Feminism's Fatal Flaw-Equality
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Dam he fucked that point up I get what his argument was but he could have present it in a better way.
yes I've beentrying to tell the women around me for years i'll treat you with equal respect and dignity but you can't do what men do, some women can but most can't.
yes I've beentrying to tell the women around me for years i'll treat you with equal respect and dignity but you can't do what men do, some women can but most can't.
Real talk.
Feminism fucked up the world got some women thinking they can have an interchangeable dick and a pussy but when u treat a woman like a dude she switches the pussy after poppin shit like she has a dick.
only good thing about feminists is they are good in bed b/c they wanna out fuck u so u can bow down to them.
only good thing about feminists is they are good in bed b/c they wanna out fuck u so u can bow down to them.
Short and he made good points...
I have a feeling he could've gone into depth more.
I have a feeling he could've gone into depth more.
so what can men do that women cant?
Peace,
Can someone explain to me why so many cats are threatened by feminism?
Can someone explain to me why so many cats are threatened by feminism?
This timing out is crazy on BGOL...
Anyway, I agree with the guy 100% that men and women are not equal. Men are stronger physically. Men AND women are emotional creatures, so I never buy into that mess about men being more rational and les emotional. Plenty of over-emotional men on BGOL. There are certain roles only a man can fill, and vice versa for women. But I do think society and men expect so much more from women.
Why should I make 80 cents on the dollar for doing the same job as a man? A lot of men will say that we get maternity leave so we should not get the same pay. But if you really sit and think about it, not only do we work full-time, we also raise our children and take care of our husbands. So technically we are holding down at least 2 jobs, so we should be paid more. But we are only asking to be paid the same...
I do not get his point about holding doors open, etc, meaning that we are not equal. What does a man being chivalrous have to do with me getting paid the same for doing the same work?MY OPINION
Anyway, I agree with the guy 100% that men and women are not equal. Men are stronger physically. Men AND women are emotional creatures, so I never buy into that mess about men being more rational and les emotional. Plenty of over-emotional men on BGOL. There are certain roles only a man can fill, and vice versa for women. But I do think society and men expect so much more from women.
Why should I make 80 cents on the dollar for doing the same job as a man? A lot of men will say that we get maternity leave so we should not get the same pay. But if you really sit and think about it, not only do we work full-time, we also raise our children and take care of our husbands. So technically we are holding down at least 2 jobs, so we should be paid more. But we are only asking to be paid the same...
I do not get his point about holding doors open, etc, meaning that we are not equal. What does a man being chivalrous have to do with me getting paid the same for doing the same work?MY OPINION
case in point.
i used to work at a warehouse.
i worked with a woman that actually made more money than me.
when it came time to "work",she couldnt lift the boxes.
only the very very light ones.
why should she be getting paid the same or more when she can't do the same job?
Because she is doing the same job. I am sure there are other men there who can not lift the same as you, but are getting paid the same as you or her. I am sure there was a lift test before you started working, so she must have passed it. Why she's lifting only the light boxes, you have to take that up with your supervisor
We know why feminism threatens men here. But they should probably stop rationalizing it as evil.
As for opening doors and chivalry, it's just that you can't have it both ways. Chivalry sends a message that women are helpless and need to be taken care of by men. You can't be equal, and then expect to be treated with kid gloves, it's having your cake and eating it too.
Not that you're wrong for wanting that, but once again... it's not a good argument to make.
Most of this is gonna take time. Eventually, men will stop expecting to support women by default, and women will stop believing that if they have a full time job,then the housework and child care is still all their responsibility. But that takes time.
As for opening doors and chivalry, it's just that you can't have it both ways. Chivalry sends a message that women are helpless and need to be taken care of by men. You can't be equal, and then expect to be treated with kid gloves, it's having your cake and eating it too.
Not that you're wrong for wanting that, but once again... it's not a good argument to make.
Most of this is gonna take time. Eventually, men will stop expecting to support women by default, and women will stop believing that if they have a full time job,then the housework and child care is still all their responsibility. But that takes time.
she is doing the same "job" in title only.
and there was no lift test.
i dont work there anymore that was just an example.
Watching the response closely...
To me chivalry shows that a man cares about me and WANTS to take care of me. All of those things are things that I can do for myself, but it is special when another person does it for me. In that sense, we are equal. But like I said earlier there are certain roles that are the man's role
im sure some 300 pound butch bitch could take on guys in the nfl
How many 300lb women do you know? And how many are physically fit and muscular like the men in the NFL? Some things men just do better, and that is fine.
how many skinny niggas do u see in the nfl? you know how much weight training and excersize players have to go through, im sure it would be the same for women
I do not see any *****s in the NFL
But there are plenty of skinny men. How skinny a man is does not determine his strength, speed, or agility as has been proven to me soooooo many times 
But from what I've seen a man and a woman with the same exact height and weight: the man is stronger. Also women do not build muscle mass as easily as men because of estrogen... That's why we have hips and breasts and yall don't.
