Ok, but still...I don't think a lot of people can differentiate that "fantasy" from the real women that are encountered daily in real life. It's evident in many of the posts here on bgol. It's odd to me that women in porn and in photos with straight hair and weave are celebrated on here and called "dimes", yet real black women (without the photoshop) that have weave/relaxers are self haters and confused (not your words, but seen in this thread). It can't go both ways.
I will never understand why men concern themselves with what women do to their hair though, so this subject is lost on me.
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EVEN WITH WHITE WOMEN, SOME HAVE NATURALLY CURLY HAIR FROM LATENT AFRICAN DNA, THEY WEAVE IT TO HIDE IT... SOME GET PERMS TO MAKE THEIR LIMP HAIR CURLY AND GET TANS, WHY? BECAUSE THEY HATE THEMSELVES, THEY WANNA BE BLACK OR MULLATO. THEY KNOW HOW BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND MEN REALLY ARE..MOST JUST KEEP IT ON THE LOW. ... MOST WHITE WOMEN DONT TRULY LOVE THEMSELVES, NOR ASIANS... THEY ARE LOST TOO, JUST NOT AS MUCH AS THE SISTAS.WOMEN NEED TO STOP LOOKING FOR FUFILLMENT IN MEN AND MONEY, BUT IN THE GOD WITHIN.
CAN SOMBODY ANSWER MY PREVIOUS QUESTION
SISTAS I JUST WANNA LET YA'LL KNOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN THE NATURAL STATE..... THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IN THE WHOLE WORLD... BUT THAT'S REALLY NOT FOR ME TO TELL, ITS FOR YOU TO FIND OUT FOR YOURSELVES.
IF THE MAJORITY OF SISTERS OUT IN THE STREETS WERE NATURAL AND HEALTY, THE NATION WOULD CHANGE OVERNIGHT AND I WOULD BE IN HEAVEN...
EVEN WITH WHITE WOMEN, SOME HAVE NATURALLY CURLY HAIR FROM LATENT AFRICAN DNA, THEY WEAVE IT TO HIDE IT... SOME GET PERMS TO MAKE THEIR LIMP HAIR CURLY AND GET TANS, WHY? BECAUSE THEY HATE THEMSELVES, THEY WANNA BE BLACK OR MULLATO. THEY KNOW HOW BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND MEN REALLY ARE..MOST JUST KEEP IT ON THE LOW. ... MOST WHITE WOMEN DONT TRULY LOVE THEMSELVES, NOR ASIANS... THEY ARE LOST TOO, JUST NOT AS MUCH AS THE SISTAS.WOMEN NEED TO STOP LOOKING FOR FUFILLMENT IN MEN AND MONEY, BUT IN THE GOD WITHIN.
CAN SOMBODY ANSWER MY PREVIOUS QUESTION
SISTAS I JUST WANNA LET YA'LL KNOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN THE NATURAL STATE..... THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IN THE WHOLE WORLD... BUT THAT'S REALLY NOT FOR ME TO TELL, ITS FOR YOU TO FIND OUT FOR YOURSELVES.
IF THE MAJORITY OF SISTERS OUT IN THE STREETS WERE NATURAL AND HEALTY, THE NATION WOULD CHANGE OVERNIGHT AND I WOULD BE IN HEAVEN...
go back thru the thread...i responded to your question
You don't understand men...or you are just playing dumb...a man will fukk or still be attracted sexually to a woman regardless of her hairstyle...doesn't mean he respects her or loves her and shit...how many times have you heard someone on BGOL say wow nice hair...man I love her hairstyle...and then ask yourself how many times have you heard hey nice ass...big titties...man I'd love to make her suck my dick...
...I am sorry to say but we are willing to overlook a lot of things once the little head starts thinking and that includes weaves...
EVEN WITH WHITE WOMEN, SOME HAVE NATURALLY CURLY HAIR FROM LATENT AFRICAN DNA, THEY WEAVE IT TO HIDE IT... SOME GET PERMS TO MAKE THEIR LIMP HAIR CURLY AND GET TANS, WHY? BECAUSE THEY HATE THEMSELVES, THEY WANNA BE BLACK OR MULLATO. THEY KNOW HOW BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND MEN REALLY ARE..MOST JUST KEEP IT ON THE LOW. ... MOST WHITE WOMEN DONT TRULY LOVE THEMSELVES, NOR ASIANS... THEY ARE LOST TOO, JUST NOT AS MUCH AS THE SISTAS.WOMEN NEED TO STOP LOOKING FOR FUFILLMENT IN MEN AND MONEY, BUT IN THE GOD WITHIN.
