What defines great sex? Question for the board...

[jjUSTAZZ]

So I pose this question to the board after having a discussion with a couple of my girls earlier today.


If you do not have an orgasm during sexual intercourse can it still be considered "GREAT" or "GOOD" or whatever positive adjective that you use to describe sexual experience.

I say yes the sex can still be considered good if you don't have an orgasm. And on a side note you shouldn't have to rely on your partner to get you to orgasm all the time.

One friend says that if the guy doesn't make her orgasm then the sex was bad and she won't go back again. And that it's the partners responsibility to make the other orgasm.

One friend says that she has an orgasm everytime cause she can handle her own if the partner isn't getting it done so everytime is "good" for her.

SO CHIME IN FOR ME PLEASE AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.

 

[Willyum]

I have a kiss fetish, so a good kisser that isn't trying to choke me, drool on me or use their tongue as a search probe will make or break the sex for me. Yes I'm a guy, and no I'm not gay!

 

[Tha Iron Fist]

So I pose this question to the board after having a discussion with a couple of my girls earlier today.


If you do not have an orgasm during sexual intercourse can it still be considered "GREAT" or "GOOD" or whatever positive adjective that you use to describe sexual experience.

I say yes the sex can still be considered good if you don't have an orgasm. And on a side note you shouldn't have to rely on your partner to get you to orgasm all the time.

One friend says that if the guy doesn't make her orgasm then the sex was bad and she won't go back again. And that it's the partners responsibility to make the other orgasm.

One friend says that she has an orgasm everytime cause she can handle her own if the partner isn't getting it done so everytime is "good" for her.

SO CHIME IN FOR ME PLEASE AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.

Without sounding bias I would say yes it can be. Your friend that gets hers everytime has the right mind state.


Your other one is a taker and not a giver


You gotta help your partner out if he/she is not getting the job done.

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

I have a kiss fetish, so a good kisser that isn't trying to choke me, drool on me or use their tongue as a search probe will make or break the sex for me. Yes I'm a guy, and no I'm not gay!

I get that! The kissing is what makes you moment... Nothing wrong with that.

 

[destinymarie]

I have a kiss fetish, so a good kisser that isn't trying to choke me, drool on me or use their tongue as a search probe will make or break the sex for me. Yes I'm a guy, and no I'm not gay!

True..true...excellent kissing does it for me.......

 

[destinymarie]

So I pose this question to the board after having a discussion with a couple of my girls earlier today.


If you do not have an orgasm during sexual intercourse can it still be considered "GREAT" or "GOOD" or whatever positive adjective that you use to describe sexual experience.

I say yes the sex can still be considered good if you don't have an orgasm. And on a side note you shouldn't have to rely on your partner to get you to orgasm all the time.

One friend says that if the guy doesn't make her orgasm then the sex was bad and she won't go back again. And that it's the partners responsibility to make the other orgasm.

One friend says that she has an orgasm everytime cause she can handle her own if the partner isn't getting it done so everytime is "good" for her.

SO CHIME IN FOR ME PLEASE AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.

I'm one of those female where it's very rare that I have an orgasm...so to me is when it still feels good and I'm still satisfied without the orgasm...As long as it feels good to the both of us...sometimes and orgasm doesn't have to happen...

 

[actinanass]

When I can't find my left sock....the condom I had on....and the girl I'm with wants round 6 so bad she is waking me up with some head....

 

[absolutvodka]

when a bitches family members and friends start giving you that look.

 

[onyxfemme]

Great topic-
Great sex to me is when a man has me biting the pillow, pulling the sheets, whispering how good it is to myself (lolol) because his dick is so good I am disbelief...Not because he is manhandling me but because he is stroking me just right. He is kissing my neck, rubbing my body, looking at me watching my reactions so he knows what to continue...When I call out "daddy" and he says "yes mommy" and I am like "omg dont stop daddy" and he says "you going to cum for me mommy" and I like "mmhmm here it cums" and I scream out "I'm cumming...Dont stop, fuck me harder papi" and "he is like yeaaaah mommy is that it?" and I scream out "YES-OMG!" and then when it is over I stop and look at him biting my lower lip like I am trying to figure him out....

Does anyone smell pineapple?


I'll cum back later...Oops come back later to define what is a great quickie....But for real I swear I smell pineapple..

 

[Mo-Better]

Great sex is when both partners just know what to do. Sex between them is unconditional. Everything they do is spontaneous and the results are always orgasmic. They just know where and when to touch each others spots and the results are always explosive exhaustive love making.

