bachelorette / bachelor party

[jucurious]

if you are the bride or groom:


1) are you having one?

2) strippers?

3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one?

4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs?


BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them?

 

[Crown&Coke]

1. Yes I am having one
2. There will be strippers
3. If I have to worry about my spouse around strippers I dont need to marry her
4. That would have to be discussed​

 

[shanebp1978]

I gotta figure if I'm telling jokes about my boy's PHD at his marriage on the eighth. Or what?



I have no speech ready.

 

[followup]

I'm definitely having a bridal shower and a bachelorette party. I have loved exotic dancers since I was around 17, but some of my girlfriends are church mice and I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. I don't mind my fiance having strippers and going as far as I go. No genital contact and obviously no sex. I would definitely tell a friend to stop if I saw her about to have sex with a stripper. It's disrespectful if the future husband doesn't know about it.

EDIT: I would love to fly Pantha out for the night

@ Shane: why can't you make the jokes? People love toasts with little inside jokes & humor about the couple

 

[actinanass]

I'm definitely having a bridal shower and a bachelorette party. I have loved exotic dancers since I was around 17, but some of my girlfriends are church mice and I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. I don't mind my fiance having strippers and going as far as I go. No genital contact and obviously no sex. I would definitely tell a friend to stop if I saw her about to have sex with a stripper. It's disrespectful if the future husband doesn't know about it.

EDIT: I would love to fly Pantha out for the night

@ Shane: why can't you make the jokes? People love toasts with little inside jokes & humor about the couple

...so if you saw your homegirl about to fuck a stripper...you will stop them? Even if your friend is the single one?

*im sensing a cock blocker in our midst...*

 

[swiftandsilent]

I'm definitely having a bridal shower and a bachelorette party. I have loved exotic dancers since I was around 17, but some of my girlfriends are church mice and I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. I don't mind my fiance having strippers and going as far as I go. No genital contact and obviously no sex. I would definitely tell a friend to stop if I saw her about to have sex with a stripper. It's disrespectful if the future husband doesn't know about it.

EDIT: I would love to fly Pantha out for the night

@ Shane: why can't you make the jokes? People love toasts with little inside jokes & humor about the couple

Hmmmm....Interesting

 

[jucurious]

...so if you saw your homegirl about to fuck a stripper...you will stop them? Even if your friend is the single one?

*im sensing a cock blocker in our midst...*

the question was about the soon to be MARRIED friend...not a single one

 

[SWATLANTA]

if you are the bride or groom:


1) are you having one?

2) strippers?

3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one?

4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs?


BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them?

1.) I will be having a bachelor party...

2.) Of course, what's a bachelor party without strippers...



*answer: a drunk pickle festival*

3.) I don't care if she has a bachelorette party...

4.) No fucking the strippers.....for her


bonus: I've been there and I didn't say a thing, not my job to monitor what another person does sexually...

 

[LeroyDibiase]

the question was about the soon to be MARRIED friend...not a single one

If you ain't married, you're single.

 

[jucurious]

If you ain't married, you're single.

 

[PrincessC]

If I ever get married, I want a bachelorette party with strippers...I don't care to know what my fiance does, cause I'm sure whatever occurs a few details will be left out. I've been to a few bacherlorette parties...fun times. I say what happens there, stays there...but I would never let her do anything she would regret. And no pictures.

 

[actinanass]

If I ever get married, I want a bachelorette party with strippers...I don't care to know what my fiance does, cause I'm sure whatever occurs a few details will be left out. I've been to a few bacherlorette parties...fun times. I say what happens there, stays there...but I would never let her do anything she would regret. And no pictures.

...like u take pictures anyway...

 

[JofromthaNO]

I've been to one bachelorette's party with a stripper, and I felt that he was so gross. He was wearing a velvet thong, which I just COULD NOT get over, and going around to all the women, hoisting them up and simulating acts of fellatio and other sexual deeds. It was neither sexy nor erotic to me.

I enjoyed my best friend's bachelorette party from last year: good food, drinks, and partying out on Bourbon Street. No strip club involved. However, if my fiance feels the need to have strippers, so be it. I won't be upset or hold it against him later.

And, if a friend of mine does something at a bachelorette party that I may think has crossed the line, I may (but probably won't) talk to her about it later jokingly, but I won't be a snitch and tell her partner or talk to anyone else about it.

