E-flirting...is there a point to it all?

i prefer real life situations as opposed to internet hype, and it seems like alot of you ladies e-flirt for sport. i'm not bored or need a confidence boost, so if i show interest, it's real. chatting online is cool, i guess, for a minute, but eventually i'm on some a-ha "take on me" type shit. the shit gotta turn into real life. :hmm:
 
what the e-fuck.:hmm::smh::lol::lol:

Fucking someone or setting up to fuck someone on the internet is risky but no more risky than dating i guess. You have usually established a level of comfort with one another but not on a physical level as yet. This sometimes results in one person being hot to trot and the other person not.

You can build up too much expectation though which may lead to disappointment for some. Met women online but to date i have never fucked any and dunno if i ever will.
Been doing it since '97 on AOL, Blackplanet, Migente, Yahoo, I have met a small percentage of the females I have 'e-flirted' with, but I did it a lot. Most of the time I was in pursuit of a possible meeting. Majority of times I cancelled those plans for a variety of reasons.

Of the females I have met, all lived up to expectations, I've met just about 10 I'd say, flirted with hundreds though I am sure. I look at my buddy lists and well I never counted BUT a lot of names in there.
I've become friends with a few, had casual sex with a few and had a long term relationship with 2, including my current (who 'approached' me).

It is FREE and presure free. I would suggest it for anybody. As far as meeting them, I was extra extra careful and alwasy spoke on phone for a minute before considering a meeting. That was always public. It is really no different, and maybe even better than kickin it with a chick you met out at a club. You meet a girl at a club and know nothing about her. You seen her for a couple hours, I've had multiple conversations... You take her to your spot half drunk... I meet them all dolled up.

BUT I must admit to having never been very confident in my game, so I am sure that played a major role in its attractiveness to me. E-flirting did give me some practice I guess, This did help that a bit, I would say I could 'type' game with the best of them... same as saying lol Face - to face my confidence has grown somewhat but generally I still struggle saying what I could type. REMEMBER you can erase on the computer... once you open your mouth, well that is permanent ya feel me..
 
Interesting topic Jo...

I found a documentary about this topic, this particular piece presents some extreme cases of "E-Flirting". I'll have to check with the mods to see if it's OK to post it in here. If/when I can do that I hope everyone checks it out...
 
Been doing it since '97 on AOL, Blackplanet, Migente, Yahoo, I have met a small percentage of the females I have 'e-flirted' with, but I did it a lot. Most of the time I was in pursuit of a possible meeting. Majority of times I cancelled those plans for a variety of reasons.

Of the females I have met, all lived up to expectations, I've met just about 10 I'd say, flirted with hundreds though I am sure. I look at my buddy lists and well I never counted BUT a lot of names in there.
I've become friends with a few, had casual sex with a few and had a long term relationship with 2, including my current (who 'approached' me).

It is FREE and presure free. I would suggest it for anybody. As far as meeting them, I was extra extra careful and alwasy spoke on phone for a minute before considering a meeting. That was always public. It is really no different, and maybe even better than kickin it with a chick you met out at a club. You meet a girl at a club and know nothing about her. You seen her for a couple hours, I've had multiple conversations... You take her to your spot half drunk... I meet them all dolled up.

BUT I must admit to having never been very confident in my game, so I am sure that played a major role in its attractiveness to me. E-flirting did give me some practice I guess, This did help that a bit, I would say I could 'type' game with the best of them... same as saying lol Face - to face my confidence has grown somewhat but generally I still struggle saying what I could type. REMEMBER you can erase on the computer... once you open your mouth, well that is permanent ya feel me..


I'm impressed by the honesty and it's insightful blessing...

I'm actually better in person and slash or over the phone...some know better than others...

Communication rules the nation is what my mentors taught me and that lesson has never left my frontal lobes, even with the advent of the internet, socializing is still socializing...if you have insecurities with yourself in person they will ultimately translate themselves online...

OWL being one who can easily be mistaken as arrogant or bold, I have found that the same qualities that get overlooked in person get overlooked online...the same superficial elements that cause people to say,"damn, what was I thinking" in person, cause the same reaction online...

