two minor infractions, prison records show. Both occurred in March 2004 while she ran a prison canteen. She was accused of having possession of $45 belonging to another inmate and suspected of engaging in an improper transaction with the inmate.

“To only have two minor infractions over that time is a pretty good behavior record,” Acree said.

Deidra Lane is expected to walk out of the Raleigh Correctional Center for Women this morning. One of her parents is expected to pick her up, Acree said.

Lane won't be totally free though. For the next nine months, she'll be supervised by probation officials.

Lane has asked to have her supervision transferred to South Carolina, Acree said, and is awaiting final approval.

Her parents were living in Columbia at the time of Fred Lane's slaying. Charles Gary is a successful businessman there. He ran his own real estate company with about 16 licensed agents, enough to tie it for 10th place in 2000 in the Columbia Business Journal's listing of the city's largest real estate firms.

Deidre Lane also pleaded guilty in federal court to conspiring to commit bank larceny in connection with the 1998 theft of $41,200 from a Wachovia branch on Providence Road in Charlotte. She was sentenced in 2003 to four months in prison.

Her brother, John Brandon Gary, was convicted of committing five bank robberies in Mecklenburg between 1999 and 2000.

Sentenced to 114 years in prison, Gary was accused of getting away with $310,864 in the bank heists.

His projected release date is April 25, 2101.
 
I had a discussion with my lady this morning about this; I'm like... "enough already" this dudes career is tossed that we already understand.

Also for Oprah to weight in on this issue she already has the ability to make people lean either left or right; and the part that kills me is the media only picks up the issue of Domestic Violence when the issue happens.

Months from now we wont be seeing or hearing of this with the "feeding frenzy" that is surrounding the two individuals in question.
 
Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

its not okay either way... if rihanna fucked cb face up the way he did her, she would be receiving similar scrutiny.


Wrong. He would be called a BITCH for getting his ass whooped by a broad. He was in a lose lose.
 
Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

But look at it this way... a woman who kills a man gets WAAAAY more prison time on average than a man who kills a woman. People are disgusted when women do shit like this.

WHERE THE FUCK DID YOU GET THIS INFO?

As a family court advocate with cases that sometimes go to criminal court here in NYC - That is NOT the case. Women do less time for all cases across the board with the exception of child murder but even then it's not by much.
 
If that was your mama would the guys here feel the same way? I don't give a fuck, if my mother or sister said they slapped my father or brother in law, and received an ass whopping like Rihanna did.......... So the brothers here wouldn't do anything? It would be OK? She deserved it? I don't think so.......

Fuck that. If my mother/daughter/aunt/neice/grandmother/best female friend did some shit to contribute to the scenario then no I would never intervene in shit like that. If they are getting brutalized or humiliated thats one thing. They get my support unconditionally. But as far as getting mad or even confronting the dude in a Rihanna-CB situation. No.


What your missing is the accountability being put forth in this 4 page thread. The law of reciprocation should always apply. Fuck a bunch of innocence by association. Thats like weak ass gang mentality not thinking that street justice should be applied to them and their crew even though they can murder, rob and intimidate at will.

Further like dude said even if you would get mad if it was your sister -Rihanna is not. So why the beef? Im reminded of Tom Cruise in Collateral when he asks Jamies charcter if he bat an eyelash for all the suffering goin on in the world. If you are really an advocate for battered women and not just on some moral superiority for the moment shit you ought to be out there making the world a better place.


Yeah, if you say so:rolleyes:

I mean really. Muhfuckas make up all types of bullshit to prop up a weak thesis.
 
Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

I think its becoming more and more acceptable for women to think they can take it there and lay hands on a guy, they know if the cops come she could have a knife with his blood dripping on it he is gonna be arrested first and she can work out her story later. Yeah thats extreme but shit it happens... alot :smh:

Society needs to step on this nonsense asap

thats society now...listen to the music...watch the movies...read the books...they got women thinking they can strike their man or pull a knife out on him for "cheating" or some next B/S....

women hide behind the fact they are women and we are "bigger" and the law will always be in their favor....

my thinking is you strike me get ready to get your shit rocked....

and if you pull a knife on me GOD HELP YOU...i'll put you in the hospital....

the media is turning a blind eye to the fact she hit him while driving....driving a LAMBO at that....

I won't excuse his reaction tho...he totally beat the breaks off her...but she should be condemn for her actions....as well...
 
Fuck that. If my mother/daughter/aunt/neice/grandmother/best female friend did some shit to contribute to the scenario then no I would never intervene in shit like that. If they are getting brutalized or humiliated thats one thing. They get my support unconditionally. But as far as getting mad or even confronting the dude in a Rihanna-CB situation. No.


