where have you been looking?
How women on this board are single?
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where have you been looking?
Nah, I would be pretty cool if I knew my woman frequented a message board, to know that she's always down for new shit...
lol...how u gonna answer a question with a question
from what i observed the men on here either dont respect women to begin with...or question if the woman poster is really a woman
so im still confused
why would a man not be happy with his girl posting here?
No reason at all... it just shows how insecure alot men in this world really are. If the man is handlin things in the bedroom... he should always know the woman isn't going nowhere.
Either.
Now, are you happy is the question? And would you rather be with someone else. Because out of 3 billion men in this world, a good portion of them can be your Mr. Right. Now my question to you is.... what would you do if a better MR. Right comes along?
Would stay faithful to yourself... or your mate?
Now what kind of man are you looking for now that was different from ex? And where are you looking?
*looks at responses Bizkits' responses to the SOLers*
yeah u got no angle
*looks at responses Bizkits' responses to the SOLers*
yeah u got no angle
ok
my angle is to further understand the mindsets of the female population. And what better place to go other than SOL.
I mean what, is SOL the wrong place for males to come to females for info?
there is a difference between coming for info and pushing an agenda
and its ur prerogative but just be honest about it
LOL
In any possible post, the bullshit level of the response whose meaning is the question (to side opposite the response) is equal to the sum of the bullshit of the original post whose meaning are the agenda (the dual meanings that meet at a bullshit post ).
Hi Shane
how you doing?
no... in all due respect, this response and only this response is bullshit...
Your response is bullshit due to the fact that you neglected to ask any questions to determine what my position was in the first place to know if it was indeed bullshit. I'm just saying.
Since no one asked further.... on the reasoning of my post, I'll go ahead and state it.... the further reasoning of my post was to see if I can help single women on this message board find men and at the same time further my own understanding of women. I didn't mean to disrespect anyone on this post if I did.
I'm just sick and tired in my real life (not internet life) of women claiming that there's no good men left, they're tired of the options they are getting, or assuming that all men are dogs when they are not.
I believe relationships get complicated, confusing, and difficult. I want to make my next relationship very smooth and understanding.
I want to understand the misunderstood.
You realize what it is that you are in pursuit of is some type of perfection?
There is never going to be a "relationship" that you are in that is always going to be without some complication, there is going to be moments of confusion and difficulties. The test for you and your partner is to overcome and conquer said difficulties.
I mean if a relationship was smooth and "under"standing all the time it would be rather boring and lacking.
How exactly were you planning on helping single women on this board with finding men
I would think that any of the single ladies on here when ready would find themselves a partner. 
You realize what it is that you are in pursuit of is some type of perfection? We should always be in a pursuit of perfection. To always do things at the best of my abilities.
There is never going to be a "relationship" that you are in that is always going to be without some complication, there is going to be moments of confusion and difficulties. The test for you and your partner is to overcome and conquer said difficulties.True. But aren't relationship supposed to be about honesty. Why is it so difficult for people to be honest?
I mean if a relationship was smooth and "under"standing all the time it would be rather boring and lacking. No, it depends on how radical the two really are. No ones true sex life is boring.
How exactly were you planning on helping single women on this board with finding men
To answer your last question:
By asking questions and getting down to the root of the problem.
thx for your input btw... my apologies for coming off sidewayz...
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Being in pursuit of perfection doesn't meant that one cannot have a successful relationship.
What does being honest have to do with having complications within your relationship?
I would think that each issue would have different reasonings not just dishonesty.
And why did you bring up sex. Is that the be all and end all of a "relationship"? It had nothing to do with my statement. Please elaborate.
And why is it a "problem" if there are single ladies on the forum? Again as I stated perhaps the ladies who are single have made that choice. Why is that a problem? Again please elaborate.
peace
thx for the response
When you said relationships get boring and lacking, sex just popped up in my mind.
but isn't sex what the relationship comes down to in the first place. Ask yourself if a guy was perfect... but couldn't hold it down in the bedroom, would you keep him?