 

[Mo-Better]

Great topic-
Great sex to me is when a man has me biting the pillow, pulling the sheets, whispering how good it is to myself (lolol) because his dick is so good I am disbelief...Not because he is manhandling me but because he is stroking me just right. He is kissing my neck, rubbing my body, looking at me watching my reactions so he knows what to continue...When I call out "daddy" and he says "yes mommy" and I am like "omg dont stop daddy" and he says "you going to cum for me mommy" and I like "mmhmm here it cums" and I scream out "I'm cumming...Dont stop, fuck me harder papi" and "he is like yeaaaah mommy is that it?" and I scream out "YES-OMG!" and then when it is over I stop and look at him biting my lower lip like I am trying to figure him out....

Does anyone smell pineapple?


I'll cum back later...Oops come back later to define what is a great quickie....But for real I swear I smell pineapple..

Make sure you do! Nice read

 

[absolutvodka]

Great topic-
Great sex to me is when a man has me biting the pillow, pulling the sheets, whispering how good it is to myself (lolol) because his dick is so good I am disbelief...Not because he is manhandling me but because he is stroking me just right. He is kissing my neck, rubbing my body, looking at me watching my reactions so he knows what to continue...When I call out "daddy" and he says "yes mommy" and I am like "omg dont stop daddy" and he says "you going to cum for me mommy" and I like "mmhmm here it cums" and I scream out "I'm cumming...Dont stop, fuck me harder papi" and "he is like yeaaaah mommy is that it?" and I scream out "YES-OMG!" and then when it is over I stop and look at him biting my lower lip like I am trying to figure him out....

Does anyone smell pineapple?


I'll cum back later...Oops come back later to define what is a great quickie....But for real I swear I smell pineapple..

mothafucka you ain't spanish.....all that "papi" shit is for spics

talk like a black bitch.

 

[onyxfemme]

Well since you were talking like a bitch more than I ever could....Well you already know....

mothafucka you ain't spanish.....all that "papi" shit is for spics

talk like a black bitch.

 

[Mo-Better]

^^^^^ Damn he earned that one.

 

[onyxfemme]

^^^^^ Damn he earned that one.

True but I dont want that to take a way from this thread. It is a great topic!

Now as far as a great quickie...It is when after 5-10 minutes of intense sex....You walk away lightheaded and wishing you had more time to get some more...

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

Great topic-
Great sex to me is when a man has me biting the pillow, pulling the sheets, whispering how good it is to myself (lolol) because his dick is so good I am disbelief... and I scream out "YES-OMG!" and then when it is over I stop and look at him biting my lower lip like I am trying to figure him out....

Does anyone smell pineapple?

I'll cum back later...Oops come back later to define what is a great quickie....But for real I swear I smell pineapple..

lol...This was the first lesson I got from the board 2 years ago. Don't know if you remember Onyx but when I first came in to the board you and a couple of others were talking about this topic and I just had to know about the pineapple juice so I asked with my first thread i ever started on here. That was one of the best lessons i've gotten about adding to/improving my sexual experiences. So umm to answer your question...YEAH I smell pineapple.

Without sounding bias I would say yes it can be. Your friend that gets hers everytime has the right mind state.


Your other one is a taker and not a giver


You gotta help your partner out if he/she is not getting the job done.

*Singing like R Kelly* I don't see nothing wrong...

When I can't find my left sock....the condom I had on....and the girl I'm with wants round 6 so bad she is waking me up with some head....

Great sex is when both partners just know what to do. Sex between them is unconditional. Everything they do is spontaneous and the results are always orgasmic. They just know where and when to touch each others spots and the results are always explosive exhaustive love making.

I think i've said it before but if not I think I elove you...Every time I read one of your posts it's like you are in my head and talking to my soul! I love this answer and it gives me somethings to think about.

 

[RAULDK]

like bernie mack said....

she starts calling you a "no eye, patch wearing motherfucker" while giving her.....


THE DICK

 

[swiftandsilent]

like bernie mack said....

she starts calling you a "no eye, patch wearing motherfucker" while giving her.....


THE DICK

But true....

