Situation #179

[CT's Finest]

Bzzzzzzz!!!!
Wrong.
Or rather, partially right.
Any man that needs his woman to think of him like that has microwavable insecurity issues.



Agree (with this part) 100%.

But, besides the drollery and rhetoric in this thread, wasn't this answer to the OP's "hypothetical" question so GOT DAMNED FUCKING OBVIOUS!!? . . .



Bullshit.

You keep saying that shit and I'm thinking what putrid septic land-fill is she digging this crap out of? LOL

What do you mean by "emotionally strong"?
That's ambiguous as fuck.
What emotion?
You mean, like, catching feelings n shit?
If so, I aint touching that 32 page thread debate.

But if you must, there's mad published literature available on controlled psych experiments examining congruency (or lack thereof) of gender stereotypes related to emotion.
But shit, even then, I've seen some of them and they're mad suspect and over simplified because gotta consider social context and individual differences.

If you ask me, I'd say it's all about the experience and expression of emotions.

Males tend to maintain control over their emotions whereas females tend to be more are emotionally expressive.

I think this is one of the most important things you said here Sean. It's not that men don't have emotion, in most cases we just try to keep our emotions under control and think and act rationally. That's not always the case, but generally speaking I believe that's what those of us who are self aware tend to do. I also agree about women being more expressive. That seems to be the way they operate. Now, this is not to say that women can't control their emotions and that men don't express theirs. There are of course, plenty of exceptions on both sides...

 

[onyxfemme]

Good point ... did "she" tell "him" that???

yep





Dayum Sean! I mean you right dayum!
You scared me

 

[JofromthaNO]

Bzzzzzzz!!!!
Wrong.
Or rather, partially right.
Any man that needs his woman to think of him like that has microwavable insecurity issues.

Happy you corrected that it was partially right

Never said a man needs it, but any partner, male or female, doesn't want to be pointed out to better looking guys/females, even if they are secure...you're in the relationship to point out the things you appreciate and find pleasing to you about the other person...fuck outta here with all that pointing out who is and isn't a good look out in the street! Yeah, as mentioned, it's cute at first, but, if feelings are involved, someone's gonna get mad in the end...

 

[sean69]

I think this is one of the most important things you said here Sean. It's not that men don't have emotion, in most cases we just try to keep our emotions under control and think and act rationally. That's not always the case, but generally speaking I believe that's what those of us who are self aware tend to do. I also agree about women being more expressive. That seems to be the way they operate. Now, this is not to say that women can't control their emotions and that men don't express theirs. There are of course, plenty of exceptions on both sides...

EAST COAST dude! EAST COAST!
That's what I'm saying. There's even an evolutionary basis or argument or whatever for this dichotomy in emotions in humans.

But, no need to expatiate, because it's pretty intuitive.

yep
Dayum Sean! I mean you right dayum!
You scared me

Yew sked?

What did I do?

 

[sean69]

Happy you corrected that it was partially right

Never said a man needs it, but any partner, male or female, doesn't want to be pointed out to better looking guys/females, even if they are secure...you're in the relationship to point out the things you appreciate and find pleasing to you about the other person...fuck outta here with all that pointing out who is and isn't a good look out in the street! Yeah, as mentioned, it's cute at first, but, if feelings are involved, someone's gonna get mad in the end...

Ok, so I'm i'm chillin with my girl and we're watching a flick and all the sudden she's like:
"Damn! That guy is sexy!"

I'm probably too busy trying to dip my donut in the cereal milk and not spill the popcorn at the same time, or my impeccable default "ig" mechanism kicks in quite seemlessly.

I'm not like ...

or

"WTF! Hell no!"

or

"but baby, I can flip through a window kiss you in the rain too!"



... and vice-versa.

Bottom line, two sexually and emotionally secure adults in a relationship shouldn't have a caniption when the other makes a complimentary and perhaps fantasy induced observation

Now if she's like, " Gat dayum! He's sexy as fuck! I'd suck his dick like a black hole!"

I'm Chris Brownin'

 

[CT's Finest]

EAST COAST dude! EAST COAST!
That's what I'm saying. There's even an evolutionary basis or argument or whatever for this dichotomy in emotions in humans.

