If You Girl Was Pregnant With A Baby With Down's Syndrome, Would You ABORT It?

[texast]

WHERE IS IT WRITTEN THAT THOSE THINGS WILL HAPPEN........... CASE IN POINT .... DO YOU THINK FOR 1 MINUTE THAT THE PARENTS OF THE WHORES THAT WE LIKE TO WATCH WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THAT THEIR DAUGHTERS WOULD GROW UP TO SUCK DICK, LICK ASS, GET FUCKED IN THE ASS, EAT PUSSY, GET PISSED ON, SLAPED UP, AND HAVE CUM SHOT IN THEIR FACES WOULD BE DOING THAT WHEN THEY WERE BORN?????? I THINK NOT! WHOS MORE FUCKED UP? THOSE HOES OR THE KID RUNNING IN THE SPECIAL OLYMPICS...............? YOU CANT B FOR REAL...
I CAN RESPECT YOUR POINT OF VIEW IF YOU JUST MAN UP AND SAY I DONT WANT A DS BABY........

I don't need you to respect my point of view. It's how I feel and I don't have to justify it to you. I wouldn't want my child to do porn for a living. But if thats what they chose, then so be it. But you don't choose to have DS. And like I said, I would not want to live that way. I don't think anyone would choose to have DS. So I would spare my child from it if I could. In addition, I don't want the responsibility that goes along with a DS kid. I want to see my kid grow to be a "normal" adult. There it is. Deal with it!

 

[mailboxpimp]

Plain and simple. If you are or think you are man enough to fuck without a rubber than you should be man enough to raise that child or seek someone who you know can take care of the child. Killing the baby makes you no better than the sick people you see on the news because you took a life that deserved one.

I KNOW IM REPLYING LIKE CRAZY BUT ............. THAT'S EXACTLY HOW I FEEL ABOUT ABORTIONS NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF I COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND HAVE MY BABY I WOULD....... THAT FEELING IS A REAL FUCKED UP 1.... AND WHAT ALOT OF DUDES DONT REALIZE IS THAT WOMEN LOOK AT YOU DIFFERENTLY AFTER THAT SHIT GOES DOWN......... WEATHER THEY SAY SOMETHING TO YOU OR NOT! IF YOU DONT BELIEVE ME JUST ASK 1....... MURDER IS MURDER!

 

[cbm_redux]

AND WHAT ALOT OF DUDES DONT REALIZE IS THAT WOMEN LOOK AT YOU DIFFERENTLY AFTER THAT SHIT GOES DOWN......... WEATHER THEY SAY SOMETHING TO YOU OR NOT!

First of all, what do you imagine that you're accomplishing by typing in all caps, aside from looking like an idiot of course?

Secondly, I couldn't care less if a woman looks at me differently after she has an abortion. As long as I don't have to write checks for the next 20 years, we're good.

 

[mailboxpimp]

I don't need you to respect my point of view. It's how I feel and I don't have to justify it to you. I wouldn't want my child to do porn for a living. But if thats what they chose, then so be it. But you don't choose to have DS. And like I said, I would not want to live that way. I don't think anyone would choose to have DS. So I would spare my child from it if I could. In addition, I don't want the responsibility that goes along with a DS kid. I want to see my kid grow to be a "normal" adult. There it is. Deal with it!

NOTHING FOR ME TO DEAL WIT PIMPIN.................. YOU POSTED THE QUESTION BECAUSE YOU WANTED THE FEED BACK AND I NEVER ASKED YOU TO JUSTIFY ANYTHING........... IT IS WHAT IT IS....DO WHAT YOU "THINK" IS BEST FOR YOU NO MATTER HOW SELFISH IT MAY BE....... GOOD LUCK EITHER WAY......

 

[texast]

NOTHING FOR ME TO DEAL WIT PIMPIN.................. YOU POSTED THE QUESTION BECAUSE YOU WANTED THE FEED BACK AND I NEVER ASKED YOU TO JUSTIFY ANYTHING........... IT IS WHAT IT IS....DO WHAT YOU "THINK" IS BEST FOR YOU NO MATTER HOW SELFISH IT MAY BE....... GOOD LUCK EITHER WAY......

Somebody needs to abort your ass right now!

 

[BDR]

Absolutely not.

