PUSSY AND DICK IS NOT GOLD. IT IS NOT MEANT TO SAVED FOR A RAINY DAY.
SOME PEOPLE THINK THAT SAVING THEMSELVES FOR A MAN OR WOMAN IS THE WAY. NO IT IS NOT. JUST BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF AND BE CAREFUL WITH WHO YOU SLEEP WITH.
I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH FINGERS TO COUNT ON TO TELL YOU HOW MANY WOMEN I KNOW THAT WERE VIRGINS AND SAVED THEMSELVES ONLY TO BE DIVORCED, SEPERATED WITHIN 18MONTHS OF MARRIAGE. NOW THE PUSSY IS BEEN RUN THROUGH ON WHAT WAS THOUGHT TO BE A KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR. WHAT HE WAS, WAS A ORDINARY MAN AND BOTH OF YOU TRULY DID NOT KNOW WHAT COMMITMENT MEANS.
COMMITMENT IS:
A) WANTING TO BE WITH HIM OR HER THROUGH THICK AND THIN.
B) GIVING UP ALL THE "I" AND ACCEPTING THE "US"
C) BEING ABLE TO ANSWER, TALK TO, CALL, SPEAK ON THEIR BEHALF... TO ANYONE!! ON THEIR PHONE, EMAIL, PAGER OR PERSON. TRUST CAN BE A BITCH BUT ONCE RE-ESTABLISHED REMOVES FEAR, DOUBT AND QUESTIONS FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. RE-ESTABLISH YOUR TRUST IN HIM OR HER.
D) YOUR WALLET IS MY WALLET, AND YOUR PURSE IS MY PURSE.
E) THE OBAMA'S
F) UNDERSTANDING THAT WHEN YOU ARE MAD YOU CARE. STOP TAKING EACH OTHER THROUGH DAYS OF SIENCE AND JUST FUCKING SAY "I'M SORRY" IF YOU FUCK UP AGAIN JUST MAKE SURE IT IS NOT THE SAME ISSUE AGAIN. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES.
G) MONEY IS AN EVIL AND IT IS A NECESSARY ONE AT THAT. LEARN TO WHIP THAT MONEY AND NOT LET IT WHIP YOU. i AM NOT GOING TO TELL YOU HOW TO DIVI UP YOUR PAYCHECK BETWEEN YOU AND FAMILY BUT IN TRUE LOVE IT WILL MAKE ITSELF KNOWN TO YOU.
H) SEX IS IMPORTANT. IT RESOLVES FEAR, PAIN, RESENTMENT, ANGER, MISUNDERSTANDING. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE LAYING NEXT TO HER OR HIM AFTER LOVEMAKING, STILL BREATHING HARD AND KNOWING SHE OR HE IS YOURS AND THE ONE YOU SPILL YOUR LOVE TO.
I)KNOW YOUR LIMITS. SOMETIMES WHEN WE ARE MARRIED WE FEEL WE HAVE SOMEONE TO FALL BACK ON. WHILE THAT IS TRUE IT IS REALLY MEANT FOR IF YOU STUMBLE OR FALL BY GRACE, NOT BY PREMEDITATED WORKS(IE. GAMBLING UP RENT MONEY, AND KNOWING SHE WILL COVER IT).
J)SOMETIMES LOVE NEEDS TIME TO GROW TO WHAT WE SEE EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE. A VERY OLD COUPLE WALKING DOWN THE STREET HAND IN HAND. YOU THINK IT WAS EASY FOR THEM TO GET THERE? HELL NO. BUT THEY STUCK IT OUT. WE LOVE TO BAIL WHEN IT IS HOT. DID ANYONE EVER NOTICE THAT SOMETIMES IT TAKES A SERIOUS FUCKUP FOR SOMEONE TO STRAIGHTEN OUT. THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THE OTHER PERSON IS SO HURT THAT THEY BOUNCE INSTEAD OF GIVING THAT PERSON THE SUPPORT AND CHANCE THEY NEED TO RE-PROVE (RE-PROVE IS A WORD I AM LEARNING ABOUT EVERYDAY) THEMSELVES.
K) IF YOU ARE MAD AT HIM OR HER, KISS THEM, HUG THEM, PINCH THEM. LET THEM KNOW IT WILL FADE AND THEY UNDERSTAND IT WAS A MISTAKE. NOTHING IS MORE FUCKED UP THAN WAITING FOR YOUR BETTER HALF TO COME OUT OF THEIR MEANESS TOWARDS YOU.