I am naive in many ways, and I didn't start asking women for pictures until I realized how deeply many of them felt about being seen and wanting to get that out of the way, and thus came the "e-flirting" and the "collection"...(*smiles*)...at the same time, never being one to be afraid of wearing his heart as his lapel, I have ventured one e-relationship, which basically equates to a long distance relationship, and like any relationship it must be structured on painful openness and a willingness to sacrifice the trinkets of anonymity...

In all things OWL, I say loudly that the adventure of life is only as fruitful as it's experiences are broad...nothing ventured, most certainly.... nothing gained...
 
Interesting topic Jo...

I found a documentary about this topic, this particular piece presents some extreme cases of "E-Flirting". I'll have to check with the mods to see if it's OK to post it in here. If/when I can do that I hope everyone checks it out...

OK, after checking with the powers that be I got the green light to post the link I mentioned earlier. This documentary presents a look at a few extreme cases of "E-Flirting". Check it out if/when you have the opportunity...



Here's a synopsis and the link itself.




Wonderland: Virtual Adultery and Cyberspace Love

"Carolyn is a 37 year-old mother of four in the midst of a passionate affair that is tearing her family apart. She's spending up to 18 hours a day with her lover, and her husband is in despair. But the extraordinary thing about this affair is that Carolyn's lover is man she has never met. Because he's not a human being. He's an avatar (or computer generated figure), who exists only in the virtual world of Second Life. And their relationship exists only in cyberspace.


http://www.moviesfoundonline.com/wonderland.php
 
it kills me when females have a myspace page and pretend that they're not on there trying to get fucked.

I don't think all females who have a Myspace/Facebook, etc. page are on there to get smashed...how does that account for the hundreds of married women on there?!?

I think they're great networking tools that some people do use for finding their next sexual conquest. Plus, it's free publicity for whatever field/industry you're in...
 
leaves the board to listen to my recordings of JO doing what she does best...:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Yea she does sound mighty damn good don't she:yes:

But back on topic. I like to e flirt it's fun to me and I like to say shit like "I hope memph don't find out" which kinda makes it exciting to me in a weird way when in reality he knows everything I do. I have no secrets from him and I always tell him what I'm up to. How I see it if you like it and you aren't causing any harm to anybody go ahead and e flirt your ass off:yes:

*disclaimer: I would never ever ever go from e flirting to real life fucking*
 
I'm impressed by the honesty and it's insightful blessing...

I'm actually better in person and slash or over the phone...some know better than others...

Communication rules the nation is what my mentors taught me and that lesson has never left my frontal lobes, even with the advent of the internet, socializing is still socializing...if you have insecurities with yourself in person they will ultimately translate themselves online...

OWL being one who can easily be mistaken as arrogant or bold, I have found that the same qualities that get overlooked in person get overlooked online...the same superficial elements that cause people to say,"damn, what was I thinking" in person, cause the same reaction online...

I am naive in many ways, and I didn't start asking women for pictures until I realized how deeply many of them felt about being seen and wanting to get that out of the way, and thus came the "e-flirting" and the "collection"...(*smiles*)...at the same time, never being one to be afraid of wearing his heart as his lapel, I have ventured one e-relationship, which basically equates to a long distance relationship, and like any relationship it must be structured on painful openness and a willingness to sacrifice the trinkets of anonymity...

In all things OWL, I say loudly that the adventure of life is only as fruitful as it's experiences are broad...nothing ventured, most certainly.... nothing gained...
Welcome back OWL & Congrats :)
"Carolyn is a 37 year-old mother of four in the midst of a passionate affair that is tearing her family apart. She's spending up to 18 hours a day with her lover, and her husband is in despair. But the extraordinary thing about this affair is that Carolyn's lover is man she has never met. Because he's not a human being. He's an avatar (or computer generated figure), who exists only in the virtual world of Second Life. And their relationship exists only in cyberspace.
:smh: Damn shame
 
How about e-smoking, e-drinking, e-getting high, e-high-powered careers, e-millionaires, e-muscles/fitness, e-caping up and e-excessive eating ( :yes: ) ??

e = "electronic" by the way ... :rolleyes:














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*reboots this thread and restores system defaults*
 
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I don't think all females who have a Myspace/Facebook, etc. page are on there to get smashed...how does that account for the hundreds of married women on there?!?

