One of the hardest things I've had to deal with In my life.

[Deezz]

Is my ex-fiance trying to smear my name and reputation all over the place. From my family, to her friends, and if she gets a chance, to my co-workers.
I am so tired of woman that play the victim and try to make the man out to be a monster when it's the other way around. Or woman that use the legal system in their favor.
Especially in my situation where she was the aggressive one. Aggressive verbally with the insults and name calling.
I will say it's my fault for not leaving this situation sooner, but DAMN!!! this chick is getting out of hand with the lies and deciet. It's hard to defend this complete bullshit.
Now before SOL mounts the attack on me, I know it's not all woman, but for those that want to play the victim, the laws are usually in their favor.
Oh well.....live and learn. Thank God I'm out of that relationship.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Sometimes I wonder if people know what this side is for.

Then I wonder if this side knows what this side is for.

Then I eat a chip.

Then I laugh.

 

[Deezz]

Sometimes I wonder if people know what this side is for.

Then I wonder if this side knows what this side is for.

Then I eat a chip.

Then I laugh.

Man...I don't know. I know it's 2 in the morning and all my friends are sleep and I needed to fuckin vent.

Fuck it....

 

[jucurious]

Is my ex-fiance trying to smear my name and reputation all over the place. From my family, to her friends, and if she gets a chance, to my co-workers.
I am so tired of woman that play the victim and try to make the man out to be a monster when it's the other way around. Or woman that use the legal system in their favor.
Especially in my situation where she was the aggressive one. Aggressive verbally with the insults and name calling.
I will say it's my fault for not leaving this situation sooner, but DAMN!!! this chick is getting out of hand with the lies and deciet. It's hard to defend this complete bullshit.
Now before SOL mounts the attack on me, I know it's not all woman, but for those that want to play the victim, the laws are usually in their favor.
Oh well.....live and learn. Thank God I'm out of that relationship.

ummm k. i see you are having a tell 'em why u really mad moment lol

this is more of a random thought, confession or a fuck u thread type post lol

UNLESS there is a question to be asked lol

 

[delril7]

Is my ex-fiance trying to smear my name and reputation all over the place. From my family, to her friends, and if she gets a chance, to my co-workers.
I am so tired of woman that play the victim and try to make the man out to be a monster when it's the other way around. Or woman that use the legal system in their favor.
Especially in my situation where she was the aggressive one. Aggressive verbally with the insults and name calling.
I will say it's my fault for not leaving this situation sooner, but DAMN!!! this chick is getting out of hand with the lies and deciet. It's hard to defend this complete bullshit.
Now before SOL mounts the attack on me, I know it's not all woman, but for those that want to play the victim, the laws are usually in their favor.
Oh well.....live and learn. Thank God I'm out of that relationship.

Not for nothing your friends and family should already know what youre about and her opinion should not change the image you have portrayed.

 

[Deezz]

Not for nothing your friends and family should already know what youre about and her opinion should not change the image you have portrayed.

True. My friends arent't the issue. They know she is crazy as fuck. It's just some of my family that I am not really close to that love to gossip and start shit.
She will tell a bunch of lies to her friends, but that's to be expected. I usually brutally honest to myself. Meaning I take full responsibilty for my actions and don't try to put my fuck ups on anyone else. She loves to play the victim....when she's nobody's victim.
At the end of the day, there is nothing I can do about it and we weren't close anyway.
It's just frustrating for someone to tell flat out lies about you and not be appreciative of the sacrifices that I've made in the relationship.

 

[shanebp1978]

Is my ex-fiance trying to smear my name and reputation all over the place. From my family, to her friends, and if she gets a chance, to my co-workers.
I am so tired of woman that play the victim and try to make the man out to be a monster when it's the other way around. Or woman that use the legal system in their favor.
Especially in my situation where she was the aggressive one. Aggressive verbally with the insults and name calling.
I will say it's my fault for not leaving this situation sooner, but DAMN!!! this chick is getting out of hand with the lies and deciet. It's hard to defend this complete bullshit.
Now before SOL mounts the attack on me, I know it's not all woman, but for those that want to play the victim, the laws are usually in their favor.
Oh well.....live and learn. Thank God I'm out of that relationship.

Uh, I think you knew who she was from the get.

She is who she is.

Be you. There's nothing wrong with it.