But, no need to expatiate, because it's pretty intuitive.

EAST COAST!!!


Yes, there are certain topics that lend themselves to long drawn out discussions. I guess it's just a matter of choosing which one of those conversations one wants to engage in at a particular moment...

 

[JofromthaNO]

Bottom line, two sexually and emotionally secure adults in a relationship shouldn't have a caniption when the other makes a complimentary and perhaps fantasy induced observation

Conniption, c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n, Conniption.

Use it in a sentence: I swear I could have a conniption every time Sean misspells a word on BGOL.

 

[sean69]

Conniption, c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n, Conniption.

Use it in a sentence: I swear I could have a conniption every time Sean misspells a word on BGOL.

Why is is pronounced Kah-nip-shun then?

By the way, your sentence (above) is a grammatical c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n.

OH SNAP!
Booyah!!!
In your face mutherfuckerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!

 

[JofromthaNO]

Why is is pronounced Kah-nip-shun then?

By the way, your sentence (above) is a grammatical c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n.

OH SNAP!
Booyah!!!
In your face mutherfuckerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!

Oh, you want to go to war, it seems?!?

Well, c'mon...

If you want to throw down fisticuffs, fine. I've got Jack Johnson and Tom O'Leary waiting for ya, right here.

 

[shanebp1978]

Use it in a sentence: I swear I could have a conniption every time Sean misspells a word on BGOL.

Why is is pronounced Kah-nip-shun then?

By the way, your sentence (above) is a grammatical c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n.

Shalai Lai Lai Halilili Hai Lo!
Hi Li Ba Lai Hey Hi Li Bai Lo!

THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!
THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!

PRAISE BE!

Ha La Shiki Hai Lili Ba La!
Milli Ai Lai Shi Lili Ba La!

http://taylor.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83452444369e201127936edbf28a4-800wi


All the bad burked up bitches go, " LLAA LLAA LLLA LLLALL LLLAA!! "​

 

[mcguyver]

Conniption, c-o-n-n-i-p-t-i-o-n, Conniption.

Use it in a sentence: I swear I could have a conniption every time Sean misspells a word on BGOL.

happens when you get your degree in a supermarket.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Bzzzzzzz!!!!
Wrong.
Or rather, partially right.
Any man that needs his woman to think of him like that has microwavable insecurity issues.



Agree (with this part) 100%.

But, besides the drollery and rhetoric in this thread, wasn't this answer to the OP's "hypothetical" question so GOT DAMNED FUCKING OBVIOUS!!? . . .



Bullshit.

You keep saying that shit and I'm thinking what putrid septic land-fill is she digging this crap out of? LOL

What do you mean by "emotionally strong"?
That's ambiguous as fuck.
What emotion?
You mean, like, catching feelings n shit?
If so, I aint touching that 32 page thread debate.

But if you must, there's mad published literature available on controlled psych experiments examining congruency (or lack thereof) of gender stereotypes related to emotion.
But shit, even then, I've seen some of them and they're mad suspect and over simplified because gotta consider social context and individual differences.

If you ask me, I'd say it's all about the experience and expression of emotions.

Males tend to maintain control over their emotions whereas females tend to be more are emotionally expressive.

Okay Seaney pooh this is what I Mean....

I think women and men are built differently-not to imply inferiority or superiority..but to imply that men and women are complimentary....

Men tend to typically be physically stronger than women, women are emotionally stronger...Though I agree that men try to control their emotions mor, i actually think that this is partly because they are not as emotionally strong so they internalize things and try not to let them get to them....This also why men tend to act out their emotions in a physical way....

A man will do things to avoid facing his feelings.....and men take things to heart more especially in a relationship.

This is why when a woman cheats, men are WAYY less likely take a woman back as opposed to women who tend to be more forgiving...Its ego and inability to emotionally deal with that...the thought of not being good enough, the idea that his women spread her legs for another...so instead of dealing with it and working it through..the man, in an attempt to remain in control emotionally, will cut her off quickly...