 

[DeSiRe]

the difference between good sex and GREAT sex is sexual compatibility

i have found over the years that sex with someone who i am sexually compatible with is EXPLOSIVE.

i dont need to ask those magical individuals anything. they can satisfy me in ways i didnt know i could be satisfied.

they can make my body do things i didnt know it could do....my body is still climaxing on the way home

and i agree with you just...an orgasm isnt neccessary...but its almost unavoidable

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Great sex to me is

-mulitpe orgasms
-when my clit is so sensitive that I can't close my legs
-when my whole body is tingling and my legs are shaking as im getting fucked
-a man who rubs me from head to toe
-a man who kisses and licks me from head to toe
-when I am making whomever I am with moan,grab my hair, and squirm as I handle my business.
-when I am riding his face like im riding a horse
-when he is hitting it so hard I have to put my hand on his stomach to slow him down because it feels like I am about to get impaled in my stomach(true story)

to be continued......

 

[actinanass]

would this constitute as great sex?

http://www.myletsfuck.com/video/homegrown-an-orgy-in-the

 

[SWATLANTA]

When I can't find my left sock....the condom I had on....and the girl I'm with wants round 6 so bad she is waking me up with some head....

When a girl is no longer trying to be cute, and she is just fucking with reckless abandon as she is catching nut after nut ! All inhibitions have been dropped and they start grunting, and their body starts to do what it wants (eg. that leg starts to go haywire when you are hitting it from the back ). Both of you all are sweating profusely when it is over and she is giving you that glazed-eyed, "you evil motherfucker" look...






..and of course all the fellows know about that stomach or hamstring cramp that you still fight through because you don't want to pull out of that pussy....

 

[onyxfemme]

Naaaw we get that hamstring cramp too!!!
But your ass better not stop

..and of course all the fellows know about that stomach or hamstring cramp that you still fight through because you don't want to pull out of that pussy....

 

[onyxfemme]

I DO REMEMBER THAT!!!!!
Some think pineapple juice is overrated.......
Foolish ones...

lol...This was the first lesson I got from the board 2 years ago. Don't know if you remember Onyx but when I first came in to the board you and a couple of others were talking about this topic and I just had to know about the pineapple juice so I asked with my first thread i ever started on here. That was one of the best lessons i've gotten about adding to/improving my sexual experiences. So umm to answer your question...YEAH I smell pineapple.

 

[DeSiRe]

I DO REMEMBER THAT!!!!!
Some think pineapple juice is overrated.......
Foolish ones...

i thought that was just for men

where is that thread

 

[onyxfemme]

GIRL!!!!!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN??
Now I have never had a problem w/ a man eating my pussy...But ummm a diet of pineapple juice and water as your beverages of choice will keep him down there..Eating like it is his last meal!
But becareful...One day you may find that you are turned on and your panties are wett then....You'll smell pineapple..
OK I HAVE BEEN LAUGHING ABOUT THIS FOR 2 DAYS!!!

i thought that was just for men

where is that thread

 

[SWATLANTA]

Naaaw we get that hamstring cramp too!!!
But your ass better not stop

Onyx, when I am in the pussy I am...

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

When a girl is no longer trying to be cute, and she is just fucking with reckless abandon as she is catching nut after nut ! All inhibitions have been dropped and they start grunting, and their body starts to do what it wants (eg. that leg starts to go haywire when you are hitting it from the back ). Both of you all are sweating profusely when it is over and she is giving you that glazed-eyed, "you evil motherfucker" look...






..and of course all the fellows know about that stomach or hamstring cramp that you still fight through because you don't want to pull out of that pussy....

Most women don't like when a man sweats on them,but it turns me on that lets me know you are putting in work. Oh and that pineapple juice works, I always wondered if I could switch to apple juice would it be just as good

I have to add the most important thing:

GOOD SEX IS WHEN AFTERWARDS YOU HAVE ME

 

[destinymarie]

Great sex to me is

-mulitpe orgasms
-when my clit is so sensitive that I can't close my legs
-when my whole body is tingling and my legs are shaking as im getting fucked
-a man who rubs me from head to toe
-a man who kisses and licks me from head to toe
-when I am making whomever I am with moan,grab my hair, and squirm as I handle my business.
-when I am riding his face like im riding a horse
-when he is hitting it so hard I have to put my hand on his stomach to slow him down because it feels like I am about to get impaled in my stomach(true story)

to be continued......

yes ma'am!!!....i hear you!!!!

 

[onyxfemme]

Well Dayum!!!

Onyx, when I am in the pussy I am...

Hmmmm try it for a week!! But you have to come back and share the detals...I heard papaya juice had the same effect!!

Oh and that pineapple juice works, I always wondered if I could switch to apple juice would it be just as good

 

[Tha Iron Fist]

lol...This was the first lesson I got from the board 2 years ago. Don't know if you remember Onyx but when I first came in to the board you and a couple of others were talking about this topic and I just had to know about the pineapple juice so I asked with my first thread i ever started on here. That was one of the best lessons i've gotten about adding to/improving my sexual experiences. So umm to answer your question...YEAH I smell pineapple.