 

[DeSiRe]

yes im having a bacholorette party...there will be strippers there...including drank...games...penis cake...and much more

if/when i get married my sister is going to be my maid of honor and she says shes already got that planned

as far as my husband...i dont really care what he does

the only rule i would have for the both of us is NO FUCKING

im not going to have our parties a night before we get married...i know i will more than likely be hung over...and so will he...and i dont want it to show in the wedding pics

 

[BrownTurd]

1) are you having one?I would like to have one

2) strippers? Most men go to the strip club

3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one?
I don't care if she has one...not a big deal to me

4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs?
There are not any restriction because those never need to be mentioned. Both parties should already know what is acceptable

BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them?

Yes I would stop them. Any good friend will stop him from fucking the stripper. Also it should be known upfront the groom is off limits to anything physical. Now after the wedding my boy his free to fuck who he wants if he chooses to. He is a grown man so he can make is own decisions. but a few days before the wedding I would jump in

 

[absolutvodka]

you're probably a get buck.

 

[owl]

if you would have asked this a few months back I would have said yes, yes, yes and all that....

these days I'm so far removed from any thing remotely romantic or conventional that...

1) Yeah, if my boys want to pay for a room and some professionals, I'm g for it....

2) If the professionals know how to dance as well as get naked, terrific....

3) Look, if I get married, my woman is going to be as adventurous, and open minded as me, thus, well, you get it....

4) If we are talking about confirming a contract that states before the creator of existence and this punk ass greedy fucking government that we will do all that we can to remain a faithful couple throughout our earthly existence do you really think I am worried about telling her what she can and can't do for ONE NIGHT? I swear you test tube babies have a strange conception of life.....


BONUS:

Hmmm... stop my boy from possibly getting the last piece of new sex before he signs the contract.....I THINK YOU ALL ALREADY KNOW.....hell, I will pay her for him....

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Hell yes I'm having a bachelorette party.. strippers arent a necessity, male strippers don't really turn me on, its way toooo raunchy... But I am up for a night of great fun with penis straws and my best girlies...

So if I'm having one, why isn't he? Hopefully his friends love him as much as mine and are up for it... Good times all around!!! He's a man, I expect there to be strippers, probably a lot of them... I'm not gonna restrict anyone's fun, but you know if someone is serious about marriage they aren't going to do something that could later jeopardize it... so, hopefully we'd have that understanding...

If my one girls was about to bang the stripper b4 her wedding.. I'd stop her, bcuz its something I know she'd regret later... and guilt will kill you, have you wanting to do silly things like confess and ruin a good thing, so I'd help her avoid that!

 

[nukdollars]

1.yes
2.yes
3.don't care...she better not touch any of them.
4.look with your eyes,not with your hands.


bonus question-nothing...my friends are grown.

 

[doggish_098]

if you are the bride or groom:


1) are you having one?yes

2) strippers?of course we are not going to be having bible study

3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one?i would feel better if she did, nothing worst than a woman who says she doesnt want one last free night with her girls and whatever they choose to do

4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs?if you trust your partner to be will do the right thing there should be no need for restrictions. some of my boys have rejected the last piece and some have not


BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them? as swat said been there done that plenty of times it is not my place to step in

 

[Rudey]

The whole concept of "I need to have some fun before marriage"....

People sound like marriage is some form of trap and they are trying to release something from their inner self before they actually tie the knot.

bachelorette / bachelor party is not necessary but I see it is on the priority list for some ppl.

 

[doggish_098]

The whole concept of "I need to have some fun before marriage"....

People sound like marriage is some form of trap and they are trying to release something from their inner self before they actually tie the knot.

bachelorette / bachelor party is not necessary but I see it is on the priority list for some ppl.

your going to be 100 years old in your wheel chair chasing strippers down all because you didnt have a bachelor party

 

[shaddyvillethug]

if you are the bride or groom:


1) are you having one? no
2) strippers? maybe
3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one? she knows who she comes home to
4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs? not really when you're not married you're single

BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them? nah can't hate on a niggu geting puniani

....

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Not only

BUT

 

[YoungBlackMan]

Personally, the whole concept of bachelor/bachelorette parties is wack. "If you've been to one, you've been to them all" is what I say. Nobody does anything different. I hope to find someone who's mind is abstract as mine and we both are on the same page when it comes to matters such as this. Probably not gonna happen but a dude can hope though.

 

[m10_v]

Well brother just keep in mind this is the kind of stuff that goes on at male strip clubs...

 

[owl]

Well brother just keep in mind this is the kind of stuff that goes on at male strip clubs...

Yeah...

let me speak up for my younger brothers...



I know I got some shit coming back on me...aiight, I'm cool with that...but marrying a dumb bitch? Come on...