CAN SOMBODY ANSWER MY PREVIOUS QUESTION
SISTAS I JUST WANNA LET YA'LL KNOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN THE NATURAL STATE..... THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IN THE WHOLE WORLD... BUT THAT'S REALLY NOT FOR ME TO TELL, ITS FOR YOU TO FIND OUT FOR YOURSELVES.
IF THE MAJORITY OF SISTERS OUT IN THE STREETS WERE NATURAL AND HEALTY, THE NATION WOULD CHANGE OVERNIGHT AND I WOULD BE IN HEAVEN...
I actually grew up around white people. And they don't wanna be black, they're hair might be curly, but it's not nappy and you know the difference and they're not black. 2. They might want to tan, but not be BLACK ever. so don't get it confused, you couldn't pay a white person to wanna be black. When they use an extension it's mostly for styling, not because they're trying to simulate their own hair lol When blacks do it they're trying to simulate white genes, fuck the bullshit. The lips thing is not prevalent, hardly any white women do that ever. And most talk about "****** lips" you'd be surprised man, whites don't wanna be black at all ever. And if they want bigger lips it's not huge lips, or poke lips they just want a general more full size, but not necessarily "black" lips. Asians would REALLY never wanna be black and black friends are hardly ever allowed in an asian persons house, especially a mate, An Asian can be thrown out of their home for dating black, yes I've seen it happen. And they Asians who have self hatred, wanna be white not black. Hate to break it to you, but I gotta call a spade a spade.
i think the reason why white women are brought into this is alot of times the issue of straigtening and wearing fake hair is often times isolated to just black women...which leads people make assumptions about thier self image
manipulating hair isnt isolated to a ethnic group...all women do it...so to conclude that black women hate themselves because they wear perms or weave is a hasty generalization
Brawds with "naturals" are just that...BRAWDS.
Weaved women can be insane or sane.
Naturalized women can be sane or insane.
It's the luck of the draw!
Weaved women can be insane or sane.
Naturalized women can be sane or insane.
It's the luck of the draw!
It amazes me how some of you can say that you dislike women with weaves when so many of you have these ladies with weaves in your sigs and in threads you are saying "oh she's so fine" "I would wife her etc" and I'm still confused as to why many of you think that because a blk womans relaxes her hair she is being self-loathing?
That would be the same if I said if none of you brothers don't have dreads looks and beards down to your chin you aren't a "real brotha" since you are a somewhat cutting your hair to look more professional and less uncivilized like your african brothers?!
Give me a fuckin break!
That would be the same if I said if none of you brothers don't have dreads looks and beards down to your chin you aren't a "real brotha" since you are a somewhat cutting your hair to look more professional and less uncivilized like your african brothers?!
Give me a fuckin break!
i think the reason why white women are brought into this is alot of times the issue of straigtening and wearing fake hair is often times isolated to just black women...which leads people make assumptions about thier self image
manipulating hair isnt isolated to a ethnic group...all women do it...so to conclude that black women hate themselves because they wear perms or weave is a hasty generalization
I didn't say they hate themselves...I am only speaking on how it looks...and the shit just looks dumb to me...
You don't understand men...or you are just playing dumb...a man will fukk or still be attracted sexually to a woman regardless of her hairstyle...doesn't mean he respects her or loves her and shit...how many times have you heard someone on BGOL say wow nice hair...man I love her hairstyle...and then ask yourself how many times have you heard hey nice ass...big titties...man I'd love to make her suck my dick...
Awww shit I just got hit with some reality - proceed
Awww shit I just got hit with some reality - proceed
There's nothing else to say...if you read my sig...I don't make any mention of making "love" to hear weave do I...?
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kwazdog
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i dont know how having straight hair prevents me in seeing "who i am"
ill answer...but im not sure what you are trying to ask
OH HERE IT IS...
EXACTLY MY SISTA, YOU WOULD KNOW YOU IF YOUR FOLICLES WERE FREE.... YOU WOULD WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, SHOWER, LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SEE YOUR SPIRIT CLEARLY IN THE MIRROR... SOMETHING DEEPER.... TRUST ME, GIVE IT A TRY.
