If she was really down and out?
Even if she had a reputation with men?
What if she had kids?
Even if she had a reputation with men?
What if she had kids?
Ladies, would any one of you let a female friend live with you and your man?
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as a man, i learned that two cats in the house can lead to many cat fights.
i remember one time my ex let her girlfriend and her young son stay in the basement bedroom till she got on her feet from being evicted.
i had just tore up some ass and was laying up in her bed while she got up and put on some sweat pants and bounced.
5 minutes later her girlfriend knocked on the bedroom door and asked for my girl. so i said i she is not here, she went to the store. she stood there in her gown and kept looking at me. all of the sudden my girl came back and when she saw her girl standing in the doorway she told me get up, you are coming with me. she was pissed at me. i understood why. she had a sense that her girl would try some shit and doubled back.
i remember one time my ex let her girlfriend and her young son stay in the basement bedroom till she got on her feet from being evicted.
i had just tore up some ass and was laying up in her bed while she got up and put on some sweat pants and bounced.
5 minutes later her girlfriend knocked on the bedroom door and asked for my girl. so i said i she is not here, she went to the store. she stood there in her gown and kept looking at me. all of the sudden my girl came back and when she saw her girl standing in the doorway she told me get up, you are coming with me. she was pissed at me. i understood why. she had a sense that her girl would try some shit and doubled back.
Perhaps if it was on a real temporary basis...but, you have to know your girlfriend and how "trustworthy" she really is...
For example, my mom has let family members, including sisters, etc. stay at the house for a few nights when things may have been tough, etc...BUT, there was still ALWAYS a time limit on that crap...
But, for a homegirl...depends on who the home girl was...one with a reputation...eh, do WE have any single home girls she can stay with?!?
If she had children and she was really down and out, I probably would. But, she would have to be a really good friend (someone I have known for years). I understand about the risks, but if the connection between my man's brain and his dick is so weak that he would risk losing me over a woman that ain't even got a place to stay then fuck him...and fuck her too.
No. I live in a one bedroom apartment just me, my man, and my cat. No matter how much I trust my friend, it just couldn't happen for more than one night. I would feel cramped in my little space. IF I did have more space, I would let my friend stay but there are only two friends I would do it for. And only if their kids don't turn out to be Bebe's kids. Both of them have newborns right now so for now they're cool.
I only have about one or two people I'd do this for at my current place in life. Niggas and Bitches can't be trusted, that's just the way it is... shittttt.. family will suck ya man dick given the opportunity. People don't have any loyalty anymore.
If there was no man involved idk how long i'd let a friend stay, because visitors push the envelopes sometimes. I say.... you get a week... after that its not cool anymore...
Kids... that kinda changes things because I don't want to see anyone's kids out on the street, and sometimes family just can't help them out...
If there was no man involved idk how long i'd let a friend stay, because visitors push the envelopes sometimes. I say.... you get a week... after that its not cool anymore...
Kids... that kinda changes things because I don't want to see anyone's kids out on the street, and sometimes family just can't help them out...
I suppose if we all had a definate understanding of our friendship. With my man, trust and strength in our relationship. Beforehand... In other words, we all know who we are and what we have, don't want to sacrafice our lives over some bullshit.
Play it close and above all, keep it temporary...
Play it close and above all, keep it temporary...
Y'all already know two Black women and a man ain't gonna get along.
Hell to the NO!!!!!
Onyx, why dig you drag out that pic?
Hey Femmenoire since you threw this question out there, would you let a female friend live with you and your man?
yall broads ain't got no confidence.
Take it from a man...don't ever do it...'cause we will try to fuck in most cases. 
I don't have any friends like that so I can't really answer the question
Any of my current friends I would definitely have them stay with us without a second thought and I know they'd do the same for me. Real standup womenEdit: LOL @ yall not having friends/boyfriends that are mature. What is this madness about 2 women can't get along. Two "little girls" can't live under the same roof and get along.