 

[onyxfemme]

1st let me say I dont see anything wrong w/ his post. Maybe everyone should go back and read what SOL is about. It is on the main page before entering.
But yeah this should have been a confession or like Ju said ask a question...

Regarding your topic-I have to agree w/ Shane you knew who and what she was from jump so what do you expect?

I am going through the same thing right now. I was lied to, stolen from, abused on so many levels, cheated on you name it....I agreed to let my ex stay in my home until he got on his feet again although he did all of the above things. Anywho now that I moved on, upgraded and left I am every name in the book. He has been calling my family and friends causing all kinds of mess....
Am I surprised..Yep But who should I be mad at?
No body but myself. He showed me who he was a looooooong time ago and I didnt believe it. I chose to stay and be the "good" wife.

When someone shows you who they are believe them...If you dont shame on you for the repercussions.

 

[Iron]

Sometimes I wonder if people know what this side is for.

Then I wonder if this side knows what this side is for.

Then I eat a chip.

Then I laugh.

uh get some type of police report or court order agaisnt her and post that shit on myspace or face book/twitter fight fire with fire man. tell her co workers she got herpes or the monster or some shit and if she confronts u about it in public go off on her and embarss her yell as loud as u can call her a crazy lying bitch make it look like she's attacking u and mase that bitch in the face.

throw a water bottle at her make sure she just got "her hair did."

us men gotta stand up and defend our selves the after effects of the feminist movement are getting out of hand.

Don't be a victim of abusive women.

Fight the power!

serioulsy in these type of situations the most effective way to solve it is to get the law involved, but you're a man u report this shit with out her causing any physical damage to u or your property they'll laugh u right out of the court house/ police station. so the best thing to do is to be as fucked up and crazy as she is. lol she bullying u knowing u aint gonna do shit back.

 

[Deezz]

1st let me say I dont see anything wrong w/ his post. Maybe everyone should go back and read what SOL is about. It is on the main page before entering.
But yeah this should have been a confession or like Ju said ask a question...

Regarding your topic-I have to agree w/ Shane you knew who and what she was from jump so what do you expect?

I am going through the same thing right now. I was lied to, stolen from, abused on so many levels, cheated on you name it....I agreed to let my ex stay in my home until he got on his feet again although he did all of the above things. Anywho now that I moved on, upgraded and left I am every name in the book. He has been calling my family and friends causing all kinds of mess....
Am I surprised..Yep But who should I be mad at?
No body but myself. He showed me who he was a looooooong time ago and I didnt believe it. I chose to stay and be the "good" wife.
When someone shows you who they are believe them...If you dont shame on you for the repercussions.

This is how I feel. When I saw all the madness start with her, I kinda thought I could fix it or things would get better. You are so right, I only have myself to blame for this one. I should have been gone before all this ridiculous drama started with her calling and emailing my family with a bunch of lies.
Reason I say it's hard is because of the loss of privacy and control. Who knows what she is telling people. She just plays the victim like no other.
This has been one hell of a learning experience. Like your ex, this woman is the most unappreciate individual I've ever met.
I actually saved her house from being taken from the bank. What do I get in return, like you, I am every name in the book.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

When someone shows you who they are believe them...

True Stuff right here... and what Shane said...

@Iron!

When someone feels the need to try to badmouth the other person, its coming from an insecure place. She is trying to prove to everyone else that it wasn't her fault, but yours, even though they may already know. Especially if she's badmouthing you to YOUR family and not people who are supposed to be on on her side. All you can do is keep on keeping on...

 

[onyxfemme]

True Stuff right here... and what Shane said...

@Iron!

When someone feels the need to try to badmouth the other person, its coming from an insecure place. She is trying to prove to everyone else that it wasn't her fault, but yours, even though they may already know. Especially if she's badmouthing you to YOUR family and not people who are supposed to be on on her side. All you can do is keep on keeping on...

True on so many levels...I am going to take this advice myself.

 

[Deezz]

True Stuff right here... and what Shane said...

@Iron!

When someone feels the need to try to badmouth the other person, its coming from an insecure place. She is trying to prove to everyone else that it wasn't her fault, but yours, even though they may already know. Especially if she's badmouthing you to YOUR family and not people who are supposed to be on on her side. All you can do is keep on keeping on...

Damn. That is so true. That's what I told my people last night. She has not said one word to her side of the family. She is just hell bent on making me look like shit.