 

[ukNoWwHo]

No - because life is precious

If u and girl dont want to be parent then give the baby to a deserving home with parents that will love the baby 1000x better than you would and everybody wins.

I used to trip but I was in a situation where I could help someone out - I was able to adopt a kid and trust me it take a lot to adopt another couple's kid but it become a blessing.

As u can see I am Pro-Life but I think you missing the point - whatever a man and woman create - the result is part of you and your lady and the work of a higher level - remember the mofo that get concieve have to race to beat out a million nut to get to the egg lol kinda comical in a way

But imo abortion is just the weak easy way out - if u and your girl dont want to be parent then put the kid up for adoption but let the adopting parent know upfront that the baby will have DS.

I hate to say this but too many DS kids in Foster Care but Taxpayers are paying the foster parent some nice $$$ for care and living expense of the kid.

Disabled kids get extra $$$$$$ so they too can be proud Americans

This is a sensitive qestion that we all have thought about. But to be honest, yea i would just abort it. It wouldnt be fair for yourself or the child to be put in such a fucked up position.

Adoption is cool and all but isnt there laws that forces mothers to reveal the childs medical records before being adopted? Who would want to adopt a kid with DS?

 

[Alumni]

I'm going to have to say abort. I think that there are a lot of people trying to say the right thing in this post, but from what I've seen, many people don't even properly take care of a healthy normal child... I don't even want to imagine what that kind of parent would do with a child that is handy capped in some way.

I have a friend with a child with Down's syndrome and she has had to give up her life for that child. Believe you me, there aren't that many people like her in this world and I would guess even fewer on this board.

 

[P03t]

why do you want to have a baby that is a burden to itself....

seems selfish to me....i couldn't do it...and i have a cousin who is autistic.....

she is 25 with a mind of a 5 yr old.....thats sad man....

25 she has to be looked after contantly...all she watches is cartoons...you have to tell her when to shower....what clothes to put on sometimes...she still drools....thats some sad shit....

i would never GOD FORBID have a child knowing that she/he will be mentally handicap....

 

[mailboxpimp]

Somebody needs to abort your ass right now!

MANY HAVE TRIED ...................... NONE HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL!!!
IF YOU HOLD YOUR BREATH LONG ENOUGH IT JUST MIGHT HAPPEN.......

 

[Ksnake]

All depending on how i see myself.

If I believe myself to be selfish, weak,cowardly, materialistic and unobservant, then i would clearly have an abortion.

If I see myself as upright,just, courageous, wise, observational,analytical, grateful and selfless knowing the small things can make or break a mans large decisions. Then i would happily and faithfully know life is more then appearances on the outside of are eyes but more on the inside of our souls and hearts.

Many people need to look within and judge themselves before you can judge a life that hasn't even appeared. That child with Down syndrome could have been the next one to save millions.....

 

[ukNoWwHo]

why do you want to have a baby that is a burden to itself....

seems selfish to me....i couldn't do it...and i have a cousin who is autistic.....

she is 25 with a mind of a 5 yr old.....thats sad man....

25 she has to be looked after contantly...all she watches is cartoons...you have to tell her when to shower....what clothes to put on sometimes...she still drools....thats some sad shit....

i would never GOD FORBID have a child knowing that she/he will be mentally handicap....

I have a cousin with the same issues....

Thats one of the most selfish things to do to a person is to allow him/her to be born knowin that this person will have to suffer his/her whole life. (in most cases)

 

[Infamous One]

I can't cosign this shit. If you think its ok to abort a child with down syndrome than what makes you any different then the people who supported this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazi_eugenics
Its the same thing.

 

[P03t]

I have a cousin with the same issues....

Thats one of the most selfish things to do to a person is to allow him/her to be born knowin that this person will have to suffer his/her whole life. (in most cases)

and what will happen when you the parent pass...?

you got a 45 yr old adult with a 4 yr old mind living in a home with other mentally hadicap ppl....thats not a good look....

 

[LeroyDibiase]

In my case, you could shorten the thread title to...

If You[r] Girl Was Pregnant, Would You ABORT It?

In either case, the answer is the same.

Fat White kids slay me.

 

[Ogsta]

I'd have to learn more about it before I decide.

 

[DarkCity]

Great thread.

