LoneStar29
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Damn Lone...you DO need a new caliber of men...
WOMAN I was asking for somebody else
Anywhoooooooooooooo lol
Why do fat guys complain about women being too big???
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WOMAN I was asking for somebody elseAnywhoooooooooooooo lol
Why do fat guys complain about women being too big???
Why do men say they don't like gold diggers but when they meet a woman willing to pay her way they take advantage of it and try to make her pay for everything all the time talkin' about "well I've never met a girl like you so let me enjoy this"
You answered your own question. A lil perspective: a man who dates on a regular basis picks up the check most of the time. Dinner + movie + popcorn + flowers etc all adds up. Most frugal men, will gladly step back and allow a woman to pay. If he's always trying to do it, obviously he's trying to take advantage of your willingness to spend.
Why are men so ungrateful when you do something nice for them??? This guy I was seeing told me how he loves lazagna ... I went out of my way to learn how to make it and cooked it for him ... he takes his first bite and says "next time put some more cheese on it" ... he didn't say thank you for trying or I appreciate you going out of your way for me or nothing
Hard to call this one, did he know that it was your first time making it? Sounds like he's the type that analyzes everything, it's hard to turn that off. But, it's still a jerk move to not use manners. A good woman can get you used to royal treatment, and somehow at the end of the day, we think that special treatment is a requirement instead of being appreciative.
Double standards. Learn to use it to your advantage, they ain't going anywhere. Most men wouldn't mind being used / treated like a sex object but it all depends on how it's done.
Why do fat guys complain about women being too big???
Same reason why fat women complain about men being too big. Sides, fat ppl don't like dealing with all their blubber, why would they want to deal with someone else's?
LoneStar29
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So the gold diggers get taken out and treated well but the non-gold diggers get taken advantage of and used to make up for how much money he spent on the gold digger
Makes no sense since the non gold digger will leave his backwards ass then he'll end up with another gold digger he'll end up having to fork even more money out on
So pretty much then it doesn't pay (literally) to be a non gold-digger??? Who said men were simple againBINGO ... wtf is up with that???
Complain that women don't know how to take care of their man but then take advantage of a woman who is trying to take care of her manFrom what I've seen men wanna feel like they have a one up on the woman ... like it's ok for them to be using her but the second she flips the script it's huge deal and she's a hoe and evil
Why do men say they don't like gold diggers but when they meet a woman willing to pay her way they take advantage of it and try to make her pay for everything all the time talkin' about "well I've never met a girl like you so let me enjoy this"
usually when i answer questions, i base them off of my experience, or those of others i know. i can say i've never done that nor the people i know do that. sorry....
Why are men so ungrateful when you do something nice for them??? This guy I was seeing told me how he loves lazagna ... I went out of my way to learn how to make it and cooked it for him ... he takes his first bite and says "next time put some more cheese on it" ... he didn't say thank you for trying or I appreciate you going out of your way for me or nothing
just sounds like that individual is ungrateful/unapreciative
that's a good question. because honestly 9 times out of ten i see women as sex objects. one of the others on here may be able to answer that. i don't consider women who look at men as sex objects "hoes".
Why do fat guys complain about women being too big???
Because there is absolutely nothing attractive about a big woman. nothing. these kats that chase the big girls, trust me if they were able to do better they would in a heartbeat.
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That's a big statement right there...I never understood why men can't like big women, or bigger than average girls. Like its ok to like white girls, asian girls, short girls, and so on but its against nature to like a big girl and that be the genuine reason for it, because they are attracted to them...
So every big girl out there that has a man should think "damn the only reason he is with me is because he can't do better". That's fucked up!
I never understood why men can't like big women, or bigger than average girls. Like its ok to like white girls, asian girls, short girls, and so on but its against nature to like a big girl and that be the genuine reason for it, because they are attracted to them...
So every big girl out there that has a man should think "damn the only reason he is with me is because he can't do better". That's fucked up!
of course there are exceptions to the rule........
how u???
Yeah well then why the fuck he at my house every day and call me several times a day when he is not?
All I know is if I don't make a move there will be no sex and he ALWAYS wants me to ride
I'm good...haven't seen ya in a minute, where ya hiding?
i just left there yesterday. i sent a msg to u telling u i was in town.
Yeah well then why the fuck he at my house every day and call me several times a day when he is not?
All I know is if I don't make a move there will be no sex and he ALWAYS wants me to ride
sounds like your sex is good, but he's lazy.
That's only partially true. I know some cats that are really into big women ( fat nasty women ), and some who fuck with them cuz they self esteem is so low that they feel that is the only kind of women that they can get.
Yeah well then why the fuck he at my house every day and call me several times a day when he is not?