I GUESS WHAT IM TRYING TO CONVEY IS:
OUR FREEDOM STARTS WITHE THE WOMBS... IF THE FOLICLES OF THE BLACK WOMAN AREN'T FREE, WE CANT BE FREE AS A PEOPLE.... BLACK MEN NEED TO START IGNORING THE WEAVES AND PEM SISTERS IN-MASS. WATCH HOW QUICKLY SISTAS WOULD CHANGE THEIR TUNE.
There's nothing else to say...if you read my sig...I don't make any mention of making "love" to hear weave do I...?
Aww quiet you! I wasn't expecting someone to post "the reality" I was hoping for someone to go along with me
wait wait my girl DeSiRe doesn't understand either so HA!
There's nothing else to say...if you read my sig...I don't make any mention of making "love" to hear weave do I...?
You just gotta admit tho brotha, she got you there, you would def deal with Bria Miles lol but perming is and all that is self hate, ur right, I'm just saying she got you on that one.
She ain't got shit...I don't like weaves but I do like ass and tits and would bypass the weave to get to it...so who's really getting "got"...me getting some ass...or some chic that think I am attracted to the whole package when I am just checking for her body...
She ain't got shit...I don't like weaves but I do like ass and tits and would bypass the weave to get to it...so who's really getting "got"...me getting some ass...or some chic that think I am attracted to the whole package when I am just checking for her body...
I feel you, I wouldn't give a damn about a weave on a fine girl. I personally don't like weaves though. Basically when you're fine shit doesn't matter as much. I've been dating out of the race for years now tho so I've been dealing with Latinas with long straight or straightish hair, and I dated a girl who was asian white and partly black so I haven't been indulged into the whole "weave or no weave" thing in a while lol
The Black women's low self esteem is just making the Korean's richer and richer!
sweetie do u know what new growth is
trust me i am very much aware of how my free hair folicles act
like india arie said...i am not my hair
when i look at myself i see...who i was...who i am...and who i want to be
i see my success...i see my failures...i see my hopes and dreams
i see the blessings ive been given...and even some things i wish i could fix
just cause my hair is flipped...curly...straight...or in a ponytail it doesnt stop me from seeing who i am
and women that have issues seeing who they are because of thier hair have bigger problems THAN thier hair
perm or relaxer, I think you're missing dude's point. He's saying that Black folks are the only people on earth who choose not to wear our hair naturally in huge numbers. and that's not a coiencidence.
sweetie do u know what new growth is
trust me i am very much aware of how my free hair folicles act
like india arie said...i am not my hair
when i look at myself i see...who i was...who i am...and who i want to be
i see my success...i see my failures...i see my hopes and dreams
i see the blessings ive been given...and even some things i wish i could fix
just cause my hair is flipped...curly...straight...or in a ponytail it doesnt stop me from seeing who i am
and women that have issues seeing who they are because of thier hair have bigger problems THAN thier hair
Look girl quit the bullshit, You wish you had straight hair or that soft curly hair lol quit the bullshit like a white or Latina girl. It just sounds bad to admit, but it shouldn't, just blame it on growing up in America
Exactly, great and simple way to put it.
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kwazdog
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You trippin' I don't mess with Korean hair I've moved on to Indian hair much better quality lolThe Black women's low self esteem is just making the Korean's richer and richer!
Getting a relaxer IS NOT making yourself "professional and less uncivilized". With today's advances in hair care, you can have natural hair AND look professional.
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kwazdog
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sweetie do u know what new growth is
trust me i am very much aware of how my free hair folicles act
like india arie said...i am not my hair
when i look at myself i see...who i was...who i am...and who i want to be
i see my success...i see my failures...i see my hopes and dreams
i see the blessings ive been given...and even some things i wish i could fix
just cause my hair is flipped...curly...straight...or in a ponytail it doesnt stop me from seeing who i am
and women that have issues seeing who they are because of thier hair have bigger problems THAN thier hair
I guess
but India dont wear no perm... and that was just a song. I just saw india on the humble a few weeks ago, and her hair was natural.
Getting a relaxer IS NOT making yourself "professional and less uncivilized". With today's advances in hair care, you can have natural hair AND look professional.
Brotha you know these women are about to use your sig against you.
Where are yall getting this information from? white women wear weaves just as well as we do?! it may not be as flamboyant but please believe they do. Yall ever heard of something called fusion weave?! prob. not since yall assume that black folks are the only ones on earth who choose not to wear our natural hair...
Bullshit!!
http://www.fusionstylist.com/
*a website full of WHITE FUSION CLIENTS*
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