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To call or text a chick when you first meet?


just curious cause i got a female's number today and she told me to text her tonight. I've seen her on campus on about two times and she never made eye contact. I was wondering what that means and if i should text her tonight or on thursday? if so should I call or text?
 
To call or text a chick when you first meet?


just curious cause i got a female's number today and she told me to text her tonight. I've seen her on campus on about two times and she never made eye contact. I was wondering what that means and if i should text her tonight or on thursday? if so should I call or text?
If you're really interested, just text her tonight like she said. She might be somewhere tonight where she can't talk but she can text you.
 
I'm slightly bothered by the fact that she told you to text her vs. calling her. Texting takes no social skill...

You should wait a day and call her.. that is what I would do...
 
To call or text a chick when you first meet?


just curious cause i got a female's number today and she told me to text her tonight. I've seen her on campus on about two times and she never made eye contact. I was wondering what that means and if i should text her tonight or on thursday? if so should I call or text?
A Text is a booty call. Do what she says and text her. She probably also got a man
 
I'm slightly bothered by the fact that she told you to text her vs. calling her. Texting takes no social skill...

You should wait a day and call her.. that is what I would do...
But maybe she really wants to connect with him tonight but can't talk. At least she gave him her number.

Most women will say "Call me some time" and leave it up to the man to call in a couple of days. But she specifically said to contact her tonight. Maybe she just wants to see if he's interested enough to do it.
 
A Text is a booty call. Do what she says and text her. She probably also got a man
how can u be sure about that. A text is a subtle way of saying "I want some attention but not too much". I remember I had this girl who insisted that I txt her n not call her but I stopped dealing with her n my partner met her n hit it off with her. Come to find out she was crazy as cat shit, 24 yrs old with a very good job but living at home paying rent WITH A CURFEW. So she was real fukked up in the head.

But playboy from now on in, Im on it like this. I meet a chick, introduce myself, some small talk n I tell her take my number n give me a call when she get a chance. That way all that bullshit about "when to call" etc etc is eliminated. When she calls u then you know she's feeling you.
 
how can u be sure about that. A text is a subtle way of saying "I want some attention but not too much". I remember I had this girl who insisted that I txt her n not call her but I stopped dealing with her n my partner met her n hit it off with her. Come to find out she was crazy as cat shit, 24 yrs old with a very good job but living at home paying rent WITH A CURFEW. So she was real fukked up in the head.

But playboy from now on in, Im on it like this. I meet a chick, introduce myself, some small talk n I tell her take my number n give me a call when she get a chance. That way all that bullshit about "when to call" etc etc is eliminated. When she calls u then you know she's feeling you.
Since she said just to text her then he is not a priority to her. He she was really feeling him then she would have told him to call her. all he has to do is send cute text messages and he in the game. He can fuck and never really call her
 
i sent a text message to her. if she dont respond back im just going to move on. fuck it.

after she gae me her number i've seen her today on two different occasion and she never looked my direction. maybe she didn't notice me. ill give her until tomarrow, friday the latest.

I dont got time to be chasing females like that.:lol:
 
I dont got time to be chasing females like that.:lol:

thats what i was going to say. you in college, chicks just swimming
about. cast your net and rope them in. don't be worrying about one
chick. you sent her the text, but in the mean time see what else is
out there.
 
WOW. what a huge error. one letter, as if it's that serious.:rolleyes::rolleyes:

It's only a moderate joke at your expense.

What happened? Did you get a response to your text? Did you speak to the girl yet? If not, just move on . . .
 
WOW. what a huge error. one letter, as if it's that serious.:rolleyes::rolleyes:

:lol::lol:

Mayne, you know how it is. It's all in good fun.

Eye contact means nothing with women. So get off that. Eye contact can be good or bad, it is not an indicator.

She gave you her number, use it how she said, she might just be a texter. A lot of persons are, do I think it's a way to keep distance . . . yes, it is.

But this post was last week, you prob. already fucked her! :lol:

Play on playa!!
 
Next time you see her on campus, write on a small strip of paper:
"Do you like me? Yes [ ] No [ ]" Crumple it, and throw it at her. Do not, I repeat, do not, giggle.
 
It's only a moderate joke at your expense.

What happened? Did you get a response to your text? Did you speak to the girl yet? If not, just move on . . .

i texted her the same night (wed.) and i havent gotten a response. fuck it!


another shorty......
some shorty in my area im trying to get her number. I talked to her two weeks ago only once but forgot to ask for it. saw her again today but she was in a rush walking fast as fuck :smh:.


ill try and get her another time.
 
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To call or text a chick when you first meet?


just curious cause i got a female's number today and she told me to text her tonight. I've seen her on campus on about two times and she never made eye contact. I was wondering what that means and if i should text her tonight or on thursday? if so should I call or text?

If she said text her tonight text her tonight... I have never heard a woman say no shit like I gave dude number and can you believe that fool did not wait a few days to call me... call the girl and see whats up... here is what to do... i have done it a few times... "hey how are you, was not sure if to call or wait a bit, then i realized i'm to damn old for those games (and laugh a little)... the girl will always giggle with you and assure you that you did the right thing by not waiting... also puts in her mind that you dont play games (even if you do)...

on the other hand she could have been afraid of your ass and said that shit to make you think she was into your ass and allow you to stop pressing her... hope its not the number to the local Chinese spot homie... lol
 
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i already texted her and she didnt respond. I would call(if thats her right number) but that will make me look desperate. ill perfer to move on, fuck it.

besides i dont like when females is talking to me just for pitty.thats not a good look :smh::smh::smh::smh:
 
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i already texted her and she didnt respond. I would call(if thats her right number) but that will make me look desperate. ill perfer to move on, fuck it.

besides i dont like when females is talking to me just for pitty.thats not a good look :smh::smh::smh::smh:

One more text... just one more and then move on... lol... but damn dont let pride come in the way of some pussy... whats the worst she gonna say.. "he texted me twice"... whats the best that can happen... now thing about that...
 
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