All I know is if I don't make a move there will be no sex and he ALWAYS wants me to ride
Because you are an enabler of his shit...
A stray dog will continue to go to a house if the owner continues to feed it. Even if the food is not that good...
Stop feeding him.
*two cents*
should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does
why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship
why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it
whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage
whats the differene between swallowing and catching it
is it true most men want a woman like their mother
how important is lingere
girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?
how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus
why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line
why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard
whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear
thanks for answering
I can only answer for myself concerning these questions, nobody else.
Here goes:
1. If it does, the 2 of you are on different freak levels. If it doesn't, the 2 of you can purchase batteries in bulk and save a few bucks.
2. Hate
3. Prolly frontin'
4. Be diplomatic then keep it moving
5. no difference in my edition of the playa handbook
6.
7. very, but not a deal breaker
8. Both
9. doesn't bother me as long as she isn't trying to get mine.
10. He doesn't want to catch a hot one when he's "spittin' game"
11. I dunno
12. You should know what his, WTF is she talking 'bout!!!, face looks like fairly early on. If you don't and the 2 of you agree on 99% of stuff then you can be 99% certain one or both of you is bullshitting.
Hope my answers helped you out. Feel free to ask for clarifications. Now back to catching up with the rest of the thread.
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Why do men say they don't like gold diggers but when they meet a woman willing to pay her way they take advantage of it and try to make her pay for everything all the time talkin' about "well I've never met a girl like you so let me enjoy this"
aaahhhh, ummmmmm, HUH?....never heard of this
What the!!!?????
What the hell is in the air up there. Something is stunting the growth of males in Canada.
Some women need to stop drawing from the rogue male pool.
The nature of these questions are so foreign to the way I typically think -- and to the way most people I'm familiar with typically think -- that it's hard to imagine you're regularly encountering men of this ilk. Either that or you've bought into a lot of stereotypes that don't hold water in all cases.
I don't know a single guy that chases or stays with a gold digger, that wants a women like his mother, that gives advice with the deliberate intent of making someone look bad or stupid, that always wants the women on top, that labels a woman a hoe or a bitch prior to her definitively proving she deserves that moniker (which actually seldom happens), that insists on playing mind games, owns an abundance of sex toys (not including videos), and is hell bent on being rude about, dismissive of, or indifferent to a woman's kind gestures (i.e., making Lasagna for instance).
Seriously, are you really constantly meeting men like this?
The nature of these questions are so foreign to the way I typically think -- and to the way most people I'm familiar with typically think -- that it's hard to imagine you're regularly encountering men of this ilk. Either that or you've bought into a lot of stereotypes that don't hold water in all cases.
I don't know a single guy that chases or stays with a gold digger, that wants a women like his mother, that gives advice with the deliberate intent of making someone look bad or stupid, that always wants the women on top, that labels a woman a hoe or a bitch prior to her definitively proving she deserves that moniker (which actually seldom happens), that insists on playing mind games, owns an abundance of sex toys (not including videos), and is hell bent on being rude about, dismissive of, or indifferent to a woman's kind gestures (i.e., making Lasagna for instance).
Seriously, are you really constantly meeting men like this?
Why are men so ungrateful when you do something nice for them??? This guy I was seeing told me how he loves lazagna ... I went out of my way to learn how to make it and cooked it for him ... he takes his first bite and says "next time put some more cheese on it" ... he didn't say thank you for trying or I appreciate you going out of your way for me or nothing
Because he's an ungrateful SOB
EDIT: My bad,this is the quote I meant to quote.
LoneStar29
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All the questions I asked come from my own personal experience ... and those are all different men I am referring to in each question not the same guy which actually makes it even sadder
Edit: The question I asked about men being ungrateful when you do nice things for them or taking advantage of a woman who pays her own way ... that is something that happens to me very frequently ... that is probably the #1 problem I have with men is them trying to take advantage of me when they see I don't operate like the stereotypical woman ... this is why I argue with them fools on the main board so much when they talk about all Black women being this and that cuz I am the opposite of the stereotype in many ways but I still get disrespected by brothas ... in my experience the girls who play the most games get the best guys and woman who hold their men down get taken advantage of
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Lone, I'm not sure what to say.
Either you really do have a penchant for tapping the rogue male pool, or I am wholly uneducated about a very large constituency of the male gender.
I can only do me, and I don't see this all around. Of course, I don't try to date men, so I'm not necessarily exposed to the same stuff.
But let me share this one thing. One day while my ex-wife was working on a term paper for her master's degree, I spent close to fours hours preparing an authentic japanese meal for dinner. I tried my damndest to get everything right. And on whole I did a good job. She paused from her work long enough to wolf down that dinner -- in about fifteen minutes -- before returning right back to her paper. After nine years with her, that one moment sticks out for me almost like no other. I felt really deflated. So I understand the lasagna thing.
