What would you do with a partner who said they weren't into oral sex... they simply "aren't that into giving it." 
Curious.. let's talk...
Curious.. let's talk...
No Oral Action...
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If that is going to be the deciding factor in the relationship then perhaps its not really a relationship.
Peace
Peace
What would you do with a partner who said they weren't into oral sex... they simply "aren't that into giving it."
Curious.. let's talk...
im hoping the question is unisex but anywho... i would not tolErate my gurl not giving me head.
. furthermore even more so not tolerate her not letting me taste her juices....
If its my gurl SITTING ON MY FACE IS A NECESSITY.. I NEED TO TASTE HER ITS LIKE I CANT LIVE WITH OUT IT..... IM A GIVER NOT A TAKER
No oral is a no go. I don't go out with girls that say what they "don't" do. If I'm doing all I can to please, I expect the same.
Im sorry but thats a must have for me.
Unfortunately I am dealing with this right now
I don't give him head anymore.
Also, I WILL get my pussy eaten somewhere by somebody...
mannnnnn fuck that.. I gots to get me some head....and I gots to give some to whoever I'm with....
Selfish broads get spit on!!!!
Selfish broads get spit on!!!!
In a relationship, the words "can't," "don't" and "won't" should not exist when it comes to sex. There are some things that are a given if you're together for a while, and head is at the top of the list. If it's a one-nighter or a casual deal, then not giving head is what it is. But if you claim to be down for one another, then you should be GOING down on one another. That is all.
Allow me to play devils advocate for a minute. I enjoy giving and getting as much as you ladies and gents seem to but if you meet someone who sets the standard for what you want and need in a mate are you going to throw it away because they may not have a oral fixation?
when u say partner do u mean cuddy buddy or boyfriend?
if hes just a cuddy buddy i can care less. by saying what he wont do has basically guaranteed someone else int he picture because if he doesnt do what i ask/need ill find someone who will
now as far as my man....thats a deal breaker...i dont hold back on my man and i dont want him to hold out on me
if hes just a cuddy buddy i can care less. by saying what he wont do has basically guaranteed someone else int he picture because if he doesnt do what i ask/need ill find someone who will
now as far as my man....thats a deal breaker...i dont hold back on my man and i dont want him to hold out on me
Why would you give up on a relationship with a woman because she refused to give oral? I just don't see the point of that at all. I've been there with a few ladies over time who refused to give oral. That didn't stop me going down on her from time to time. Guess I was just being too generous at the time.
Why not try talking to her and expressing your feelings and needs?
Why not try talking to her and expressing your feelings and needs?
and then you wonder why ppl complain about not finding good partners.
but it is always better when ppl are honest rather than trying to be political correct.
Personally, I think that yes, you should not just be going down all willy nilly on just anybody. But if you and someone whom you are dating or whatever you call it have the oral sex conversation they should say that, not a simple, I'm just not that into it. Because, at least to me, that means that they aren't willing to change that for the sexual relation, and sex-no matter how much we deny-is a vital part of any good relationship. It's not a deal breaker that someone doesn't do something, the deal breaker is their lack of compromise.
For me, I enjoy giving and getting oral pleasure and don't know how I would deal with a relationship where a part of my sexual satisfaction was missing. I could really enjoy that persons company but something would always be missing...
For me, I enjoy giving and getting oral pleasure and don't know how I would deal with a relationship where a part of my sexual satisfaction was missing. I could really enjoy that persons company but something would always be missing...
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in complete agreement
I am trying real hard not to cause he is a real nice guy but the fact remains I need to get my pussy eaten somewhere sometime. Yes something is always missing and it has affected things. I am very apathetic about having sex now and thats no fun.
Damn that's crazy. A relationship should be unconditional. It amazes me we still have people running around with with negative thoughts on oral sex. But notice I did say "a relationship." I'm not saying everyone you meet should get "the treatment" but if your serious about the person then yeah.
Show me someone who won't, I'll show you someone who will.
Show me someone who won't, I'll show you someone who will.
I expect threads like these to usually be filled with uncompromising mediocrity.
I was not disappointed.
An Cleo, your so NOT mediocre.
I was not disappointed.
An Cleo, your so NOT mediocre.
Well that is quite the concept
True dat
If there is "something" that is "always" missing then why stay with that person? Even if they are good company.
Damn that's crazy. A relationship should be unconditional. It amazes me we still have people running around with with negative thoughts on oral sex. But notice I did say "a relationship." I'm not saying everyone you meet should get "the treatment" but if your serious about the person then yeah.
Show me someone who won't, I'll show you someone who will.
If you are serious about the person then getting the "treatment" shouldn't be the be all and end all.
And if you figure that you gonna go the "someone who will" route then why like I asked before are you with that person to begin with?
peace
good point...the rules are more laxed when its just sex with the regular. you are there to bust each other off and thats it.....its not loving...its fucking.
but what happens when the relationship get serious? After the wedding and shes not going down on you. At some point the doors have to go wide open...the rules are removed.....
It's not about "the treatment" being the be all and end all. It's about an unconditional willingness to please your partner. My approach to relationships is again unconditional. Meaning I will do whatever it takes to please her. An I expect no less from her in that regard. So IMO if you like receiving oral sex you must also like giving it.
See I know me and if she's got some hangups and is not getting it done she won't be around very long. If I'm giving my all I expect her to give her all. I don't think that's asking too much from someone your in a relationship with.
**Backs out of thread...Thinking I wish a mofo would tell me this**
Ya'll got my blood pressure up w/ this foolishness....
Where is my man???
I'm saying though right behind you Onyx!
im hoping the question is unisex but anywho... i would not tolErate my gurl not giving me head.
If its my gurl SITTING ON MY FACE IS A NECESSITY.. I NEED TO TASTE HER ITS LIKE I CANT LIVE WITH OUT IT..... IM A GIVER NOT A TAKER
WELL DAYUM!!
I agree! I agree!
**Backs out of thread...Thinking I wish a mofo would tell me this**
Ya'll got my blood pressure up w/ this foolishness....
Where is my man???
Baby, you know damn well this is a topic you do not have to worry about. Which is why i have not posted in this thread until now. I know you have a oral fixation, so im not worried about that. And you know i will have that pussy three times a day with a side salad and glass of tea for a nutritious meal.
Blood pressure is down now.....
You made it all better
You made it all better
Baby, you know damn well this is a topic you do not have to worry about. Which is why i have not posted in this thread until now. I know you have a oral fixation, so im not worried about that. And you know i will have that pussy three times a day with a side salad and glass of tea for a nutritious meal.
What would you do with a partner who said they weren't into oral sex... they simply "aren't that into giving it."
If somebody said that to you ... I'd tell you to call me.
word!
ZACKLY.
No head is a show stopper. Your ass got to go.
Fuck all that relationship shit, your ass really go to get the fuck out.
Since I was born with out an oral receptor gene, I could care less if my partner gives me oral, ofcourse I don't mind giving it. One thing I've never understood was why is oral so important to alot of people, it seems like it takes on a role much larger than just sexual gratification.
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