How women on this board are single?

[JofromthaNO]

I can dig that.

husband or boyfriend? And are you guys going to live happily ever after?

He is my boyfriend. 'Happily ever after,' I believe, doesn't exist in any relationship. As an earlier poster said, one will have ups and downs, highs and lows in a relationship. However, I believe that I will spend my lifetime showing him that he is THE ONE for me, and I am confident that he will do the same for me.

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

I was single becuase I chose to be...I was enjoying being young and successful in my career....Then he appeared and turned my world upside down and all around...He was the one who touched my inner being. We were close for no reason. It felt like we had known each other forever

Then he pulled the rug out from under me and the happiness was no more and I was single again...

Now I'm happy again and no longer single...and I couldn't be where I am today in the relationship that I am in now had it not been for the above.... you go through things ...Oh well....

 

[SWATLANTA]

He is my boyfriend. 'Happily ever after,' I believe, doesn't exist in any relationship. As an earlier poster said, one will have ups and downs, highs and lows in a relationship. However, I believe that I will spend my lifetime showing him that he is THE ONE for me, and I am confident that he will do the same for me.

Jo, there is only one "THE ONE", and I am spoken for....



*grabs brush and tightens up waves*

















*bungees*

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

He is my boyfriend. 'Happily ever after,' I believe, doesn't exist in any relationship. As an earlier poster said, one will have ups and downs, highs and lows in a relationship. However, I believe that I will spend my lifetime showing him that he is THE ONE for me, and I am confident that he will do the same for me.

Ok cool


Now my question is could you be cool with out him, if say, god forbid, he passed away... could you still be able to be happy and share love with someone else?

Because unfortunately, I know people can leave your life by the snap of your fingers.

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

I was single becuase I chose to be...I was enjoying being young and successful in my career....Then he appeared and turned my world upside down and all around...He was the one who touched my inner being. We were close for no reason. It felt like we had known each other forever

Then he pulled the rug out from under me and the happiness was no more and I was single again...

Now I'm happy again and no longer single...and I couldn't be where I am today in the relationship that I am in now had it not been for the above.... you go through things ...Oh well....

He pulled the rug out from under you? He took away your happiness? Why did you let him take it in the first place.

I mean don't you have to have happiness within yourself in order to truly be happy with someone else?


I'm sorry if I'm addressing you a certain way... I apologize.

 

[greygoose]

this nigga is dr. phil terrorizing sol

 

[Rudey]

this nigga is dr. phil terrorizing sol

c/s

I suggest the women stop answering his questions.

For every thing he has a question.

 

[jucurious]

Ok cool


Now my question is could you be cool with out him, if say, god forbid, he passed away... could you still be able to be happy and share love with someone else?

Because unfortunately, I know people can leave your life by the snap of your fingers.

wtf...ok....seriously stop

y would u ask that question?

what if she says yes? what's gonna be ur next statement? ("well if ur ok with them not being there, then..[insert random bullshit]

what if she says no? ("well that's somethin u should think about cuz [ more random bullshit here])


since u like to ask questions:

what is ur agenda with all these questions?

are u getting paid for this?

is it an experiment?

what makes u qualified to be trying get ppl to "be" happy?

who are u and why are you posting so much over here?

did u get motivated to finish college yet?

this nigga is dr. phil terrorizing sol

no dr. phil has semi descent advice and u get some air time so don't insult dr. phil like that lol

c/s

I suggest the women stop answering his questions.

For every thing he has a question.

its like talkin to grown as 5 yr old

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

c/s

I suggest the women stop answering his questions.

For every thing he has a question.

Which is why I only made two statements in this thread.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

In a relationship, never married...