I think they're great networking tools that some people do use for finding their next sexual conquest. Plus, it's free publicity for whatever field/industry you're in...

let's not play stupid......how many people on myspace really use it for business aspirations?

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That was a great shot!:lol: Why is he on the bench :confused:
 
:( JO WTF??? I'm sensing a hidden message here

:hmm::hmm:

And, what would THAT hidden message be?

Dunno! Topic of this thread and content doesn't seem like the JofromthaNO that I know.

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I'm doing the super annoying escalating Damon Dash laugh right now . . . . ( If you know what I'm talking about how that ninja laughs, you do. If you don't, you don't ).


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Dunno! Topic of this thread and content doesn't seem like the JofromthaNO that I know.

Well, just going up to my original question, I just wonder if people flirt online cause they assume it could lead to p*ssy/dick or do they flirt online just cause it's fun? Does there have to be a purpose about it, or is it just about, again, talking ish and having fun?

Seems like men think it can add up to p*ssy, in the end...well, at least some men. On the other hand, I think women (and some men) find it entertaining...
 
Well, just going up to my original question, I just wonder if people flirt online cause they assume it could lead to p*ssy/dick or do they flirt online just cause it's fun? Does there have to be a purpose about it, or is it just about, again, talking ish and having fun?

Seems like men think it can add up to p*ssy, in the end...well, at least some men. On the other hand, I think women (and some men) find it entertaining...


I think some of the women feel it may lead to more as well:rolleyes:
 
I think some of the women feel it may lead to more as well:rolleyes:


Maybe some of the women are just pissed that they don't get the same play, because they are not intelligent enough to attract REAL men, with their mind/font. :rolleyes:

Yupe, I just put on my cape.

Have fun with your ninjas Lone. Hey, I'm going to go take a SHOWER, why, just because I can.

:hmm: :hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:

You know what I'm speaking on.
 
Well, just going up to my original question, I just wonder if people flirt online cause they assume it could lead to p*ssy/dick or do they flirt online just cause it's fun? Does there have to be a purpose about it, or is it just about, again, talking ish and having fun?

Seems like men think it can add up to p*ssy, in the end...well, at least some men. On the other hand, I think women (and some men) find it entertaining...



I dunno? I laugh, joke, flirt then log off. I'm cool with a lot of the females behind the scenes and shit carries on the same as on the board. I have to agree some maybe looking for that special someone (thats both the males and females). Some of yall are mad cool. You one of my fave chat women.;)
 
Thank goodness I have someone at home who know and understands my e-flirting is all in fun.:rolleyes:




SHUT UP MCGUYVER!!!:hmm:
 
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Maybe some of the women are just pissed that they don't get the same play, because they are not intelligent enough to attract REAL men, with their mind/font. :rolleyes:

Yupe, I just put on my cape.

Have fun with your ninjas Lone. Hey, I'm going to go take a SHOWER, why, just because I can.

:hmm: :hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:

You know what I'm speaking on.


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Watch it fellow lion
your attacks I'm eyeing
My cape I just finished Ironing
and I see with perfect timing
one more attack and I'm flying.
 
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Watch it fellow lion
your attacks I'm eyeing
My cape I just finished Ironing
and I see with perfect timing
one more attack and I'm flying.


What you think you know
What you gonna show
You must be pimpin slow
I'm riding low through NY or SC Charlotte in the 6- four
I make moves with my special brand of mackin flow
So . . .
Just admit
Shane got that talk
Shane got that walk
Shane outlines your game in chalk :eek:
I already won
You
Your like a candle against the sun
The bakings been done
you brought a knife, when I brought a gun
Or a biscuit
My advice
I suggest you quit quick
MC, don't make yourself look like a dipshit! :eek:













:D The only ninja who will come at me on some rhyme!
 
Me and the Ex used to do it all the time to pick up 3rd partners. When I moved to a different state, via myspace friendster and such, I met women went on dates, had sex, and I actually have a very close friend years later.
I work and travel alot, it works for me
 
You're slow pimping
But i'll drop you before your 4inch heels begin a clicking
now you better listen
cause MC aint going back to prison
My glock is loaded with no rhyme or reason
that means fuck the pleading you are persuing
Mc that dude that would snatch your cadillac of its 22s
Call the local news
Tell em MC just got another fool
Who thought he could duel.

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LMAO man I miss the good ole days.
 
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