My Romantic experiences with African men have been...

thighsneyez22

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Please finish this sentence ladies.

Any and all stories are welcome. I am conducting non-scientific (personal) research~lol.

(I am focusing on men from South Africa, Nigeria or Ghana but if you've got others please feel free to add.)
 
*taps thighsneyez on shoulder, puts arms around her waist and whispers*
"When are you gonna take some more pictures, you know what they do to me"
 
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interesting. most black women i know who dated africans said it turned into assault. n battery
 
*taps thighsneyez on shoulder, puts arms around her waist and whispers*
"When are you gonna take some more pictures, you know what they do to me"
The Black women in your post, who is she and do you have anymore photos of her? Her shape is incredible!
 
interesting. most black women i know who dated africans said it turned into assault. n battery

'Most' infers more than half...
Now you either know very few black women that have dated Africans or that is such a high percentage that I would have a hard time accepting it without further investigation.....
 
i dated/dating (lol) a guy from africa (madagascar)

he is the only african guy i have entertianed...

my experience with him has been the opposite of the "sterotypes"..he isnt pushy or aggressive...nor does he blow up my phone or stalk me

it kinda took me back at first....i thought maybe he wasnt that into me....but hes just real laid back

but when im around him tho he is super super affectionate and sweet

i was raised to always be weary of africans so honestly i havent given him the chance i should....honestly its something that i need to overcome..he seems like a sweet guy
 
i dated/dating (lol) a guy from africa (madagascar)

he is the only african guy i have entertianed...

my experience with him has been the opposite of the "sterotypes"..he isnt pushy or aggressive...nor does he blow up my phone or stalk me

it kinda took me back at first....i thought maybe he wasnt that into me....but hes just real laid back

but when im around him tho he is super super affectionate and sweet

i was raised to always be weary of africans so honestly i havent given him the chance i should....honestly its something that i need to overcome..he seems like a sweet guy

no offense...but its probably because you're kinda big..... I've heard that the african dudes worship big women..........not to mention you a cool ass girl OFFLINE....
 
i dated/dating (lol) a guy from africa (madagascar)


i was raised to always be weary of africans so honestly i havent given him the chance i should....

thats familiar to me

question- what is the truth behind that stereotype. why were you raised to not entertain african men? just curious what you were told.
 
so what's your take?

I don't think there any more assault and battery incidents involving African men and black american women than there are involving black American men and black american women.
There may be cultural differences that sometimes are hard to reconcile, but hey men and women have differences that are hard to reconcile. If your feeling him and he's feeling you, then shit can work.....!!!
 
thats familiar to me

question- what is the truth behind that stereotype. why were you raised to not entertain african men? just curious what you were told.

my mother always warned me not to date african men for a few reasons:
they are possessive
they are stalkers
abusive/treat thier women like shit
once we get married he will bring all his family over from africa and live with us:lol:

as far as my experience with the sterotypes....ive heard stories from girlfriends....i have only seen an african man dog out a woman once first hand...and she was kinda throwed off herself
 
'Most' infers more than half...
Now you either know very few black women that have dated Africans or that is such a high percentage that I would have a hard time accepting it without further investigation.....

again. most "I" know who "have dated" africans have said it turned into assault n battery. one case of rape.
 
I have had to fight an obsessive African nigga because he didn't understand that she wasn't fuckin with him no more.

same here kicked a nigerians ass for harassing one of friends. she dated him once. tried to force him upon herself. then from that point whenever he was drunk he would bang on her door in the middle of the night (they both lived in the same apt complex)

he did that shit two times while i was there. first time she begged me not too. i didn't. second time i said fuck it. beat his ass from her door to the elevator down the elevator to the 1st floor from the 4th into the lobby.
 
i dated/dating (lol) a guy from africa (madagascar)

he is the only african guy i have entertianed...

my experience with him has been the opposite of the "sterotypes"..he isnt pushy or aggressive...nor does he blow up my phone or stalk me

it kinda took me back at first....i thought maybe he wasnt that into me....but hes just real laid back

but when im around him tho he is super super affectionate and sweet

i was raised to always be weary of africans so honestly i havent given him the chance i should....honestly its something that i need to overcome..he seems like a sweet guy


i think it's a regional thing. not a general widespread sort of thing.
 
really? care to elaborate a little bit?

