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Ok I caught my 13 year old with a 15 year old boy in her room with the door locked she said they were just listing to music:hmm: I've talked to her about boys and what most want and forbade her from having friends that are boys in her mothers home or my home but her mother sees nothing wrong with it or her having a boyfriend at 13 mind you she just turned 13 last week I've moved her in with me for the summer since the boy lives two doors down from her moms condo. How would you have dealt with this
 
Wait...clarification...is this your daughter? If it's your daughter put your foot down. Say that ish can't happen in your house period.
 
There should be no locks on a 13 year old's door. And no boys in the room at 13.

Even if it was a girl, at 13 when you have company in your room. Doors open.



Now at 16, I think she can have a little more privacy.


My co-worker caught her daughter, also 13, and a bunch of her friends looking at naked men on the internet.

She has since moved the PC to the common area.
 
femmenoire said:
There should be no locks on a 13 year old's door. And no boys in the room at 13.

Even if it was a girl, at 13 when you have company in your room. Doors open.



Now at 16, I think she can have a little more privacy.


My co-worker caught her daughter, also 13, and a bunch of her friends looking at naked men on the internet.

She has since moved the PC to the common area.
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C/S!
 
My and my sister could never lock out doors in my parents house. We really couldnt even close them unless we were changing clothes. Otherwise all doors are open.​
 
i always joked with my mom about how imma have velcro doors on my child's door and every time they act up imma rip that shit off:lol::lol::lol:

maybe i shouldn't joke about it and be about it:hmm:


but serious

i wasn't allowed to lock my doors
NO male company in my room...shit that was til i was like...now hahaha (well if i lived back at home)

so yeah u should talk to your daughter and let her no the rules and explain to her that listening to music in the room doesn't require the door to be locked. let her know how suspicious it seems. let her know that even tho u trust her (hopefully) you don't know him to trust him so you will not allow an atmosphere conducive to sex be allowed (yeah reword it)
-say somethin like since yall are just listening to music go chill in the living room and i will only enter if i really need somethin or w/e

tell her that male guest are not to be in the house if ur not home...and when that happens they are to be in the living room unless she has prior approval from you

she may not understand now but she will later (hopefully)

at the end of the day..YOUR THE PARENT
 
YouLikeMyStyle said:
Wait...clarification...is this your daughter? If it's your daughter put your foot down. Say that ish can't happen in your house period.
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yeah she's my daughter Thought I would surprise the kids with 7 days in Disney World for the summer so I made an unexpected visit to my ex's home today found them.


jucurious hell no I don't trust my kids they were home alone my oldest the 13 year old was supposed to be baby sitting my other three kids. The nextdoor neighbors used to babysit all four kids but my oldest convinced her mom to let her babysit instead and from what her sisters tell me the boy has been sneaking in to the house every day for the past year and she paid them to keep quit I don't know what I could have done to stop this from happening but it stops today
 
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You know what to do...

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First off, NO LOCKS ON DOORS, at any age. Privacy has to be earned......incrementally!

Parenting is not a democracy, it is a dictatorship. Kids have to earn their rewards, otherwise they WILL take them for granted. It's human nature, hell, a lot of adults still have this problem.
 
Yeah Homie You Got Let Be Known What The Rules Are And How Its Going
Down ...... Also Let Them Know The Consequences Of Thier Acitions My Nigga And You Should Be Cool
 
Watch out before you stumble on some shit in one of them stolegrown threads in the future. Give her a few "zoklo's"...
 
Damn I'ma hate them teenage years when my daughters get older:smh:

No disrespect to your ex wife but thats some bullshit, She shouldn't be coo with her having boys in her room,sorry to tell you but the last thing a 15yr old boy is thinking about when in a girls room is "damn thats a tight song"....yall should talk immediately cuz who knows what you woulda walked in on had you showed up a little later.....your daughter is old enough to know what she doing is wrong also but if her mom doesn't have a problem with it then she aint gone care either.
 
haitian1 said:
jucurious hell no I don't trust my kids they were home alone my oldest the 13 year old was supposed to be baby sitting my other three kids. The nextdoor neighbors used to babysit all four kids but my oldest convinced her mom to let her babysit instead and from what her sisters tell me the boy has been sneaking in to the house every day for the past year and she paid them to keep quit I don't know what I could have done to stop this from happening but it stops today
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WHAT? WOW

oh well lay it DOWNNNNNNNN then...she been creepin for a year? wow!

yeah yall need to have a SERIOUS talk and she needs some serious structure. you also need to talk w/ ur child's mother and let her know what is going on.

and i hope you canceling that trip for ALL OF EM:hmm:


she would get all her privileges stripped and have to earn them allll back
 
Lay down the rules. If she doesn't abide by them then she pays the consequences but don't be crazy daddy. And don't act like boys are the worst thing that could be happening to your daughter right now. You may not wanna hear it but just think on it. You know your daughter. If you have sent her out with all the information she needs then how much do you have to worry about? Is she that naive? I was 13 not too long ago...Sometimes listening to music really is listening to music. I'm just saying.
 