*Singing like R Kelly* I don't see nothing wrong...


See, you know you done did it now.
I hope you are doing your stretches.

When a girl is no longer trying to be cute, and she is just fucking with reckless abandon as she is catching nut after nut ! All inhibitions have been dropped and they start grunting, and their body starts to do what it wants (eg. that leg starts to go haywire when you are hitting it from the back ). Both of you all are sweating profusely when it is over and she is giving you that glazed-eyed, "you evil motherfucker" look...


That wild cat all over the bed type shit, covers on the floor and all.
and that deep eye contact looking directly into the others eyes so you see how good it is to em.


..and of course all the fellows know about that stomach or hamstring cramp that you still fight through because you don't want to pull out of that pussy....

so true or you working her so hard from the back and she has to stretch her knees cause they feel like they about to be rubbed off.

Most women don't like when a man sweats on them,but it turns me on that lets me know you are putting in work. Oh and that pineapple juice works, I always wondered if I could switch to apple juice would it be just as good

I have to add the most important thing:

GOOD SEX IS WHEN AFTERWARDS YOU HAVE ME

Exactly! Rockabye Baby!

 

[Mo-Better]

Now as far as a great quickie...It is when after 5-10 minutes of intense sex....You walk away lightheaded and wishing you had more time to get some more...

5 -10 minutes of intense sex to get you off works. But quickies don't work for me. That last time I went for a quickie I missed 2 days work.

 

[Mo-Better]

I think i've said it before but if not I think I elove you...Every time I read one of your posts it's like you are in my head and talking to my soul! I love this answer and it gives me somethings to think about.

Thanks, I'll take me some elove and any other love you got for me. Good to know there's those who appreciate real intimacy.

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

like bernie mack said....

she starts calling you a "no eye, patch wearing motherfucker" while giving her.....


THE DICK

This is sooooooo funny!

the difference between good sex and GREAT sex is sexual compatibility

i have found over the years that sex with someone who i am sexually compatible with is EXPLOSIVE.

i dont need to ask those magical individuals anything. they can satisfy me in ways i didnt know i could be satisfied.

they can make my body do things i didnt know it could do....my body is still climaxing on the way home

and i agree with you just...an orgasm isnt neccessary...but its almost unavoidable

TRUE TRUE

Great sex to me is

-mulitpe orgasms
-when my clit is so sensitive that I can't close my legs
-when my whole body is tingling and my legs are shaking as im getting fucked
-a man who rubs me from head to toe
-a man who kisses and licks me from head to toe
-when I am making whomever I am with moan,grab my hair, and squirm as I handle my business.
-when I am riding his face like im riding a horse
-when he is hitting it so hard I have to put my hand on his stomach to slow him down because it feels like I am about to get impaled in my stomach(true story)

to be continued......

HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!!!!

When a girl is no longer trying to be cute, and she is just fucking with reckless abandon as she is catching nut after nut ! All inhibitions have been dropped and they start grunting, and their body starts to do what it wants (eg. that leg starts to go haywire when you are hitting it from the back ). Both of you all are sweating profusely when it is over and she is giving you that glazed-eyed, "you evil motherfucker" look...






..and of course all the fellows know about that stomach or hamstring cramp that you still fight through because you don't want to pull out of that pussy....

That's what's up! I have given that look a few times....

 

[smoove2k6]

Ok, although most will not agree with me on this, Im gonna tell you what great sex is to me.

Great sex starts with your clothes on. The build-up and anticipation. The conversations and interactions prior to sex itself. I strongly beleave that if you stimulate a womans mind, that her body will follow. (This works best when the converations prior to the sexual act are not even about sex) Now once the lights go down. Great sex is the result of doing whatever it takes to please your partner. I am a visual person. so watching a woman devour my dick like its her last meal is a turn on. Watching her ass bounce while im standing on the side of the bed hitting from the back is as well. Great sex is when you begin to suck her toes while your balls deep in her with her on her back. Great sex is when you break lamps, knock over tables, shift the mattress off the box spring, and put a hole in the ceiling, and not notice it all till the next morning when you wake up(and you dont remember doing any of it) Great sex is when you wake up on the kitchen floor but ass naked, cuase that is where yall passed out at after he had you bent over the counter. Great sex is forgetting your name while she is riding you. great sex is when you wake up and i cooked you breakfast in bed.