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

wtf...ok....seriously stop

y would u ask that question? I didn't mean to come off disrespectful, I apologize if I did. Death is just a natural part of life that can happen to anybody. I don't wish it upon anybody.

what if she says yes? what's gonna be ur next statement? ("well if ur ok with them not being there, then..[insert random bullshit]

I was gonna say cool and end it....


what if she says no? ("well that's somethin u should think about cuz [ more random bullshit here])

good question... I would tell her to always be happy... no one else can do that but you.


since u like to ask questions:

what is ur agenda with all these questions? Just curious

are u getting paid for this? Yeah, HNIC gives me side money from his donations.

is it an experiment? no...

what makes u qualified to be trying get ppl to "be" happy? I don't know... do you need to be qualified to help someone. Do I need to be qualified to want to help and to be curious?

who are u and why are you posting so much over here? I'm Mr.Bizkits and ok ms. SOL police I didn't know there was a rule to that.

did u get motivated to finish college yet?

Do you care


no dr. phil has semi descent advice and u get some air time so don't insult dr. phil like that lol



its like talkin to grown as 5 yr old

again, no disrespect to anyone I may have offended. I apologize. Sorry for being interested...

 

[LoneStar29]

Enlighten me....


what's the right man? And how can men become "the right man" for you.

No man can "become" the right man ... what I meant was a man that has the qualities I like ... I'm not gonna sit here and break down each quality I like in a man but I will say that I think when I meet him I'll know ... until then I'm chillin'

I know you said you have good intentions with this question but it seems like you just want to break down all the womens post ... like you're trying to prove we are losers cuz we're single or some shit like that ... just my observation

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

No man can "become" the right man ... what I meant was a man that has the qualities I like ... I'm not gonna sit here and break down each quality I like in a man but I will say that I think when I meet him I'll know ... until then I'm chillin'

I know you said you have good intentions with this question but it seems like you just want to break down all the womens post ... like you're trying to prove we are losers cuz we're single or some shit like that ... just my observation

it's ok... you don't have to. I was just interested. I seem to be offending people... in which I didn't intend to do.


I talk to alot of single women on my off time (no I'm not Dr.Phil LOL)... and alot of them I talk to tell me that they are waiting for someone special. And I always ask them what's special?

Most single women really don't know. They actually don't even know who fits in those categories of special. When really there's no such person.

My discrepancy with women was I may have sex with her and I might develop feelings for her, but she would tell me that I'm not her special. Yet she doesn't even know what that is.

All I wanted to know from single women was "What are they waiting for?" and "Why Wait" and "Why do you care."

I'm a pure questionnaire, I always have questions on top of questions. No Agenda. No offense.


thx for your time and for putting with me... LOL

 

[jucurious]

it's ok... you don't have to. I was just interested. I seem to be offending people... in which I didn't intend to do.


I talk to alot of single women on my off time (no I'm not Dr.Phil LOL)... and alot of them I talk to tell me that they are waiting for someone special. And I always ask them what's special?

Most single women really don't know. They actually don't even know who fits in those categories of special. Such there's no such person.

My discrepancy with women was I may have sex with her and I might develop feelings for her, but she would tell me that I'm not her special. Yet she doesn't even know what that is.

All I wanted to know from single women was "What are they waiting for?"


It's a very deep question. But they only way I can get down to that question is if I break down people (politely) and get down to the bottom of things. But in doing that, I feel like I'm playing with fire, especially with people's emotions. People become very resentful...


thx for your time...

^

that's ur angle...thank you

that is what you should have posted originally

it would make more sense to use a top down approach in this situation than a bottom up

and i don't think ur offending ppl...i think ur annoying them (myself included) with questions that appear to be pointless and just adversarial in nature

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

^

that's ur angle...thank you

that is what you should have posted originally

it would make more sense to use a top down approach in this situation than a bottom up

and i don't think ur offending ppl...i think ur annoying them (myself included) with questions that appear to be pointless and just adversarial in nature

I'm a very unorthodox kinda guy


I felt it would've have been kinda disrespectful to jump to those questions right away to the bottom line. I'm wanted to warm up to them, not jump to them.


For example, when I meet a female, I don't jump to her and say bottomline will you fuck me, no, I warm up to things. Same way I ask questions.

