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Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnaire

jucurious

jucurious

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AIGHT....here are some questions and (these are just thought provoking questions, you don't have to answer each one individually but try to address them all in like a paragraph or something) sooooooooo with that being said...let's go



Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not?
2) do you get along with guys more than girls?
3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends?
4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y?
5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play?

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends? (it could be you were competing or they were competing)
2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend? did you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart? how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? did someone hold a grudge?


Men
1) do yall like the same type of guys for the most part?
2) do you trust your friends around your man?
3) if more than one of yall like him...what happens?
4) callin out bullshit: do you check your girl or tell her to check her man if they are bullshittin?
5) how much do you really tell your female friends about your relationships?
6) have you ever been attracted to your friend's guy? if so what happened?
7) have you ever disagreed with your friends choice in men? if so did you say or do anything?


ok i'm done for now...be honest ladies...i will answer in a few
 
Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not?Not at first,but yes now I do
2) do you get along with guys more than girls?I get along with both the same
3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends?Guy friends,they are my cousins though and my brothers.
4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y?Female,she is able to understand things a man wouldn't
5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play?I let my friends know when they are wrong with the quickness, I am not the sugarcoater in the group

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends? (it could be you were competing or they were competing)Not at all,if I feel like that then you and I shouldn't be friends
2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend?Yes did you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart?It depended on the reason for the disagreement how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? did someone hold a grudge? It doesn't take long. I used to hold grudges and I still do to a certain extent,but I have been changing that recently.
 
Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

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Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

jucurious said:
AIGHT....here are some questions and (these are just thought provoking questions, you don't have to answer each one individually but try to address them all in like a paragraph or something) sooooooooo with that being said...let's go



Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not? yeah im cool w/ chics until they prove otherwise
2) do you get along with guys more than girls?guys
3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends? male
4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y? ummm females, only by 1 tho lol...just happened...all have been there for me and me for them
5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play? hmmm...the one who pops off lol and the logical one

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends? (it could be you were competing or they were competing) at one point i did, but that was education and business wise but that was undergrad...all of us are doing well :D
2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend? hell yeahdid you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart? we had a serious talk about it...but one girl pissed me off so much at a time in my life in which i wasn't as mature and i just stopped talkin to her completely...and we lived together. another one we had a heart to heart on numerous occasions but nothing changed...and the last, i cussed her out and kept it movin. :smh:how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? most spats are resolved if not instantly, within a couple of days...then there are 3 that never got resolveddid someone hold a grudge? yeah we did but we got over it


Men
1) do yall like the same type of guys for the most part? nope we like different types of guys
2) do you trust your friends around your man? my best friends, yes...one old friend...not really
3) if more than one of yall like him...what happens? we really like different types of guys so i don't even know (best friends)
4) callin out bullshit: do you check your girl or tell her to check her man if they are bullshittin? yup but only if REALLY necessary, they are grown and know what's what
5) how much do you really tell your female friends about your relationships? ummm i don't get into super detail cuz its not their business and too many ppl can cause confusion...just basic stuff
6) have you ever been attracted to your friend's guy? if so what happened? yes i have...nothing at all
7) have you ever disagreed with your friends choice in men? if so did you say or do anything? yes, and yes i said something when it started to effect me or i saw them changing for the worse b/c of it.


ok i'm done for now...be honest ladies...i will answer in a few
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^those are my answers

THANKS SS for answering ;)
 
Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

jucurious said:
AIGHT....here are some questions and (these are just thought provoking questions, you don't have to answer each one individually but try to address them all in like a paragraph or something) sooooooooo with that being said...let's go



Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not?
2) do you get along with guys more than girls?
3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends?
4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y?
5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play?


I get along with girls just fine... although some girls have said they get a "stuck up" persona when they first meet me, but after they get over it, they love me. I have more close friends who are females than males... I was never one of those girls who had more guy friends than girls, someone told me once that a girl who doesn't have friends that are females is a never a female to trust... all that "i don't trust girls" ish is code for "I'm a whore." :lol: I play various roles in my friendships, I'm definitely the one who's down for whatever, the one who you can call for support or if you just need to vent. I will also tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. I'm the silly one too... I'm multi-faceted...

