Well since I am the female on board, let me school these dumb niggas about women and how we feel about "holding out on sex". This is a response to a recent thread about how long a man should wait before having sex with a female:
1. She wants to fucks but she doesnt want to complicate things. By now, men should know that men and women are very similar when it comes to "wanting" to have sex. Ya freaky niggas know women are freaky just like ya. However, we are "emotional" human beings! We don't like being #2 on a guys list of females, we like attention and we want commitment. When sex comes into the picture, we start to want these things. Just think about how a female acts "BEFORE" sex and "AFTER" sex! Two different feelings, two different sets of emotions....
2. She wants to see if you are going to wait around but more importantly, she is trying to find out what type of nigga you are. Nowadays, bust downs and hoes are fucking it up for the "average" woman. So when a girl really likes a guy, she wants to see where his head is at. Its easy for niggas to get pussy so we dont want to feel like a "bust down" if we know we truly are not.
3. Men and woman are looking for different types of relationships at different times in their lives. Men and WOMEN sometimes just wants to have sex, a casual relationship, or they may want to get emotionally serious with someone. Just because I want a boyfriend now doesnt mean that is what a man may be looking for at that time. and Vice Versa. So if a man waits around, either he is getting pussy somewhere else or really has an interest in you. And due to the immaturity and "thirstiness" of fake thugs nowdays, it is quite easy to tell the difference.
4. I really need to ask this question? Ya niggas know ya beat ya meat, why is it so hard to wait on a female. Yeah, I know its not the same thing but damn, niggas be acting like if they dont get pussy the first couple of weeks, they are about to die! Calm down, watch some flicks, think about the bitch that you are waiting for, and cum!
5. Its takes a long time to get to know people! A month is not a very long time! Get to know her. People dont understand that women hide who they really are until they feel comfortable. Its easy to see what type of man you are dealing with. Men are really not that hard to please. Men really are NOT willing to change who they are. Men usually have the attitude "expect who I am or bounce!" Women are willing to change who they are for a man. Again, we are complex, we wont come out of our shell for about a year or so because we want to make sure that the man likes "the real me".
Think like this and ya niggas will start getting more QUALITY PUSSY!
1. She wants to fucks but she doesnt want to complicate things. By now, men should know that men and women are very similar when it comes to "wanting" to have sex. Ya freaky niggas know women are freaky just like ya. However, we are "emotional" human beings! We don't like being #2 on a guys list of females, we like attention and we want commitment. When sex comes into the picture, we start to want these things. Just think about how a female acts "BEFORE" sex and "AFTER" sex! Two different feelings, two different sets of emotions....
2. She wants to see if you are going to wait around but more importantly, she is trying to find out what type of nigga you are. Nowadays, bust downs and hoes are fucking it up for the "average" woman. So when a girl really likes a guy, she wants to see where his head is at. Its easy for niggas to get pussy so we dont want to feel like a "bust down" if we know we truly are not.
3. Men and woman are looking for different types of relationships at different times in their lives. Men and WOMEN sometimes just wants to have sex, a casual relationship, or they may want to get emotionally serious with someone. Just because I want a boyfriend now doesnt mean that is what a man may be looking for at that time. and Vice Versa. So if a man waits around, either he is getting pussy somewhere else or really has an interest in you. And due to the immaturity and "thirstiness" of fake thugs nowdays, it is quite easy to tell the difference.
4. I really need to ask this question? Ya niggas know ya beat ya meat, why is it so hard to wait on a female. Yeah, I know its not the same thing but damn, niggas be acting like if they dont get pussy the first couple of weeks, they are about to die! Calm down, watch some flicks, think about the bitch that you are waiting for, and cum!
5. Its takes a long time to get to know people! A month is not a very long time! Get to know her. People dont understand that women hide who they really are until they feel comfortable. Its easy to see what type of man you are dealing with. Men are really not that hard to please. Men really are NOT willing to change who they are. Men usually have the attitude "expect who I am or bounce!" Women are willing to change who they are for a man. Again, we are complex, we wont come out of our shell for about a year or so because we want to make sure that the man likes "the real me".
Think like this and ya niggas will start getting more QUALITY PUSSY!