I don't know for certain what I would do because I am not in the situation. But at this point in my life I would probably abort the child. I can't see bringing someone into the world that is going to be suffering throughout their entire life as just or responsible. Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. So if you think you would be cool living with a handicap like that then cool. But I know how I am. If something were to happen to me now where I would lose brain function PULL THE PLUG I do not want to live like that.

 

[Cinamiss]

yes..it called an amniocentesis its a shot in to the amniotic sac that takes cells outta the fluid to test for downs syndrome....and yes i would keep it..how can you abort that baby and it didnt even ask for any of it.....

Times have changed. They can tell through your blood now.

 

[DarkCity]

Times have changed. They can tell through your blood now.

What would you do? I want to hear more female opinions.

 

[Barback]

I work with kids w/ down-syndrome in South (non-central) L.A. and I'll tell you it's work. But most of the kids (ages 5 - 17) are either Autistic or have some sort of mental retardation. But they are loveable. Some parents have it easy, most have it rough, but some just dont give a fuck. Moms left and dad is just collecting a paycheck. If there's no paycheck, I'm sure he'll dump the kid too. Sad but true. You're dealing with spit, shit, blood, disobedience and lots of noise. But the worst of all is the drug babies. Fuck that. I'm cool with them. If you love your girl and gave her your child then I say stay. If you didn't ask for a child and she made the choice anyway, then I say peace out honey.

 

[Lesane Crooks]

I can't cosign this shit. If you think its ok to abort a child with down syndrome than what makes you any different then the people who supported this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazi_eugenics
Its the same thing.

What kind of bullshit is this? The other bullshit extreme says every sperm deflected thru birth control is murder. When homie pulled out or even decided not to bone said broad can qualify as tryin to control the gene pool. GTFOH!!

I hear what some of the peeps with diasbled fam is talkin bout. It is true many can and are forced to deal with it and live productive lives as parents/children. Think though about the many who don't though. My opinion is that you as a parent give your child the best possible chance for success/happiness and if it can't be done for whatever reason that parent is better off not being a parent in that instance. Allowing a child to a life of mental/physical/emotional retardation is more cruel IMO.

For those of you who have done it, I salute you and your strength. Thing is not everyone is able to do it and that must be acknowledged. Bottom line is it should depend on the financial and emotional resources of the parentS.

I sense that a bunch of y'all are on that white conservative trip being sooooooo opposed to abortion. Then when the child is born they say fuck you, your child and anyone else that is supposedly a drain on our society.

 

[blacklabel]

just asked moms, she sadly with tears almost coming out that if she knew back then that my bro would be born with DS she would have done it, she said its to much suffering..

i of course dont really know

 

[Efil4Zaggin]

In my case, you could shorten the thread title to...

If You[r] Girl Was Pregnant, Would You ABORT It?

In either case, the answer is the same.

CO-SIGN. Sorry

 

[texast]

just asked moms, she sadly with tears almost coming out that if she knew back then that my bro would be born with DS she would have done it, she said its to much suffering..

i of course dont really know

That's real! I know its hard to say, but its tuff having to care for someone their entire life. All these high and mighty people being judgmental aint never had to do it!

 

[glueguy]

yeah that motherfucker is as good as aborted

 

[Makkonnen]

i know someone who was told their child would be handicapped mentally after amniocentesis ......the child is totally healthy

 

[ScottyPiffen745]

I'm not really for abortion, but I'd say yeah, I don't want to birth a baby that's going to mentally struggle all of it's life.

 

[Thick Johnson]

I got enough problems....shit!

 

[MOBLiveLife]

Abort.. No hesitation, it is what it is..

 

[BlackMike313]

My first son has Downs and hes cool as hell. He just turned 14 and is starting high school. I was 18 when he was born and it was not that bad. The real emotional things started as he grew older and you would start to realize that he realizes that he has it and sometimes he gets depressed about it and that makes me sad. Having downs won't kill him and he functions but there are different severities of it. My sons problem is that he dosen't talk he keeps it to the basics yes, no, and he uses gestures. I believe that if you have the heart to deal with the emotional issues and the resources to make sure that he has positive things in his life you will find that having a child with those needs will humble you and make you a better person. I will also tell you this they are very happy people and they love the little things. The only downer "no pun intended " is that we are all mortal and I know that I may pass before he does and then who will be there to help him like I would. With that said you have to be a responsible MAN. you have to fly straight and make wise decisions "which should be happening anyway" You don't need alot of money to raise him because they all get checks every month for the rest of their lives but make sure you have your house in order and network with others and keep him in check because they are regular children and they will try you and they will act dumb just because they can. So with that all said If I had to do it all over again knowing what I know now , I would have gotten an abortion , not because of him and his condition but because His mother is a bitch and I wish I never had met her punk ass!!! But on the real I would do it again because he actually makes me Happy and every thing that he does means just that much more!!