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends? (it could be you were competing or they were competing)
-Nope, never that I could think of.. I've had most of my female friends since grade school though. I mean we might have "fought" in the 4th grade, but does that really count???


2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend? did you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart? how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? did someone hold a grudge?

-I've had some issues... mostly personality clashes.. All I need to get over stuff is time. So if that ever happens, I just fall back and take some time to miss them. I can usually get over most things myself, no need for a pep talk. If my friends have a problem with me, they can always address it with me, and I'll adjust accordingly. I once had an issue with telling the boyfriend too much.. friend told me how she felt, never had the problem again...


Men
1) do yall like the same type of guys for the most part?
-:smh: Not really. We may like the same qualities in people, but not really looks. One friend likes "fixer-uppers" I'm good on that, :lol:

2) do you trust your friends around your man?-absolutely, if I didn't you wouldn't be my friend. Friend is NOT a term to throw around loosely...

3) if more than one of yall like him...what happens? - rock, paper, scissor??? LOL, just kidding.. We'll talk about it.. Once me & someone thought the same guy was cute... she was like if you really like him, go for it... I'm like nah.. you go for it.. neither one of us took it...

4) callin out bullshit: do you check your girl or tell her to check her man if they are bullshittin? - If me and the guy are cool, i'll call him out myself .. if me and him just met and I get a bad vibe and he's a jerk, I'll tell my friend..


5) how much do you really tell your female friends about your relationships? -depends on the friend. Some friends get more details than others... some get none at all... it also depends on the relationship...

6) have you ever been attracted to your friend's guy? if so what happened? -I thought a friends man was cute, I told her, like he's cute.. and that was that.. me and him were cool, and we'd all hang out, sometimes he'd send me a message, we'd talk about shit that happened between him and her. I'd never violate a friendship for some dick ... :smh::smh: I try to be drama free ..

7) have you ever disagreed with your friends choice in men? if so did you say or do anything?-hell yeah... but ultimately it's their life.. all i can do is stand by and support them, give advice when asked but NEVER bad talk the man for no reason.. that's a sure way to alienate a friend...

ok i'm done for now...be honest ladies...i will answer in a few
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Damn that was a lot of work... sshhiiittt :hmm:
 
Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

jucurious said:
AIGHT....here are some questions and (these are just thought provoking questions, you don't have to answer each one individually but try to address them all in like a paragraph or something) sooooooooo with that being said...let's go



Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not?
Yes.

2) do you get along with guys more than girls?
No.

3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends?
The number of female friends I have significantly outweighs my number of male friends. In fact, out of all the males I know, I would only consider two of them to be my friends, while I have quite a large group of close female friends.

4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y?
All female. I just don't get that trustworthy feeling from guys...there's always some ulterior motive.

5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play?
I don't know...my role shifts. However, lately I have been the shoulder to cry on.

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends?
(it could be you were competing or they were competing)
once or twice. but life is a competition, whether we are paying attention or not.

2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend? did you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart? how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? did someone hold a grudge?
I hate fighting with friends. I'll do anything to avoid an argument with someone I love, so I'm usually the one to back down and apologize. If you're not really my friend, then I don't care and I'll argue you down until you give up or get tired of it. And if I think I'm right, then I'll say my piece, but keep it moving.

Men
1) do yall like the same type of guys for the most part? Yes

2) do you trust your friends around your man? absolutely

3) if more than one of yall like him...what happens?
I will never, ever compete with my friend over a man. It's just not worth it. There are way too many men out there to chase after one that could ruin a friendship. Most of my close friends feel the same way. If it's really a big deal, we can talk openly about it, but it's really never gotten to that level because we're loyal to each other.