Well you are not a real man then, sorry to disappoint yaTake it from a man...don't ever do it...'cause we will try to fuck in most cases.
Damn...............
stay over a couple of nights but not live
Well maybe your home isn't so happy?at some of these responses....A sure fire way to mess up your happy home is to let someone as Femme described come and stay w/ you and your man.....I could school ya'll but would you listen? Probably not...exits thread
Onyx, why dig you drag out that pic?
Hey Femmenoire since you threw this question out there, would you let a female friend live with you and your man?
Well as you know I only have one female friend and she would be welcome to stay with me whenever.
Now in the past, when I was down and out, I stayed with a couple of females (both were co-workers) who I stayed with and they had men (who visited occasionally) and they trusted me. And there was never any impropriety on my part or on their part.
But I think it's just because I'm good people and I generally meet good people so I never have alot of the problems I hear other people experience.
*EDIT*
I forgot that I did sleep with one female's brother. But I did not pursue him.
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I don't have any friends like that so I can't really answer the question
Edit: LOL @ yall not having friends/boyfriends that are mature. What is this madness about 2 women can't get along. Two "little girls" can't live under the same roof and get along.
That's funny. From what I have seen family members have stabbed people in the back,so what makes you think another person wouldn't. And please get off the notion that many women get along with one another,especially black women. Regardless of what you say there is always competition towards females,if you are too naive to see that so be it.
When a person someone has trusted fucks over you,you damn right I will have my guard up with anyone male or female. Wow at you suggesting that her home life isn't happy because she doesn't agree with you.
Holla back at me when you learn about reading comprehension 
If you're worried about your man being tempted, then your home is not happy, period. And just beacuse you have it in your head that women don't get along, doesn't make it a fact. Maybe the problem doesn't lie with other women, but with you.
If you're worried about your man being tempted, then your home is not happy, period. And just beacuse you have it in your head that women don't get along, doesn't make it a fact. Maybe the problem doesn't lie with other women, but with you.
Exactly @ the part in red. If you and your friends & family are scallywags, of course you wouldn't trust them. What's wrong with sleeping with your friend's brother though?
Well I think it was inappropriate. Because it was purely sex, we didn't want her to know. She eventually found out and said she didn't care but just wanted us to be discreet around her kids. Not that we weren't.
Holla back at me when you learn about reading comprehension
Same could go for you. I am good at reading comprehension thank you. I have a happy home.Let me fall back and listen to whatever you say.
Also,its not about him being tempted because whether there is a female in my house or not he will be tempted. Its a part of life for both women and men.
*edit* I edited my smart comment.I am not going to be like that
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if you cant trust your friends you really need to learn what the definition of a friend is.
Which is why I only have 3 good ones.The others are associates
As a man I just wouldn't want to live with my woman and one of her friends. That is like having a permanent 3rd wheel around. And women tend to be catty.
And as far as kids go I really really don't want to live with anyones kids. If I had a big enough house and it was a baby then maybe. Nothing that can talk though
I wouldn't fuck her friend either. That is as low as you can go.
And I would never let any of my "boys" live with me and my girl. I don't have any that close that I would trust alone with my girl.
And as far as kids go I really really don't want to live with anyones kids. If I had a big enough house and it was a baby then maybe. Nothing that can talk though
I wouldn't fuck her friend either. That is as low as you can go.
And I would never let any of my "boys" live with me and my girl. I don't have any that close that I would trust alone with my girl.
if u can't trust your MAN and your FRIEND together in your house temporarily then neither one are good for you or to you.
if ur man will fuck ur FRIEND he aint shit
if ur friend would fuck ur MAN, especially after u doing her a favor...she aint shit
plus...if they will fuck inside the house just imagine what they do outside the house
if ur man will fuck ur FRIEND he aint shit
if ur friend would fuck ur MAN, especially after u doing her a favor...she aint shit
plus...if they will fuck inside the house just imagine what they do outside the house
what kinda of nigga wouldn't fuck your friend or cousin? would you want to date a bitch ass nigga like that?
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