The problem with asking questions on the internet such as now.... tend to come off annoying, instead of actually intersted in which I am. LOL

 

[jucurious]

wow 3 pages to warm up lol


if u warm up w/ chics like u warm up in this thread, i can see y ur not her "special"















i couldn't resist

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

wow 3 pages to warm up lol


if u warm up w/ chics like u warm up in this thread, i can see y ur not her "special"



i couldn't resist

that's ok, 3 pages on internet, but in person, it's only a matter of secs.

But anyway fuck my old bitch... I'll find a new bitch that thinks otherwise and does things that old bitch didn't do anyway. It was time for an upgrade anyway.

Besides, why dedicate yourself to watching one channel when there's billions of channels out there to watch.

 

[jucurious]

that's ok, 3 pages on internet, but in person, it's only a matter of secs.

But anyway fuck my old bitch... I'll find a new bitch that thinks otherwise and does things that old bitch didn't do anyway. It was time for an upgrade anyway.

Besides, why dedicate yourself to watching one channel when there's billions of channels out there to watch.

umm y she gotta be a bitch?

and of course fuck her after she told u ur not it

some ppl can't define what they want exactly but they know it when they get it...and u weren't it...and i can prolly see y lol

but yeah...u sex her and got caught up...what were u expecting?

 

[JofromthaNO]

Jo, there is only one "THE ONE", and I am spoken for....



*grabs brush and tightens up waves*






*bungees*

*snatched brush from out of hand, and whacks SWAT upside the head for making such a comment...

*throws brush in the trash...

*exits, stage left

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

umm y she gotta be a bitch? Are you offended... if you are how is it that an anonymous guy you don't even know can piss you off. I'm a nobody, I don't fuckin matter to you... besides she was my woman, i call her whatever the fuck I feel like calling her

and of course fuck her after she told u ur not it

some ppl can't define what they want exactly but they know it when they get it...and u weren't it...and i can prolly see y lol

I disagree. People should always have a plan for exactly want out of life. I don't want to hook up with someone w/o a plan. She should already have one. Failing to plan is planning to fail. I don't want no failure bitch...

but yeah...u sex her and got caught up...what were u expecting?

I didn't get caught. My other bitch did things that my main bitch didn't do. That's why she understood. I told her. I was straight forward. I told my main bitch that she can get the fuck out if she felt otherwise...

But I digress...

There's too many tv channels in the world to watch. Why dedicate yourself to watching one channel. Because only that causes boredom and an urge to change it... I like to channel surf...

 

[jucurious]

*snatched brush from out of hand, and whacks SWAT upside the head for making such a comment...

*throws brush in the trash...

*exits, stage left

*points at Swat and laughs*

 

[JofromthaNO]

*points at Swat and laughs*

 

[ladyscorpio]

@ de two yall messing wid dat man and his hair brush
​

*points at Swat and laughs*

 

[IslandKing]

*snatched brush from out of hand, and whacks SWAT upside the head for making such a comment...

*throws brush in the trash...

*exits, stage left

"HE'S HITTTT *ECHOES* "
Ouchies

damn why it gotta be like that Jo wheres the....
​

UNITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
​

​

 

[LeroyDibiase]

this nigga is dr. phil terrorizing sol

Hahaha, at least he's bringing some activity to this shit...this is the most talking I've seen in MONTHS.

 

[CT's Finest]

Jo, there is only one "THE ONE", and I am spoken for....



*grabs brush and tightens up waves*

















*bungees*

You and that damn brush again. Waves huh?

*In an SOL exclusive, CT's Finest has discovered video footage of the man known as Swatlanta pulling up to his favorite restaurant...



...Those don't look like waves to me homeboy...

*In another SOL exclusive, CT has found footage of Mr. Lanta and his family fucking up someone else's furniture during a holiday celebration...

...Look at that damn couch people...