If you would, why is it that most women dont?
No it isn't what a relationship boils down to. Its is an important part of it as it allows for deeper connect between two people.
My perception of perfection will differ entirely from someone else.
I personally would never expect perfection. It is unrealistic. Every one has flaws and every person will have different persona's.
If there is a connection and vibe between two people and they pursue it and it works because they communicate with each other.
My partner and I have to be in sync when it comes to sex because of my nature as a sexual being. Therefore he holds it down.
If I were in a position where your scenario played out I would have to first see if we could work on it. I am not one to give up that easily. I'd have to find a way to stimulate the relation.
peace
This is cute....
Ultimately, we are all looking for someone who meets our standards physically and mentally...
When times get hard, then honesty must be our guide post....
When there is a consistency that bores us, then creativity must make its way into our lives...
Relationships get ugly when the people involved refuse to be rationale and reasonable...
well, that is just my humble fifteen cents....
Ultimately, we are all looking for someone who meets our standards physically and mentally...
When times get hard, then honesty must be our guide post....
When there is a consistency that bores us, then creativity must make its way into our lives...
Relationships get ugly when the people involved refuse to be rationale and reasonable...
well, that is just my humble fifteen cents....
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ok good shit, you'll work it out... nice, most women don't have that patience.
So what you're saying is that a relationship just doesn't boil down to sex, but if I can say in my owns words it boils down to compatibility.
How many guys in the universe do you believe that you are compatible with, and do you think that those men might be more compatible than your boyfriend?
Because even you yourself said he's not perfect. What if another man came along that you were compatible with, and he suited your needs better than your own man? Who would you roll with? Do you put your needs before your mans' needs?
And if you choose your original man, why do you limit yourself? Don't you want the best out of life? Including lovers?
Not trying to spit game if that's what you're thinking... I just want a female perspective on this....
And I appreciate your response btw... I like to make people think...
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*Reads question. Makes note of answers. Falls back into my state of semi-anonymity.*
WTF are you talking about. Why wouldn't they be happy, like men are the only ones who should be on here. Wow.I am single by choice,don't have the time to devote to a relationship and if I was in one I would damn sure introduce whomever I am with to this board.
oh so you are single?
*writes this down in my notepad and leaves.....
...Meanwhile, Will you let me put my Penis into your Vagina every now and then?
Seriously. There are guys like me who are single and dont want to be in a relationship but can't stay without having sex. The issue is, it looks like every woman you hook up with these days want relationship once you have sex. It seems like there's nothing like Bootycalls/FriendsWithBenefits any more.( Another Topic by itself this will be)
...Meanwhile, Will you let me put my Penis into your Vagina every now and then?
Seriously. There are guys like me who are single and dont want to be in a relationship but can't stay without having sex. The issue is, it looks like every woman you hook up with these days want relationship once you have sex. It seems like there's nothing like Bootycalls/FriendsWithBenefits any more. ( Another Topic by itself this will be)
Women are wired differently than men. Some women can have unemotional sex, but most cannot. I have also found that people aren't mature enough to handle sharing after a while...that goes for men and women.
Oh, and I'm single by choice.
And why do you choose to be single by choice?
A disclaimer: Being single is a very good thing. It has given me time to get a lot of things accomplished. Being in a relationship or having a man is not the end-all, be-all goal of life, at least not for me. I do not feel that I'm missing out on anything. I'm content right now.
With that said, it's easy to date. I could be with one or multiple males, but I choose not to because it's a waste of time. I actually know who I want, but it's not going to happen. I don't feel like devoting energy/effort/time into someone who is just going to be a time filler until I get over not having who I want. Therefore, I have chosen to be single. Life goes on.
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...and some things never change....
...give me a sec homie...I'm still in class...
LMFAO @ Slimm Calhoun.
Was it that obvious I was talking about you LD? Damn, I tried to hold back. Maybe I need to be in the confessions thread.
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