Either you really do have a penchant for tapping the rogue male pool, or I am wholly uneducated about a very large constituency of the male gender.
I can only do me, and I don't see this all around. Of course, I don't try to date men, so I'm not necessarily exposed to the same stuff.
But let me share this one thing. One day while my ex-wife was working on a term paper for her master's degree, I spent close to fours hours preparing an authentic japanese meal for dinner. I tried my damndest to get everything right. And on whole I did a good job. She paused from her work long enough to wolf down that dinner -- in about fifteen minutes -- before returning right back to her paper. After nine years with her, that one moment sticks out for me almost like no other. I felt really deflated. So I understand the lasagna thing.
Why does it take a woman walking out or leaving the relationship for a man to decide "I love her, damn she's the one"?
Why do men find it completely okay to share women? I don't understand the whole mentality of keeping a female around that has had sex with 2 and 3 of your boys as well as you.
Why do men feel like it is okay to tell their girl "no sex right now I'm watching the game or something... but if she even acts like she doesn't want it when he comes calling for it, there is a problem?
Why don't men think about who they get pregnant before they do it? I mean is it really to hard for you to take a second and realize that that female in the corner of the club probably won't make a good mother...So wear a damn condom and at least act like you weren't trying to get caught up...
Why do men always think they can come back whenver they want to?
Why is is so hard to believe that you can tell the truth to a female and still get what you want? I mean I am capable of making a decision based on reality and not what you think I want to hear and you just might be surprised by my answer..
Why do men find it completely okay to share women? I don't understand the whole mentality of keeping a female around that has had sex with 2 and 3 of your boys as well as you.
Why do men feel like it is okay to tell their girl "no sex right now I'm watching the game or something... but if she even acts like she doesn't want it when he comes calling for it, there is a problem?
Why don't men think about who they get pregnant before they do it? I mean is it really to hard for you to take a second and realize that that female in the corner of the club probably won't make a good mother...So wear a damn condom and at least act like you weren't trying to get caught up...
Why do men always think they can come back whenver they want to?
Why is is so hard to believe that you can tell the truth to a female and still get what you want? I mean I am capable of making a decision based on reality and not what you think I want to hear and you just might be surprised by my answer..
LoneStar29
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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww did you tell her how that made you feel???
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww did you tell her how that made you feel???
No, I didn't tell her how it made me feel. On other occassions it became apparent that telling her how I feel made me look unmanly in her eyes. So by then I'd stopped doing so. I did mention the word divorce, didn't I?
No, I didn't tell her how it made me feel. On other occassions it became apparent that telling her how I feel made me look unmanly in her eyes. So by then I'd stopped doing so. I did mention the word divorce, didn't I?
I've been trying to think of a good question and I thought of one that I've been wondering for a while.
Will a guy drive a hour from his house to a girls house repeatedly for pussy only??
I mean, is that a good enough reason to make the drive and not feelings for the girl? And this is multiple times a week, not once in a while. And no spending the night type shit every time, mostly sex for hours and then they go on there way?
And if in fact the pussy is a good enough reason, what about if its been going on for more than a year?
Does this all mean she has really good pussy and thats it?
Will a guy drive a hour from his house to a girls house repeatedly for pussy only??
I mean, is that a good enough reason to make the drive and not feelings for the girl? And this is multiple times a week, not once in a while. And no spending the night type shit every time, mostly sex for hours and then they go on there way?
And if in fact the pussy is a good enough reason, what about if its been going on for more than a year?
Does this all mean she has really good pussy and thats it?
Why does it take a woman walking out or leaving the relationship for a man to decide "I love her, damn she's the one"?
A: If it's gotten to that point, you probably should have talked sooner. I don't honestly believe that's what's really going on -- in other words, that's your take. He doesn't really love you -- he just doesn't want to lose you if he doesn't have to. The rogue male wants it his way -- that's why he goes to Burger King.
Why do men find it completely okay to share women? I don't understand the whole mentality of keeping a female around that has had sex with 2 and 3 of your boys as well as you.
Huh? Men do that. I am uneducated!
Why do men feel like it is okay to tell their girl "no sex right now I'm watching the game or something... but if she even acts like she doesn't want it when he comes calling for it, there is a problem?
Sounds to me like there's a problem either way. Did you try to discuss it?
Why don't men think about who they get pregnant before they do it? I mean is it really to hard for you to take a second and realize that that female in the corner of the club probably won't make a good mother...So wear a damn condom and at least act like you weren't trying to get caught up...
See my reference about the rogue pool.