 

[divine]

When my girl was pregnant with my son, the doctors told us there is a great chance he would be born with down syndrome...and tried to convince us to abort. We decided against the abortion and when he was born he was born perfectly healthy.

We knew the risks, and took them. if they had said there was a 100% chance of him being born with down syndrom.. we may have made a different decision. Who knows.

 

[divine]

I feel ya. What I often wonder is.. if you asks those kids who have it would they had rather been aborted or to live with it.. I wonder what their answer would be? Kids deal with a lot of shit already..and to have to live with that *can* be worse than death...I would imagine. But I don't know...

My first son has Downs and hes cool as hell. He just turned 14 and is starting high school. I was 18 when he was born and it was not that bad. The real emotional things started as he grew older and you would start to realize that he realizes that he has it and sometimes he gets depressed about it and that makes me sad. Having downs won't kill him and he functions but there are different severities of it. My sons problem is that he dosen't talk he keeps it to the basics yes, no, and he uses gestures. I believe that if you have the heart to deal with the emotional issues and the resources to make sure that he has positive things in his life you will find that having a child with those needs will humble you and make you a better person. I will also tell you this they are very happy people and they love the little things. The only downer "no pun intended " is that we are all mortal and I know that I may pass before he does and then who will be there to help him like I would. With that said you have to be a responsible MAN. you have to fly straight and make wise decisions "which should be happening anyway" You don't need alot of money to raise him because they all get checks every month for the rest of their lives but make sure you have your house in order and network with others and keep him in check because they are regular children and they will try you and they will act dumb just because they can. So with that all said If I had to do it all over again knowing what I know now , I would have gotten an abortion , not because of him and his condition but because His mother is a bitch and I wish I never had met her punk ass!!! But on the real I would do it again because he actually makes me Happy and every thing that he does means just that much more!!

 

[Infamous One]

What kind of bullshit is this? The other bullshit extreme says every sperm deflected thru birth control is murder. When homie pulled out or even decided not to bone said broad can qualify as tryin to control the gene pool. GTFOH!!

I hear what some of the peeps with diasbled fam is talkin bout. It is true many can and are forced to deal with it and live productive lives as parents/children. Think though about the many who don't though. My opinion is that you as a parent give your child the best possible chance for success/happiness and if it can't be done for whatever reason that parent is better off not being a parent in that instance. Allowing a child to a life of mental/physical/emotional retardation is more cruel IMO.

For those of you who have done it, I salute you and your strength. Thing is not everyone is able to do it and that must be acknowledged. Bottom line is it should depend on the financial and emotional resources of the parentS.

I sense that a bunch of y'all are on that white conservative trip being sooooooo opposed to abortion. Then when the child is born they say fuck you, your child and anyone else that is supposedly a drain on our society.

Here you go with this ignorant bullshit. So because I'm against aborting a kid cause it has down syndrome or could have it I must be white right? I'm sorry if killing someone off because they're mentally handicap sounds cruel. A baby who's mentally handicap deserves a chance at life just like a normal healthy baby. And for your information I've taken care of family members that are handicap and love them all just the same. Emotionally Retarded? Dude did you just pull that one out of your ass?.

 

[Black Limey]

Lived in London all my life and only seen one black child who has downs.........so, either it's rare in us or people are not allowing that child to be born

Men can speculate all we want, but ultimately it's the woman's choice

Big decision

 

[Cannibal]

Tough question. My answer ... Yes abort. My wife and I are stressed enough. That would be without question a very stressful situation for the rest of your natural life. Especially if its detected early on in the pregnancy. Abort... try again.

I don't have the patience to be with that for life, if it was by choice. sorry. Say what you will about me. Life is precious, yes it is, and so is mine.