What your missing is the accountability being put forth in this 4 page thread. The law of reciprocation should always apply. Fuck a bunch of innocence by association. Thats like weak ass gang mentality not thinking that street justice should be applied to them and their crew even though they can murder, rob and intimidate at will.


Further like dude said even if you would get mad if it was your sister -Rihanna is not. So why the beef? Im reminded of Tom Cruise in Collateral when he asks Jamies charcter if he bat an eyelash for all the suffering goin on in the world. If you are really an advocate for battered women and not just on some moral superiority for the moment shit you ought to be out there making the world a better place.




I mean really. Muhfuckas make up all types of bullshit to prop up a weak thesis.

My problem is persons who are agreeing to an disproportional response to violence. A slap in the face does not equate to punching, biting, kicking and choking. Some of the same people go crazy when police officers apply that same theory to people on the street.
 
It is Brown's fault for going too far.... It looks like he tried to kill her by looking at her face... He needs to be accountable
 
I been trying to avoid this story but thanks to Oprah its all over the fucking place including CNN and MSNBC. All I want is Oprah to shut the fuck up and wait 'til we get all the facts.

let's assume that she did hit and slap him first, dude beat tha FUK outta that girl. he could've justified a hit/slap back, but anyone who saw that pic understands the magnitude of that azz whoopin. no defense for that sheit
 
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I beg to differ with that statement dawg,no offense to you but I had a broad hit me in the mouth some years ago,i called the boys,they came to the crib and aksed her if she hit me.
Her:"damn right I hit him".(she answered this in a i got an attitude type manner)
Them "maam you need to get dressed"
Her: What for?
Them: "Your under arrest".
Her: "WHATTTT?!?!?"
Them: Yes Maaam,get your clothes on.
She thought these cats were joking,and that it was excuseable that she wouldnt go to jail for hitting me.
Now additionally what was fucked up in the scenario,her family reacted liked,"you didnt have to have her locked up" and i responded by telling them if I had bashed her ass,would you not expect her to call the law and me get arrested??

Nuff Said

Dont matter what the situation man shouldnt hit a woman without cause if you can help it, and woman definitely should not be putting their hands on a man and not expect to either get the same treatment or end up in lockup.
Cuz a girl ya hit me and im calling the law,thats on top of having cellphone,webcam and any other device i can use backing me up.

Word



MAN OF THE YEAR!!!! :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Now I hope that sometime afterwards you put on some sort of disguise & hit her ass like she hit you. :yes:
 
let's assume that she did hit and slap him first, dude beat tha FUK outta that girl. he could've justified a hit/slap back, but anyone who saw that pic understands the magnitude of that azz whoopin. no defense for that sheit

I am not excusing Chris for what he done, but this shit is looking like the NFL a few years back. When only the reactions were penalized and not the person who started the shit in the first place.

Chris is the only one on the burning stake, Rhianna needs to be as well for her actions. They both need help if it were up to me.
 
I been trying to avoid this story but thanks to Oprah its all over the fucking place including CNN and MSNBC. All I want is Oprah to shut the fuck up and wait 'til we get all the facts.



Yeah I know I quoted TMZ but they have been on point on this case before the normal media. And the fact that this came out means the Rhianna was attacking him like a man. So she did set off that boy. Chris's mistake was just going too far with the beatdown, but I am tired of fucking Oprah saying shit and not thinking Rhianna or any other woman could be doing shit to bring on a physical fight.

I am pretty sure she been hitting on Chris before and he prolly warned her saying if you hit me again I will defend myself.


So I am asking, Why is it okay for a woman to beat on a guy and men are supposed to do nothing?
We see it all the time in the media. A bitch will slap a guy and a man is suppose to do nothing. I'm not for abuse but a woman come at me like a man, especial closed fisted and I say treat her like a man, neither party had any right be physically assaulting each other.


PS: Maybe Chris does need therapy. Why would he stay with a woman that kept hitting on him? If he reported that he would be made fun of. I think the press needs to back off and wait for the whole story.
Naw it's wrong to hit women
 
You will never get a woman on national tv to go with a man's right to protect himself from attack or that she was wrong for attacking.

And on this, please prove me wrong, on this I want to be, but I just haven't seen equality here in the USA.
 
Naw it's wrong to hit women

What if she's a suicide bomber? Or a soldier standing between you and freedom? Or looks like China? No, sorry, she can get an asswhippin. A human being is just as capable as another human being. To automatically assign victim status to one because they have a vagina is rediculous. It assumes that a man cant be 140lbs and a woman cant be 240lbs when really most black females are in the 200lbs range.

Women who can get an asswhippin by me...

Susan Boyle: That tirade was crazy.

Octomom: If she made me take care of 8 kids without consent.