4) callin out bullshit: do you check your girl or tell her to check her man if they are bullshittin?
yes, if they're you're friend, you should be able to express yourself...but people smell bullshit a mile away, so it's not like I would be the only one to call it out.

5) how much do you really tell your female friends about your relationships?
some things are too private to share, but I don't mind telling it if a friend asks.

6) have you ever been attracted to your friend's guy? if so what happened?
No. They are off limits. Period.

7) have you ever disagreed with your friends choice in men? if so did you say or do anything?
Yes, but there's only so much you can do about that. I tend to say what I have to say, and then leave it at that. I can't pick her man for her...I can only give my opinion and hope that she does the best thing for her.
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my answers.
 
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Re: Ladies: Friendships & Female to Female Relationship (non sexual)....a questionnai

jucurious said:
AIGHT....here are some questions and (these are just thought provoking questions, you don't have to answer each one individually but try to address them all in like a paragraph or something) sooooooooo with that being said...let's go



Basic Stuff
ok ladies, we have probably all heard the saying that females can't/don't get along...how true is that?

1) do you get along with other females? if not, y not?
yes I do
2) do you get along with guys more than girls?
at one point in time (around 18-20) I thought I did with the exception of my 'crew',but as I got older, I chalked it up to as my mom called it, me being an "Aspiring chickenhead"
3) do you have a larger group of female friends or male friends?
at one time, it was males, but after 6 years, I'm still cool and hang out with til this day a lot of the guys I graduated high school with. but it's pretty much balanced
4) best friends/inner most circle of ppl....more males or females? y?
females...my best male friends don't live in the state, and we don't talk as often.
5) if you can characterize yourself as playing a certain role in your group of friends...what role would you play?
goofy, yet low key one...I'm not as "diva", flashy as the rest of my friends...simple works for me

Competition & Grudges
1) have you ever felt that you were in competition with your female friends? (it could be you were competing or they were competing)
around 18-20...I was an insecure child.
2) have you ever gotten into a disagreement w/ your female friend? did you squash it by forgetting about it, just apologizing or having a heart to heart? how long did it take for yall to "get back" IF you ever did? did someone hold a grudge?
my past friends, we had talks about what irritated us about the other, and we were cool afterwards, but now we don't even talk, and I can't say I miss them. But my friends now, there aren't any major grievances and when they irk me, I just go do me until I'm chill again

Men
1) do yall like the same type of guys for the most part?
not really...we may say a guy is fine, but as far as relationships go, totally different
2) do you trust your friends around your man?
yes...thats the beauty of having different types than your friends...with the exception of one...she's cool to hang out with but I don't trust that chick as far as I can throw her
3) if more than one of yall like him...what happens?
depends on the friend...I know theres one that will go behind your back and try to holla even if she said she's cool on him..i really haven't had this issue
4) callin out bullshit: do you check your girl or tell her to check her man if they are bullshittin?
depends on the friend and how receptive she is...theres one I won't do that with. she'll say he's fucking up or whatever, but when you point out shit you've noticed, she'll turn around and start making excuses. So now I sit back, let her whine and try to make her feel better...
5) how much do you really tell your female friends about your relationships?
there's one friend that knows EVERYTHING, but she's like a friend, counselor, and sister wrapped in one and no matter what I do, I know she won't judge me, whereas my other chick circle are the type to stick their noses up at things are just not as open minded. but there are some that won't hear shit until after the fact b/c I don't talk to them like that and we're friends by association
6) have you ever been attracted to your friend's guy? if so what happened?
I've had friends with boyfriends/FBs that were cute and I complimented them, but never in that sense. However, I had a friend that met and dated a male friend of mine but my female friend and I fell out and later on down the line me and her ex kicked it for a minute
7) have you ever disagreed with your friends choice in men? if so did you say or do anything?
nope...they're grown. I let them live and learn for themselves.they'll see them for what they really are eventually

ok i'm done for now...be honest ladies...i will answer in a few
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