is it true that nigerians are the worse?



well, y'all know how strongly i hate nigerians.:angry:

but i think you'll find the more violent types from those areas, nigeria, congo, sudanese, darfur, rwanda, some parts of south africa etc.

with the exception of some tribesmen from places like kenya (which is an extremely civilized area for the most), and other areas you'll less likely find them as extremely violent towards women. you gotta remember we are talking about tribes who mutilate and even cannabilize women n shit.
 
well, y'all know how strongly i hate nigerians.:angry:

but i think you'll find the more violent types from those areas, nigeria, congo, sudanese, darfur, rwanda, some parts of south africa etc.

with the exception of some tribesmen from places like kenya (which is an extremely civilized area for the most), and other areas you'll less likely find them as extremely violent towards women. you gotta remember we are talking about tribes who mutilate and even cannabilize women n shit.

I agree. East African and North African niggas are cool, as far as I've seen. But West African, Central and some South niggas, wilin out.
 
The only thing I've noticed is that their dicks are bigger ... this is from my own experience and the experience of my girls who have also slept with African men ... other than that I would say it was the same as with other Black men:dunno:
 
I agree. East African and North African niggas are cool, as far as I've seen. But West African, Central and some South niggas, wilin out.


The only thing I've noticed is that their dicks are bigger ... this is from my own experience and the experience of my girls who have also slept with African men ... other than that I would say it was the same as with other Black men:dunno:


I have found these things to be true also. I try not generalize and give ppl a chance on an individual basis. .. but I have had some bad experiences with Nigerians and Ghanians in particular.
 
The only thing I've noticed is that their dicks are bigger ... this is from my own experience and the experience of my girls who have also slept with African men ... other than that I would say it was the same as with other Black men:dunno:

^^^Probably the smartest post in this whole thread so far.

It never fails to amaze me how black people find so many ways to discriminate against themselves thus proving that moronic bigotry is not the sole or exclusive preserve of the white man.:smh:

You've got fucking twats in here venting because they were stupid and greedy enough to fall for "419" scams that only a complete moron would get caught out by, and all of a sudden, all West African men are potential stalkers, wife beaters and rapists.

I thought that's was how most of White America see's African-American men?
 
^^^Probably the smartest post in this whole thread so far.

It never fails to amaze me how black people find so many ways to discriminate against themselves thus proving that moronic bigotry is not the sole or exclusive preserve of the white man.:smh:

You've got fucking twats in here venting because they were stupid and greedy enough to fall for "419" scams that only a complete moron would get caught out by, and all of a sudden, all West African men are potential stalkers, wife beaters and rapists.

I thought that's was how most of White America see's African-American men?

Preach.
 

I never even noticed that until you pointed it out ... that was sort of fucked up ... especially since WE ARE ALL African in our roots

^^^Probably the smartest post in this whole thread so far.

It never fails to amaze me how black people find so many ways to discriminate against themselves thus proving that moronic bigotry is not the sole or exclusive preserve of the white man.:smh:

You've got fucking twats in here venting because they were stupid and greedy enough to fall for "419" scams that only a complete moron would get caught out by, and all of a sudden, all West African men are potential stalkers, wife beaters and rapists.

I thought that's was how most of White America see's African-American men?

Very good post ... and it is very true that we are much harder on ourselves than others are I think

Another thing that kills me is why do SOME Black people act as if being African is another race??? I've had sooooooo many people say to me "Oh you're African? I thought you were Black!" ... and I'm like:confused:
 
Another thing that kills me is why do SOME Black people act as if being African is another race??? I've had sooooooo many people say to me "Oh you're African? I thought you were Black!" ... and I'm like:confused:

those types of people, you shouldnt even bother interacting with. dont even waste your time with them. cos they're past ignorance.
 
those types of people, you shouldnt even bother interacting with. dont even waste your time with them. cos they're past ignorance.

^^^The only problem with ignoring people like this is that their ignorance remains unchecked to spread like a malicious virus.

As an African man, I can't say that I fall into any of the ridiculous stereotypes that some idiots choose to throw around with reckless abandon.

I was brought up to respect people regardless of race or gender as well as treating everyone I met with the same level of dignity that I would want to be treated with.

I always laugh when people find it hard to believe that I'm African just because I have an English accent.
 
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