But for those who might not have the experience I have: (ladies forgive me, but if I ain't talking to you, then I ain't talking to you, GOT IT?) Look, If a bitch suck a dick in the strip club, what the fuck that make her? Would you eat a stripper out? Come on....could a stripper put her nasty pussy on your chest? I don't do all that rubbing my fingers in strippers in shit, not my style...and I attract better than me...and I hope my brothers reading this do the same...

That's why I take women I date to strip clubs, and around my ignorant family...my people will put a flick in and ask my prospectives how they feel about watching it....if you don't know how your woman responds around sexually intense environments....why waste your or her time..?


If you can't trust your women in the valley of mandingo, why trust her your soul and heart with her? For worse always seems to come sooner than for better...

 

[followup]

my people will put a flick in and ask my prospectives how they feel about watching it....if you don't know how your woman responds around sexually intense environments....why waste your or her time..?

Some women might like to watch when it's just you & them, but wouldn't be comfortable having a bunch of your family/friends there with them. A better test is if you just pop one in yourself and then see how she reacts

 

[owl]

Some women might like to watch when it's just you & them, but wouldn't be comfortable having a bunch of your family/friends there with them. A better test is if you just pop one in yourself and then see how she reacts

I don't know, Queen...if it is just me and you, well, it's just me and you, I want to know how you react around seasoned players....

My experience has been in order to spread the undercover birds from the real Queens, it needs to be someone else in the room...that way, if she has morals, the most duplicitous will at least fake...

and remember, Sweetness, this is for my young brothers...

...not to be rude, but I eat rats alive on the regular....regardless of credentials, style, or charisma...but I'm from another dilemma, I'm trying to look out for my young family members...

Queens are a rare breed and even they fall victim to that flesh-saber...

 

[followup]

Hmmmm...

I don't know, Queen...if it is just me and you, well, it's just me and you, I want to know how you react around seasoned players....

My experience has been in order to spread the undercover birds from the real Queens, it needs to be someone else in the room...that way, if she has morals, the most duplicitous will at least fake...

and remember, Sweetness, this is for my young brothers...

...not to be rude, but I eat rats alive on the regular....regardless of credentials, style, or charisma...but I'm from another dilemma, I'm trying to look out for my young family members...

Queens are a rare breed and even they fall victim to that flesh-saber...

I would fail your test... I think. Is it to see if they react by just chilling and watching or to see if they get uptight? (I would be in the latter group cuz I'm not down with having extra folks around when I get nasty). And are you trying to say I'm not young????

 

[owl]

Re: Hmmmm...

I would fail your test... I think. Is it to see if they react by just chilling and watching or to see if they get uptight? (I would be in the latter group cuz I'm not down with having extra folks around when I get nasty). And are you trying to say I'm not young????

Aw, naw, precious, I was talking to young brothers who may fall into that no marriage mentality because they saw women smoking flesh pipes in a STRIP CLUB...

to answer your question....I'm looking for the uppity woman to come out...the uncomfortable, cling on to me, "why are we here" look...

If you come off like this is home or something you are use to...well, you are use to it...and you will see that side of me that is use to dealing with women who are use to being sexual in a room of men...

 

[jucurious]

hmmm


interesting responses

thanks for answering

 

[silkyblue]

if you are the bride or groom:


1) are you having one?

2) strippers?

3) how do you feel about your future spouse having one?

4) are there any restrictions on yours or theirs?


BONUS QUESTION:

1) if your boy/girl (as in your friend) was bout to get married and they had a party w/ strippers and they were bout to fuck or do something sexual w/ the stripper would u say something to them or stop them?

Yes there would be a party with my closes girls.

No Strippers

No Strippers for his party, not that he would like them.

Not to do anything he wouldn't want me doing.

Reason: We are already married just have not gone through the ceremony. For me the get together is to spend time with your homegirls because when you are married your family will be first and you will be spending more time with your husband first and girls second. I feel it is cheating to rub all up on a stripper or vise versa. A commited relationship is a commitment wether before or after the wedding. just my 2cent.

 

[Lick]

Well brother just keep in mind this is the kind of stuff that goes on at male strip clubs...

What is good for the goose is good for the gander…

 

[YoungBlackMan]

Yes there would be a party with my closes girls.

No Strippers

No Strippers for his party, not that he would like them.

Not to do anything he wouldn't want me doing.

Reason: We are already married just have not gone through the ceremony. For me the get together is to spend time with your homegirls because when you are married your family will be first and you will be spending more time with your husband first and girls second. I feel it is cheating to rub all up on a stripper or vise versa. A commited relationship is a commitment wether before or after the wedding. just my 2cent.

Agreed!!