Men take a long time to give a woman their hearts, and when they do, it is a big deal...that's why when a woman fucks them over, men typically lash it, woman can make a man do a complete 180...because he is trying to control his emotions, puts his guard up, instead of dealing with it....he will fuck everything moving or completely dog women just because he is trying to keep his emotions in check.... again, the acting out physically/sexually.

every woman on here knows a good dude who gave his heart to a woman, and she fucked up...instead of him working through the emotions, he said fuck it and became a completely different cat as a result.. yes there are some women who are like this..but ive seen it happen more with men...and to a far higher degree of severity....

Men may cheat in a relationship more easily..and though some may say its because of his doggish ways,, in our marriage and family therapy clinic, most men admit to cheating because they dont feel valued or appreciated on some level by their spouse, but could not articulate it verbally, so again, they act out physically.

You may see it is attempting to have control emotionally..but psychologically, when i come across people with control issues, who do not allow expression of their emotions, who are internalizers, they tend to be very emotionally fragile and incredbily sensitive, and their attempt to control is merely to avoid dealing or working through their problems....

 

[JofromthaNO]

Shalai Lai Lai Halilili Hai Lo!
Hi Li Ba Lai Hey Hi Li Bai Lo!

THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!
THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!

PRAISE BE!

Ha La Shiki Hai Lili Ba La!
Milli Ai Lai Shi Lili Ba La!

http://taylor.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83452444369e201127936edbf28a4-800wi


All the bad burked up bitches go, " LLAA LLAA LLLA LLLALL LLLAA!! "​

Uncle Ruckus says," You need Jesus, White Jesus."

 

[shanebp1978]

Uncle Ruckus says," You need Jesus, White Jesus."

I don't care what that sell out Ruckus over their is talking about.

Yoda, a real OG says.

http://i41.tinypic.com/1hw2g6.jpg
​

 

[sean69]

Shalai Lai Lai Halilili Hai Lo!
Hi Li Ba Lai Hey Hi Li Bai Lo!

THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!
THE GREAT GRAMMAR SATAN HAS FALLEN!!
PRAISE BE!
Ha La Shiki Hai Lili Ba La!
Milli Ai Lai Shi Lili Ba La!

http://taylor.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83452444369e201127936edbf28a4-800wi
All the bad burked up bitches go, " LLAA LLAA LLLA LLLALL LLLAA!! "​

This fool said "burked up bitches"

happens when you get your degree in a supermarket.

yur mawm!

 

[sean69]

Okay Seaney pooh this is what I Mean....

I think women and men are built differently-not to imply inferiority or superiority..but to imply that men and women are complimentary....

Men tend to typically be physically stronger than women, women are emotionally stronger...Though I agree that men try to control their emotions mor, i actually think that this is partly because they are not as emotionally strong so they internalize things and try not to let them get to them....This also why men tend to act out their emotions in a physical way....

A man will do things to avoid facing his feelings.....and men take things to heart more especially in a relationship.

This is why when a woman cheats, men are WAYY less likely take a woman back as opposed to women who tend to be more forgiving...Its ego and inability to emotionally deal with that...the thought of not being good enough, the idea that his women spread her legs for another...so instead of dealing with it and working it through..the man, in an attempt to remain in control emotionally, will cut her off quickly...

Men take a long time to give a woman their hearts, and when they do, it is a big deal...that's why when a woman fucks them over, men typically lash it, woman can make a man do a complete 180...because he is trying to control his emotions, puts his guard up, instead of dealing with it....he will fuck everything moving or completely dog women just because he is trying to keep his emotions in check.... again, the acting out physically/sexually.

every woman on here knows a good dude who gave his heart to a woman, and she fucked up...instead of him working through the emotions, he said fuck it and became a completely different cat as a result.. yes there are some women who are like this..but ive seen it happen more with men...and to a far higher degree of severity....

Men may cheat in a relationship more easily..and though some may say its because of his doggish ways,, in our marriage and family therapy clinic, most men admit to cheating because they dont feel valued or appreciated on some level by their spouse, but could not articulate it verbally, so again, they act out physically.

You may see it is attempting to have control emotionally..but psychologically, when i come across people with control issues, who do not allow expression of their emotions, who are internalizers, they tend to be very emotionally fragile and incredbily sensitive, and their attempt to control is merely to avoid dealing or working through their problems....