*snatched brush from out of hand, and whacks SWAT upside the head for making such a comment...

*throws brush in the trash...

*exits, stage left

"HE'S HITTTT *ECHOES* "
Ouchies

damn why it gotta be like that Jo wheres the....
​

UNITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
​

​

 

[JofromthaNO]

"HE'S HITTTT *ECHOES* "
Ouchies

damn why it gotta be like that Jo wheres the....
​

UNITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
​

​

 

[SWATLANTA]

*snatched brush from out of hand, and whacks SWAT upside the head for making such a comment...

*throws brush in the trash...

*exits, stage left

Listens to the audio of one of many evenings where I "motivated" Jo during a XAT session....grabs spare brush...continues to tighten up waves...*

*points at Swat and laughs*

hmmmmmmm....

*replays audio and rubs chin*

@ de two yall messing wid dat man and his hair brush
​

Thank you Lady S, I know who has my back...

"HE'S HITTTT *ECHOES* "
Ouchies

damn why it gotta be like that Jo wheres the....
​

UNITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
​

​

You and that damn brush again. Waves huh?

*In an SOL exclusive, CT's Finest has discovered video footage of the man known as Swatlanta pulling up to his favorite restaurant...



...Those don't look like waves to me homeboy...

*In another SOL exclusive, CT has found footage of Mr. Lanta and his family fucking up someone else's furniture during a holiday celebration...

...Look at that damn couch people...

Jealousy ain't a good look my brother...






*sips goose and walks out....*

 

[sean69]

 

[CT's Finest]

Listens to the audio of one of many evenings where I "motivated" Jo during a XAT session....grabs spare brush...continues to tighten up waves...*



hmmmmmmm....




*replays audio and rubs chin*




Thank you Lady S, I know who has my back...

Jealousy ain't a good look my brother...






*sips goose and walks out....*

You have another brush?
































*Exits thread, but notices that while Mr. Lanta has accused him of "good hair" jealousy, he (Mr. Lanta) never denied it was him in those videos dripping jheri curl juice all over the place... Suddenly has a taste for Grey Goose, he may have to get a bottle after leaving work tomorrow...*

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

He pulled the rug out from under you? He took away your happiness? Why did you let him take it in the first place.

I mean don't you have to have happiness within yourself in order to truly be happy with someone else?


I'm sorry if I'm addressing you a certain way... I apologize.

Maybe you should read what I said again. I said he pulled the rug out and the happiness was no more. Referring to the relationship happiness not me with myself! I didn't let him take anything from me.

Yes you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

Maybe you should read what I said again. I said he pulled the rug out and the happiness was no more. Referring to the relationship happiness not me with myself! I didn't let him take anything from me.

Yes you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

ok ok... why would he pull the rug of relationship happiness from under you for no reason? And why did you get back with him? How did you forgive him? How is he any different than from what he was before? If he was an asshole for pulling the rug for no reason up under you then, wouldn't he still be an asshole now???



don't answer if you don't want to. I don't want to badger you.

thx for your time and I appreciate your patience and responses...

 

[LoneStar29]

it's ok... you don't have to. I was just interested. I seem to be offending people... in which I didn't intend to do.


I talk to alot of single women on my off time (no I'm not Dr.Phil LOL)... and alot of them I talk to tell me that they are waiting for someone special. And I always ask them what's special?

Most single women really don't know. They actually don't even know who fits in those categories of special. When really there's no such person.

My discrepancy with women was I may have sex with her and I might develop feelings for her, but she would tell me that I'm not her special. Yet she doesn't even know what that is.

All I wanted to know from single women was "What are they waiting for?" and "Why Wait" and "Why do you care."

I'm a pure questionnaire, I always have questions on top of questions. No Agenda. No offense.


thx for your time and for putting with me... LOL

Good questions ... I'm not 100% sure how to answer them though ... this is really making me think.

 

[sonnybono]

Dammit,I better get a hello in my pm or something

hello baby