Chivalry perpetuates sexism, plain and simple. Chivalry cannot coexist in a society where men and women are treated as equals.
It's just that most of the women I know want to be treated as equals and still enjoy the spoils of being someones "little lady".
Men do not have to do it if they are worried about "sexism". But there are a lot of other "sexist" things that I need yall to fix before stopping chivalry. Men and women are not equal in all things. But we are equal in MOST thingsTo me chivalry shows that a man cares about me and WANTS to take care of me. All of those things are things that I can do for myself, but it is special when another person does it for me. In that sense, we are equal. But like I said earlier there are certain roles that are the man's role
This is actually very true.
If sex equality existed from the beginning of the human race chivalry would never exist.
You're joking, right?
So you don't have an explanation?
There's plenty of over-emotional men for the same reason that there are heartless women, because our society is totally screwed up. That's why and daddy not being there and the extreme feminazis on the left are the reason for both. Both are the reason that men are 30 years old and don't know how to be men and why 30 year old women don't know how to be ladies.
Simple as that. And why is it your job's place to pay you for child care? You chose to have them. And most parents I know drop their kids off at school or day care while they work, so what how many women do you know that are at work and taking care of their kids at the same time? What kind of office is that? And other than a half-hearted ass blow job once in a blue moon, how do women "take care of their husbands" these days. Now, our mamas and grandmamas did all that shit, but in this generation? Most women are like "Nigga, you can get your own sandwhich/glass of water/TV remote/newspaper."
And then you top it off with the fact that women don't cook, clean or do anything today that's considered womens work these, which is why the kids are so obese from eating at McDonalds and Burger King everyday.
You guys can't have it both ways. You can't look down on your mothers and grandmothers and swear off "women's work" because it's "old-fashion", while at the same wanting to take credit for all the stuff that they did, but that YOU guys don't do anymore.
Let's be serious, most of you guys get in the morning and go to work, just like most of us do and then you come home and do basically the same shit that we do, with the exception of more shopping on your part, while we watch sports or play Playstation and shit. Women in general are not domestics today.
In fact, I cook more than any woman I know.(outside of my mother), but men are still supposed to know how to fix tires, change the oil, take out the garbage, carry all the heavy shit, protect you if somebody breaks in with the bat/guy under the bed and defend your honor if somebody fucks with you in the club.
and most of all, women do not make 80% of what men do. When you factor in the "flex" schedules that mothers work sometimes where they work 4 days out of the week instead of 5 and and the time off for pregnancy and family time, they actually make 98% of what men make. And even more per hour sometimes.
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Are you on crack? There are plenty of 165, 170 lb running backs, cornerbacks, return men, and kickers and punters in the NFL. Do you think Deion Sanders and Devin Hester and Marvin Harrison are all 6'4" 250 lbs?
Please tell me you're a woman and not a brain dead simp.
To me chivalry shows that a man cares about me and WANTS to take care of me. All of those things are things that I can do for myself, but it is special when another person does it for me. In that sense, we are equal. But like I said earlier there are certain roles that are the man's role
Yeah, but real talk, the way this is taught to men, is that you have to do it because women are soft and delicate creatures we have to protect from the real world. Even the equality talk is usually fake, just letting her feel secure even though she could never handle things on her own.
Try to take a step back, look at chivalry and all of that impartially. We treat you like children, and tell you anything you want to hear. You love us for it. Give yourselves as possessions for it. You think it's easy to respect y'all after that? You can spin chivalry however you want, but it's obvious how we as men usually see it.
In a relationship, all of the things we do for each other can be different. I'm talking in general.
Another example, take it like you will...
Women who date criminals. They enjoy the spoils of that life, but none of the risks. An easy copout to claim love, and just chill and spend that money.
Plenty of these guys treat these women well... like they keep a new car polished, or tweak their badass stereo system... They are possessions who don't like to think about it. Just sit back and enjoy being treated "like a lady."
Women who date criminals. They enjoy the spoils of that life, but none of the risks. An easy copout to claim love, and just chill and spend that money.
Plenty of these guys treat these women well... like they keep a new car polished, or tweak their badass stereo system... They are possessions who don't like to think about it. Just sit back and enjoy being treated "like a lady."
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