Cosign everything you just said 100%

Cosign everything you just said 100% if you switch up woman/women with man/men.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Cosign everything you just said 100%

Cosign everything you just said 100% if you switch up woman/women with man/men.

 

[onyxfemme]

ya'll are making my day!!!

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

The only thing she is wrong for is for forgetting that a man's ego is a lot more fragile than a woman's....

If she is bi then he probably thought pointing out other women was coool.. But he isn't bi so pointed out other men is entirely different to him....especially in great detail...

This is truth...

Your are stuk with whom you choose
I gave you enough clues to prove that nig wasn't smoothe.

​

 

[sean69]

This is truth...

OH SNAP!

I missed that.


SHAWTZFAHYAD?

 

[LoneStar29]

OH SNAP!

I missed that.


SHAWTZFAHYAD?

Sean is silly as hell

 

[CT's Finest]

OH SNAP!

I missed that.


SHAWTZFAHYAD?

I'M HIT?

 

[JofromthaNO]

I'M HIT!!!

 

[sean69]

I'M HIT!!!

You ready for tonights session of the Sean/Jo wars?

 

[JofromthaNO]

You ready for tonights session of the Sean/Jo wars?

 

[!!*10der*!!]

I understand the chick is bi and all but still, it's never cool for a dude to give props to another woman with his woman in tow. It's just not.

The mans job is to make his lady feel like she's the baddest bitch period...if he sees a fine chick (and of course his girl notices) that should be the man's que to kiss his woman and remind her that there's no bitch that compares...Just sayin!!​

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I understand the chick is bi and all but still, it's never cool for a dude to give props to another woman with his woman in tow. It's just not.

The mans job is to make his lady feel like she's the baddest bitch period...if he sees a fine chick (and of course his girl notices) that should be the man's que to kiss his woman and remind her that there's no bitch that compares...Just sayin!!​

Did you read where she does the same thing with him? Shit, knowing her, she's probably the FIRST one to point out an ass.

 

[!!*10der*!!]

Yep I read it all, I don't think it's a problem when she says something and then he c/s. It's a problem when he initates it. This is just my opinion...

Did you read where she does the same thing with him? Shit, knowing her, she's probably the FIRST one to point out an ass.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Yep I read it all, I don't think it's a problem when she says something and then he c/s. It's a problem when he initates it. This is just my opinion...

I, again I'm somewhat assuming but am going off past and current knowledge, don't believe that she cares that he points out an ass to her. She's wondering why he flipped out when she doesn't. And that has been explained, primarily because a) it wasn't an "in the moment" thing and b) he's not interested in men.

 

[smoove2k6]

I, again I'm somewhat assuming but am going off past and current knowledge, don't believe that she cares that he points out an ass to her. She's wondering why he flipped out when she doesn't. And that has been explained, primarily because a) it wasn't an "in the moment" thing and b) he's not interested in men.

 

[BigATLslim]

Ok so you go shopping out w/ your man. And he points out various womens asses to you. He looks and occasionally says dayyyyum! You say ok and dayum too because you seen the ass before he did. Plus YOU are bi....You carry own w/ your day.

So while in conversation you mention a nice looking dreadlocked light complected guy w/ a goatee that you saw early in the day.


HE FLIPS OUT! And tells you to never speak of it again and why do you remember so many details about the guy?


Why is the female in this situation wrong??????????



Discuss
​

Easy, she's NOT.

Or maybe it's not that easy. I have always been a bit different. If my girl and I are scoping out asses, that means we have both made a great decision about the other person by the way, why would my thinking be short sighted to the point where there is a possibility that an attractive male caught her eye? I would be "ludacris" to think she is not scoping and taking notes. I may not scope with her but I would have to respect here "scope" of the situation as well. It comes with the territory of being attractive.

That's just my wooden nickel.

 

[onyxfemme]

Did you read where she does the same thing with him? Shit, knowing her, she's probably the FIRST one to point out an ass.

Wrong on this one...I agreed w/ the rest though

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Wrong on this one...I agreed w/ the rest though

What? I can't hear you. What?

 

[onyxfemme]

Shut up

What? I can't hear you. What?

 

[Raptor ES]

Dude needs to chill.

He cant have it one way and not the other. People watching is a two way street.

Simple as that.