Kate from Jon and Kate plus 8: Slap me in the face and talk condensendly shitty to me one more time pretending its a love tap, bitch.

Nah, man. Oprah is more interested in demonizing black men than getting to the bottom of what happened to Chris and Rih. While she behaves under the pretense that she actually cares about Rihanna, its all a ruse to encourage hatred towards black men. Rihanna going back to her "abuser" requires the belief that he is an "abuser" and she's a true victim. It doesn't occur to Oprah to have a full grasp of what happened or even granting a benefit of the doubt with regards to characterizing Rihanna's injuries as defensive wounds.
 
What if she's a suicide bomber? Or a soldier standing between you and freedom? Or looks like China? No, sorry, she can get an asswhippin. A human being is just as capable as another human being. To automatically assign victim status to one because they have a vagina is rediculous. It assumes that a man cant be 140lbs and a woman cant be 240lbs when really most black females are in the 200lbs range.

Women who can get an asswhippin by me...

Susan Boyle: That tirade was crazy.

Octomom: If she made me take care of 8 kids without consent.

Kate from Jon and Kate plus 8: Slap me in the face and talk condensendly shitty to me one more time pretending its a love tap, bitch.

Nah, man. Oprah is more interested in demonizing black men than getting to the bottom of what happened to Chris and Rih. While she behaves under the pretense that she actually cares about Rihanna, its all a ruse to encourage hatred towards black men. Rihanna going back to her "abuser" requires the belief that he is an "abuser" and she's a true victim. It doesn't occur to Oprah having a full grasp of what happened or even granting a benefit of the doubt with regards to defensive wounds.



I mean seriously how often does that happen. :lol:

If she does that then you don't have to hit her. Put her in a kimora

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I mean seriously how often does that happen. :lol:

If she does that then you don't have to hit her. Put her in a kimora

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Well the affidavit says he put her in a headlock and pressed her up against the windshield while driving. That sounds like self defense and self preservation, that doesn't sound like someone who is wailing on her.
 
Well the affidavit says he put her in a headlock and pressed her up against the windshield while driving. That sounds like self defense and self preservation, that doesn't sound like someone who is wailing on her.

I love how you forget to mention that he bit her

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Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

its not okay either way... if rihanna fucked cb face up the way he did her, she would be receiving similar scrutiny. she was wrong to instigate this mess, but he clearly got into a rage n beat the shit out of her

had she been some random bitch (celebrity or not), it still would have been a big deal, but it wouldnt be as bad... the fact that he did that to someone he claims to love is what has every1 enraged... u gotta be bipolar as shit to do that to someone u love

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No it would not be no big deal if she woulda bangged on him. Whip ass you Ike dont whip ass u a bitch you cant win. Women kno who they can try and cant try. She aint think dude was gone tint that eye. Its two sides to every rumble.
 
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Man it dont even matter anymore
 
man, I sat and watched Dr, Phil say "it doesn't matter if she was pummeling him with a frying pan he shouldn't have hit her, he's an able bodied man... he could have run away" :rolleyes: fuck that, you pussy raised dudes can pump continue pumping that "a woman can do no wrong" shit all you want but I'm not about to be some broads whipping boy. it's you same cats creating this bullshit standard, your girl smack fire out of you when she pleases, even in public, and all you say is "chill, why are you embarrassing yourself?" :smh: grow a set
 
You cats know who this dude is?

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No? It's Amy Winehouse's husband after she admitted to starting a fight with him and fucking him up. Even after she admitted to putting her foot in his ass, he --not her-- was portrayed as the bad guy in the media for defending himself. When the shit went down, she was at the height of her career... shit blew over so fast nobody hardly remembers it.

During the time this happened, Oprah didn't do one special and I didn't hear one woman pull that "Look what she did to his face" bullshit either. So yeah, I'd say there is a double standard.
 
You cats know who this dude is?

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No? It's Amy Winehouse's husband after she admitted to starting a fight with him and fucking him up. Even after she admitted to putting her foot in his ass, he --not her-- was portrayed as the bad guy in the media for defending himself. When the shit went down, she was at the height of her career... shit blew over so fast nobody hardly remembers it.

During the time this happened, Oprah didn't do one special and I didn't hear one woman pull that "Look what she did to his face" bullshit either. So yeah, I'd say there is a double standard.

Thats the one thing I will never never understand Oprah would co-sign women hitting men but when a man hits a woman.......she wants to say he will do it again and all this bullshit like she did with the whole Chris Brown situation :hmm::hmm::hmm:



Like I said Oprah hates men especially black men.....Society tell men to walk away but know full well most women still scratch and claw when you walk away from an argument and expect the man not to hit them back....:smh::smh::smh:
 
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