L) EVERYTHING HEALS WITH TIME. NEVER RUSH A THING. NEVER FORCE AN UNKNOWN. TELL THEM YOU ARE GOING NOWHERE AND STAYING BY THEIR SIDE.
M) KIDS ARE THE "TOUCH UP GLUE" OF A MARRIAGE. IN EACH CHILD IS A BALANCED PART OF YOU AND HER/HIM. TAKE PRIDE IN YOUR CHILDREN WHICH IN ITSELF SHOWS PRIDE IN YOUR BETTER HALF.
N) YOUR BETTER HALF SHOULD KNOW WHERE YOU ARE. NOT LIKE A PAROLE OFFICER BUT MORE LIKE YOU ARE IN TUNE WITH THEM AND IF ANYONE EVER SAID "WHERE IS HE/HER?", YOU CAN SAY IT WITHOUT DOUBT AND STUPIDITY.
O) LUST IS A BITCH AND IT TRIES TO USE US EVERYDAY. NOTHING WRONG WITH SEEING A NICE MAN OR WOMAN ON THE STREET, BUT TAKING THEIR NUMBER OR ENGAGING IN CONVO KNOWING THEIR INTENT IS WRONG FOR YOU. JUST SMILE AND KEEP IT MOVING. DON'T YOU THINK THAT MAN OR WOMAN TRYING TO TALK TO YOU AT SOME POINT IN TIME WILL HOPE YOU NEVER DO IT TO THEM?
P) MAKE TIME FOR LOVE. BUBBLEBATHS, DINNER ONE ON ONE, A WALK, A SHOWER. IRON CLOTHES TOGETHER IF YOU MUST. BUT MAKE TIME FOR LOVE.
Q) MYSPACE AND ALL THOSE OTHER WEBSITES ARE NOT GOOD FOR RELATIONSHIPS IF THEY ARE VIEWED AS A PERSONAL PAGE. MAKE IT A COUPLE'S PAGE, A FAMILY PAGE. THOSE SITES ARE NOTHING MORE THAN ELECTRONIC MEAT MARKETS.
R)CLUBS ARE NOT IN THE PICTURE FOR MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIPS. LEAVE IT IN YOUR PAST. EVEN IF YOU ARE JUST HANGING OUT WITH THE GIRLS OR BOYS. DON'T DO IT. SHIT HAPPENS. IF YOU NEVER HAD A CLUB LIFE CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY.
S)HAVING FUN DOESN'T REQUIRE MONEY, REMEMBER THAT.
T) MAKE IT A POINT TO TAKE EACH OTHER OUT ONCE A MONTH LIKE CLOCKWORK. HAVE A CHEAP JOINT WITH GOOD FOOD TO GO TO AND A CLASSY ONE TO EAT AND SHAKE YOUR ASS TO.
U) CHANGE YOUR THINKING FROM "DO BEFORE YOU THINK" TO "THINK BEFORE YOU DO". ASK YOURSELF WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF SHE DID WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO THAT MINUTE?
V)SEEK COUNSELING IF YOU MUST. THE OLD SIT WITH YOUR MOM OR FRIENDS DOES NOTHING BUT HURT THE PROBLEMS MORE. A PROFESSIONAL CAN RENDER A UN-BIAS VIEW OR DECISION THAT YOU CAN LIVE BY. A GIRLFRIEND OR YOUR BOY WILL TELL YOU WHAT THEY WOULD DO IF THEY WERE YOU. NOT GOOD AT ALL.
W) PUT GOD FIRST AND THE REST WILL FALL IN PLACE.
X) ALWAYS HOPE FOR THE BEST NOT THE WORST.
Y) TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY AND HER'S / HIS TOGETHER. MAKE IT A POINT TO KEEP FIT. I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS... A PERSON CAN BECOME UNATTRACTIVE TO YOU IF YOU HAVE NOT STOOD THE TEST OF TIME(LOVE) WITH THEM FIRST. REMEMBER IN A MINUTE YOU WILL HAVE A RAISIN ASS WHEN YOU BECOME 80YRS OLD.
Z) ONLY TAKE FROM THIS WHAT YOU NEED. BUILD AND BUILD YOUR LOVE FOR HER OR HIM.
LD
I fucked when I wanted to. 
@ ppl who fuck before their time. 
