Spin Off*Have you ever had a chick...
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yes i have
i handled it well and maturely, i was impressed by the end of it
DETAILS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
DETAILS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
i was talkin to this guy and he told me that he recently took in his lil sister cuz she was having problems w/ their parents and threatened to run away (i was like awww) we kicked it at his place a coupla times but it was always while she was in "school". nothin happened between us sexually even tho he wanted to, i wasn't NO WHERE near that yet; i was still feeling him out to see if i wanted to be in a relationship with him. i have called and she has picked up the phone before and taken messages and what not.
so one day she called me and was like what is ur relationship w/ "x". she was real calm and what not. i could tell instantly from her the question what it was tho. i was like we are just friends (cuz wasn't nothin gonna pop off now lol) why what did he tell you. she was like oh he told me you were blah blah and I just thought it was odd how often yall talked. so i was like nah im not blah and i didn't think the calling was an issue cuz he told me it was just him and his lil sister. she was like oh he said that? so she called me on the phone and he denied everything. she started yellin at him and tellin him to get out and he started laughin sayin yeah aight and she started laughin so i was like...yup this some bull. so she gets back on the phone and was like thank you for bringing this to my attention. i was like um ok and you wont have to worry about me calling anymore. she was like nah u seem cool. i was like nah im good lol.
he called me back later that night and for 2 weeks after trying to explain himself. i just laughed at him. i could have REALLY said some other shit that would have had her HEATED but i didn't see the point. she came at me respectfully and i appreciated that. im not beat for arguing over something that aint worth it. girl all of this happened in LESS than a month...blessing in disguise lol.
Yes, recently. I was truly insulted. It happened on April 1. Therefore, I thought it as an April's Fool Joke. Lucky for me because I would not have been as nice.
The lady has had some medical issues and I guess has some insecurities about her relationship. Anyway, her man has and will always only be a work colleague.
We were friends at one time. That will never happen again. The mere thought of doing something outside of mere work and simple friendship with her man insulted me.
The lady has had some medical issues and I guess has some insecurities about her relationship. Anyway, her man has and will always only be a work colleague.
We were friends at one time. That will never happen again. The mere thought of doing something outside of mere work and simple friendship with her man insulted me.
I had a chick call me about her chick....I'll just say it didn't help when I told her that maybe she should see what has her girl in a frenzy 
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You were wrong in your post tho
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I have had this happen a few times. Once I didnt know dude was married. And once the chick was just pyscho and couldnt get over the factthat dude didnt want her anymore.
In the times it happened I never once was rude w/ the women. I just listened and answered questions....I hate drama.
There is once that I would talk about, but it will make me have black outs.
I have had this happen a few times. Once I didnt know dude was married. And once the chick was just pyscho and couldnt get over the factthat dude didnt want her anymore.
In the times it happened I never once was rude w/ the women. I just listened and answered questions....I hate drama.
There is once that I would talk about, but it will make me have black outs.