Harlem's Angel said:
Lay down the rules. If she doesn't abide by them then she pays the consequences but don't be crazy daddy. And don't act like boys are the worst thing that could be happening to your daughter right now. You may not wanna hear it but just think on it. You know your daughter. If you have sent her out with all the information she needs then how much do you have to worry about? Is she that naive? I was 13 not too long ago...Sometimes listening to music really is listening to music. I'm just saying.
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did u read the part when he said he found out that she has been sneaking boys in the house for the past year and paying her younger siblings to keep quiet?
 
I need more information. I mean is she allowed to have boys over? Where you home when he came over? I can tell you now.....They were doing more than listening to music..trust me:angry: I mean did she sneak him in?? I need more info before I call on the inner "Joe Jackson" spirit that lives within me.:confused:
 
jucurious said:
WHAT? WOW

oh well lay it DOWNNNNNNNN then...she been creepin for a year? wow!

yeah yall need to have a SERIOUS talk and she needs some serious structure. you also need to talk w/ ur child's mother and let her know what is going on.

and i hope you canceling that trip for ALL OF EM:hmm:


she would get all her privileges stripped and have to earn them allll back
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trip is canceled I'm giving the tickets to my brother and his family
I should have known something was up when she started back talking me and asking to go out with her friends all the time
 
haitian1 said:
trip is canceled I'm giving the tickets to my brother and his family
I should have known something was up when she started back talking me and asking to go out with her friends all the time
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That doesn't mean something is up, that means she's becoming a teenage girl.
 
haitian1 said:
yeah she's my daughter Thought I would surprise the kids with 7 days in Disney World for the summer so I made an unexpected visit to my ex's home today found them.


jucurious hell no I don't trust my kids they were home alone my oldest the 13 year old was supposed to be baby sitting my other three kids. The nextdoor neighbors used to babysit all four kids but my oldest convinced her mom to let her babysit instead and from what her sisters tell me the boy has been sneaking in to the house every day for the past year and she paid them to keep quit I don't know what I could have done to stop this from happening but it stops today
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haitian1 said:
trip is canceled I'm giving the tickets to my brother and his family
I should have known something was up when she started back talking me and asking to go out with her friends all the time
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Where the f*ck can she go? She aint go no money unless you give it to her and can't get nowhere unless you drive her...
 
Harlem's Angel said:
That doesn't mean something is up, that means she's becoming a teenage girl.
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ummm that is an over-generalization ... just like someone making excuses for a boys bad behavior by saying boys will be boys

i DIDN'T do that shit cuz the time w/ the boy wasn't worth the HELL i would catch if i got caught.

plus my friends that were sneaking boys in...they were gettin trouble or being fast

u tryna tell me that if u knocked on ur child's door and she was in there w/ a boy w/ the door locked and she said she was just listening to music u would like OH OK..ur just being a girl? and then u find out that she has been sneakin the boy in for a year..she is doing nothin?


i mean if her mom is OK w/ male company WHY are u sneaking? that's the part that is suspect. if u got a "good" situation...y sneak and fuck it up....unless u doing somethin u aint got no business doing
 
OnyxFemme said:
I need more information. I mean is she allowed to have boys over? Where you home when he came over? I can tell you now.....They were doing more than listening to music..trust me:angry: I mean did she sneak him in?? I need more info before I call on the inner "Joe Jackson" spirit that lives within me.:confused:
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Her mother lets her have male friends over when she's home. But know one can come in to the house when she's not home and she knows I don't want boys in the house period I know what boys that age are capable of even if the parents are home . Me and her mom are going to have a talk with her and her sisters tonight when she comes home from work.
 
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jucurious said:
ummm that is an over-generalization ... just like someone making excuses for a boys bad behavior by saying boys will be boys

i DIDN'T do that shit cuz the time w/ the boy wasn't worth the HELL i would catch if i got caught.

plus my friends that were sneaking boys in...they were gettin trouble or being fast

u tryna tell me that if u knocked on ur child's door and she was in there w/ a boy w/ the door locked and she said she was just listening to music u would like OH OK..ur just being a girl? and then u find out that she has been sneakin the boy in for a year..she is doing nothin?


i mean if her mom is OK w/ male company WHY are u sneaking? that's the part that is suspect. if u got a "good" situation...y sneak and fuck it up....unless u doing somethin u aint got no business doing
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I think my chubby-cheeked friend was commenting on the "back-talking and asking to go out with her friends all the time" which is typical female teenage behavior.
 
LeroyDibiase said:
I think my chubby-cheeked friend was commenting on the "back-talking and asking to go out with her friends all the time" which is typical female teenage behavior.
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well if that is the case then my bad


BUT


that is typical TEENAGE behavior...not just females...boys talk shit too...when they start smellin themselves
 
I agree with no locked doors. I also think that you should lay your rules down. But lets be realistic also, talk to her about boys, sex,in plain English, spell it out with pictures if you have to, pregnancy and YOUR expectations. Listen to her. Speak to him also. Worse case, get her on the pill, not to encourage but to be pro active.
 
haitian1 said:
trip is canceled I'm giving the tickets to my brother and his family
I should have known something was up when she started back talking me and asking to go out with her friends all the time
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Man you better put that trip back on schedule..most girls act up because they need daddy time.. take it, yall spend time and when yall get back, you have to set aside just her and you time, so you can get to know her and 2 hours with you is 2 hours she aint sneaking somebody in
 

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