Why do men always think they can come back whenver they want to?
Because you let them?
Why is is so hard to believe that you can tell the truth to a female and still get what you want? I mean I am capable of making a decision based on reality and not what you think I want to hear and you just might be surprised by my answer..
See my reference about the rogue male pool. BTW -- more often than not, the truth is a double-edged sword. Nonetheless, I think it's the way to go, but that's me doing me.
A: If it's gotten to that point, you probably should have talked sooner. I don't honestly believe that's what's really going on -- in other words, that's your take. He doesn't really love you -- he just doesn't want to lose you if he doesn't have to. The rogue male wants it his way -- that's why he goes to Burger King.
Why do men find it completely okay to share women? I don't understand the whole mentality of keeping a female around that has had sex with 2 and 3 of your boys as well as you.
Huh? Men do that. I am uneducated!
Why do men feel like it is okay to tell their girl "no sex right now I'm watching the game or something... but if she even acts like she doesn't want it when he comes calling for it, there is a problem?
Sounds to me like there's a problem either way. Did you try to discuss it?
Why don't men think about who they get pregnant before they do it? I mean is it really to hard for you to take a second and realize that that female in the corner of the club probably won't make a good mother...So wear a damn condom and at least act like you weren't trying to get caught up...
See my reference about the rogue pool.
Why do men always think they can come back whenver they want to?
Because you let them?
Why is is so hard to believe that you can tell the truth to a female and still get what you want? I mean I am capable of making a decision based on reality and not what you think I want to hear and you just might be surprised by my answer..
See my reference about the rogue male pool. BTW -- more often than not, the truth is a double-edged sword. Nonetheless, I think it's the way to go, but that's me doing me.
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My viewpoints:
1. Brinkmanship, but this can be said about both sexes. it's all about who blinks first.
2. Sickening isn't it
Never involved myself in this. I was/still am selfish. I will not knowingly share with the fellas.3. Damn, guilty as charged
. For me it's probably a high comfort level with a pinch of taking her for granted.Since I recognize I do it an occasional reminder would snap me out of it. I also can be diverted from whatever I'm focused on if the lure is provocative enough.4. Thinking with their other head.
5. Man law thing. This cannot be discussed between grown men.
6. I think it's fear of a deep, cut to the bone public rejection. Years ago when I was ummmm, "dating" I would try not to come right out and ask for a ladies time in a crude way that would elicit that kind of response but I did get my point(s) across
.Worked most of the time.
Yeah well then why the fuck he at my house every day and call me several times a day when he is not?
All I know is if I don't make a move there will be no sex and he ALWAYS wants me to ride
Where in the above statement did you mention any 1 person in particular??? By saying "y'all" and "you", you inferred your problem was with A) all men in general; B)no one in particular. As such, he may not be a very sexual person. Not everyone expresses their affection in a physical manner. I've been with a number of women that didn't necessarily like kissing, but they would do so within limits when I initiated it. Talk to him about it & CALMLY explain your needs.
And as for him always wanting you to ride, well he could like the view. Or he may get off on you being dominate. Talk to him about this (and any other issues you have - and we all know you have more issues) as well.
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LoneStar29
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Ok I just realized you said ex-wife
...thanks for answering don and swat
i got a few more
so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them.
This really depends on how the person views gender roles. If someone believes in gender roles then this could be a problem. Also this is sort of giving the woman a taste of her own medicine. It is not easy or fun supporting someone else. If anyone is not financially secure... male or female would raise a problem.
is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?
I would not say damaged goods but if she is attractive more then likely she has made bad decisions when it came to her selection of men. We can't help who we are attracted to but we can chose who we date. Some women will tend to put up walls and barriers around themselves to keep from being disappointed again...which makes is difficult to date them.
is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach
This is very true. A female that has skills in the kitchen is a plus!
what makes a woman special to u
is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?
A manipulating woman is a turn off. Meaning the kind of woman who lies and plays game like she has never had sex before. The kind that makes the good guy wait and gives it freely to her jump offs. As men we would love for our woman to be experienced. We just don't want the fake stuff.
So you're saying it's our fault that some of ya'll try to dog us out
I'm happy to see that some men do not agree with that
Women have to take responsibilities for their choices. In 90% of these situations it was pretty apparent what type of guy she was dealing with. When you do things a certain way expect to be played. Relationships are like credit applications. Would you lend a large amount of money to someone who has bad credit? Of course not because chances are you will not see all of your money returned. Same thing goes for relationships. Some call it relationship credit. If a person has a inconsistent pass and Bad Relationship Credit...then dealing with them may not produce a desired outcome. But you can't play the victim when it was your choice to move forward with this person after you knew and was aware of his shortcomings.
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